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"So you arrange to meet. They cancel with plenty of notice because something has come up that day. But then on the day they meet someone else. Do you give a second chance? " Hmmm... all for the freedom to meet others, what swringing is all about afterall. I must confess my ego couldn't take being second choice. May meet them again afew months down the line when I've forgotten all about it | |||
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"But maybe their plans for the day finished early or were cancelled? " In which case they could have dropped you a message so it didn't look like they dropped you for someone else. | |||
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"I think that's a bit disrespectful in my opinion, and I personally wouldn't give them the benefit of the doubt. However, to play devils advocate, I suppose it depends on how far they would have to travel to your meet, and what their reasoning was for cancelling. Like, if they cancelled due to a hospital appointment, for example, and the travel time to and from the place you're meeting would be difficult that day? " That's a factor too, the travel would've been much more than to the meet they did go on. | |||
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"So you arrange to meet. They cancel with plenty of notice because something has come up that day. But then on the day they meet someone else. Do you give a second chance? " Not a chance........unless it was you dotty!! xXx | |||
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"So you arrange to meet. They cancel with plenty of notice because something has come up that day. But then on the day they meet someone else. Do you give a second chance? " If your bitter don't. If your easy going meet them x | |||
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"No, that's just poor etiquette. If they'd cancel and it was a genuine thing then a second chance would be fair V x" I'd go with that. Everyone deserves a second chance when side lined by an unexpected turn of events. | |||
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"So you arrange to meet. They cancel with plenty of notice because something has come up that day. But then on the day they meet someone else. Do you give a second chance? Hmmm... all for the freedom to meet others, what swringing is all about afterall. I must confess my ego couldn't take being second choice. May meet them again afew months down the line when I've forgotten all about it " Honest answer... | |||
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"But maybe their plans for the day finished early or were cancelled? " Id be a bit sad they hadnt called me then and seen what we could have arranged. | |||
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"I think that's a bit disrespectful in my opinion, and I personally wouldn't give them the benefit of the doubt. However, to play devils advocate, I suppose it depends on how far they would have to travel to your meet, and what their reasoning was for cancelling. Like, if they cancelled due to a hospital appointment, for example, and the travel time to and from the place you're meeting would be difficult that day? That's a factor too, the travel would've been much more than to the meet they did go on. " You're providing too many excuses. If you want to give that 2nd chance then do it. Hope it goes well. x | |||
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"Nah not at all, if something has come up than fair enough arrange again, but meeting with someone else would make it seem like they cancelled our meet to meet the other person and then lied about it. Yes it's swinging, but I appreciate respect and honesty in all aspects of my life. " Absolutely spot on, that’s exactly what I think He had his chance and blew it big style Dotty x | |||
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"So you arrange to meet. They cancel with plenty of notice because something has come up that day. But then on the day they meet someone else. Do you give a second chance? " Not a fucking chance | |||
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"So you arrange to meet. They cancel with plenty of notice because something has come up that day. But then on the day they meet someone else. Do you give a second chance? " NO NO NO NO NO. | |||
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"But maybe their plans for the day finished early or were cancelled? " In which case they should contact you as you were the original plans | |||
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"So you arrange to meet. They cancel with plenty of notice because something has come up that day. But then on the day they meet someone else. Do you give a second chance? " No way,I’d be livid. Hell hath no fury and all that. And I won’t be anybody’s reserve shag either. | |||
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"So you arrange to meet. They cancel with plenty of notice because something has come up that day. But then on the day they meet someone else. Do you give a second chance? " Up until the point where we discover they have met somebody else we would give them the benefit of the doubt. Once their devious, duplicitous ways have been discovered they are blocked and forgotten about we are not somebodies second choice. | |||
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"So you arrange to meet. They cancel with plenty of notice because something has come up that day. But then on the day they meet someone else. Do you give a second chance? " 3 words Hell freezes over | |||
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"So you arrange to meet. They cancel with plenty of notice because something has come up that day. But then on the day they meet someone else. Do you give a second chance? " Not a snowballs chance! | |||
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"No...unless they actually explained that due to the short notice and the travel time they could meet someone else and would I be ok with it. I’d respect them for their honesty then...." This for me too. It would depend on how they let me know. | |||
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"only a fool gives second chances. a nice woman of fab told me this: its easy to prioritise someone you want to meet. so no excuses work in my opinion. work and life get in the way YES but if you want it to happen you'll make sure it does. simple" Actions speak louder than words. | |||
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"Depends. I normally have made great efforts to get to know the people I arrange to meet. If they'd been courteous enough to talk to me about it then yeah. I'd remain open to meeting. " Nothing is black and white. I don't do knee jerk or blanket reactions. | |||
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"So you arrange to meet. They cancel with plenty of notice because something has come up that day. But then on the day they meet someone else. Do you give a second chance? " Honesty is important to us, if they were truthful and explained that they wanted to be somewhere else for whatever reason then we’d be understanding. Talk to us like cunts and we’ll wash our hands of you. | |||
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"So you arrange to meet. They cancel with plenty of notice because something has come up that day. But then on the day they meet someone else. Do you give a second chance? Honesty is important to us, if they were truthful and explained that they wanted to be somewhere else for whatever reason then we’d be understanding. Talk to us like cunts and we’ll wash our hands of you." I always talk to my cunt... is that similar? | |||
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"So you arrange to meet. They cancel with plenty of notice because something has come up that day. But then on the day they meet someone else. Do you give a second chance? Honesty is important to us, if they were truthful and explained that they wanted to be somewhere else for whatever reason then we’d be understanding. Talk to us like cunts and we’ll wash our hands of you. I always talk to my cunt... is that similar?" Poor clem. To think... I used to wank over you | |||
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"So you arrange to meet. They cancel with plenty of notice because something has come up that day. But then on the day they meet someone else. Do you give a second chance? Honesty is important to us, if they were truthful and explained that they wanted to be somewhere else for whatever reason then we’d be understanding. Talk to us like cunts and we’ll wash our hands of you. I always talk to my cunt... is that similar? Poor clem. To think... I used to wank over you " Fucking classic | |||
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"So you arrange to meet. They cancel with plenty of notice because something has come up that day. But then on the day they meet someone else. Do you give a second chance? " naaaaa bin him he picked a better offer over you, it's the ultimate insult | |||
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"So you arrange to meet. They cancel with plenty of notice because something has come up that day. But then on the day they meet someone else. Do you give a second chance? " No you mad | |||
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"I'd meet them and give the worse blow job they ever had, and not shave my legs or wash my cunt. But only if I wanted sex and no one else was available. " This is sage advice. | |||
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"So you arrange to meet. They cancel with plenty of notice because something has come up that day. But then on the day they meet someone else. Do you give a second chance? naaaaa bin him he picked a better offer over you, it's the ultimate insult " I don't mind if someone gets a better offer and goes with it. Sometimes it's easier to pop to someone local, than travel miles, and sometimes the hotty pops up unexpectedly and can only meet on a certain day. I'm happy to be put on hold, but I might lose interest. | |||
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"So you arrange to meet. They cancel with plenty of notice because something has come up that day. But then on the day they meet someone else. Do you give a second chance? naaaaa bin him he picked a better offer over you, it's the ultimate insult I don't mind if someone gets a better offer and goes with it. Sometimes it's easier to pop to someone local, than travel miles, and sometimes the hotty pops up unexpectedly and can only meet on a certain day. I'm happy to be put on hold, but I might lose interest. " he cancelled and gave an excuse then advertised the notch sod that, I wouldn’t entertain again. | |||
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"So you arrange to meet. They cancel with plenty of notice because something has come up that day. But then on the day they meet someone else. Do you give a second chance? " No chance! His gone for the easy option maybe a local meet. I still like you though | |||
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"So you arrange to meet. They cancel with plenty of notice because something has come up that day. But then on the day they meet someone else. Do you give a second chance? " If someone had cancelled, I wouldn't even look to see if they'd met someone else. If they've had the manners to give decent notice then all is fine. Cal | |||
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"Depends. I normally have made great efforts to get to know the people I arrange to meet. If they'd been courteous enough to talk to me about it then yeah. I'd remain open to meeting. " If something is agreed with me out of courtesy that's different, but without explanation? No, that's disrespectful. An fb did that to me and lied, so I binned him, joined fab, and found someone else to meet that night. | |||
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"Maybe I'm being cynical but there don't ever seem to be second chances on fab. If there were I wonder how they may change real life a way from here..." omg you've sussed fab | |||
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"Depends. I normally have made great efforts to get to know the people I arrange to meet. If they'd been courteous enough to talk to me about it then yeah. I'd remain open to meeting. If something is agreed with me out of courtesy that's different, but without explanation? No, that's disrespectful. An fb did that to me and lied, so I binned him, joined fab, and found someone else to meet that night. " omg harsh but omg lovely bosoms | |||
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"Out of interest is this fiction or really happened to you?" Now that is a great question! | |||
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"Depends. I normally have made great efforts to get to know the people I arrange to meet. If they'd been courteous enough to talk to me about it then yeah. I'd remain open to meeting. If something is agreed with me out of courtesy that's different, but without explanation? No, that's disrespectful. An fb did that to me and lied, so I binned him, joined fab, and found someone else to meet that night. omg harsh but omg lovely bosoms" ... Or she could of sat at home and cried about it! An assertive woman! | |||
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"So you arrange to meet. They cancel with plenty of notice because something has come up that day. But then on the day they meet someone else. Do you give a second chance? " Think you're lying though.. There's absolutely no way that a man cancelled on you.. not a chance in hell. | |||
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"OK, I so want to meet the woman that he met instead of you; because if you're second best to her, she must be out of this world beautiful!" Smooth. | |||
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"So you arrange to meet. They cancel with plenty of notice because something has come up that day. But then on the day they meet someone else. Do you give a second chance? " Yes,they are welcome to meet whoever they want whenever suits them. They're also welcome to message us requesting to meet again. Not saying we would accept | |||
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"So you arrange to meet. They cancel with plenty of notice because something has come up that day. But then on the day they meet someone else. Do you give a second chance? " Nope | |||
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