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"Well its your choice to have that much sex mind lol" Someone on a swinging site has sex. Shocking stuff! | |||
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"Well its your choice to have that much sex mind lol Someone on a swinging site has sex. Shocking stuff!" Eh...? | |||
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"Well its your choice to have that much sex mind lol" Promoting abstinence over safe sex went out with the Victorians though. I'm quite surprised at the clinic limiting condoms. | |||
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"One of the clinics I went to treated me like a piece of shit when I said that I was a swinger. They were horribly judgemental despite saying how accepting and open they were on their website decided to go somewhere else the next time and they're lovely, quite interested in hearing about it!" That’s horrible! To be fair to mine, there has only been one nurse who was a bit snooty. I had 2 nurses in once and I told them and they were asking all kinds of questions! I’d rather be honest with them. Probably why I haven’t moved cos from that aspect they’ve been great. | |||
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"Well its your choice to have that much sex mind lol Promoting abstinence over safe sex went out with the Victorians though. I'm quite surprised at the clinic limiting condoms." me too, they actively encouraged me to take more last time I was there! | |||
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"I've never been offered free condoms and they always look at me with disgust when I said I had sex just outside of matlock. " Probably a jealousy thing, Derbyshire is very beautiful this time of year | |||
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"I've never been offered free condoms and they always look at me with disgust when I said I had sex just outside of matlock. Probably a jealousy thing, Derbyshire is very beautiful this time of year " I'm pretty sure the nurses had never been bent over a car bonnet on a country road. | |||
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"Some Poundland you can buy a box of passante condoms, the same brand that are given out in the sexual health clinics, they are British standard and tested. Sorry that your gum clinic have gone down hill, maybe you can use another one? I use sh24 and have my tests ordered online." Condoms from Poundland... hmmm. I’d have to have a think about that. I mean I love a bargain, but... | |||
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"I'm really surprised about not handing out Condoms. Last time I got tested I got a nice selection of around 15 in a paper bag." I noticed the amount had dropped. It used to be a paper bag stuffed full of them with loads of lube too. I think it was less than 10 last time and no lube. Maybe I didn’t mention anal sex the last time? | |||
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"Ive never been offered condoms actually. I must look like I don't use them " They never offer them to me either. I like freebies | |||
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"Ive never been offered condoms actually. I must look like I don't use them " Wanna share a condom ? | |||
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"Ive never been offered condoms actually. I must look like I don't use them They never offer them to me either. I like freebies " We should ask next time | |||
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"Ive never been offered condoms actually. I must look like I don't use them Wanna share a condom ? " Ooh. Yeah | |||
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"I too order mine online from the nhs site, quick and easy and I don't have to worry about making it to a clinic in time. " Curious about the online test, how do they deal with a lack of blood test? | |||
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"I was given 3 packs when I last went. What does that say about me? " That your really good and the guy doesn’t last long | |||
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"I used to get my checks done at my GPs, then my Dr retired & his practise merged with another. After my first visit to the new practise, I felt awful. The nurse was quite mature, actually reminded me of Hattie Jacques matron character! Her face as I told her my 'history' her attitude totaly changed. I have never felt bad about anything I've ever done, but she made me feel like I was dirty. I started using the local clinic after that, and I can't fault them there. I see a gay male nurse, he's actually become a good friend. I take cake for everyone when I visit now too " If you are where I think you are, we used to live down there, too. I think I've seen that nurse at the clinic and he is great! Where we live now they've just randomly closed our most local clinic so now have to travel to the bigger, busier one at the hospital. I have tried to explain our lifestyle to a GP once (I had a throat infection and thought it might be relevant information), she looked at me like I was an alien and seemed to have no idea that such things went on. Much prefer sexual health specific staff. | |||
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"Curious about the online test, how do they deal with a lack of blood test?" You do get a blood test with the kit I get. There is a tiny bottle that you need to fill up from a finger prick. | |||
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"I never get any condoms from clinic, I buy in bulk 144 condoms for about £15 x" I don’t have enough sex to bother with bulk buying but if I start going out more I’ll look into this, love a good bulk buy | |||
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"Some Poundland you can buy a box of passante condoms, the same brand that are given out in the sexual health clinics, they are British standard and tested. Sorry that your gum clinic have gone down hill, maybe you can use another one? I use sh24 and have my tests ordered online. Condoms from Poundland... hmmm. I’d have to have a think about that. I mean I love a bargain, but..." I can’t visit a poundland, b&m all the way for my bargains | |||
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"Some Poundland you can buy a box of passante condoms, the same brand that are given out in the sexual health clinics, they are British standard and tested. Sorry that your gum clinic have gone down hill, maybe you can use another one? I use sh24 and have my tests ordered online." Me too ...send me a text saying all clear | |||
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"Some Poundland you can buy a box of passante condoms, the same brand that are given out in the sexual health clinics, they are British standard and tested. Sorry that your gum clinic have gone down hill, maybe you can use another one? I use sh24 and have my tests ordered online. Condoms from Poundland... hmmm. I’d have to have a think about that. I mean I love a bargain, but... I can’t visit a poundland, b&m all the way for my bargains " I've seen you in harrods | |||
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"I've never been offered free condoms and they always look at me with disgust when I said I had sex just outside of matlock. Probably a jealousy thing, Derbyshire is very beautiful this time of year " But c'mon you have to agree that's pretty disgusting having sex just outside of Matlock. Andy Griffith is a household name. He's a decent man. | |||
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"Well its your choice to have that much sex mind lol Someone on a swinging site has sex. Shocking stuff!" I think the point he was making is that if you want to have lots of sex be prepared to buy lots of condoms. If the NHS paid for every condom used for every act of sex that takes place in the UK there would be no money left in the sexual health budget for little things like STD testing..... I have never taken free condoms from a clinic I buy my own. If I can afford a night out at a swingers club I can afford the box of condoms I will need to take with me. Its my sexual health... | |||
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"Curious about the online test, how do they deal with a lack of blood test? You do get a blood test with the kit I get. There is a tiny bottle that you need to fill up from a finger prick. " Thanks, all clear now! | |||
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"Well its your choice to have that much sex mind lol Someone on a swinging site has sex. Shocking stuff! I think the point he was making is that if you want to have lots of sex be prepared to buy lots of condoms. If the NHS paid for every condom used for every act of sex that takes place in the UK there would be no money left in the sexual health budget for little things like STD testing..... I have never taken free condoms from a clinic I buy my own. If I can afford a night out at a swingers club I can afford the box of condoms I will need to take with me. Its my sexual health..." | |||
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"I know it’s not Thursday but I feel the need to rant... The sexual health clinic I go to used to be really good! Like they asked the question about your sexual partners with 3 boxes to fill in and I was like yeh you’re gonna need more boxes explained I was a swinger, and from then on they just asked how many since I’d last been! They’ve been taken over and since then it’s just crap! They ask the same questions every time, and I can’t believe that they don’t have my record there to just look at! Offered me the hep b jab, and I had to tell them I had already had it there with them last year. Said my last smear was 2 years ago when it was this year, at the same place And to top it off, I asked for condoms and they said their policy has changed and they can only give one pack a month, which has 4 condoms in it! I resisted the urge to tell her that wouldn’t even get me through 1 club visit Anyway, feel better now I’ve got that off my chest anyone else have rubbish experiences?" Can't you go to another clinic, this sounds poor x | |||
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"I never get any condoms from clinic, I buy in bulk 144 condoms for about £15 x I don’t have enough sex to bother with bulk buying but if I start going out more I’ll look into this, love a good bulk buy " There is smaller options like 50 condoms for less money x | |||
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"Well its your choice to have that much sex mind lol Promoting abstinence over safe sex went out with the Victorians though. I'm quite surprised at the clinic limiting condoms. me too, they actively encouraged me to take more last time I was there!" But he was right, if I'd your choice to fuck more than 4 men. If they have limited funds why should your life choices be put above anyone else? He never once said don't have sex. | |||
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"We travel to Blackpool clinic, just finished hepb course, sometimes go to club clinic if dates line up or free NHS postal one but that doesn't include throat swab. Never take the free condoms as prefer skyns & we buy in bulk " The clinic in Blackpool is superb. It’s just getting more difficult to see anyone now the drop in services have reduced. I never had an issue. They’re pretty unshockable there and I never once felt uncomfortable with the questions or their advice. | |||
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"Well its your choice to have that much sex mind lol Promoting abstinence over safe sex went out with the Victorians though. I'm quite surprised at the clinic limiting condoms." Aye but that's not what I was saying. | |||
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"We travel to Blackpool clinic, just finished hepb course, sometimes go to club clinic if dates line up or free NHS postal one but that doesn't include throat swab. Never take the free condoms as prefer skyns & we buy in bulk The clinic in Blackpool is superb. It’s just getting more difficult to see anyone now the drop in services have reduced. I never had an issue. They’re pretty unshockable there and I never once felt uncomfortable with the questions or their advice. " The nurses are awesome, go out of their way and not at all judgemental we find. They do testing on a Saturday. It's the same nurses that run the free clinic at Infusions on a Friday afternoon once per month. Totally agree with the comment about condoms, we also feel unecessary for us as we can afford our own, why drain the NHS anymore | |||
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"Totally get the points above about cost, but I believe the benefits outweigh it. The NHS should be universal, free, non-judgemental and deal in preventative measures as well cures (not least because it's cheaper in the long run). Like people said, you can decline them but, if someone is actively asking for them, they should get them. If someone can't afford sanitary products (which I also think should be available where required) then they can't afford condoms, and human history shows societies don't abstain through lack of access to contraception. Even if it's just embarrassment stopping someone buying them, and not money, I'd rather they had them. PS I buy them ha " They did get them. Just as many as they think they should have been given due to their lifestyle choices. | |||
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"Our local sexual health clinic now mostly uses online tests, it’s really easy and free postage. Condoms I understand, as they are saving costs and condoms aren’t extortionately expensive. " NHS postal/online doesn't include throat swab or hepb immunization | |||
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"Well its your choice to have that much sex mind lol Promoting abstinence over safe sex went out with the Victorians though. I'm quite surprised at the clinic limiting condoms." Probably comes down to NHS funding (or lack of). Did you ask why when they said they could only give out four packs now? | |||
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"Our local sexual health clinic now mostly uses online tests, it’s really easy and free postage. Condoms I understand, as they are saving costs and condoms aren’t extortionately expensive. NHS postal/online doesn't include throat swab or hepb immunization " No but it does do chlamydia and gonorrhoea. You can still go there if you need other tests. | |||
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"Our local sexual health clinic now mostly uses online tests, it’s really easy and free postage. Condoms I understand, as they are saving costs and condoms aren’t extortionately expensive. NHS postal/online doesn't include throat swab or hepb immunization " I use a NHS postal service and I asked for a throat swab and they sent it. It may just depend on the area. | |||
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"Our local sexual health clinic now mostly uses online tests, it’s really easy and free postage. Condoms I understand, as they are saving costs and condoms aren’t extortionately expensive. NHS postal/online doesn't include throat swab or hepb immunization I use a NHS postal service and I asked for a throat swab and they sent it. It may just depend on the area. " Ours you request kit online with no options to add | |||
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"Well its your choice to have that much sex mind lol Promoting abstinence over safe sex went out with the Victorians though. I'm quite surprised at the clinic limiting condoms. Probably comes down to NHS funding (or lack of). Did you ask why when they said they could only give out four packs now?" I didn’t no, she just said the policy had changed! Ok I get NHS funding cuts, and thank you to those who say I should buy my own... as I said above I don’t have enough sex to need to and if I did I would! If I go to clubs guys tend to have them and they get used. I just thought 4 a month wasn’t good when promoting safe sex. What if it was someone who can’t afford them going in who wasn’t a swinger? A young girl trying to be safe with her partner but too nervous to buy them? Seems a rubbish policy to me. | |||
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"Well its your choice to have that much sex mind lol Promoting abstinence over safe sex went out with the Victorians though. I'm quite surprised at the clinic limiting condoms. Probably comes down to NHS funding (or lack of). Did you ask why when they said they could only give out four packs now? I didn’t no, she just said the policy had changed! Ok I get NHS funding cuts, and thank you to those who say I should buy my own... as I said above I don’t have enough sex to need to and if I did I would! If I go to clubs guys tend to have them and they get used. I just thought 4 a month wasn’t good when promoting safe sex. What if it was someone who can’t afford them going in who wasn’t a swinger? A young girl trying to be safe with her partner but too nervous to buy them? Seems a rubbish policy to me." Young people can get free condoms from pharmacies. | |||
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"Well its your choice to have that much sex mind lol Promoting abstinence over safe sex went out with the Victorians though. I'm quite surprised at the clinic limiting condoms. Probably comes down to NHS funding (or lack of). Did you ask why when they said they could only give out four packs now? I didn’t no, she just said the policy had changed! Ok I get NHS funding cuts, and thank you to those who say I should buy my own... as I said above I don’t have enough sex to need to and if I did I would! If I go to clubs guys tend to have them and they get used. I just thought 4 a month wasn’t good when promoting safe sex. What if it was someone who can’t afford them going in who wasn’t a swinger? A young girl trying to be safe with her partner but too nervous to buy them? Seems a rubbish policy to me." How much sex a month warrants buying your own condoms? 4 free a month isn't enough for you is what you said in your op. You don't have to buy mega pack of condoms but if you do they last a while so will spread the cost out for you. | |||
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"Well its your choice to have that much sex mind lol Promoting abstinence over safe sex went out with the Victorians though. I'm quite surprised at the clinic limiting condoms. Probably comes down to NHS funding (or lack of). Did you ask why when they said they could only give out four packs now? I didn’t no, she just said the policy had changed! Ok I get NHS funding cuts, and thank you to those who say I should buy my own... as I said above I don’t have enough sex to need to and if I did I would! If I go to clubs guys tend to have them and they get used. " That's totally contrary to what you said in your OP. Either 4 isnt enough in which case buy your own, or it is enough in which case no problem. There are things society definitely needs to improve on, fair distribution of wealth, better wages, less homelessness, less corruption, more sexual education etc But having sex is a personal choice, one shouldn't expect a limitless supply of free condoms because they want to have sex a lot. Just my opinion. Confusing OP though. | |||
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"I've never been offered free condoms and they always look at me with disgust when I said I had sex outside of wedlock. " How old were they for heavens sake,jesus I'd never have sex ever again if I had to wait to get married. | |||
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"Well its your choice to have that much sex mind lol Promoting abstinence over safe sex went out with the Victorians though. I'm quite surprised at the clinic limiting condoms. Probably comes down to NHS funding (or lack of). Did you ask why when they said they could only give out four packs now? I didn’t no, she just said the policy had changed! Ok I get NHS funding cuts, and thank you to those who say I should buy my own... as I said above I don’t have enough sex to need to and if I did I would! If I go to clubs guys tend to have them and they get used. I just thought 4 a month wasn’t good when promoting safe sex. What if it was someone who can’t afford them going in who wasn’t a swinger? A young girl trying to be safe with her partner but too nervous to buy them? Seems a rubbish policy to me. Young people can get free condoms from pharmacies." and school. | |||
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"Curious about the online test, how do they deal with a lack of blood test? You do get a blood test with the kit I get. There is a tiny bottle that you need to fill up from a finger prick. " Is this just on the NHS website? | |||
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"Curious about the online test, how do they deal with a lack of blood test? You do get a blood test with the kit I get. There is a tiny bottle that you need to fill up from a finger prick. Is this just on the NHS website?" Sh24 website nhs run | |||
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"Curious about the online test, how do they deal with a lack of blood test? You do get a blood test with the kit I get. There is a tiny bottle that you need to fill up from a finger prick. Is this just on the NHS website? Sh24 website nhs run" I just did a test having found out from this post about the Postal NHS kit. Really quick to get to me and well explained but I really struggled to get enough blood for the tube, I used all 3 lancers. I don't bleed quickly! | |||
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"Where are people buying the bulk packs? Saying that do they have long expiration dates " The condoms I buy have at least 5yrs dates on them i buy mine from Amazon x | |||
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"Where are people buying the bulk packs? Saying that do they have long expiration dates " Try the freedoms shop website, it's NHS run. They have quite a range of different ones and some of them only a tenner for 72. | |||
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