FabSwingers.com forum: Moaning do Gooders get a grip

By *ndyfrost1977 OP Man
over a year ago

bedworth

JUST VOICING MY OPINION APOLOGIES IF THIS OFFENDS THE ODD MEMBER.

I’ve just noticed reading through some threads about pornstars/escorts/gangbangs etc on here.

Some members moaning about there intentions for being on here.

Touting and charging etc.

SORRY BUT SO FXXKING WHAT IF THEY ARE GET A LIFE AND GET A GRIP OF YOURSELVES!! IF YOUR ONE OF THE MOANING FEW MAYBE YOU SHOULD CONSIDER NOT BEING ON HERE IF IT BOTHERS YOU THAT MUCH AY!!!

At the end of the day they’re not hurting anyone are they and it’s a free country SO STOP BEING SO SHALLOW.

ITS A POINTLESS WASTE OF ENERGY XX

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

The irony

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Why did you xx fucking? We're allowed to swear here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"JUST VOICING MY OPINION APOLOGIES IF THIS OFFENDS THE ODD MEMBER.

I’ve just noticed reading through some threads about pornstars/escorts/gangbangs etc on here.

Some members moaning about there intentions for being on here.

Touting and charging etc.

SORRY BUT SO FXXKING WHAT IF THEY ARE GET A LIFE AND GET A GRIP OF YOURSELVES!! IF YOUR ONE OF THE MOANING FEW MAYBE YOU SHOULD CONSIDER NOT BEING ON HERE IF IT BOTHERS YOU THAT MUCH AY!!!

At the end of the day they’re not hurting anyone are they and it’s a free country SO STOP BEING SO SHALLOW.

ITS A POINTLESS WASTE OF ENERGY XX "

It’s not moaning! It’s a blatant break of the site rules if touting or charging etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"JUST VOICING MY OPINION APOLOGIES IF THIS OFFENDS THE ODD MEMBER.

I’ve just noticed reading through some threads about pornstars/escorts/gangbangs etc on here.

Some members moaning about there intentions for being on here.

Touting and charging etc.

SORRY BUT SO FXXKING WHAT IF THEY ARE GET A LIFE AND GET A GRIP OF YOURSELVES!! IF YOUR ONE OF THE MOANING FEW MAYBE YOU SHOULD CONSIDER NOT BEING ON HERE IF IT BOTHERS YOU THAT MUCH AY!!!

At the end of the day they’re not hurting anyone are they and it’s a free country SO STOP BEING SO SHALLOW.

ITS A POINTLESS WASTE OF ENERGY XX "

Would you mind not shouting please, I've got a headache

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow I had to take my glasses off ..the text was too big..

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By *ndyfrost1977 OP Man
over a year ago

bedworth

"Why did you xx fucking? We're allowed to swear here

Lol just being polite x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You should try sitting with a Man United fan, they never stop moaning lately op.

And old men, they moan about youngsters too. And women moan about men.

Kids moan about being bored (I blame the parents)....

Anything else?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shouting a lot

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By *ndyfrost1977 OP Man
over a year ago

bedworth

"Wow I had to take my glasses off ..the text was too big.."

Lol ??

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By *ugs and JunkCouple
over a year ago

Bellshill

"JUST VOICING MY OPINION APOLOGIES IF THIS OFFENDS THE ODD MEMBER.

I’ve just noticed reading through some threads about pornstars/escorts/gangbangs etc on here.

Some members moaning about there intentions for being on here.

Touting and charging etc.

SORRY BUT SO FXXKING WHAT IF THEY ARE GET A LIFE AND GET A GRIP OF YOURSELVES!! IF YOUR ONE OF THE MOANING FEW MAYBE YOU SHOULD CONSIDER NOT BEING ON HERE IF IT BOTHERS YOU THAT MUCH AY!!!

At the end of the day they’re not hurting anyone are they and it’s a free country SO STOP BEING SO SHALLOW.

ITS A POINTLESS WASTE OF ENERGY XX "

The people charging, as said by another poster are breaking the site rules and not using the site for what it was intended.

Also aside from that there are many vulnerable people on here and elsewhere who fall into the trap of paying for sex by other means such as gifts on arrival, paying site supporter passes, paying hotel and taxi costs etc, by manipulative people who are only out for what they can get.

Mrs

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By *ndyfrost1977 OP Man
over a year ago

bedworth

"JUST VOICING MY OPINION APOLOGIES IF THIS OFFENDS THE ODD MEMBER.

I’ve just noticed reading through some threads about pornstars/escorts/gangbangs etc on here.

Some members moaning about there intentions for being on here.

Touting and charging etc.

SORRY BUT SO FXXKING WHAT IF THEY ARE GET A LIFE AND GET A GRIP OF YOURSELVES!! IF YOUR ONE OF THE MOANING FEW MAYBE YOU SHOULD CONSIDER NOT BEING ON HERE IF IT BOTHERS YOU THAT MUCH AY!!!

At the end of the day they’re not hurting anyone are they and it’s a free country SO STOP BEING SO SHALLOW.

ITS A POINTLESS WASTE OF ENERGY XX

Would you mind not shouting please, I've got a headache

Apologies x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing worse than a toss pot do Gooding swinger ... no need

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"JUST VOICING MY OPINION APOLOGIES IF THIS OFFENDS THE ODD MEMBER.

I’ve just noticed reading through some threads about pornstars/escorts/gangbangs etc on here.

Some members moaning about there intentions for being on here.

Touting and charging etc.

SORRY BUT SO FXXKING WHAT IF THEY ARE GET A LIFE AND GET A GRIP OF YOURSELVES!! IF YOUR ONE OF THE MOANING FEW MAYBE YOU SHOULD CONSIDER NOT BEING ON HERE IF IT BOTHERS YOU THAT MUCH AY!!!

At the end of the day they’re not hurting anyone are they and it’s a free country SO STOP BEING SO SHALLOW.

ITS A POINTLESS WASTE OF ENERGY XX

Would you mind not shouting please, I've got a headache

Apologies x"

Thank you

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By *ndyfrost1977 OP Man
over a year ago

bedworth

"JUST VOICING MY OPINION APOLOGIES IF THIS OFFENDS THE ODD MEMBER.

I’ve just noticed reading through some threads about pornstars/escorts/gangbangs etc on here.

Some members moaning about there intentions for being on here.

Touting and charging etc.

SORRY BUT SO FXXKING WHAT IF THEY ARE GET A LIFE AND GET A GRIP OF YOURSELVES!! IF YOUR ONE OF THE MOANING FEW MAYBE YOU SHOULD CONSIDER NOT BEING ON HERE IF IT BOTHERS YOU THAT MUCH AY!!!

At the end of the day they’re not hurting anyone are they and it’s a free country SO STOP BEING SO SHALLOW.

ITS A POINTLESS WASTE OF ENERGY XX

It’s not moaning! It’s a blatant break of the site rules if touting or charging etc. "

I understand that but like I said there not bothering anyone or forcing anyone to contact them those who do are on the wave length as them

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"JUST VOICING MY OPINION APOLOGIES IF THIS OFFENDS THE ODD MEMBER.

I’ve just noticed reading through some threads about pornstars/escorts/gangbangs etc on here.

Some members moaning about there intentions for being on here.

Touting and charging etc.

SORRY BUT SO FXXKING WHAT IF THEY ARE GET A LIFE AND GET A GRIP OF YOURSELVES!! IF YOUR ONE OF THE MOANING FEW MAYBE YOU SHOULD CONSIDER NOT BEING ON HERE IF IT BOTHERS YOU THAT MUCH AY!!!

At the end of the day they’re not hurting anyone are they and it’s a free country SO STOP BEING SO SHALLOW.

ITS A POINTLESS WASTE OF ENERGY XX

The people charging, as said by another poster are breaking the site rules and not using the site for what it was intended.

Mrs"

This. And if we allow people to charge this and that, or request "gifts" or "contributions" it will just increase the number of arseholes who assume everyone here is available for the right price. There's enough of those already. There are other sites to fulfil the needs of those who have to pay for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"JUST VOICING MY OPINION APOLOGIES IF THIS OFFENDS THE ODD MEMBER.

I’ve just noticed reading through some threads about pornstars/escorts/gangbangs etc on here.

Some members moaning about there intentions for being on here.

Touting and charging etc.

SORRY BUT SO FXXKING WHAT IF THEY ARE GET A LIFE AND GET A GRIP OF YOURSELVES!! IF YOUR ONE OF THE MOANING FEW MAYBE YOU SHOULD CONSIDER NOT BEING ON HERE IF IT BOTHERS YOU THAT MUCH AY!!!

At the end of the day they’re not hurting anyone are they and it’s a free country SO STOP BEING SO SHALLOW.

ITS A POINTLESS WASTE OF ENERGY XX

It’s not moaning! It’s a blatant break of the site rules if touting or charging etc.

I understand that but like I said there not bothering anyone or forcing anyone to contact them those who do are on the wave length as them "

See I disagree, rules of the site are there for a reason by touting etc and breaking rules this can have implications for others on here. Also safety can become a risk for both females and males.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put the caps lock down and step away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a well known site where ladies can your for work and men can pay for it and it ends in work and the first word is what most of the people on here are supposed to be in the singular ,god that was hard work trying not to name the site and get a slapped wrist

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By *ndyfrost1977 OP Man
over a year ago

bedworth

"JUST VOICING MY OPINION APOLOGIES IF THIS OFFENDS THE ODD MEMBER.

I’ve just noticed reading through some threads about pornstars/escorts/gangbangs etc on here.

Some members moaning about there intentions for being on here.

Touting and charging etc.

SORRY BUT SO FXXKING WHAT IF THEY ARE GET A LIFE AND GET A GRIP OF YOURSELVES!! IF YOUR ONE OF THE MOANING FEW MAYBE YOU SHOULD CONSIDER NOT BEING ON HERE IF IT BOTHERS YOU THAT MUCH AY!!!

At the end of the day they’re not hurting anyone are they and it’s a free country SO STOP BEING SO SHALLOW.

ITS A POINTLESS WASTE OF ENERGY XX

It’s not moaning! It’s a blatant break of the site rules if touting or charging etc.

I understand that but like I said there not bothering anyone or forcing anyone to contact them those who do are on the wave length as them

See I disagree, rules of the site are there for a reason by touting etc and breaking rules this can have implications for others on here. Also safety can become a risk for both females and males. "

Please don’t get me wrong I agree in a way with what you say.

But as harsh as this might sound surly the people who that happens to should be more astute and not so gullible or trusting it’s not as if it’s never been in the news about being carful on websites etc that’s down to there individual choice ?

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

If people think that Fab is a site where people can pay for sex, then the whole ethos of the site is compromised.

People external to the site will assume all women on here are available for paid sex.

Some people on here already have an entitled view and seem to think they are guaranteed sex. More so if they think they can pay for it.

I already get men offering me money on here. I find that pretty unpleasant to be honest.

There are other sites available for paid sex workers.

Fab ain't one if them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"JUST VOICING MY OPINION APOLOGIES IF THIS OFFENDS THE ODD MEMBER.

I’ve just noticed reading through some threads about pornstars/escorts/gangbangs etc on here.

Some members moaning about there intentions for being on here.

Touting and charging etc.

SORRY BUT SO FXXKING WHAT IF THEY ARE GET A LIFE AND GET A GRIP OF YOURSELVES!! IF YOUR ONE OF THE MOANING FEW MAYBE YOU SHOULD CONSIDER NOT BEING ON HERE IF IT BOTHERS YOU THAT MUCH AY!!!

At the end of the day they’re not hurting anyone are they and it’s a free country SO STOP BEING SO SHALLOW.

ITS A POINTLESS WASTE OF ENERGY XX

It’s not moaning! It’s a blatant break of the site rules if touting or charging etc.

I understand that but like I said there not bothering anyone or forcing anyone to contact them those who do are on the wave length as them

See I disagree, rules of the site are there for a reason by touting etc and breaking rules this can have implications for others on here. Also safety can become a risk for both females and males.

Please don’t get me wrong I agree in a way with what you say.

So say for instance I suggested a gang bang and asked every man coming to buy me a diamond ring, one fella not so sharp then goes on to meet me again this time I demand more. Vulnerable people have no filter to be careful.... sadly there are people on here that would do that. By not touting etc it protects vulnerable to some degree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope ,if you contact someone who stated she is after NSA fun and the first message she returns after your initial ice breaker is hi I charge £70 an hour and I'm available tonight ,what do u do after all you messaged in good faith thinking this was a woman who was a genuine swinger and turns out she's an escort yet she has verifications that say what a great meet she is,and then u block her as you wasn't after an escort only to click on another profile a bit later and it's same woman different name and yes it does happen,you then report them but all fab does and I know this for a fact is ban them for 5 days and then they come back and the cycle starts again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So op the fact these people are touting is ok but then when their clientele decide they want to upgrade and then start offering every woman they see money for sex is that acceptable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it peculiar that you're moaning about the moaners because if you were being consistent you would let them be just like you want to let escorts be. Are the people complaining about them doing any harm? No! So why this massive rant in all caps? You seriously love escorts that much just go to their webpages or wherever they are. I'm sure they can be found.

But let's be serious here, this is not a site for escorts! Are they doing harm? Yes, they are. If you want to pay for sex or sell it, there are plenty of places to do that. Otherwise, why not sell other services and products as well and turn this into a free vending flea market? No escorts!

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By *irkydirkyMan
over a year ago

wigan

It’s always the ones that can’t get a meet or veris that start the nonsense threads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"JUST VOICING MY OPINION APOLOGIES IF THIS OFFENDS THE ODD MEMBER.

I’ve just noticed reading through some threads about pornstars/escorts/gangbangs etc on here.

Some members moaning about there intentions for being on here.

Touting and charging etc.

SORRY BUT SO FXXKING WHAT IF THEY ARE GET A LIFE AND GET A GRIP OF YOURSELVES!! IF YOUR ONE OF THE MOANING FEW MAYBE YOU SHOULD CONSIDER NOT BEING ON HERE IF IT BOTHERS YOU THAT MUCH AY!!!

At the end of the day they’re not hurting anyone are they and it’s a free country SO STOP BEING SO SHALLOW.

ITS A POINTLESS WASTE OF ENERGY XX

It’s not moaning! It’s a blatant break of the site rules if touting or charging etc.

I understand that but like I said there not bothering anyone or forcing anyone to contact them those who do are on the wave length as them "

Actually they do bother some people. As they aren't allowed to actively advertise their services in here they lure unsuspecting men onto Kik or other chat apps and then tell them they will have to pay to have sex with them.

This is not an adult work or escort site. There are plenty of them they can use to advertise their services.

If escorts were allowed to tout for business on here I wouldn't be here.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"The irony

That's twice now I've agreed with you!

I need a lie down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This doesn't make sense OP.

If one accepts site rules when they sign up, why do they then attempt to go against those same rules?

Kind of like agreeing not to fart during a meet then getting upset that the meet goes wrong because you've farted during the meet.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"The irony

That's twice now I've agreed with you!

I need a lie down"

Wtf!

This is weird. Think I preferred it when we were at loggerheads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Freedom Speech works well on here, but with that sadly so does negative comments - sorry

Rules are Rules and if FAB's allows them to be broken to easily, then, it will be free for all - pervs - peados or worse

Keep the rules

jon steps of his soap box

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This doesn't make sense OP.

If one accepts site rules when they sign up, why do they then attempt to go against those same rules?

Kind of like agreeing not to fart during a meet then getting upset that the meet goes wrong because you've farted during the meet. "

Yes but did you have to use farting as the example?

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By *rownboy30Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"If people think that Fab is a site where people can pay for sex, then the whole ethos of the site is compromised.

People external to the site will assume all women on here are available for paid sex.

Some people on here already have an entitled view and seem to think they are guaranteed sex. More so if they think they can pay for it.

I already get men offering me money on here. I find that pretty unpleasant to be honest.

There are other sites available for paid sex workers.

Fab ain't one if them."

This! X

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Many years ago the forum were awash with threads bemoaning women asking single men to meet them at clubs with the promise of sex as the carrot on a stick. Of course when the men turned up, paid hefty entrance fees and only then found out that these women were hostesses at the club and that sex wasn't actually guaranteed they were of course rightly pissed off.

What you're suggesting should be acceptable OP is one step away from that, albeit with them being upfront about the costs with no carrot on a stick except the guarantee of a shag for cash.

But as others have said - it's not what the site is for.

There are endless sites perfectly suited to sex work and fee paying shags. Whether you see Fab as a swingers site or just a sex site it doesn't matter. The concept is not based on commercial transactions and paying to get someone to meet you.

Getting annoyed because the majority realise this just makes you look idiotic. Or like a pimp.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't understand why it is considered shallow to not approve of sex workers plying their trade on fab?

If I wanted to find sex workers, I'm only a quick google search from finding one.

I'm looking for like minded people.

You don't go into KFC and expect to get a Big Mac.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also if they are charging for services then they are a business. Why should they get to come on here and tout for business without contributing to the site? Advertising is rarely free!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The irony

Well exactly!

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By *rownboy30Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"I don't understand why it is considered shallow to not approve of sex workers plying their trade on fab?

If I wanted to find sex workers, I'm only a quick google search from finding one.

I'm looking for like minded people.

You don't go into KFC and expect to get a Big Mac."

But chances are high you get faecal matter, same applies to the likes of the OP and similar

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

"JUST VOICING MY OPINION APOLOGIES IF THIS OFFENDS THE ODD MEMBER.

I’ve just noticed reading through some threads about pornstars/escorts/gangbangs etc on here.

Some members moaning about there intentions for being on here.

Touting and charging etc.

SORRY BUT SO FXXKING WHAT IF THEY ARE GET A LIFE AND GET A GRIP OF YOURSELVES!! IF YOUR ONE OF THE MOANING FEW MAYBE YOU SHOULD CONSIDER NOT BEING ON HERE IF IT BOTHERS YOU THAT MUCH AY!!!

At the end of the day they’re not hurting anyone are they and it’s a free country SO STOP BEING SO SHALLOW.

ITS A POINTLESS WASTE OF ENERGY XX "

Do gooder

A person who does erm good ?

Secondly

The concept of the site is not to be a conduit for advertising sexual services

Perfectly reasonable then therefore for those who are good to not condone those doing wrong ?

Want an escort , no one judges for that but there are a number of good sites that charge the one soliciting a reasonable price for their advert so look there

Fab does not profit and I understand why they would object to being a free channel to advise such services

In a nut shell Mr shouty , pipe down xxx

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By *ndyfrost1977 OP Man
over a year ago

bedworth

"Also if they are charging for services then they are a business. Why should they get to come on here and tout for business without contributing to the site? Advertising is rarely free! "

Then surly it’s down to the site administration employees etc

to search them out and deal with them accordingly ??

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"JUST VOICING MY OPINION APOLOGIES IF THIS OFFENDS THE ODD MEMBER.

I’ve just noticed reading through some threads about pornstars/escorts/gangbangs etc on here.

Some members moaning about there intentions for being on here.

Touting and charging etc.

SORRY BUT SO FXXKING WHAT IF THEY ARE GET A LIFE AND GET A GRIP OF YOURSELVES!! IF YOUR ONE OF THE MOANING FEW MAYBE YOU SHOULD CONSIDER NOT BEING ON HERE IF IT BOTHERS YOU THAT MUCH AY!!!

At the end of the day they’re not hurting anyone are they and it’s a free country SO STOP BEING SO SHALLOW.

ITS A POINTLESS WASTE OF ENERGY XX "

Go and refresh yourself of the rules of the site, then ask a mod to delete your thread lest you start to look like you don't know what you are talking about..

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Its against site rules to ask for or offer money.

I'll close this now.

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