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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You're chatting to someone and they ask you questions.

What kind of questions won't you answer? Your location? Marital status? Last STI visit?

Can the type of questions they ask put you off meeting them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Private / personal questions , no one in this game really needs to know the ins & outs of our private life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always answer all questions. But it might not be the answers they are looking for

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By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

Mold


"Private / personal questions , no one in this game really needs to know the ins & outs of our private life "

Exactly

What I do outside of fab isn't really any of their business(as long as you're not a serial killer)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Private / personal questions , no one in this game really needs to know the ins & outs of our private life

Exactly

What I do outside of fab isn't really any of their business(as long as you're not a serial killer) "

I do ask what someone does for work. A certain amount of information to work with helps make a social feel a bit more relaxed. I don’t expect specifics or company names but just some vague idea to chat around.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have I had a boob job. None of their business

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think whatever anyone is prepared to share as part of a conversation. As in non-Fab life you wouldn't tell everyone everything unless they've re e very close friends. But then some people on Fab become friends so ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You're chatting to someone and they ask you questions.

What kind of questions won't you answer? Your location? Marital status? Last STI visit?

Can the type of questions they ask put you off meeting them?"

Are you horny or anything sex related

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By *ecret FantasiesCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

We’ve had quite a few ‘Are you lactating yet?” In the right context from naughty friends it might be ok, but these are from complete strangers that we’ve never had any conversation with. Needless to say, it didn't result in one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I ask you a question, questions.

I won’t answer it. Does my tits in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can I ask you a question, questions.

I won’t answer it. Does my tits in. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won’t tell people where i work

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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Anything too personal about any aspect of my life.

What ya doin?

Anything related to being horny.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask away you will get an answer may not be the one your looking for or make any sense but happy to answer it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The one in the thread title.

Oh...

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By *l6789Man
over a year ago

croydon

What’s your bank account number Mother’s maiden name and date of birth

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Depends who's asking to be honest - someone out of the blue or who I've not chatted to a great deal then anything not related to Fab or my presence here is out of bounds - someone I've chatted to a lot or have met then I'm pretty much an open book

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends who's asking.. won't stray into anything personal with a stranger, but once there's a degree of friendship I'm an open book.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

It depends on the context of the chat, usually thought it's a question of discretion regarding previous meets, who I've met, what they were like, the locations of the unmarked graves, that sort of thing

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

Men who ask can you meet me for sex in your car

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have I had a boob job. None of their business "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think whatever anyone is prepared to share as part of a conversation. As in non-Fab life you wouldn't tell everyone everything unless they've re e very close friends. But then some people on Fab become friends so ..."

Fair point.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It depends on the context of the chat, usually thought it's a question of discretion regarding previous meets, who I've met, what they were like, the locations of the unmarked graves, that sort of thing"

Never mention the graves.

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

Anything about my little ladies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You're chatting to someone and they ask you questions.

What kind of questions won't you answer? Your location? Marital status? Last STI visit?

Can the type of questions they ask put you off meeting them?"

Our biggest off put question is Can I fuck your wife tonight. Before even an attempt at a conversation. Generally gets a Fuck yourself as the reply

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Anything about my little ladies. "

Why do people even mention that they have kids.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anything too personal about any aspect of my life.

What ya doin?

Anything related to being horny. "

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By *rownboy30Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Anything about my little ladies. "

Irony

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've told a couple of people loads about me, and they've done the same, but only after a while. Generally I'd avoid specific job info mainly.

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By *rownboy30Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Anything I feel uncomfortable divulging to a stranger. Where I feel comfortable over time and they become friends then I'll open up more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You're chatting to someone and they ask you questions.

What kind of questions won't you answer? Your location? Marital status? Last STI visit?

Can the type of questions they ask put you off meeting them?"

I answer all questions.

I am an open book.

If a woman says: "why did you say that to her" and I was just repeating something....

Basicly some people are deceitful and tell white lies....I don't...

Had a girlfriend briefly who blew her kid because she told me she was "moddeling" because of some pics she had....

I told her bitch friend...her bitch friend knew she was lying...

I got in troubble for repeating a lie...

I had an std a while ago but didn't mention it because I wasn't planning to shag. (Molluscome)

I say I'm from Manchester but really from a surrounding town. (Helps me stay private and harder to find)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't discuss our children.

We don't disclose our exact location.

We don't give specific job locations.

Basically anything that can lead someone to our door/place of work or our children's school's and potentially cause embarrassment/discomfort or put our family in a dangerous situation. Once we have met or are comfortable were a little more open but we keep in mind our family safety is paramount.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get more questions on meets like:

God, where did you learn to do that

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Anything about my little ladies.

Why do people even mention that they have kids. "

Because for some people it's more than a quick fuck once in a while and they form friendships and connections with the people they meet - it also helps to explain availability in some instances.

Nothing wrong at all with telling people you have kids, they're as much a part of you the person as anything - it's how much you tell the people you meet about them that is key.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When someone claims to be a Nigerian prince and states you have won the Euromillions rollover; and proceeds to ask for you credit card number, that's when you start to think...

"Should I give him just one card or two cards and double the prize money?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t answer questions from people I have no interest in conversing with. I will answer all other questions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'Where did you those shoes?'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This one...

Damn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It depends on the context of the chat, usually thought it's a question of discretion regarding previous meets, who I've met, what they were like, the locations of the unmarked graves, that sort of thing"

That walk back alone from the middle of the woods.

I hate that too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the question comes across as too searching, usually to do with where you live, family etc. I wont speak to a total stranger about those obviously.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Very personal stuff and work.

Sexual stuff if it’s all they want to hear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask me anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ask me anything "

Where's your Jack Daniels?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It depends on the context of the chat, usually thought it's a question of discretion regarding previous meets, who I've met, what they were like, the locations of the unmarked graves, that sort of thing

That walk back alone from the middle of the woods.

I hate that too "

Especially if the shovel is heavy.

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By *nSeeNMan
over a year ago

Z'ha'dum


"You're chatting to someone and they ask you questions.

What kind of questions won't you answer? Your location? Marital status? Last STI visit?

Can the type of questions they ask put you off meeting them?"

Id rather not answer that thank you.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Ask me anything

Where's your Jack Daniels? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ask me anything

Where's your Jack Daniels?

"

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Personal stuff such as our address.

Well actually a lot of people ask "where are youse from" which annoys me for a number of reasons youse is not a word and where I am from is not the same as where I live.

Pedantic I know but it can be slow on Fab sometimes

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By *rownboy30Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Ask me anything

Where's your Jack Daniels?

"

PMSL told you wkdtatts1188 has it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't answer that until I've been asked the question.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Stuff that reveals too much about my identity or location (the most common is what gym I go to), or anything very explicit or sexual from someone I'm not comfortable with.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You're chatting to someone and they ask you questions.

What kind of questions won't you answer? Your location? Marital status? Last STI visit?

Can the type of questions they ask put you off meeting them?

Id rather not answer that thank you. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When someone claims to be a Nigerian prince and states you have won the Euromillions rollover; and proceeds to ask for you credit card number, that's when you start to think...

"Should I give him just one card or two cards and double the prize money?"

"

Always double it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Anything about my little ladies.

Why do people even mention that they have kids.

Because for some people it's more than a quick fuck once in a while and they form friendships and connections with the people they meet - it also helps to explain availability in some instances.

Nothing wrong at all with telling people you have kids, they're as much a part of you the person as anything - it's how much you tell the people you meet about them that is key."

Fair point.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

What are you wearing right now ?

What will you wear when we meet ?

Where do you live ?

What do you do for a living ?

Etc.....

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I answer what will you wear to a meet, if I'm planning to meet them. A swing dress. Obviously.

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By *ingle ex cuckMan
over a year ago

chester

we all have a sixth sense and certain questions are really off putting .

it's easier for a guy

but I guess guys who ask women for a meet before getting to no them

or guys that won't take no for an answer

I'm sort of answering for the ladies here but guys that ask for your phone number before even arranging a meet

must go top of list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab and real life are completely separate for me so in general anything about my personal life i won’t answer. So on fab and forums in general nobody knows anything about me. There are a couple of good friends on here who I’d probably answer any question to and probably know more about me than a lot of my real life friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Questions that relate to what I'm into will put me off someone and not want to engage further. I prefer that type of chat, once I've gotten to know them a little.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Fab and real life are completely separate for me so in general anything about my personal life i won’t answer. So on fab and forums in general nobody knows anything about me. There are a couple of good friends on here who I’d probably answer any question to and probably know more about me than a lot of my real life friends. "

Probably a daft question but what do you talk about with meets? Or do you make stuff up just so they have an answer?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fab and real life are completely separate for me so in general anything about my personal life i won’t answer. So on fab and forums in general nobody knows anything about me. There are a couple of good friends on here who I’d probably answer any question to and probably know more about me than a lot of my real life friends.

Probably a daft question but what do you talk about with meets? Or do you make stuff up just so they have an answer? "

I don’t really meet new people to be honest. No I don’t make stuff up, I don’t mean general things. I mean personal stuff like kids names, exactly where I live etc. No need for people to know that information.

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

It would depend on the person and how long I've known them and if I've met with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely nothing to hide, so anything on a face to face meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It would depend on the person and how long I've known them and if I've met with them. "

Good point. The questions answered would depend on how well I knew them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fab and real life are completely separate for me so in general anything about my personal life i won’t answer. So on fab and forums in general nobody knows anything about me. There are a couple of good friends on here who I’d probably answer any question to and probably know more about me than a lot of my real life friends.

Probably a daft question but what do you talk about with meets? Or do you make stuff up just so they have an answer? "

There's plenty you can talk about without giving personal information out. Like zombies and when to plant your zinnias.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where did you learn how to do that

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Where did you learn how to do that "

Lol!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Fab and real life are completely separate for me so in general anything about my personal life i won’t answer. So on fab and forums in general nobody knows anything about me. There are a couple of good friends on here who I’d probably answer any question to and probably know more about me than a lot of my real life friends.

Probably a daft question but what do you talk about with meets? Or do you make stuff up just so they have an answer?

I don’t really meet new people to be honest. No I don’t make stuff up, I don’t mean general things. I mean personal stuff like kids names, exactly where I live etc. No need for people to know that information. "

That makes sense.

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

I deliberately don't meet anyone so I don't have to answer any questions.

Nosey cunts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What’s your bank account number Mother’s maiden name and date of birth"

This also...hubba!

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