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By *uck300 OP   Man
over a year ago

cathays

Is it just me, or being a single guy here really sucks :/

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Is it just me, or being a single guy here really sucks :/ "

It's just you.

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just you, I've got a queue of ladies waiting to meet me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me, or being a single guy here really sucks :/ "

Lots do suck on here many of the straight ones like to suck too do you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I think it’s fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You kidding right were like gods on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me, or being a single guy here really sucks :/ "

Genuine response

Yes it can. Some people are rude some aren't and some are crazy and some not. Some are time wasters and some are not and some will meet and some will not. It takes ages at times. My advice is to go to the clubs. Not only is it easier to meet people but you find the keyboard warriors trolling aren't so much of a warrior in the flesh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes,I think having a single profile really sucks.

And if you're married like me without mrs knowing about this,it really,really sucks...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah it fucking sucks hard most of the time bqut every now and then you'll meet someone worth your time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how far you're willing to travel, blokes on here saying 'i've got loads of ladies wanting to meet me'.. fail to mention most of them live 100s of miles away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends how far you're willing to travel, blokes on here saying 'i've got loads of ladies wanting to meet me'.. fail to mention most of them live 100s of miles away"

But I think it's fine being a single guy on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me, or being a single guy here really sucks :/

Genuine response

Yes it can. Some people are rude some aren't and some are crazy and some not. Some are time wasters and some are not and some will meet and some will not. It takes ages at times. My advice is to go to the clubs. Not only is it easier to meet people but you find the keyboard warriors trolling aren't so much of a warrior in the flesh "

What if you can't go to the clubs? Then I guess all that's left is wait for ages?

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"Is it just me, or being a single guy here really sucks :/ "

Yep.

But wot can u do ?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It isn’t a problem if you’re the niche filler in an mmf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me, or being a single guy here really sucks :/

Genuine response

Yes it can. Some people are rude some aren't and some are crazy and some not. Some are time wasters and some are not and some will meet and some will not. It takes ages at times. My advice is to go to the clubs. Not only is it easier to meet people but you find the keyboard warriors trolling aren't so much of a warrior in the flesh "

Is it easier to get sex at clubs because the women are d*unk, or don't want to go home empty?

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

It could be better, I agree, but it could be worse. I could be the guy two posts down...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha of course it does but onwards and upwards as they say

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"Is it just me, or being a single guy here really sucks :/ "

It's what you make it..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me, or being a single guy here really sucks :/

Genuine response

Yes it can. Some people are rude some aren't and some are crazy and some not. Some are time wasters and some are not and some will meet and some will not. It takes ages at times. My advice is to go to the clubs. Not only is it easier to meet people but you find the keyboard warriors trolling aren't so much of a warrior in the flesh

Is it easier to get sex at clubs because the women are d*unk, or don't want to go home empty?"

I wouldnt say so in my case as I don't do d*unk it's not for me. I think because you can actually build rapport

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me, or being a single guy here really sucks :/

Genuine response

Yes it can. Some people are rude some aren't and some are crazy and some not. Some are time wasters and some are not and some will meet and some will not. It takes ages at times. My advice is to go to the clubs. Not only is it easier to meet people but you find the keyboard warriors trolling aren't so much of a warrior in the flesh

Is it easier to get sex at clubs because the women are d*unk, or don't want to go home empty?

I wouldnt say so in my case as I don't do d*unk it's not for me. I think because you can actually build rapport "

This! it's often because we can have a face to face chat, I can get an idea of what you're into and if we're on the same level. It's also much safer in a club for the likes of myself. I never drink more than 1 if I'm at a club, I like to know what's going on and be totally aware.

I've met guys in a club that I've not played with because I've been with a couple on the night. But we've had a chat at the bar and got along well. I'm more likely to meet them again if that's the case

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I don't think it does, it's what you make of it really.

It's all a question of what your expectations are and managing those in line with reality; are you going to be 'knee deep' in hours? No!

Is there the opportunity to meet some great people? Yes.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


" I never drink more than 1 if I'm at a club, I like to know what's going on and be totally aware.

"
Good girl

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Is it just me, or being a single guy here really sucks :/ "

You can't just rely on this site.

There is plenty of other avenues to find women.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Is it just me, or being a single guy here really sucks :/

You can't just rely on this site.

There is plenty of other avenues to find women. "

This

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Is it just me, or being a single guy here really sucks :/

You can't just rely on this site.

There is plenty of other avenues to find women.

This"

We agree on something

Even a broken clock is right twice a day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just you OP.. I’m swimming in pussies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just you OP.. I’m swimming in pussies "

No you’re not Bananaman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me, or being a single guy here really sucks :/

You can't just rely on this site.

There is plenty of other avenues to find women. "

Go on?

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Is it just me, or being a single guy here really sucks :/

You can't just rely on this site.

There is plenty of other avenues to find women.

Go on?"

Other dating apps, going out to pubs/clubs.

Even talking to women in the street, that takes balls though.

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"Is it just me, or being a single guy here really sucks :/ "

It's not just you , men are offering to suck me daily

Just be honest with yourself and don't pester men when they say no beyond that I'm sure you will find plenty to suck xxx

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Is it just me, or being a single guy here really sucks :/

Genuine response

Yes it can. Some people are rude some aren't and some are crazy and some not. Some are time wasters and some are not and some will meet and some will not. It takes ages at times. My advice is to go to the clubs. Not only is it easier to meet people but you find the keyboard warriors trolling aren't so much of a warrior in the flesh "

I've found it even harder to be a single guy in clubs! My advice would be to tweak your profile to make it a little more attractive to the ladies, and concentrate on messaging a select few, don't take the scattergun approach. Good luck fella

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suck

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Is it just me, or being a single guy here really sucks :/

You can't just rely on this site.

There is plenty of other avenues to find women.

This

We agree on something

Even a broken clock is right twice a day. "

I know, I had to sit down!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I never drink more than 1 if I'm at a club, I like to know what's going on and be totally aware.

Good girl "

Not always wait til you see the pics tonight kinky bitch is coming out!

I also agree with not depending on fab for hook ups. There are other ways. Go out and have fun, you never know how it will end up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like your not sending enough cock pics to me.

You need to send double the amount if they specifically say they don't want any!

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Is it just me, or being a single guy here really sucks :/ "

It’s just you as that’s your particular feelings towards the site

Some will relate others won’t not everyone as the same experiences/expectations in regards to the site

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I think it is hard on here for some guys, but tbh they make it hard for themselves.

I see moany status's on my local updates, befure even looking at their profiles I've got a pretty good idea what I'll see, or not see.

A lot join here with the expectation they'll be knee deep in fanny, no understanding of how the scene works, or how to interact with the women they message.

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"I think it is hard on here for some guys, but tbh they make it hard for themselves.

I see moany status's on my local updates, befure even looking at their profiles I've got a pretty good idea what I'll see, or not see.

A lot join here with the expectation they'll be knee deep in fanny, no understanding of how the scene works, or how to interact with the women they message.

"

This ^^^^^

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Is it just me, or being a single guy here really sucks :/

It’s just you as that’s your particular feelings towards the site

Some will relate others won’t not everyone as the same experiences/expectations in regards to the site "

*as they don’t have the same experiences* etc

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds


"Is it just me, or being a single guy here really sucks :/ "

Why do you say it sucks ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me, or being a single guy here really sucks :/

You can't just rely on this site.

There is plenty of other avenues to find women.

Go on?

Other dating apps, going out to pubs/clubs.

Even talking to women in the street, that takes balls though. "
does it heck watching a stranger in the street react to a compliment is both hilarious and entertaining especially if she starts to blush

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most guys come across as desperate, hence why they think it's a graft on here. Instead of enjoying it and just going with the flow!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most guys come across as desperate, hence why they think it's a graft on here. Instead of enjoying it and just going with the flow!"
my gosh i think you may be onto something

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Is it just me, or being a single guy here really sucks :/

You can't just rely on this site.

There is plenty of other avenues to find women.

Go on?

Other dating apps, going out to pubs/clubs.

Even talking to women in the street, that takes balls though. does it heck watching a stranger in the street react to a compliment is both hilarious and entertaining especially if she starts to blush"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most guys come across as desperate, hence why they think it's a graft on here. Instead of enjoying it and just going with the flow! my gosh i think you may be onto something "

Like you didn't already know!!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Most guys come across as desperate, hence why they think it's a graft on here. Instead of enjoying it and just going with the flow!"

And there's nothing sexier than knowing that they're after you as a piece of meat with a wet* hole.

* optional

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall


"Just you, I've got a queue of ladies waiting to meet me "

no... that's called visiting time lmao.... runs off laughing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most guys come across as desperate, hence why they think it's a graft on here. Instead of enjoying it and just going with the flow!

And there's nothing sexier than knowing that they're after you as a piece of meat with a wet* hole.

* optional"

Yip, there is that!!!

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


" I never drink more than 1 if I'm at a club, I like to know what's going on and be totally aware.

Good girl

Not always wait til you see the pics tonight kinky bitch is coming out!

I also agree with not depending on fab for hook ups. There are other ways. Go out and have fun, you never know how it will end up. "
Oh, I know

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Just you OP.. I’m swimming in pussies

No you’re not Bananaman "

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

Bottom line is that women and couples are overwhelmed with messages from men. As a couple of relatively advanced ages we aren't going to be top of men's hit lists but we still get around ten a day. That's 3600 a year when we meet less than 10 new guys a year. If that's us, think what a single woman in her thirties is getting...

Admittedly a good 80% of the male messages are the "hi there" or "I want to fuck ur wife" variety. Messages like that get nowhere. You can though make some progress if you make sure you only message people where you fit what they are looking for physically and send a message showing some personality.

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham


"Is it just me, or being a single guy here really sucks :/

Genuine response

Yes it can. Some people are rude some aren't and some are crazy and some not. Some are time wasters and some are not and some will meet and some will not. It takes ages at times. My advice is to go to the clubs. Not only is it easier to meet people but you find the keyboard warriors trolling aren't so much of a warrior in the flesh "

good advice . Plus don’t put too much expectation on this place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It isn’t a problem if you’re the niche filler in an mmf "

Lol that caught me off guard. Best answer

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Bottom line is that women and couples are overwhelmed with messages from men. As a couple of relatively advanced ages we aren't going to be top of men's hit lists but we still get around ten a day. That's 3600 a year when we meet less than 10 new guys a year. If that's us, think what a single woman in her thirties is getting...

Admittedly a good 80% of the male messages are the "hi there" or "I want to fuck ur wife" variety. Messages like that get nowhere. You can though make some progress if you make sure you only message people where you fit what they are looking for physically and send a message showing some personality. "

Yeah, over 80% of my messages are virtually content free or some variety of rude, disgusting, or abusive/ violent. (Of the remainder most haven't read my profile or don't interest me) It helps in a way, because if that many guys knew how to approach someone and sell themselves, this really would be a full time job!

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By *erDirtyRockstarMan
over a year ago

buckinghamshire


"Is it just me, or being a single guy here really sucks :/

Genuine response

Yes it can. Some people are rude some aren't and some are crazy and some not. Some are time wasters and some are not and some will meet and some will not. It takes ages at times. My advice is to go to the clubs. Not only is it easier to meet people but you find the keyboard warriors trolling aren't so much of a warrior in the flesh "

I dont know what sort of comments the OP was anticipating, but correctly replied here.

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