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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ouch my egos bruised!! Chatting merrily, I send a face pic BOOM blocked. I know logically theres good reasons but still a no thanks not for me would have been nice. Does anyone have a paperbag i can borrow?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't take it personally, I get that a lot myself haha. Manners cost nothing but...

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By *or you!Man
over a year ago

Altrincham

His miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don't need a paperbag. It's his loss.

Alternatively he might have recognised you!!

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

We can’t be everyone’s cup of tea, and looking from your side of the fence, there’s plenty more guys to choose from in here lol

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By *udio2Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

With a bod like yours, he must be mental.

Don't take it personal, yours pics are fab.

I never quite understand the face pic thing, I am only really interested in the persons body ( it is after all a sexual thing).

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Alternatively he might have recognised you!!"

Quite possible!

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By *ug247Man
over a year ago

Near You

Never heard it happening to a woman. It happens to me and I guess lots of other lads too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If no valid reason...Their loss xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ouch my egos bruised!! Chatting merrily, I send a face pic BOOM blocked. I know logically theres good reasons but still a no thanks not for me would have been nice. Does anyone have a paperbag i can borrow? "

Their loss. Focus on the positive, if they can't communicate thet are likely to be very bad at sex.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Nah sorry, I need my paperbag myself, as it's happened to me too many times !

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Loads of reasons for it including that they might have recognised you.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Not sure why it's anybody's loss though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty sure if this question had been posted by a man, many of the responses would have been along the lines of referring the OP to site FAQ's, no-one owing you a response and all that.

It's a funny old world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have the face that launched a thousand blocks

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By *sher dMan
over a year ago

west midlands

Happens to me quite regularly. Just a message back with 'no thanks' would be nice.

It's weird, I seem to do OK when out in pubs, bars, nightclubs etc but on here not so good.

Could be the beer goggles tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah happens to me all the time..i just kinda give up here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ouch my egos bruised!! Chatting merrily, I send a face pic BOOM blocked. I know logically theres good reasons but still a no thanks not for me would have been nice. Does anyone have a paperbag i can borrow? "

But with honesty, would your ego be less bruised?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With a bod like yours, he must be mental.

Don't take it personal, yours pics are fab.

I never quite understand the face pic thing, I am only really interested in the persons body ( it is after all a sexual thing)."

An a attraction one, wouldn't you say? (face included)

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By *ucky1Man
over a year ago

a straightjacket


"Pretty sure if this question had been posted by a man, many of the responses would have been along the lines of referring the OP to site FAQ's, no-one owing you a response and all that.

It's a funny old world"

Very true this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ouch my egos bruised!! Chatting merrily, I send a face pic BOOM blocked. I know logically theres good reasons but still a no thanks not for me would have been nice. Does anyone have a paperbag i can borrow?

Their loss. Focus on the positive, if they can't communicate thet are likely to be very bad at sex."

The two aren't connected! You don't have to talk whilst having sex, it's optional!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe it was your boss & they'd just rather talk to you about it on Monday morning in their office

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ouch my egos bruised!! Chatting merrily, I send a face pic BOOM blocked. I know logically theres good reasons but still a no thanks not for me would have been nice. Does anyone have a paperbag i can borrow?

Their loss. Focus on the positive, if they can't communicate thet are likely to be very bad at sex.

The two aren't connected! You don't have to talk whilst having sex, it's optional! "

It's costs nothing to be nice. If you send then surely at least a response is warranted. If it's not your cup of tea then fair enough but at least respond.

Such carry on ruins the experience for everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do people say it's his loss?

Clearly if he wasn't attracted it's not his loss

Rejection works both ways, sure it's not nice but you can't blame the other person for not being attracted to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe it was your boss & they'd just rather talk to you about it on Monday morning in their office "

See babe there's always a reasonable excuse on fab

This guy had hit the nail on the head x(will be interesting Mon morning if you recognised anything of him/her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ouch my egos bruised!! Chatting merrily, I send a face pic BOOM blocked. I know logically theres good reasons but still a no thanks not for me would have been nice. Does anyone have a paperbag i can borrow?

Their loss. Focus on the positive, if they can't communicate thet are likely to be very bad at sex."

So, every woman on here who block, deletes unread or ignores their messages from men is very bad at sex? That's almost all of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't worry, it's probably just a family member

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ohhhhh no Hun, hope you are okay !

If you need a ride in my fiat do not hesitate to ask.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ouch my egos bruised!! Chatting merrily, I send a face pic BOOM blocked. I know logically theres good reasons but still a no thanks not for me would have been nice. Does anyone have a paperbag i can borrow? "

Oh, I've had that too. I put it down to jealousy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

AND your pics are beautiful

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside


"AND your pics are beautiful"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pretty sure if this question had been posted by a man, many of the responses would have been along the lines of referring the OP to site FAQ's, no-one owing you a response and all that.

It's a funny old world"

OP, I will say what I say to anyone else posting similar threads on here, man or woman. I’m sorry that you’ve been made to feel that way and there will be loads of people out there that will like you and to focus on them. We can’t all like everyone and there are polite and less ‘blunt’ ways to reject someone and as others have said there may be many reasons for this to have happened.

But as a general aside the person I quote above is very right. The way men and women are treated differently on Fab highlighted exquisitely in a single thread!

But anyway, chin up, keep positive and move on! In retrospect knowing that’s what they’re like then treat it as a lucky escape from someone with a character you wouldn’t want to meet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What did he loose?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let me see your face tarty?

;-)

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