FabSwingers.com forum: single guys

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

is it me or do singles guys get a bum deal, i know there are some guys who are timewasters, but some of us are genuine .S o come on people give us genuine guys a chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont think its that we get a bum deal. I think it's more to do with the fact that women have got so much choice on here so if they see something that they're not sure about or aren't keen on you're profile they'll just move onto the next.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You want to talk about a "bum deal" - try the "Forced Bi" thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1. Don't moan about not getting meets or getting rejected!!

2. Make sure your profile is worth reading!!

3. If you can't converse with a woman in a the real world don't think just cos there on here that they will sleep with anyone!!

Do you need anymore words of wisdom??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give yourself a chance.

You can't travel or accommodate, there's no information on your profile. This isn't the Magic Circle, we can't read minds.

You're up against hundreds of other men on here, you have to sell yourself and stand out.

Good luck.

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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

if the number of words on your forum posts is greater than the number of words on your profile.....

then maybe you need to re_iew your profile as an advertisement to attract others to your bedroom habits

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive met some great single guys... 1 ive been meeting regular for over a year and would class him amoungst my closest friends... hes a lovely guy... unfortunatly some are not, simple, there will always be some that let the side down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Problem is that saying genuine on a profile doesn't prove that you are, we only have your word for it. Verifications will help in that instant.

Also a single guy saying that he is, doesn't prove he is, today I have found out that a man I met on here over a year ago (and now not on here) not only lives with his wife but has a mistress too, and saw 5 women, including me from here. Yet there were no clues as he said the kids lived with him.

Another guy I have been chatting to, has admitted to being married

Yes there are some really great single guys on here, some I have met but who's to say that they really are single

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Is "bum deal" a good choice of words on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a single guy and I haven't had a bum deal. I don't think its how you sell your profile either, sometimes it can be down to looks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is "bum deal" a good choice of words on here

made me smile too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a single guy and I haven't had a bum deal. I don't think its how you sell your profile either, sometimes it can be down to looks

If its all down to looks, I'm buggered.

(No, not in that way).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not saying it is all down to looks, I'm saying sometimes there has to be an attraction aswell

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By *nvyCouple
over a year ago

Waltham Cross

I think the way you carry yourself is important on here, we've been impressed by someone's profile but when we've spoken to them its like a completely different person who typed the profile up

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

we give single guys a chance...threesomes are pretty crap without them...doesnt mean we fuck any guy who asks tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont think its that we get a bum deal. I think it's more to do with the fact that women have got so much choice on here so if they see something that they're not sure about or aren't keen on you're profile they'll just move onto the next."

I think it's this to be honest. And fair enough

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"give them a chance".... always makes me laugh.

It's recreational sex not a charity appeal.

You make your own chances in life and it's no different in the swinging world. If you don't seem to be getting any chances you should look no further than your own profile and messages.

There are 1000's of people on here shagging single guys ... the only 'bum deal' they are getting is when anal is requested.

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By *ortheastcoupleukCouple
over a year ago

easington were the sun dont shine

3 weeks on here and your status is "think its a waste of time some one prove me wrong" ,nobody has to prove anything you ,its you ,you will only get out of the scene what you put in,and a twist first post aint the way.

id sit down reinvent your profile ,go to socials chat clubs show ppl your personality.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

you get what you deserve on here...

give out positivity, reap the rewards

give out the other.... god bless x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where a guy is forced to have a guy fondle him just to get a bit of pussy?

ROFL!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you might need to revamp your profile and say more about yourself.Most people will pass by when they see just one line

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah! Got to do better than "will fill in later" when you have been on here for like a year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

that really doies my head in ....will fill in later ...a year later , how hard can it be to put something ,anything down on the profile at all or my personal favourite .... what the hell does that tell me about them ??

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London

"is it me or do singles guys get a bum deal, i know there are some guys who are timewasters, but some of us are genuine .S o come on people give us genuine guys a chance"

There are lots of genuine guys - there are too many of us in fact!

Begging for a "chance" isn't really going to work, I'm afraid...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But no matter how good your profile is, or how many words you have wrote to describe yourself at the end of the day proves nothing people aren't going to put im a complete nob head who is sexually dsyfunctional and shit in bed.....At the end of the day its a bit like a CV not worth the paper its written on....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if the number of words on your forum posts is greater than the number of words on your profile.....

then maybe you need to re_iew your profile as an advertisement to attract others to your bedroom habits

Wolf

Agree

- dam that's already more than on my, oh shit and some more, oh Fuk, better stop typing .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"is it me or do singles guys get a bum deal, i know there are some guys who are timewasters, but some of us are genuine .S o come on people give us genuine guys a chance"

Genuine in what way? and what do you need a chance at?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You want to talk about a "bum deal" - try the "Forced Bi" thread.

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That made me smile ... xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is what it is and it is what you make it!

A bit of effort put in and an understanding that the ladies and couples can pick and choose should make for less of a 'bum deal'!

There are still plenty of the above to go around for us single guys so if you dont get anywhere with one profile then move on to the next...simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"is it me or do singles guys get a bum deal, i know there are some guys who are timewasters, but some of us are genuine .S o come on people give us genuine guys a chance"

We give genuine single guys a chance... just not ALL genuine single guys though... we select ones that:

A) I quite like the look of

B) Have made an effort with their profile

C) Wrote us a personal message

D) Understand what swinging is about

E) Are a fun and don't whinge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"is it me or do singles guys get a bum deal, i know there are some guys who are timewasters, but some of us are genuine .S o come on people give us genuine guys a chance

We give genuine single guys a chance... just not ALL genuine single guys though... we select ones that:

A) I quite like the look of

B) Have made an effort with their profile

C) Wrote us a personal message

D) Understand what swinging is about

E) Are a fun and don't whinge

Picky sod xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The age auld debacle.....

People always lay blame on single men.....

Single men this

Single men that

Single men with cock pics

Single men without cock pics

Single men pretending to be a Couple

Single young men

Single old men

Single...... blah blah

The list is endless before you cast aspersions maybe people should look at their own profile after all it may not appeal to " Single Men "

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Is it just me or is this all getting boring now?

Oh woe is me...is not a good look, and nobody on here is a charity, so grow up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"is it me or do singles guys get a bum deal, i know there are some guys who are timewasters, but some of us are genuine .S o come on people give us genuine guys a chance

We give genuine single guys a chance... just not ALL genuine single guys though... we select ones that:

A) I quite like the look of

B) Have made an effort with their profile

C) Wrote us a personal message

D) Understand what swinging is about

E) Are a fun and don't whinge

Picky sod xx

Oooooohhhh.... you didn't whinge, close shave though.... our meet is still on

xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"is it me or do singles guys get a bum deal, i know there are some guys who are timewasters, but some of us are genuine .S o come on people give us genuine guys a chance

We give genuine single guys a chance... just not ALL genuine single guys though... we select ones that:

A) I quite like the look of

B) Have made an effort with their profile

C) Wrote us a personal message

D) Understand what swinging is about

E) Are a fun and don't whinge

Hmmmm, think I'm alright on B) D) and E), need to nail A) and C) and jobs a good 'un!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"is it me or do singles guys get a bum deal, i know there are some guys who are timewasters, but some of us are genuine .S o come on people give us genuine guys a chance

We give genuine single guys a chance... just not ALL genuine single guys though... we select ones that:

A) I quite like the look of

B) Have made an effort with their profile

C) Wrote us a personal message

D) Understand what swinging is about

E) Are a fun and don't whinge

Hmmmm, think I'm alright on B) D) and E), need to nail A) and C) and jobs a good 'un!!"

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By *ot - CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"is it me or do singles guys get a bum deal, i know there are some guys who are timewasters, but some of us are genuine .S o come on people give us genuine guys a chance"
A nice smile would maybe help

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By *oodies4GirlsCouple (FF)
over a year ago

Carshalton Beeches

Please excuse the interruption as I was passing by… but your profile says that you do not accommodate and you do not travel… are you perhaps expecting a woman to send you a taxi to pick you up? lol not to mention what has already been said… writing a little more about yourself could be of unquestionable benefit to stand out from the crowd! Last but not least don’t be so grumpy… smile, be happy, use some charm

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"if the number of words on your forum posts is greater than the number of words on your profile.....

then maybe you need to re_iew your profile as an advertisement to attract others to your bedroom habits

Wolf

ahem.... i have had a word with my lawyers (soo, grabit and roon) and they think i may well have some sort of copyright case.......

nicking my blooming words without credit....

i am prepared to settle out of court... a 12 pack of guinness should just about sort it!!!!

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"is it me or do singles guys get a bum deal, i know there are some guys who are timewasters, but some of us are genuine .S o come on people give us genuine guys a chance"

and now to the OP.....

sorry in your 3 weeks on here it wasn't quite the "insta-shag" you thought it would be... i'll send some ladies round to drop their knickers for you immediately....

okay.. the above was all flippant.... but the next bit isn't...

if your profile is your shop window to the world, and show people your best foot forward and give people a chance to show them why they should pick you as opposed to anyone else.....

hand on heart would you answer your own profile????? really???? honestly????

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"is it me or do singles guys get a bum deal, i know there are some guys who are timewasters, but some of us are genuine .S o come on people give us genuine guys a chance

There are lots of genuine guys - there are too many of us in fact!

Begging for a "chance" isn't really going to work, I'm afraid..."

i know i have been begging all week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You want to talk about a "bum deal" - try the "Forced Bi" thread.

Funny.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"before you cast aspersions maybe people should look at their own profile after all it may not appeal to " Single Men "

Well I'm sure getting a lot of messages from them if it doesn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"is it me or do singles guys get a bum deal, i know there are some guys who are timewasters, but some of us are genuine .S o come on people give us genuine guys a chance

We give genuine single guys a chance... just not ALL genuine single guys though... we select ones that:

A) I quite like the look of

B) Have made an effort with their profile

C) Wrote us a personal message

D) Understand what swinging is about

E) Are a fun and don't whinge

Not sure about D. That can be interpreted in soooo many ways!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if the number of words on your forum posts is greater than the number of words on your profile.....

then maybe you need to re_iew your profile as an advertisement to attract others to your bedroom habits

Wolf

ahem.... i have had a word with my lawyers (soo, grabit and roon) and they think i may well have some sort of copyright case.......

nicking my blooming words without credit....

i am prepared to settle out of court... a 12 pack of guinness should just about sort it!!!!

I'm a witness! I couldn't believe he counted in the first place!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"that really doies my head in ....will fill in later ...a year later , how hard can it be to put something ,anything down on the profile at all or my personal favourite .... what the hell does that tell me about them ??

I've a good one though, got a message from someone today with about 4 lines on his profile but his message was nearly 50 lines, all the stuff in it should have been in his profile. Had I not had a message from him, I wouldn't have bothered from his profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"is it me or do singles guys get a bum deal, i know there are some guys who are timewasters, but some of us are genuine .S o come on people give us genuine guys a chance"

If your "genuine" cool, but what lurks on here are, deluded daters, who want "her, just her i want her", predatory pests!!

Then theres guys with every interest going, but in reality "want her just her".And if asked, they dont want group fun, dont gb, dont like to party etc etc.

Then theres free to join piss takers who just click on here, spend a few days assuming they just have to ask, "fancy it" and woosh they have a meet, then they get bored, get shitty about no success and that peeves the couples/women good enough to allow us guys to message them, they then block all single guy messages, and i dont blame them, but yes its a pity, genuine guys suffer because of the idiots!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"is it me or do singles guys get a bum deal, i know there are some guys who are timewasters, but some of us are genuine .S o come on people give us genuine guys a chance

If your "genuine" cool, but what lurks on here are, deluded daters, who want "her, just her i want her", predatory pests!!

Then theres guys with every interest going, but in reality "want her just her".And if asked, they dont want group fun, dont gb, dont like to party etc etc.

i love your breakdown

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i agree with this

all single guys are not the same

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By *inge61Couple
over a year ago

n/wales

guys who come on and send messages like i wanna fuck you lol dont get far and make it bad for others but take each as you find and try not to class all the same

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By *uckscouple2007Couple
over a year ago

Bucks

funny how these downtrodden guys start a thread but don't come back to comment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

can't see what the problem is.

I enjoy the social networking of the site and over time have had some good meets.

Be patient thats all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"funny how these downtrodden guys start a thread but don't come back to comment

Because they seldom want help just attention. Most of us have looked at his profile.

You never know, he might just have floated someone's boat!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"funny how these downtrodden guys start a thread but don't come back to comment

Because they seldom want help just attention. Most of us have looked at his profile.

You never know, he might just have floated someone's boat!

not looked at his profile YET lol

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

not looked at his profile YET lol"

don't worry... not missing much...

ouch that sounded katy!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not looked at his profile YET lol

don't worry... not missing much...

ouch that sounded katy!!!

cheers _abio saved me some time there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oooooo just look at the self proclaimed male kings of swing giving out there words of wisdom lol.

Heres one to the poster do not plead its begging and there are already enough charity cases on here !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and remember, if at first you don't succeed, failure might just be your style

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some men i have met socially as possible playmates i wish they had of wasted my time lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hand on heart would you answer your own profile????? really???? honestly????

If a female had written that profile then yes, he probably would answer, and what an engaging exchange that would be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i agree with this

all single guys are not the same"

Lots of lovelys out there other wise there wouldn't be so many verifications on lots of profiles.

There are usually reasons for the people who don't do well, do some research look at other profiles etc see why they might being getting the amswers and doing well

attitude to me has a lot to do with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One very small hint may be to NOT use the photo that was taken for your criminal record profile!

Just a thought!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"is it me or do singles guys get a bum deal, i know there are some guys who are timewasters, but some of us are genuine .S o come on people give us genuine guys a chance"

Just looked at your profile....why we are bothering to post is beyond me...would you like some cheese with your whine?...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ITS all about fun matie , everything comes to he who waits , WHOO the ladies its fun , even if you do get rejected , FRANKIE

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