FabSwingers.com forum: Second chance?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So you arrange to meet. They cancel with plenty of notice because something has come up that day.

But then on the day they meet someone else.

Do you give a second chance?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell no y should you be second best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally, no, not a chance x

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

If you're sure they met and it's not just when the veri went up, no second chance.

If you're not sure, I'd ask them to explain themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No that's just rude.

I can't be arsed with games.

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By *rodigalMan
over a year ago

sunderland

No way they should be gagging to meet you hot stuff

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

But maybe their plans for the day finished early or were cancelled?

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By *erby DomCouple
over a year ago

Ashbourne(ish) and Chesterfield(ish)

That's a no from us as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on hotness...

Would forgive and meet again if really hot.. if not see ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No!

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By *ade and VanessaCouple
over a year ago

Central Scotland

No, that's just poor etiquette.

If they'd cancel and it was a genuine thing then a second chance would be fair

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So you arrange to meet. They cancel with plenty of notice because something has come up that day.

But then on the day they meet someone else.

Do you give a second chance? "

Hmmm... all for the freedom to meet others, what swringing is all about afterall. I must confess my ego couldn't take being second choice. May meet them again afew months down the line when I've forgotten all about it

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By *erby DomCouple
over a year ago

Ashbourne(ish) and Chesterfield(ish)

"But maybe their plans for the day finished early or were cancelled? "
In which case they could have dropped you a message so it didn't look like they dropped you for someone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope not generally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that's a bit disrespectful in my opinion, and I personally wouldn't give them the benefit of the doubt.

However, to play devils advocate, I suppose it depends on how far they would have to travel to your meet, and what their reasoning was for cancelling. Like, if they cancelled due to a hospital appointment, for example, and the travel time to and from the place you're meeting would be difficult that day?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No chance. Don't like plan bs...

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By *ruebameMan
over a year ago

from the womb and tryout to get back

I've answered this question for you Dottz

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

yes and no. Maybe

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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No. Fuck off. I'm not anyone's second choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Normally I am once is a mistake, twice is foolhardy and three never happens but in the OP's post, that's a definite no-no, out of order!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think that's a bit disrespectful in my opinion, and I personally wouldn't give them the benefit of the doubt.

That's a factor too, the travel would've been much more than to the meet they did go on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So you arrange to meet. They cancel with plenty of notice because something has come up that day.

But then on the day they meet someone else.

Do you give a second chance? "

Not a chance........unless it was you dotty!!

xXx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So you arrange to meet. They cancel with plenty of notice because something has come up that day.

But then on the day they meet someone else.

Do you give a second chance? "

If your bitter don't. If your easy going meet them x

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By *rtraymondo76Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"No, that's just poor etiquette.

If they'd cancel and it was a genuine thing then a second chance would be fair

V x"

I'd go with that. Everyone deserves a second chance when side lined by an unexpected turn of events.

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

Depends if I really wanted to meet her also I would still ask why they couldn't meet me on that day but met someone else, They don't have to answer but their reason would help make my mind up about meeting in the future

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me ... Nope

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By *owhard007Man
over a year ago

leeds

No. Thats just out of order in my eyes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So you arrange to meet. They cancel with plenty of notice because something has come up that day.

But then on the day they meet someone else.

Do you give a second chance?

Honest answer...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But maybe their plans for the day finished early or were cancelled? "

Id be a bit sad they hadnt called me then and seen what we could have arranged.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah not at all, if something has come up than fair enough arrange again, but meeting with someone else would make it seem like they cancelled our meet to meet the other person and then lied about it. Yes it's swinging, but I appreciate respect and honesty in all aspects of my life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think that's a bit disrespectful in my opinion, and I personally wouldn't give them the benefit of the doubt.

That's a factor too, the travel would've been much more than to the meet they did go on. "

You're providing too many excuses. If you want to give that 2nd chance then do it. Hope it goes well. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nah not at all, if something has come up than fair enough arrange again, but meeting with someone else would make it seem like they cancelled our meet to meet the other person and then lied about it. Yes it's swinging, but I appreciate respect and honesty in all aspects of my life. "

Absolutely spot on, that’s exactly what I think

He had his chance and blew it big style Dotty x

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

I wouldn’t give him a second chance under those circumstances.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No they had their chance and they chose someone else.... block them and move on. They don’t deserve you!!

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Nope! Plan B's are really not cool. Also putting the veri up like that is just disrespectful!

Things getting cancelled for whatever reason are fine but because they got a better offer? It's a no from me

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By *scurvyfunWoman
over a year ago

Bolton

No I wouldn't: I'd find that really disrespectful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No...unless they actually explained that due to the short notice and the travel time they could meet someone else and would I be ok with it.

I’d respect them for their honesty then....

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By *uck427Man
over a year ago

wales

If it was family be OK ish but anything else no chance I'd jump At a chance of a meet with a lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha hell no !

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

No..no way..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So you arrange to meet. They cancel with plenty of notice because something has come up that day.

But then on the day they meet someone else.

Do you give a second chance? "

Not a fucking chance

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By *heaspieswingerMan
over a year ago

Peak District

"So you arrange to meet. They cancel with plenty of notice because something has come up that day.

But then on the day they meet someone else.

Do you give a second chance? "

NO NO NO NO NO.

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

I’ve had similar happen where I offered to spend the weekend with him but he couldn’t due to some excuse. After it became apparent he chose someone over me Mad Mac raised her ugly head. Then stupid Mac met him again

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By *heaspieswingerMan
over a year ago

Peak District

"But maybe their plans for the day finished early or were cancelled? "

In which case they should contact you as you were the original plans

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By *harlotte SometimesWoman
over a year ago

Leafy Warwickshire

"So you arrange to meet. They cancel with plenty of notice because something has come up that day.

But then on the day they meet someone else.

Do you give a second chance? "

No way,I’d be livid. Hell hath no fury and all that. And I won’t be anybody’s reserve shag either.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

That’s just not a good way to treat people. I wouldn’t give them a second chance. Unless they had great norks

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By *ot-AshMan
over a year ago

London

No not if they were meeting someone else and i wouldnt speak to them again either.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"So you arrange to meet. They cancel with plenty of notice because something has come up that day.

But then on the day they meet someone else.

Do you give a second chance? "

Up until the point where we discover they have met somebody else we would give them the benefit of the doubt. Once their devious, duplicitous ways have been discovered they are blocked and forgotten about we are not somebodies second choice.

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"So you arrange to meet. They cancel with plenty of notice because something has come up that day.

But then on the day they meet someone else.

Do you give a second chance? "

3 words

Hell freezes over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

only a fool gives second chances.

a nice woman of fab told me this:

its easy to prioritise someone you want to meet. so no excuses work in my opinion.

work and life get in the way YES but if you want it to happen you'll make sure it does. simple

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Not a chance in hell.

They'd be blocked, and forgotten about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, but mainly for them being too dumb to hide that veri for a bit!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"So you arrange to meet. They cancel with plenty of notice because something has come up that day.

But then on the day they meet someone else.

Do you give a second chance? "

Not a snowballs chance!

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By *ralanticsMan
over a year ago

Irthlingborough

Nope nada

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

No way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No...unless they actually explained that due to the short notice and the travel time they could meet someone else and would I be ok with it.

I’d respect them for their honesty then...."

This for me too.

It would depend on how they let me know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"only a fool gives second chances.

a nice woman of fab told me this:

its easy to prioritise someone you want to meet. so no excuses work in my opinion.

work and life get in the way YES but if you want it to happen you'll make sure it does. simple"

Actions speak louder than words.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends. I normally have made great efforts to get to know the people I arrange to meet. If they'd been courteous enough to talk to me about it then yeah. I'd remain open to meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends. I normally have made great efforts to get to know the people I arrange to meet. If they'd been courteous enough to talk to me about it then yeah. I'd remain open to meeting. "

Nothing is black and white. I don't do knee jerk or blanket reactions.

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By *orksRockerMan
over a year ago

Bradford

No... Why didn't they cancel the new meet?

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Possibly. I'd like to think they would tell me about it and I'm fairly understanding - things happen. I would't be too pleased at first but then would rationalise it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So you arrange to meet. They cancel with plenty of notice because something has come up that day.

But then on the day they meet someone else.

Do you give a second chance? "

Honesty is important to us, if they were truthful and explained that they wanted to be somewhere else for whatever reason then we’d be understanding.

Talk to us like cunts and we’ll wash our hands of you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, not if they'd met someone else after cancelling on you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So you arrange to meet. They cancel with plenty of notice because something has come up that day.

But then on the day they meet someone else.

Do you give a second chance?

Honesty is important to us, if they were truthful and explained that they wanted to be somewhere else for whatever reason then we’d be understanding.

Talk to us like cunts and we’ll wash our hands of you."

I always talk to my cunt... is that similar?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I go by the Auric Goldfinger adage: once is happenstance, twice is coincidence, three times is enemy action.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So you arrange to meet. They cancel with plenty of notice because something has come up that day.

But then on the day they meet someone else.

Do you give a second chance?

Honesty is important to us, if they were truthful and explained that they wanted to be somewhere else for whatever reason then we’d be understanding.

Talk to us like cunts and we’ll wash our hands of you.

I always talk to my cunt... is that similar?"

Poor clem.

To think... I used to wank over you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So you arrange to meet. They cancel with plenty of notice because something has come up that day.

But then on the day they meet someone else.

Do you give a second chance?

Honesty is important to us, if they were truthful and explained that they wanted to be somewhere else for whatever reason then we’d be understanding.

Talk to us like cunts and we’ll wash our hands of you.

I always talk to my cunt... is that similar?

Poor clem.

To think... I used to wank over you

Fucking classic

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

No. I'd hit the block button

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So you arrange to meet. They cancel with plenty of notice because something has come up that day.

But then on the day they meet someone else.

Do you give a second chance? "
naaaaa bin him he picked a better offer over you, it's the ultimate insult

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So you arrange to meet. They cancel with plenty of notice because something has come up that day.

But then on the day they meet someone else.

Do you give a second chance? "

No you mad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd meet them and give the worse blow job they ever had, and not shave my legs or wash my cunt.

But only if I wanted sex and no one else was available.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd meet them and give the worse blow job they ever had, and not shave my legs or wash my cunt.

But only if I wanted sex and no one else was available. "

This is sage advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So you arrange to meet. They cancel with plenty of notice because something has come up that day.

But then on the day they meet someone else.

Do you give a second chance? naaaaa bin him he picked a better offer over you, it's the ultimate insult "

I don't mind if someone gets a better offer and goes with it.

Sometimes it's easier to pop to someone local, than travel miles, and sometimes the hotty pops up unexpectedly and can only meet on a certain day.

I'm happy to be put on hold, but I might lose interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends who it was and how badly I wanted my little NSA fix with them! The majority I’d say no to, one or two I might.

Hey, I know my limitations and place in the scheme of things. There’s PLENTY of better options than me, I get that. But if being second choice Charlie means that I still get to do naughty things with a hottie, even if it is another time, then fuck pride or self worth or whatever... I still want to shag the hottie!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So you arrange to meet. They cancel with plenty of notice because something has come up that day.

But then on the day they meet someone else.

Do you give a second chance? naaaaa bin him he picked a better offer over you, it's the ultimate insult

I don't mind if someone gets a better offer and goes with it.

Sometimes it's easier to pop to someone local, than travel miles, and sometimes the hotty pops up unexpectedly and can only meet on a certain day.

I'm happy to be put on hold, but I might lose interest. "
he cancelled and gave an excuse then advertised the notch sod that, I wouldn’t entertain again.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

My thoughts...

Just because verie goes up on a certain day doesn't necessarily mean the meet was that day.

You also say distance was an issue.

They may well have had an appointment or whatever in the morning but then found they had time for a local last minute meet later on.

I don't think that's disrespectful.

Its disappointing, but it's the nature of Fab. People don't have to explain their reasons to you and they gave you plenty of notice they were cancelling.

If you really fancy them then give them a second chance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So you arrange to meet. They cancel with plenty of notice because something has come up that day.

But then on the day they meet someone else.

Do you give a second chance? "

No chance!

His gone for the easy option maybe a local meet.

I still like you though

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By *ineMan
over a year ago

In cave behind a waterfall on a hill

Think it might depend on who the other was. I'm not a plan b...

But if there was someone who meant enough to me, then maybe.....

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

If it was apparent he side lined me, then no, no second chance!

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I was thinking I would then I read the next bit ~ it would depend how much I fancied him.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"So you arrange to meet. They cancel with plenty of notice because something has come up that day.

But then on the day they meet someone else.

Do you give a second chance? "

If someone had cancelled, I wouldn't even look to see if they'd met someone else. If they've had the manners to give decent notice then all is fine.

Cal

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By *ineMan
over a year ago

In cave behind a waterfall on a hill

Maybe I'm being cynical but there don't ever seem to be second chances on fab.

If there were I wonder how they may change real life a way from here...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it meant that it was possible for them to meet with me but they cancelled to meet someone else... probably not. But you never know why so I'd give them one more chance. Maybe they met someone they wanted to meet who was only in town for a short time. Maybe they weren't ready to meet you just yet. All I care about is timewasting. Don't care who you want to shag. Just don't waste my time and we're cool.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Depends. I normally have made great efforts to get to know the people I arrange to meet. If they'd been courteous enough to talk to me about it then yeah. I'd remain open to meeting. "

If something is agreed with me out of courtesy that's different, but without explanation? No, that's disrespectful. An fb did that to me and lied, so I binned him, joined fab, and found someone else to meet that night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe I'm being cynical but there don't ever seem to be second chances on fab.

If there were I wonder how they may change real life a way from here..."
omg you've sussed fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

only if can join in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No you not give anyone a Second chance because that how it goes once you made a mistake it should stick with u for life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends. I normally have made great efforts to get to know the people I arrange to meet. If they'd been courteous enough to talk to me about it then yeah. I'd remain open to meeting.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Out of interest is this fiction or really happened to you?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Out of interest is this fiction or really happened to you?"

Now that is a great question!

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

No, would ask for a refund

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds dodgy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends. I normally have made great efforts to get to know the people I arrange to meet. If they'd been courteous enough to talk to me about it then yeah. I'd remain open to meeting.

... Or she could of sat at home and cried about it!

An assertive woman!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

No.

We learned through experience not to give second chances on fab in all but rare circumstances.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So you arrange to meet. They cancel with plenty of notice because something has come up that day.

But then on the day they meet someone else.

Do you give a second chance? "

Think you're lying though.. There's absolutely no way that a man cancelled on you.. not a chance in hell.

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

OK, I so want to meet the woman that he met instead of you; because if you're second best to her, she must be out of this world beautiful!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OK, I so want to meet the woman that he met instead of you; because if you're second best to her, she must be out of this world beautiful!"

Smooth.

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By *irkydirkyMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Yep, it’s not really that big of a deal, circumstances change all the time, gave you plenty of notice that he couldn’t make it.. all’s good in the world again

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

No. I had someone a couple of months back arrange to meet then cancel with a couple of hours notice. The next day they had a veri and it stated in that veri that they'd met on the day we were intending to meet. I blocked with no further comms. Be honest with me and I might entertain the idea. Lie to me and it's see you at ten past never.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So you arrange to meet. They cancel with plenty of notice because something has come up that day.

But then on the day they meet someone else.

Do you give a second chance? "

Yes,they are welcome to meet whoever they want whenever suits them.

They're also welcome to message us requesting to meet again.

Not saying we would accept

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never come late to a party you were supposed to host

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The big Fab sweet shop can be a hard place to navigate around when your horny especially if it’s a younger male. Not saying that’s the case but some are clueless and only think with their @&€)”. It would be a no and block from me.

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By *eplicant JoWoman
over a year ago

Sussex countryside

"So you arrange to meet. They cancel with plenty of notice because something has come up that day.

But then on the day they meet someone else.

Do you give a second chance? "

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Based on that:

No second chance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah..been there. Didn't feel good..

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