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"I have a meeting Monday But this is something different in my arm/shoulder it’s non stop pain" Sounds like a trapped nerve... Don't leave it | |||
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"It’s agony " Any tingling, pins and needles or numbness? | |||
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"Just got back from hospital, meeting with consultant I’ve been down as my gp said don’t build your hopes up normally you will need at least two 6 week sessions of radiotherapy But after today my consultant was really pleased and very confident no more therapy Yes!!! Just see how my spinal stenosis is sng get that and my trapped nerve done now" Nice that your consultant is pleased keep fighting missy you can beat this  | |||
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"Thanks everyone I’m ok honest it’ll take a lot more than this to beat mexxx" One fierce individual...I salute you! x | |||
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"So had a good Christmas girls cooked and I had a restful day, thing I noted, can’t eat chocolate, crisps, crackers Everything you think of over Christmas is tough to digest To swallow I have to use water Otherwise it’s sticks in my throat, it’s existence not living!! Hi " hugs | |||
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"So my scans are 27th January fingers crossed" Fingers crossed | |||
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"How are you feeling today?" Ok thanks neck is still swollen, but it goes down during the day | |||
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Ps there is stem cell reasearch into this, hopefully more help in the future. | |||
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"Radiotherapy effects are not so quickly over. .. do you have a Macmillan nurse you could call ? " I had Radiotherapy in my chest/abdomen back in 99, i still feel the effects of it now. | |||
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"So I have final scans tomorrow, my neck and throat are still swollen can’t see my Adam’s apple anymore, still struggle to swallow, eat only with liquid otherwise it gets stuck and it comes back up.. not great!! I have tests and consultations on Monday which I have been warned will last 3 hours So fingers crossed, but I’m not convinced!!" I wish you lots of luck, I know how draining this experience is for you, as a supporter of my sister in law,who has terminal cancer. We spend a lot of time at hospital  | |||
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"So I have final scans tomorrow, my neck and throat are still swollen can’t see my Adam’s apple anymore, still struggle to swallow, eat only with liquid otherwise it gets stuck and it comes back up.. not great!! I have tests and consultations on Monday which I have been warned will last 3 hours So fingers crossed, but I’m not convinced!!" Wishing you all the best ... hope it's a positive outcome for you | |||
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"So I have final scans tomorrow, my neck and throat are still swollen can’t see my Adam’s apple anymore, still struggle to swallow, eat only with liquid otherwise it gets stuck and it comes back up.. not great!! I have tests and consultations on Monday which I have been warned will last 3 hours So fingers crossed, but I’m not convinced!!" Good luck and I hope it’s all positive news x | |||
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"So I have final scans tomorrow, my neck and throat are still swollen can’t see my Adam’s apple anymore, still struggle to swallow, eat only with liquid otherwise it gets stuck and it comes back up.. not great!! I have tests and consultations on Monday which I have been warned will last 3 hours So fingers crossed, but I’m not convinced!!" Good luck for tomorrow x | |||
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"Big day tomorrow Afternoon Can’t access fab until Tuesday morning But it’s d day" Hope it's good news I know from my own experience how nerve racking the wait is but hopefully you get the best news sending positive vibes and well wishes xx | |||
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"Results all good clear and no cancer left, so I’m now in remission Phew!!" Aah Stella, so pleased for you!! | |||
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"Results all good clear and no cancer left, so I’m now in remission Phew!!" That's Fantastic News, so happy for you 
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"Results all good clear and no cancer left, so I’m now in remission Phew!!" Result!  | |||
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"Results all good clear and no cancer left, so I’m now in remission Phew!!" Good show | |||
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"Results all good clear and no cancer left, so I’m now in remission Phew!!" thats excellent news | |||
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"I'm so pleased for you Stella, and massive respect for sharing your journey on your blog. Awesome news xx " | |||
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"Results all good clear and no cancer left, so I’m now in remission Phew!!" Yayyyyyy omg well done im so pleased for you xx | |||
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"Results all good clear and no cancer left, so I’m now in remission Phew!!" | |||
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"Results all good clear and no cancer left, so I’m now in remission Phew!!" Happy days .. so pleased for you x | |||
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"Update Bit worried My neuralgia is back, but even more worrying is consistent acid indigestion preventing my ability to eat. Just tried to eat but it brings on acid indigestion straight away, this morning had to pull over to retch after a cuppa tea and porridge, all but strange" Tea and porridge gives me instant acid reflux. Some foods are worse for it then others and tea makes everything so much worse. You might be able to take Omeprazole or Lanzoprazole if you speak to the hospital. | |||
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"Update Bit worried My neuralgia is back, but even more worrying is consistent acid indigestion preventing my ability to eat. Just tried to eat but it brings on acid indigestion straight away, this morning had to pull over to retch after a cuppa tea and porridge, all but strange Tea and porridge gives me instant acid reflux. Some foods are worse for it then others and tea makes everything so much worse. You might be able to take Omeprazole or Lanzoprazole if you speak to the hospital. " Thanks | |||
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"Just had second monthly check up still all good, but seeing speach therapist in Worcester to try and help reduce the swelling on my throat, and try and help with the narrow passage I now have to swallow, this is very difficult to eat solid foods now.. Digestion is still an issue I’m continually in gaviscon to try and keep food down, otherwise like yesterday I get bad heartburn and retch most of it back up!" Glad to hear your check up,went well again. It sounds a very long road to recovery for you. I hope you find a solution to the stomach problems so you can build your strength back up again x | |||
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"Just had second monthly check up still all good, but seeing speach therapist in Worcester to try and help reduce the swelling on my throat, and try and help with the narrow passage I now have to swallow, this is very difficult to eat solid foods now.. Digestion is still an issue I’m continually in gaviscon to try and keep food down, otherwise like yesterday I get bad heartburn and retch most of it back up! Glad to hear your check up,went well again. It sounds a very long road to recovery for you. I hope you find a solution to the stomach problems so you can build your strength back up again x" Thanks Yeh my weight is just about stable, but now this digestion issue is making me weak again | |||
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"I have a meeting Monday But this is something different in my arm/shoulder it’s non stop pain" sciatic nerve maybe?Try massage it and rub some coconut oil mixed with peppermint oil and blacseed oil on arm and shoulder. | |||
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"I have a meeting Monday But this is something different in my arm/shoulder it’s non stop pain sciatic nerve maybe?Try massage it and rub some coconut oil mixed with peppermint oil and blacseed oil on arm and shoulder. " No I was diagnosed with spinal stenosis 2 weeks before I was diagnosed with cancer Which was a year ago this week | |||
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"I have a meeting Monday But this is something different in my arm/shoulder it’s non stop pain sciatic nerve maybe?Try massage it and rub some coconut oil mixed with peppermint oil and blacseed oil on arm and shoulder. No I was diagnosed with spinal stenosis 2 weeks before I was diagnosed with cancer Which was a year ago this week" Sorry to hear that hope things work out for you.Alot of cancer patients take blackseed oil (Nigella sativa) and it has helped them with their cancer,Check online see if its any good or helpful for you. | |||
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"So it’s been months since I posted about this, thought I should update my blog, so 1st year of remission went very well, I’m doing fine, then in November I had a TIA (mini stroke) blinded me temporary in my right eye, then eyesight was out of focus and extremely dizzy. (Symptoms so you are aware) They scanned my neck, ultrasound in emergency ward. So I found out the intensive radiotherapy has killed everything in my neck, my thyroid gland, lymph glands etc. They told me that they more or less expect minor strokes as par for the course as my arteries have shrunk due to the treatment It’s very scary stuff really, so I discussed a few things with my doctor and decided to give up work, I can’t be around stress anymore. So this is really where I am today, thanks for reading the entire thread is still on here for those who haven’t read this. Just search cancer of the throat. I would like to add I’m one of the lucky ones, I have for now escaped death. Each week that goes by is a week more I had that I probably shouldn’t have had.. Yet earlier this month I got the news s close friend died of his cancer. An ex swinger too. RIP Adrian Porter" Very poignant..sorry for your loss Stella and good luck with your recovery xx | |||
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"So it’s been months since I posted about this, thought I should update my blog, so 1st year of remission went very well, I’m doing fine, then in November I had a TIA (mini stroke) blinded me temporary in my right eye, then eyesight was out of focus and extremely dizzy. (Symptoms so you are aware) They scanned my neck, ultrasound in emergency ward. So I found out the intensive radiotherapy has killed everything in my neck, my thyroid gland, lymph glands etc. They told me that they more or less expect minor strokes as par for the course as my arteries have shrunk due to the treatment It’s very scary stuff really, so I discussed a few things with my doctor and decided to give up work, I can’t be around stress anymore. So this is really where I am today, thanks for reading the entire thread is still on here for those who haven’t read this. Just search cancer of the throat. I would like to add I’m one of the lucky ones, I have for now escaped death. Each week that goes by is a week more I had that I probably shouldn’t have had.. Yet earlier this month I got the news s close friend died of his cancer. An ex swinger too. RIP Adrian Porter Very poignant..sorry for your loss Stella and good luck with your recovery xx"Thanks xx | |||
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Age and these issues have made me feel a lot older now..
But few glasses of good old H Weston’s helps!!!
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"I take my hat off to you Stella. You've been through shit I can only imagine and you've kept on keeping on and found positives in all the turmoil. You are amazing "And inspirational xx | |||
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"I take my hat off to you Stella. You've been through shit I can only imagine and you've kept on keeping on and found positives in all the turmoil. You are amazing "
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"I take my hat off to you Stella. You've been through shit I can only imagine and you've kept on keeping on and found positives in all the turmoil. You are amazing
And inspirational xx"Awww Katz xxx | |||
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"Do you remember me messaging you about my cancer story and you asked me to post it on your thread as inspiration to others? It was a long time ago... lol So glad to see you've got the same amount of fight and humour that you had back then. I know how people saying hour brave can make you sometimes feel... i knew you had the fight in you back then and so glad you proved me right. Your a wonderful woman. Fuck cancer!"
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"I take my hat off to you Stella. You've been through shit I can only imagine and you've kept on keeping on and found positives in all the turmoil. You are amazing
And inspirational xx"This is spot on Stella xx | |||
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"I take my hat off to you Stella. You've been through shit I can only imagine and you've kept on keeping on and found positives in all the turmoil. You are amazing
And inspirational xx
This is spot on Stella xx"Aww Annabelle you’re always in my heart you know... xx | |||
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"You are an inspiration to us all "Absolutely | |||
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"You are an inspiration to us all
Absolutely "Thank you I don’t think I’ve done that much tbh | |||
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"Awe Stella big hugs to you, you are wonderful and as previous comments said an inspiration. (hearts) "Thanks I’m really not, but felt people should read my experience and hopefully it’ll help anyone who is suffering with similar | |||
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"Hi Stella, my mom has recently been diagnosed with cancer in her throat. She’s waiting for her op as they’re going to lazer the tumours rather than try to remove them. X " I hope everything works out for your mom. Really sorry to hear this. I wish you both well xx | |||
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"Awe Stella big hugs to you, you are wonderful and as previous comments said an inspiration. (hearts)
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I’m really not, but felt people should read my experience and hopefully it’ll help anyone who is suffering with similar"Stella you are wonderful and wanting to help others pretty much says it all xx | |||
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"I’m feeling particularly down at the moment, I’m not convinced they got it, my throat seems to be getting worse, now in the last 4-5 days I’m in consistent pain in my right shoulder, so bad I can’t get comfortable, can’t sleep, it’s horrid.. I’m so tired of being ill" my dad had throat cancer and he had chemo and it went. Anyway in may he had a pain in his shoulder and kneck at the bak. Turned out he has cancer in his spine and he died 2 weeks later | |||
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"So had a sore throat now for about a week, probably nothing, but it’s always in back of my mind" Have you spoken to your doc? Hope you are ok. Minx hug to you | |||
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"So update is due, since December I have been in constant pain in my right arm Initially I thought it was tennis elbow, as my elbow is really tender, but the aching pains go Down through my wrist into my fingers etc, now getting pain in my shoulder too, wearing a wrist splint now permanently it doesn’t really help.. But, hey I do as am told, it seems they think it’s nerve damage caused by the intensive radiotherapy I had back in autumn 2018.. God is it that long ago... I’m seeing a consultant Monday and will update then.. All the best, love you all lots Stella xx" Best wishes Stella. My mom had good news that they’ve got all the cancer in her throat and she’s clear so far. No more treatment but will have regular check ups x | |||
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"So update is due, since December I have been in constant pain in my right arm Initially I thought it was tennis elbow, as my elbow is really tender, but the aching pains go Down through my wrist into my fingers etc, now getting pain in my shoulder too, wearing a wrist splint now permanently it doesn’t really help.. But, hey I do as am told, it seems they think it’s nerve damage caused by the intensive radiotherapy I had back in autumn 2018.. God is it that long ago... I’m seeing a consultant Monday and will update then.. All the best, love you all lots Stella xx Best wishes Stella. My mom had good news that they’ve got all the cancer in her throat and she’s clear so far. No more treatment but will have regular check ups x " Yes been there two yrs ago | |||
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"Hope you get some relief from the appointment. I have nerve damage from an op and it really is not fun " | |||
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"Update Hospital today due to lump in my throat, had the camera down and everything is ok Phew " Very glad to hear that, must be a huge relief for you. | |||
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"Update Hospital today due to lump in my throat, had the camera down and everything is ok Phew " Great news Stella | |||
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"Update Hospital today due to lump in my throat, had the camera down and everything is ok Phew " | |||
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"Update Hospital today due to lump in my throat, had the camera down and everything is ok Phew " Glad it went ok | |||
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