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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey just need some advice on clubs ive never been to one but would love to go whats it like what do you do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chat to people

Decadance in Rochdale is nearest to you. Lovely club, great atmosphere and the owners/staff are friendly.

You can stay fully clothed downstairs and socialise. They have a fully licenced bar.

View their website give them a ring if you need anymore information!

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

Op -how are you expecting the replies to be any different from the last time you posted the exact same topic (about 15 mins ago)?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Op -how are you expecting the replies to be any different from the last time you posted the exact same topic (about 15 mins ago)?"

I thaught it was in the wrong forum don't know how to delete it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Chat to people

Decadance in Rochdale is nearest to you. Lovely club, great atmosphere and the owners/staff are friendly.

You can stay fully clothed downstairs and socialise. They have a fully licenced bar.

View their website give them a ring if you need anymore information! "

Thanks

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"Hey just need some advice on clubs ive never been to one but would love to go whats it like what do you do? "

First time I visited a club spent a few emails asking them questions, probably ones they'd been asked a million times before.

The conversation and answers gave me the confidence to rock up.

First time there I was given a tour of the club, told the rules and introduced to a few people.

Spent most of the evening chatting at the bar and in the lounge, had a great evening.

I've been back so many times I'm often one of the people newbies are introduced to.

Go with no expectations and an open mind.

Enjoy......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Chat to people

Decadance in Rochdale is nearest to you. Lovely club, great atmosphere and the owners/staff are friendly.

You can stay fully clothed downstairs and socialise. They have a fully licenced bar.

View their website give them a ring if you need anymore information!

Thanks "

Welcome hunny.

They're a lot of fun clubs!

It can be hard work on here and the time spent on Fab, sometimes is wasted.

Clubs are a great social platform and a place of play, all under one roof x

Good luck X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Arrange to meet someone or risk becom8ng a towel wanker

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hey just need some advice on clubs ive never been to one but would love to go whats it like what do you do?

First time I visited a club spent a few emails asking them questions, probably ones they'd been asked a million times before.

The conversation and answers gave me the confidence to rock up.

First time there I was given a tour of the club, told the rules and introduced to a few people.

Spent most of the evening chatting at the bar and in the lounge, had a great evening.

I've been back so many times I'm often one of the people newbies are introduced to.

Go with no expectations and an open mind.

Enjoy......"

Thanks ill get sending sime emails

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Arrange to meet someone or risk becom8ng a towel wanker"

Haha ok ill try

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Chat to people

Decadance in Rochdale is nearest to you. Lovely club, great atmosphere and the owners/staff are friendly.

You can stay fully clothed downstairs and socialise. They have a fully licenced bar.

View their website give them a ring if you need anymore information!

Thanks

Welcome hunny.

They're a lot of fun clubs!

It can be hard work on here and the time spent on Fab, sometimes is wasted.

Clubs are a great social platform and a place of play, all under one roof x

Good luck X"

Ill need it haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Arrange to meet someone or risk becom8ng a towel wanker

Haha ok ill try"

Nooooooo

Try not

Do or do not

There is no try

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Arrange to meet someone or risk becom8ng a towel wanker

Haha ok ill try"

I'm sure you've got enough bottle to go alone!

Don't wait around for anyone!

They usually change their mind anyway!

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Us club goers all had our first visits. Plus new club nerves

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Us club goers all had our first visits. Plus new club nerves "

Absolutely!

Don't pester, don't follow people, do be social, don't expect anything other than a social evening and always respect others.

Oh, and most importantly; always ask.

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By *imandher84Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

Take up smoking, quite frankly any and all clubs we have been too we got to know the smokers first. Being lepers of polite society really bonds a group.

In all honesty though man you are 22 go out on any given night of the week and chat to some easy going students. The scenarios you are after are probably already available

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Hey just need some advice on clubs ive never been to one but would love to go whats it like what do you do? "

Wear trunks, you will have pockets for cigarettes, condoms etc.

Put your locker key on your ankle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My advice would be to act a exactly like you would in a normal bar. Approach people you like, strike up friendly conversation, don’t expect anything, don’t touch without permission and see where the night takes you.... if anywhere!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone

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