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"What age range do most single women on here aim for? I was binned off earlier by a 38yo for being “too old” - I’m 35. I respect that was her preference (and if she reads this, I have no issue with it, it’s your preference, you were perfectly polite and we parted on respectful terms), but just curious as it’s not something I’ve ever encountered before. At 35 I’m into my dating/shagging prime as a bloke, or so I thought... Can the good single women of fab shed any light?! " Ha a knockback....... Ego dented...... Hey as you get older it will get dented more, you will survive, the age range filters on here are harsh a day over 44 and omg excluded or what | |||
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"What age range do most single women on here aim for? I was binned off earlier by a 38yo for being “too old” - I’m 35. I respect that was her preference (and if she reads this, I have no issue with it, it’s your preference, you were perfectly polite and we parted on respectful terms), but just curious as it’s not something I’ve ever encountered before. At 35 I’m into my dating/shagging prime as a bloke, or so I thought... Can the good single women of fab shed any light?! Ha a knockback....... Ego dented...... Hey as you get older it will get dented more, you will survive, the age range filters on here are harsh a day over 44 and omg excluded or what " I admit it was a shock. I rarely get knocked back by women in their 30s, and still appeal to women in their 20s in dating terms. My confidence/arrogance gets the better of me at times - it just came as a shock, as a reasonably solvent bloke in his mid 30s, to be rejected by a 38yo in favour of blokes in their early 20s...  | |||
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"Trying to figure out women is like trying to find the half life of nuclear waste......." I think that can be calculated and defined in advance, can it not? Unlike the vicissitudes of the fairer sex! | |||
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"What age range do most single women on here aim for? I was binned off earlier by a 38yo for being “too old” - I’m 35. I respect that was her preference (and if she reads this, I have no issue with it, it’s your preference, you were perfectly polite and we parted on respectful terms), but just curious as it’s not something I’ve ever encountered before. At 35 I’m into my dating/shagging prime as a bloke, or so I thought... Can the good single women of fab shed any light?! Ha a knockback....... Ego dented...... Hey as you get older it will get dented more, you will survive, the age range filters on here are harsh a day over 44 and omg excluded or what I admit it was a shock. I rarely get knocked back by women in their 30s, and still appeal to women in their 20s in dating terms. My confidence/arrogance gets the better of me at times - it just came as a shock, as a reasonably solvent bloke in his mid 30s, to be rejected by a 38yo in favour of blokes in their early 20s... "You have to understand something...... It’s empowering for a 38 year old woman to only date men in there early 20’s.... It’s a look at me .... I’m so hot . I can get a younger man thing... But for this Ying.... The Yang is they will have to bankroll these younger men.. unless they enjoy sneaking in his parents house or having sex with 4 roommates in the house.. the guy will constantly be at their place.... They will have to pay for every meal, holiday and entertainment event.... Unless they enjoy playing video games.... They will never hangout with the 20 year old friends.... unless they want to be a 38 year old woman in a club with 18-25 year old women everywhere... and lastly after the 20 year old gets tired of her , he will leave her to find someone his age.... So after 10-15 years of doing this... she will end up as a 50+ year old undateable begging to be your sugar momma.... You on the other hand can date , be a player for 30 more years... then when you decide to get married and have kids.. you can go to the Thailand , Brazil , Columbia, Poland, and Russia and marry a hot 21 year old... So all is not lost... chin up | |||
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"What age range do most single women on here aim for? I was binned off earlier by a 38yo for being “too old” - I’m 35. I respect that was her preference (and if she reads this, I have no issue with it, it’s your preference, you were perfectly polite and we parted on respectful terms), but just curious as it’s not something I’ve ever encountered before. At 35 I’m into my dating/shagging prime as a bloke, or so I thought... Can the good single women of fab shed any light?! Ha a knockback....... Ego dented...... Hey as you get older it will get dented more, you will survive, the age range filters on here are harsh a day over 44 and omg excluded or what I admit it was a shock. I rarely get knocked back by women in their 30s, and still appeal to women in their 20s in dating terms. My confidence/arrogance gets the better of me at times - it just came as a shock, as a reasonably solvent bloke in his mid 30s, to be rejected by a 38yo in favour of blokes in their early 20s...
You have to understand something......
It’s empowering for a 38 year old woman to only date men in there early 20’s....
It’s a look at me .... I’m so hot . I can get a younger man thing...
But for this Ying....
The Yang is they will have to bankroll these younger men.. unless they enjoy sneaking in his parents house or having sex with 4 roommates in the house.. the guy will constantly be at their place....
They will have to pay for every meal, holiday and entertainment event.... Unless they enjoy playing video games.... They will never hangout with the 20 year old friends.... unless they want to be a 38 year old woman in a club with 18-25 year old women everywhere...
and lastly after the 20 year old gets tired of her , he will leave her to find someone his age....
So after 10-15 years of doing this... she will end up as a 50+ year old undateable begging to be your sugar momma....
You on the other hand can date , be a player for 30 more years... then when you decide to get married and have kids.. you can go to the Thailand , Brazil , Columbia, Poland, and Russia and marry a hot 21 year old...
So all is not lost... chin up "True. If the battle comes down to “who can drop £300 on dinner in Hawksmoor, several times per week, without blinking?”. I’ll win that one. My life isn’t so rubbish . | |||
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"What age range do most single women on here aim for? I was binned off earlier by a 38yo for being “too old” - I’m 35. I respect that was her preference (and if she reads this, I have no issue with it, it’s your preference, you were perfectly polite and we parted on respectful terms), but just curious as it’s not something I’ve ever encountered before. At 35 I’m into my dating/shagging prime as a bloke, or so I thought... Can the good single women of fab shed any light?! " LOL stay in the darkness or at very least soft lighting at your age..   | |||
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"What age range do most single women on here aim for? I was binned off earlier by a 38yo for being “too old” - I’m 35. I respect that was her preference (and if she reads this, I have no issue with it, it’s your preference, you were perfectly polite and we parted on respectful terms), but just curious as it’s not something I’ve ever encountered before. At 35 I’m into my dating/shagging prime as a bloke, or so I thought... Can the good single women of fab shed any light?! LOL stay in the darkness or at very least soft lighting at your age.. "I thought I was ageing like a fine wine!? | |||
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"I found that most women cut off at 45 up my way which means they miss out on a lot of prime beef" I prefer older men or men around my age. I seem to scare younger man.  | |||
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"I've got to be honest my cut off age is 25 - 45 I'm looking for someone a similar age to myself I wouldn't actually rule out older but definitely wouldn't do younger. The problem with fab is people lie about their age so someone that's 55 still making out they're 45 and really not getting away with it what do they think you'll change your mind when you meet them "Try being told you’re too old, in your mid 30s, as a bloke, by a woman whose older than you. | |||
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"I've got to be honest my cut off age is 25 - 45 I'm looking for someone a similar age to myself I wouldn't actually rule out older but definitely wouldn't do younger. The problem with fab is people lie about their age so someone that's 55 still making out they're 45 and really not getting away with it what do they think you'll change your mind when you meet them
Try being told you’re too old, in your mid 30s, as a bloke, by a woman whose older than you. "Can't see I'll ever be in that position tbh but at least she was honest with you better than hanging you on for months then ghosting you? | |||
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"I've got to be honest my cut off age is 25 - 45 I'm looking for someone a similar age to myself I wouldn't actually rule out older but definitely wouldn't do younger. The problem with fab is people lie about their age so someone that's 55 still making out they're 45 and really not getting away with it what do they think you'll change your mind when you meet them
Try being told you’re too old, in your mid 30s, as a bloke, by a woman whose older than you. "I've been told a couple of times by couples that I'm too young. | |||
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"I've got to be honest my cut off age is 25 - 45 I'm looking for someone a similar age to myself I wouldn't actually rule out older but definitely wouldn't do younger. The problem with fab is people lie about their age so someone that's 55 still making out they're 45 and really not getting away with it what do they think you'll change your mind when you meet them
Try being told you’re too old, in your mid 30s, as a bloke, by a woman whose older than you.
Can't see I'll ever be in that position tbh but at least she was honest with you better than hanging you on for months then ghosting you?"That’s true. She was perfectly polite in what she said (and I responded as such) albeit after half an hour’s worth of chat before she asked my age... I guess I’m not used to being told no . | |||
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"I've got to be honest my cut off age is 25 - 45 I'm looking for someone a similar age to myself I wouldn't actually rule out older but definitely wouldn't do younger. The problem with fab is people lie about their age so someone that's 55 still making out they're 45 and really not getting away with it what do they think you'll change your mind when you meet them
Try being told you’re too old, in your mid 30s, as a bloke, by a woman whose older than you.
I've been told a couple of times by couples that I'm too young. "I was told by a couple that they “were offended” when I politely rejected them yesterday. They were my parents’ age FFS . | |||
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"I've got to be honest my cut off age is 25 - 45 I'm looking for someone a similar age to myself I wouldn't actually rule out older but definitely wouldn't do younger. The problem with fab is people lie about their age so someone that's 55 still making out they're 45 and really not getting away with it what do they think you'll change your mind when you meet them
Try being told you’re too old, in your mid 30s, as a bloke, by a woman whose older than you.
I've been told a couple of times by couples that I'm too young.
I was told by a couple that they “were offended” when I politely rejected them yesterday.
They were my parents’ age FFS . "You gotta love a trier | |||
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"I've got to be honest my cut off age is 25 - 45 I'm looking for someone a similar age to myself I wouldn't actually rule out older but definitely wouldn't do younger. The problem with fab is people lie about their age so someone that's 55 still making out they're 45 and really not getting away with it what do they think you'll change your mind when you meet them
Try being told you’re too old, in your mid 30s, as a bloke, by a woman whose older than you.
Can't see I'll ever be in that position tbh but at least she was honest with you better than hanging you on for months then ghosting you?
That’s true. She was perfectly polite in what she said (and I responded as such) albeit after half an hour’s worth of chat before she asked my age...
I guess I’m not used to being told no . "Your age is on your profile... | |||
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"I've got to be honest my cut off age is 25 - 45 I'm looking for someone a similar age to myself I wouldn't actually rule out older but definitely wouldn't do younger. The problem with fab is people lie about their age so someone that's 55 still making out they're 45 and really not getting away with it what do they think you'll change your mind when you meet them
Try being told you’re too old, in your mid 30s, as a bloke, by a woman whose older than you.
I've been told a couple of times by couples that I'm too young.
I was told by a couple that they “were offended” when I politely rejected them yesterday.
They were my parents’ age FFS . "So are you not being hypocritical with this post it's personal taste.. | |||
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"I've got to be honest my cut off age is 25 - 45 I'm looking for someone a similar age to myself I wouldn't actually rule out older but definitely wouldn't do younger. The problem with fab is people lie about their age so someone that's 55 still making out they're 45 and really not getting away with it what do they think you'll change your mind when you meet them
Try being told you’re too old, in your mid 30s, as a bloke, by a woman whose older than you.
Can't see I'll ever be in that position tbh but at least she was honest with you better than hanging you on for months then ghosting you?
That’s true. She was perfectly polite in what she said (and I responded as such) albeit after half an hour’s worth of chat before she asked my age...
I guess I’m not used to being told no . "I'm sure it won't be long till you find someone who will help you get over it  | |||
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"I've got to be honest my cut off age is 25 - 45 I'm looking for someone a similar age to myself I wouldn't actually rule out older but definitely wouldn't do younger. The problem with fab is people lie about their age so someone that's 55 still making out they're 45 and really not getting away with it what do they think you'll change your mind when you meet them
Try being told you’re too old, in your mid 30s, as a bloke, by a woman whose older than you.
I've been told a couple of times by couples that I'm too young.
I was told by a couple that they “were offended” when I politely rejected them yesterday.
They were my parents’ age FFS .
So are you not being hypocritical with this post it's personal taste.."Not really. The way it works in the normal dating world is that, I’m about as good as it gets. I wouldn’t expect to be rejected by someone a couple of years older than I am, I also wouldn’t expect to be accused of being offensive for declining to join a couple who are as old as my parents... | |||
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"I've got to be honest my cut off age is 25 - 45 I'm looking for someone a similar age to myself I wouldn't actually rule out older but definitely wouldn't do younger. The problem with fab is people lie about their age so someone that's 55 still making out they're 45 and really not getting away with it what do they think you'll change your mind when you meet them
Try being told you’re too old, in your mid 30s, as a bloke, by a woman whose older than you.
I've been told a couple of times by couples that I'm too young.
I was told by a couple that they “were offended” when I politely rejected them yesterday.
They were my parents’ age FFS . "I've noticed that quite a few couples that organise parties for couples often have a lower age limit of 40. But actually I do understand that. | |||
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"I've got to be honest my cut off age is 25 - 45 I'm looking for someone a similar age to myself I wouldn't actually rule out older but definitely wouldn't do younger. The problem with fab is people lie about their age so someone that's 55 still making out they're 45 and really not getting away with it what do they think you'll change your mind when you meet them
Try being told you’re too old, in your mid 30s, as a bloke, by a woman whose older than you.
I've been told a couple of times by couples that I'm too young.
I was told by a couple that they “were offended” when I politely rejected them yesterday.
They were my parents’ age FFS .
So are you not being hypocritical with this post it's personal taste..
Not really.
The way it works in the normal dating world is that, I’m about as good as it gets.
I wouldn’t expect to be rejected by someone a couple of years older than I am, I also wouldn’t expect to be accused of being offensive for declining to join a couple who are as old as my parents... "Thankfully my parents were older when they had me so I've got a wide scope | |||
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"I've got to be honest my cut off age is 25 - 45 I'm looking for someone a similar age to myself I wouldn't actually rule out older but definitely wouldn't do younger. The problem with fab is people lie about their age so someone that's 55 still making out they're 45 and really not getting away with it what do they think you'll change your mind when you meet them
Try being told you’re too old, in your mid 30s, as a bloke, by a woman whose older than you.
I've been told a couple of times by couples that I'm too young.
I was told by a couple that they “were offended” when I politely rejected them yesterday.
They were my parents’ age FFS .
So are you not being hypocritical with this post it's personal taste..
Not really.
The way it works in the normal dating world is that, I’m about as good as it gets.
I wouldn’t expect to be rejected by someone a couple of years older than I am, I also wouldn’t expect to be accused of being offensive for declining to join a couple who are as old as my parents...
Thankfully my parents were older when they had me so I've got a wide scope "My parents were younger than I am now when they had me. No interest in joining people of their current age for shenanigans | |||
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"You can’t take these things personally! On these sites there are literally hundreds of lads in their 20s looking to meet older women. In real life most people stick to in and around their own age but the nature of sites like these is it gives you scope to meet people you mightn’t consider in real life so your lady friend is maybe doing that? Anyway you’re a handsome guy so I doubt you’ll have long to wait for the next potential opportunity!" Thanks for compliment, and for the vote of confidence.  | |||
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"You're too young for me, OP. I prefer to meet people the same age so we have the same cultural references (I like to talk as well as fuck). " Idiotic comment, sorry. Later today I’m visiting a fuck buddy/friend of mine whose a doctor... As such, I reckon she can talk just about as well as she can fuck... That’s before I get onto my qualifications. | |||
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"You're too young for me, OP. I prefer to meet people the same age so we have the same cultural references (I like to talk as well as fuck). Idiotic comment, sorry. Later today I’m visiting a fuck buddy/friend of mine whose a doctor... As such, I reckon she can talk just about as well as she can fuck... That’s before I get onto my qualifications. "How old is she? | |||
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"Sorry op. Nature of the site as us women have too much choice. It's only us minging women that prefer older... we just can't attract the young ones anymore so we have to settle. " That’s very true. And I doubt you’re minging for a second. I’ve just never encountered attractive women who prefer younger. And I guess that makes me feel old | |||
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"You're too young for me, OP. I prefer to meet people the same age so we have the same cultural references (I like to talk as well as fuck). Idiotic comment, sorry. Later today I’m visiting a fuck buddy/friend of mine whose a doctor... As such, I reckon she can talk just about as well as she can fuck... That’s before I get onto my qualifications.
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"Sorry op. Nature of the site as us women have too much choice. It's only us minging women that prefer older... we just can't attract the young ones anymore so we have to settle. " You're absolutely not minging. | |||
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"Your a good looking chap and I wouldn’t thinknon it too much. I gave up trying to read minds and just goneith it now, to be fair I am yet to come across someone that I fancy 100% and until I find her and she knocks me back I’ll just accept it can’t be everyone’s cuppa. But I’m sure you do alright so leave some for the rest of us lol Cheers mate. Being good looking is doing fuck all for my mental health at the moment. Neither is being relatively well paid... " Neither does being less attractive and skint | |||
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"Maybe she was just being polite and using that as an excuse? I’ll often pick something that somebody can’t change as a reason for not meeting them as I don’t like telling people I just don’t find them attractive? " I do that too. | |||
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"What age range do most single women on here aim for? I was binned off earlier by a 38yo for being “too old” - I’m 35. I respect that was her preference (and if she reads this, I have no issue with it, it’s your preference, you were perfectly polite and we parted on respectful terms), but just curious as it’s not something I’ve ever encountered before. At 35 I’m into my dating/shagging prime as a bloke, or so I thought... Can the good single women of fab shed any light?! " She has just seen your forum posts buddy. it's happened to me.  | |||
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"What age range do most single women on here aim for? I was binned off earlier by a 38yo for being “too old” - I’m 35. I respect that was her preference (and if she reads this, I have no issue with it, it’s your preference, you were perfectly polite and we parted on respectful terms), but just curious as it’s not something I’ve ever encountered before. At 35 I’m into my dating/shagging prime as a bloke, or so I thought... Can the good single women of fab shed any light?! She has just seen your forum posts buddy. it's happened to me. "Who is she? PM me if necessary... | |||
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"What age range do most single women on here aim for? I was binned off earlier by a 38yo for being “too old” - I’m 35. I respect that was her preference (and if she reads this, I have no issue with it, it’s your preference, you were perfectly polite and we parted on respectful terms), but just curious as it’s not something I’ve ever encountered before. At 35 I’m into my dating/shagging prime as a bloke, or so I thought... Can the good single women of fab shed any light?! She has just seen your forum posts buddy. it's happened to me.
Who is she? PM me if necessary... "Sure the username was stupidbitch or something.
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"Trying to figure out women is like trying to find the half life of nuclear waste......." Yeah, it's really strange. Almost like we're all human beings in our own right with likes,dislikes and preferences that are different to other women.  | |||
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"What age range do most single women on here aim for? I was binned off earlier by a 38yo for being “too old” - I’m 35. I respect that was her preference (and if she reads this, I have no issue with it, it’s your preference, you were perfectly polite and we parted on respectful terms), but just curious as it’s not something I’ve ever encountered before. At 35 I’m into my dating/shagging prime as a bloke, or so I thought... Can the good single women of fab shed any light?! She has just seen your forum posts buddy. it's happened to me.
Who is she? PM me if necessary... Sure the username was stupidbitch or something.
I'm just joking it's not happened to me yet."We both know exactly who we are talking about don’t we | |||
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"What age range do most single women on here aim for? I was binned off earlier by a 38yo for being “too old” - I’m 35. I respect that was her preference (and if she reads this, I have no issue with it, it’s your preference, you were perfectly polite and we parted on respectful terms), but just curious as it’s not something I’ve ever encountered before. At 35 I’m into my dating/shagging prime as a bloke, or so I thought... Can the good single women of fab shed any light?! Ha a knockback....... Ego dented...... Hey as you get older it will get dented more, you will survive, the age range filters on here are harsh a day over 44 and omg excluded or what " Thirty something males usually do well on here! Lie about your age Mark, we've never seen your face! Merry Christmas!  | |||
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"I agree that 35 is a great age for a man - experienced enough without being jaded and still in good physical shape. But all women will want something different, depending on their age and their current interests. We can't all appeal to everyone unfortunately! " Lots to offer from what I see.have a good day | |||
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"What age range do most single women on here aim for? I was binned off earlier by a 38yo for being “too old” - I’m 35. I respect that was her preference (and if she reads this, I have no issue with it, it’s your preference, you were perfectly polite and we parted on respectful terms), but just curious as it’s not something I’ve ever encountered before. At 35 I’m into my dating/shagging prime as a bloke, or so I thought... Can the good single women of fab shed any light?! She has just seen your forum posts buddy. it's happened to me.
Who is she? PM me if necessary... Sure the username was stupidbitch or something.
I'm just joking it's not happened to me yet.
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"What age range do most single women on here aim for? I was binned off earlier by a 38yo for being “too old” - I’m 35. I respect that was her preference (and if she reads this, I have no issue with it, it’s your preference, you were perfectly polite and we parted on respectful terms), but just curious as it’s not something I’ve ever encountered before. At 35 I’m into my dating/shagging prime as a bloke, or so I thought... Can the good single women of fab shed any light?! She has just seen your forum posts buddy. it's happened to me.
Who is she? PM me if necessary... Sure the username was stupidbitch or something.
I'm just joking it's not happened to me yet.
We both know exactly who we are talking about don’t we "PM me, bitch | |||
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"What age range do most single women on here aim for? I was binned off earlier by a 38yo for being “too old” - I’m 35. I respect that was her preference (and if she reads this, I have no issue with it, it’s your preference, you were perfectly polite and we parted on respectful terms), but just curious as it’s not something I’ve ever encountered before. At 35 I’m into my dating/shagging prime as a bloke, or so I thought... Can the good single women of fab shed any light?! She has just seen your forum posts buddy. it's happened to me.
Who is she? PM me if necessary... Sure the username was stupidbitch or something.
I'm just joking it's not happened to me yet.
We both know exactly who we are talking about don’t we "I'm not going to lie I'm dying to know who it is. | |||
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"Maybe she was just being polite and using that as an excuse? I’ll often pick something that somebody can’t change as a reason for not meeting them as I don’t like telling people I just don’t find them attractive? " Yeah it'll be the beard! A lot of fems hate whiskers! Merry Christmas! | |||
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How old is she?
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"What age range do most single women on here aim for? I was binned off earlier by a 38yo for being “too old” - I’m 35. I respect that was her preference (and if she reads this, I have no issue with it, it’s your preference, you were perfectly polite and we parted on respectful terms), but just curious as it’s not something I’ve ever encountered before. At 35 I’m into my dating/shagging prime as a bloke, or so I thought... Can the good single women of fab shed any light?! Ha a knockback....... Ego dented...... Hey as you get older it will get dented more, you will survive, the age range filters on here are harsh a day over 44 and omg excluded or what I admit it was a shock. I rarely get knocked back by women in their 30s, and still appeal to women in their 20s in dating terms. My confidence/arrogance gets the better of me at times - it just came as a shock, as a reasonably solvent bloke in his mid 30s, to be rejected by a 38yo in favour of blokes in their early 20s...
You have to understand something......
It’s empowering for a 38 year old woman to only date men in there early 20’s....
It’s a look at me .... I’m so hot . I can get a younger man thing...
But for this Ying....
The Yang is they will have to bankroll these younger men.. unless they enjoy sneaking in his parents house or having sex with 4 roommates in the house.. the guy will constantly be at their place....
They will have to pay for every meal, holiday and entertainment event.... Unless they enjoy playing video games.... They will never hangout with the 20 year old friends.... unless they want to be a 38 year old woman in a club with 18-25 year old women everywhere...
and lastly after the 20 year old gets tired of her , he will leave her to find someone his age....
So after 10-15 years of doing this... she will end up as a 50+ year old undateable begging to be your sugar momma....
You on the other hand can date , be a player for 30 more years... then when you decide to get married and have kids.. you can go to the Thailand , Brazil , Columbia, Poland, and Russia and marry a hot 21 year old...
So all is not lost... chin up "
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"What age range do most single women on here aim for? I was binned off earlier by a 38yo for being “too old” - I’m 35. I respect that was her preference (and if she reads this, I have no issue with it, it’s your preference, you were perfectly polite and we parted on respectful terms), but just curious as it’s not something I’ve ever encountered before. At 35 I’m into my dating/shagging prime as a bloke, or so I thought... Can the good single women of fab shed any light?! Ha a knockback....... Ego dented...... Hey as you get older it will get dented more, you will survive, the age range filters on here are harsh a day over 44 and omg excluded or what I admit it was a shock. I rarely get knocked back by women in their 30s, and still appeal to women in their 20s in dating terms. My confidence/arrogance gets the better of me at times - it just came as a shock, as a reasonably solvent bloke in his mid 30s, to be rejected by a 38yo in favour of blokes in their early 20s... "Depends on the individuals kinks and predelictions. It's not unusual to see older guys wanting a younger women. Older women often want a much younger man. You just weren't right for her, don't get hung up on it. I'm in my 50s and throughout my life, have been attracted to people generally of similar age to me. I'm still getting meets. Move on and enjoy. I'd rather have a meet with a woman who wanted to meet me. | |||
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"She was probably using it as an excuse, most women are more flexible with their age ranges than you think. A lot see me and the age range conveniently goes up, cause I’m in such great shape. Hey, this bragging is easy. But it’s also very true. I’m in better shape than most lads in their 20’s. And I don’t even go to the gym,imagine if I went to the gym. " For some of us a stinking personality will put us off a well looked after body, even if they are a 20 something. | |||
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"What age range do most single women on here aim for? I was binned off earlier by a 38yo for being “too old” - I’m 35. I respect that was her preference (and if she reads this, I have no issue with it, it’s your preference, you were perfectly polite and we parted on respectful terms), but just curious as it’s not something I’ve ever encountered before. At 35 I’m into my dating/shagging prime as a bloke, or so I thought... Can the good single women of fab shed any light?! Ha a knockback....... Ego dented...... Hey as you get older it will get dented more, you will survive, the age range filters on here are harsh a day over 44 and omg excluded or what I admit it was a shock. I rarely get knocked back by women in their 30s, and still appeal to women in their 20s in dating terms. My confidence/arrogance gets the better of me at times - it just came as a shock, as a reasonably solvent bloke in his mid 30s, to be rejected by a 38yo in favour of blokes in their early 20s...
You have to understand something......
It’s empowering for a 38 year old woman to only date men in there early 20’s....
It’s a look at me .... I’m so hot . I can get a younger man thing...
But for this Ying....
The Yang is they will have to bankroll these younger men.. unless they enjoy sneaking in his parents house or having sex with 4 roommates in the house.. the guy will constantly be at their place....
They will have to pay for every meal, holiday and entertainment event.... Unless they enjoy playing video games.... They will never hangout with the 20 year old friends.... unless they want to be a 38 year old woman in a club with 18-25 year old women everywhere...
and lastly after the 20 year old gets tired of her , he will leave her to find someone his age....
So after 10-15 years of doing this... she will end up as a 50+ year old undateable begging to be your sugar momma....
You on the other hand can date , be a player for 30 more years... then when you decide to get married and have kids.. you can go to the Thailand , Brazil , Columbia, Poland, and Russia and marry a hot 21 year old...
So all is not lost... chin up "This comment will just about piss every fem off! Lol Merry Christmas! | |||
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What is idiotic about her comment?
Based purely on reading your forum posts you come across as arrogant, privileged and superior to all others. I think if this lady is a forumite she may think the same, and her get out was your age rather than facing the consequences of turning you down"She would be boring then with no sense of humour. | |||
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"I found, quite some years ago, that men my age didn't excite me sexually. I'm not hot, and certainly don't think I am, and I don't feel empowered when younger, attractive men are attentive towards me. I don't enjoy the company of every younger man, just the ones who I'm compatible with. I have no idea why men my age and older don't appeal to me. Cause they’re usually falling apart. " I'm not averse to a dad bod, but I do like to be physical in bed. I has 30 years of a quick suck, jump on jump off sex, and I don't want to be there again, so maybe my mind is pulling me towards virility. What a man says, and his attitude, can make me think he's going to be boring in bed. I quick mind and dry wit can make my knickers wet. | |||
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"You're too young for me, OP. I prefer to meet people the same age so we have the same cultural references (I like to talk as well as fuck). Idiotic comment, sorry. Later today I’m visiting a fuck buddy/friend of mine whose a doctor... As such, I reckon she can talk just about as well as she can fuck... That’s before I get onto my qualifications.
What is idiotic about her comment?
Based purely on reading your forum posts you come across as arrogant, privileged and superior to all others. I think if this lady is a forumite she may think the same, and her get out was your age rather than facing the consequences of turning you down
I probably am superior to most on here.
I didn’t particularly like the suggestion that I/we can’t talk as well as fuck.
Two law degrees, one medical doctorate between us says she and I can talk just about as we can fuck "Having degrees doesn't automatically make your conversation interesting. I had a very funny conversation with a man with a doctorate about zombies and water sewage treatment once. He was younger than me and the sex was so good. | |||
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"I found, quite some years ago, that men my age didn't excite me sexually. I'm not hot, and certainly don't think I am, and I don't feel empowered when younger, attractive men are attentive towards me. I don't enjoy the company of every younger man, just the ones who I'm compatible with. I have no idea why men my age and older don't appeal to me. Cause they’re usually falling apart. I'm not averse to a dad bod, but I do like to be physical in bed. I has 30 years of a quick suck, jump on jump off sex, and I don't want to be there again, so maybe my mind is pulling me towards virility. What a man says, and his attitude, can make me think he's going to be boring in bed. I quick mind and dry wit can make my knickers wet. You might need to see a doctor about that." Funny you should say that... | |||
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"You're too young for me, OP. I prefer to meet people the same age so we have the same cultural references (I like to talk as well as fuck). Idiotic comment, sorry. Later today I’m visiting a fuck buddy/friend of mine whose a doctor... As such, I reckon she can talk just about as well as she can fuck... That’s before I get onto my qualifications.
What is idiotic about her comment?
Based purely on reading your forum posts you come across as arrogant, privileged and superior to all others. I think if this lady is a forumite she may think the same, and her get out was your age rather than facing the consequences of turning you down
I probably am superior to most on here.
I didn’t particularly like the suggestion that I/we can’t talk as well as fuck.
Two law degrees, one medical doctorate between us says she and I can talk just about as we can fuck "Oh, are you well educated? You kept that a secret | |||
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"You're too young for me, OP. I prefer to meet people the same age so we have the same cultural references (I like to talk as well as fuck). Idiotic comment, sorry. Later today I’m visiting a fuck buddy/friend of mine whose a doctor... As such, I reckon she can talk just about as well as she can fuck... That’s before I get onto my qualifications.
What is idiotic about her comment?
Based purely on reading your forum posts you come across as arrogant, privileged and superior to all others. I think if this lady is a forumite she may think the same, and her get out was your age rather than facing the consequences of turning you down"I probably am superior to most on here, in almost all respects. I didn’t particularly like the suggestion that I/we can’t talk as well as fuck. Two law degrees, one medical doctorate between us says she and I can talk just about as well as we can fuck. | |||
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"You're too young for me, OP. I prefer to meet people the same age so we have the same cultural references (I like to talk as well as fuck). Idiotic comment, sorry. Later today I’m visiting a fuck buddy/friend of mine whose a doctor... As such, I reckon she can talk just about as well as she can fuck... That’s before I get onto my qualifications.
What is idiotic about her comment?
Based purely on reading your forum posts you come across as arrogant, privileged and superior to all others. I think if this lady is a forumite she may think the same, and her get out was your age rather than facing the consequences of turning you down
I probably am superior to most on here.
I didn’t particularly like the suggestion that I/we can’t talk as well as fuck.
Two law degrees, one medical doctorate between us says she and I can talk just about as we can fuck
Oh, are you well educated? You kept that a secret "I didn’t want to intimidate you | |||
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"You're too young for me, OP. I prefer to meet people the same age so we have the same cultural references (I like to talk as well as fuck). Idiotic comment, sorry. Later today I’m visiting a fuck buddy/friend of mine whose a doctor... As such, I reckon she can talk just about as well as she can fuck... That’s before I get onto my qualifications.
What is idiotic about her comment?
Based purely on reading your forum posts you come across as arrogant, privileged and superior to all others. I think if this lady is a forumite she may think the same, and her get out was your age rather than facing the consequences of turning you down
I probably am superior to most on here.
I didn’t particularly like the suggestion that I/we can’t talk as well as fuck.
Two law degrees, one medical doctorate between us says she and I can talk just about as we can fuck
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"You're too young for me, OP. I prefer to meet people the same age so we have the same cultural references (I like to talk as well as fuck). Idiotic comment, sorry. Later today I’m visiting a fuck buddy/friend of mine whose a doctor... As such, I reckon she can talk just about as well as she can fuck... That’s before I get onto my qualifications.
What is idiotic about her comment?
Based purely on reading your forum posts you come across as arrogant, privileged and superior to all others. I think if this lady is a forumite she may think the same, and her get out was your age rather than facing the consequences of turning you down
I probably am superior to most on here.
I didn’t particularly like the suggestion that I/we can’t talk as well as fuck.
Two law degrees, one medical doctorate between us says she and I can talk just about as we can fuck
Oh, are you well educated? You kept that a secret
I didn’t want to intimidate you "I just like looking at pictures of cocks and boobs. It's the only reason I'm on here. | |||
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"You're too young for me, OP. I prefer to meet people the same age so we have the same cultural references (I like to talk as well as fuck). Idiotic comment, sorry. Later today I’m visiting a fuck buddy/friend of mine whose a doctor... As such, I reckon she can talk just about as well as she can fuck... That’s before I get onto my qualifications.
What is idiotic about her comment?
Based purely on reading your forum posts you come across as arrogant, privileged and superior to all others. I think if this lady is a forumite she may think the same, and her get out was your age rather than facing the consequences of turning you down
I probably am superior to most on here.
I didn’t particularly like the suggestion that I/we can’t talk as well as fuck.
Two law degrees, one medical doctorate between us says she and I can talk just about as we can fuck
Oh, are you well educated? You kept that a secret
I didn’t want to intimidate you
I just like looking at pictures of cocks and boobs. It's the only reason I'm on here. "I’m only on here for the sex | |||
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"You're too young for me, OP. I prefer to meet people the same age so we have the same cultural references (I like to talk as well as fuck). Idiotic comment, sorry. Later today I’m visiting a fuck buddy/friend of mine whose a doctor... As such, I reckon she can talk just about as well as she can fuck... That’s before I get onto my qualifications.
What is idiotic about her comment?
Based purely on reading your forum posts you come across as arrogant, privileged and superior to all others. I think if this lady is a forumite she may think the same, and her get out was your age rather than facing the consequences of turning you down
I probably am superior to most on here.
I didn’t particularly like the suggestion that I/we can’t talk as well as fuck.
Two law degrees, one medical doctorate between us says she and I can talk just about as we can fuck
Oh, are you well educated? You kept that a secret
I didn’t want to intimidate you
I just like looking at pictures of cocks and boobs. It's the only reason I'm on here.
I’m only on here for the sex "Oh shit..... Yeah, that too! | |||
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"You're too young for me, OP. I prefer to meet people the same age so we have the same cultural references (I like to talk as well as fuck). Idiotic comment, sorry. Later today I’m visiting a fuck buddy/friend of mine whose a doctor... As such, I reckon she can talk just about as well as she can fuck... That’s before I get onto my qualifications.
What is idiotic about her comment?
Based purely on reading your forum posts you come across as arrogant, privileged and superior to all others. I think if this lady is a forumite she may think the same, and her get out was your age rather than facing the consequences of turning you down
I probably am superior to most on here, in almost all respects.
I didn’t particularly like the suggestion that I/we can’t talk as well as fuck.
Two law degrees, one medical doctorate between us says she and I can talk just about as well as we can fuck. "Yes you're young, good looking, physically fit, but you're absolutely not superior to anyone on here or anywhere else. For an self proclaimed intelligent man with a degree you totally missed her point about cultural references. She meant that someone so much younger would not have much in common to talk about, not that 35 year olds are incapable of talking. I know this as the meets ive had are not as fullfilling with men much younger than me, and its never the sex thats been the problem. | |||
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"I found that most women cut off at 45 up my way which means they miss out on a lot of prime beef I prefer older men or men around my age. I seem to scare younger man. "u wouldn't scare me x | |||
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What is idiotic about her comment?
Based purely on reading your forum posts you come across as arrogant, privileged and superior to all others. I think if this lady is a forumite she may think the same, and her get out was your age rather than facing the consequences of turning you down
I probably am superior to most on here.
I didn’t particularly like the suggestion that I/we can’t talk as well as fuck.
Two law degrees, one medical doctorate between us says she and I can talk just about as we can fuck
Having degrees doesn't automatically make your conversation interesting. I had a very funny conversation with a man with a doctorate about zombies and water sewage treatment once. He was younger than me and the sex was so good.
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"I found that most women cut off at 45 up my way which means they miss out on a lot of prime beef I prefer older men or men around my age. I seem to scare younger man. u wouldn't scare me x"Good to know | |||
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"I found that most women cut off at 45 up my way which means they miss out on a lot of prime beef I prefer older men or men around my age. I seem to scare younger man. u wouldn't scare me x
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What is idiotic about her comment?
Based purely on reading your forum posts you come across as arrogant, privileged and superior to all others. I think if this lady is a forumite she may think the same, and her get out was your age rather than facing the consequences of turning you down
I probably am superior to most on here.
I didn’t particularly like the suggestion that I/we can’t talk as well as fuck.
Two law degrees, one medical doctorate between us says she and I can talk just about as we can fuck
Having degrees doesn't automatically make your conversation interesting. I had a very funny conversation with a man with a doctorate about zombies and water sewage treatment once. He was younger than me and the sex was so good.
I never said it did.
It’s nice if the person you’re conversing with can reply in kind, though.
The sex isn’t half bad either . "You are suggesting it. You keep on about your degrees and how much money you make. The woman who turned you down wants something different on here. Younger women might be easier to impress, by talking about yourself. I would have thought 38 was too old for you anyway | |||
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What is idiotic about her comment?
Based purely on reading your forum posts you come across as arrogant, privileged and superior to all others. I think if this lady is a forumite she may think the same, and her get out was your age rather than facing the consequences of turning you down
I probably am superior to most on here.
I didn’t particularly like the suggestion that I/we can’t talk as well as fuck.
Two law degrees, one medical doctorate between us says she and I can talk just about as we can fuck
Having degrees doesn't automatically make your conversation interesting. I had a very funny conversation with a man with a doctorate about zombies and water sewage treatment once. He was younger than me and the sex was so good.
I never said it did.
It’s nice if the person you’re conversing with can reply in kind, though.
The sex isn’t half bad either . "Inferring that it was an "idiotic comment" did. I think you've demonstrated more in your replies to advocate my view than refute it. | |||
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"I've got to be honest my cut off age is 25 - 45 I'm looking for someone a similar age to myself I wouldn't actually rule out older but definitely wouldn't do younger. The problem with fab is people lie about their age so someone that's 55 still making out they're 45 and really not getting away with it what do they think you'll change your mind when you meet them
Try being told you’re too old, in your mid 30s, as a bloke, by a woman whose older than you. "I was told on a BDSM dating site I was too old for a man in his 40s. I'm 26. As is life. | |||
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"You're too young for me, OP. I prefer to meet people the same age so we have the same cultural references (I like to talk as well as fuck). Idiotic comment, sorry. Later today I’m visiting a fuck buddy/friend of mine whose a doctor... As such, I reckon she can talk just about as well as she can fuck... That’s before I get onto my qualifications.
What is idiotic about her comment?
Based purely on reading your forum posts you come across as arrogant, privileged and superior to all others. I think if this lady is a forumite she may think the same, and her get out was your age rather than facing the consequences of turning you down
I probably am superior to most on here, in almost all respects.
I didn’t particularly like the suggestion that I/we can’t talk as well as fuck.
Two law degrees, one medical doctorate between us says she and I can talk just about as well as we can fuck.
Yes you're young, good looking, physically fit, but you're absolutely not superior to anyone on here or anywhere else.
For an self proclaimed intelligent man with a degree you totally missed her point about cultural references.
She meant that someone so much younger would not have much in common to talk about, not that 35 year olds are incapable of talking. I know this as the meets ive had are not as fullfilling with men much younger than me, and its never the sex thats been the problem. "Don’t patronise me. I know fully well what she meant. You’ve (both?) missed the point of my OP of the thread which was to say she was only two years older than me... and I’m 35 so hardly a spring chicken. Sapiophile then felt the need to swim in and say she needs people her own age to be able to “fuck as well as walk”. I find that incredibly patronising... Surprise surprise if the person is intelligent/erudite enough I can usually find common ground... | |||
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"You're too young for me, OP. I prefer to meet people the same age so we have the same cultural references (I like to talk as well as fuck). Idiotic comment, sorry. Later today I’m visiting a fuck buddy/friend of mine whose a doctor... As such, I reckon she can talk just about as well as she can fuck... That’s before I get onto my qualifications.
What is idiotic about her comment?
Based purely on reading your forum posts you come across as arrogant, privileged and superior to all others. I think if this lady is a forumite she may think the same, and her get out was your age rather than facing the consequences of turning you down
I probably am superior to most on here.
I didn’t particularly like the suggestion that I/we can’t talk as well as fuck.
Two law degrees, one medical doctorate between us says she and I can talk just about as we can fuck
Having degrees doesn't automatically make your conversation interesting. I had a very funny conversation with a man with a doctorate about zombies and water sewage treatment once. He was younger than me and the sex was so good.
I never said it did.
It’s nice if the person you’re conversing with can reply in kind, though.
The sex isn’t half bad either .
Inferring that it was an "idiotic comment" did. I think you've demonstrated more in your replies to advocate my view than refute it. "So are you saying she and I can’t fuck as well as walk?! | |||
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What is idiotic about her comment?
Based purely on reading your forum posts you come across as arrogant, privileged and superior to all others. I think if this lady is a forumite she may think the same, and her get out was your age rather than facing the consequences of turning you down
I probably am superior to most on here, in almost all respects.
I didn’t particularly like the suggestion that I/we can’t talk as well as fuck.
Two law degrees, one medical doctorate between us says she and I can talk just about as well as we can fuck.
Yes you're young, good looking, physically fit, but you're absolutely not superior to anyone on here or anywhere else.
For an self proclaimed intelligent man with a degree you totally missed her point about cultural references.
She meant that someone so much younger would not have much in common to talk about, not that 35 year olds are incapable of talking. I know this as the meets ive had are not as fullfilling with men much younger than me, and its never the sex thats been the problem.
Don’t patronise me. I know fully well what she meant.
You’ve (both?) missed the point of my OP of the thread which was to say she was only two years older than me... and I’m 35 so hardly a spring chicken.
Sapiophile then felt the need to swim in and say she needs people her own age to be able to “fuck as well as walk”.
I find that incredibly patronising...
Surprise surprise if the person is intelligent/erudite enough I can usually find common ground... "Perhaps she meant mentally too young
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"I've got to be honest my cut off age is 25 - 45 I'm looking for someone a similar age to myself I wouldn't actually rule out older but definitely wouldn't do younger. The problem with fab is people lie about their age so someone that's 55 still making out they're 45 and really not getting away with it what do they think you'll change your mind when you meet them
Try being told you’re too old, in your mid 30s, as a bloke, by a woman whose older than you.
Can't see I'll ever be in that position tbh but at least she was honest with you better than hanging you on for months then ghosting you?
That’s true. She was perfectly polite in what she said (and I responded as such) albeit after half an hour’s worth of chat before she asked my age...
I guess I’m not used to being told no . "There may have been other reasons but your age was the least offensive one to choose. | |||
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What is idiotic about her comment?
Based purely on reading your forum posts you come across as arrogant, privileged and superior to all others. I think if this lady is a forumite she may think the same, and her get out was your age rather than facing the consequences of turning you down
I probably am superior to most on here.
I didn’t particularly like the suggestion that I/we can’t talk as well as fuck.
Two law degrees, one medical doctorate between us says she and I can talk just about as we can fuck
Having degrees doesn't automatically make your conversation interesting. I had a very funny conversation with a man with a doctorate about zombies and water sewage treatment once. He was younger than me and the sex was so good.
I never said it did.
It’s nice if the person you’re conversing with can reply in kind, though.
The sex isn’t half bad either .
You are suggesting it. You keep on about your degrees and how much money you make. The woman who turned you down wants something different on here.
Younger women might be easier to impress, by talking about yourself. I would have thought 38 was too old for you anyway "Absolutely. Christ I’d be utterly embarrassed if the 31yo I’m seeing later knew I was on here... | |||
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"Things aren't always as they seem here on Fab. Stating that someone is 'too young' or 'too old' is a reasonably inoffensive (unless the recipient is especially sensitive) method of rejecting someone you find unattractive for a whole host of other reasons such as appearance, attitude, unpleasant forum presence etc. After all, most of us would prefer to be turned down on the basis of 'age' - or indeed some other similarly generic excuse such as 'not feeling it' - instead of being personally insulted." Spot on. | |||
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"You're too young for me, OP. I prefer to meet people the same age so we have the same cultural references (I like to talk as well as fuck). Idiotic comment, sorry. Later today I’m visiting a fuck buddy/friend of mine whose a doctor... As such, I reckon she can talk just about as well as she can fuck... That’s before I get onto my qualifications.
What is idiotic about her comment?
Based purely on reading your forum posts you come across as arrogant, privileged and superior to all others. I think if this lady is a forumite she may think the same, and her get out was your age rather than facing the consequences of turning you down
I probably am superior to most on here.
I didn’t particularly like the suggestion that I/we can’t talk as well as fuck.
Two law degrees, one medical doctorate between us says she and I can talk just about as we can fuck
Having degrees doesn't automatically make your conversation interesting. I had a very funny conversation with a man with a doctorate about zombies and water sewage treatment once. He was younger than me and the sex was so good.
I never said it did.
It’s nice if the person you’re conversing with can reply in kind, though.
The sex isn’t half bad either .
You are suggesting it. You keep on about your degrees and how much money you make. The woman who turned you down wants something different on here.
Younger women might be easier to impress, by talking about yourself. I would have thought 38 was too old for you anyway
Absolutely.
Christ I’d be utterly embarrassed if the 31yo I’m seeing later knew I was on here... "Be careful to not leave your phone laying around | |||
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What is idiotic about her comment?
Based purely on reading your forum posts you come across as arrogant, privileged and superior to all others. I think if this lady is a forumite she may think the same, and her get out was your age rather than facing the consequences of turning you down
I probably am superior to most on here, in almost all respects.
I didn’t particularly like the suggestion that I/we can’t talk as well as fuck.
Two law degrees, one medical doctorate between us says she and I can talk just about as well as we can fuck.
Yes you're young, good looking, physically fit, but you're absolutely not superior to anyone on here or anywhere else.
For an self proclaimed intelligent man with a degree you totally missed her point about cultural references.
She meant that someone so much younger would not have much in common to talk about, not that 35 year olds are incapable of talking. I know this as the meets ive had are not as fullfilling with men much younger than me, and its never the sex thats been the problem.
Don’t patronise me. I know fully well what she meant.
You’ve (both?) missed the point of my OP of the thread which was to say she was only two years older than me... and I’m 35 so hardly a spring chicken.
Sapiophile then felt the need to swim in and say she needs people her own age to be able to “fuck as well as walk”.
I find that incredibly patronising...
Surprise surprise if the person is intelligent/erudite enough I can usually find common ground...
Perhaps she meant mentally too young
Or, she's taken 10 years off her age and forgot."What a lovely thing to say. And maybe you’re some anonymous person on a swingers website... So excuse me if I don’t give a f*ck | |||
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What is idiotic about her comment?
Based purely on reading your forum posts you come across as arrogant, privileged and superior to all others. I think if this lady is a forumite she may think the same, and her get out was your age rather than facing the consequences of turning you down
I probably am superior to most on here, in almost all respects.
I didn’t particularly like the suggestion that I/we can’t talk as well as fuck.
Two law degrees, one medical doctorate between us says she and I can talk just about as well as we can fuck.
Yes you're young, good looking, physically fit, but you're absolutely not superior to anyone on here or anywhere else.
For an self proclaimed intelligent man with a degree you totally missed her point about cultural references.
She meant that someone so much younger would not have much in common to talk about, not that 35 year olds are incapable of talking. I know this as the meets ive had are not as fullfilling with men much younger than me, and its never the sex thats been the problem.
Don’t patronise me. I know fully well what she meant.
You’ve (both?) missed the point of my OP of the thread which was to say she was only two years older than me... and I’m 35 so hardly a spring chicken.
Sapiophile then felt the need to swim in and say she needs people her own age to be able to “fuck as well as walk”.
I find that incredibly patronising...
Surprise surprise if the person is intelligent/erudite enough I can usually find common ground...
Perhaps she meant mentally too young
Or, she's taken 10 years off her age and forgot.
What a lovely thing to say.
And maybe you’re some anonymous person on a swingers website...
So excuse me if I don’t give a f*ck "You should never give a fuck what anyone on here says to you, especially those who turn you down | |||
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"Seriously OP is this just one huge windup because I really find it hard to believe this is true? Are you just a lonely person who has stolen some photos of a random off Facebook who you perceive to be alright looking just to come on here and stir the forum up for laughs? " Every post of his is a wind up. You can tell when he's getting the reaction he wants because he whips out the lines about how rich and intellectually superior he is. It's fun to watch though | |||
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"You're too young for me, OP. I prefer to meet people the same age so we have the same cultural references (I like to talk as well as fuck). Idiotic comment, sorry. Later today I’m visiting a fuck buddy/friend of mine whose a doctor... As such, I reckon she can talk just about as well as she can fuck... That’s before I get onto my qualifications.
What is idiotic about her comment?
Based purely on reading your forum posts you come across as arrogant, privileged and superior to all others. I think if this lady is a forumite she may think the same, and her get out was your age rather than facing the consequences of turning you down
I probably am superior to most on here, in almost all respects.
I didn’t particularly like the suggestion that I/we can’t talk as well as fuck.
Two law degrees, one medical doctorate between us says she and I can talk just about as well as we can fuck.
Yes you're young, good looking, physically fit, but you're absolutely not superior to anyone on here or anywhere else.
For an self proclaimed intelligent man with a degree you totally missed her point about cultural references.
She meant that someone so much younger would not have much in common to talk about, not that 35 year olds are incapable of talking. I know this as the meets ive had are not as fullfilling with men much younger than me, and its never the sex thats been the problem.
Don’t patronise me. I know fully well what she meant.
You’ve (both?) missed the point of my OP of the thread which was to say she was only two years older than me... and I’m 35 so hardly a spring chicken.
Sapiophile then felt the need to swim in and say she needs people her own age to be able to “fuck as well as walk”.
I find that incredibly patronising...
Surprise surprise if the person is intelligent/erudite enough I can usually find common ground...
Perhaps she meant mentally too young
Or, she's taken 10 years off her age and forgot.
What a lovely thing to say.
And maybe you’re some anonymous person on a swingers website...
So excuse me if I don’t give a f*ck
You should never give a fuck what anyone on here says to you, especially those who turn you down "You take such glee in me being turned down. PM me and you’ll enjoy the same feeling very rapidly I suspect | |||
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What is idiotic about her comment?
Based purely on reading your forum posts you come across as arrogant, privileged and superior to all others. I think if this lady is a forumite she may think the same, and her get out was your age rather than facing the consequences of turning you down
I probably am superior to most on here, in almost all respects.
I didn’t particularly like the suggestion that I/we can’t talk as well as fuck.
Two law degrees, one medical doctorate between us says she and I can talk just about as well as we can fuck.
Yes you're young, good looking, physically fit, but you're absolutely not superior to anyone on here or anywhere else.
For an self proclaimed intelligent man with a degree you totally missed her point about cultural references.
She meant that someone so much younger would not have much in common to talk about, not that 35 year olds are incapable of talking. I know this as the meets ive had are not as fullfilling with men much younger than me, and its never the sex thats been the problem.
Don’t patronise me. I know fully well what she meant.
You’ve (both?) missed the point of my OP of the thread which was to say she was only two years older than me... and I’m 35 so hardly a spring chicken.
Sapiophile then felt the need to swim in and say she needs people her own age to be able to “fuck as well as walk”.
I find that incredibly patronising...
Surprise surprise if the person is intelligent/erudite enough I can usually find common ground...
Perhaps she meant mentally too young
Or, she's taken 10 years off her age and forgot.
What a lovely thing to say.
And maybe you’re some anonymous person on a swingers website...
So excuse me if I don’t give a f*ck
You should never give a fuck what anyone on here says to you, especially those who turn you down
You take such glee in me being turned down.
PM me and you’ll enjoy the same feeling very rapidly I suspect "You think I would be upset if you turned me down? We already established that we aren't compatible, but being turned down by you wouldn't make me sad, or disappointed. | |||
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"What age range do most single women on here aim for? I was binned off earlier by a 38yo for being “too old” - I’m 35. I respect that was her preference (and if she reads this, I have no issue with it, it’s your preference, you were perfectly polite and we parted on respectful terms), but just curious as it’s not something I’ve ever encountered before. At 35 I’m into my dating/shagging prime as a bloke, or so I thought... Can the good single women of fab shed any light?! Ha a knockback....... Ego dented...... Hey as you get older it will get dented more, you will survive, the age range filters on here are harsh a day over 44 and omg excluded or what I admit it was a shock. I rarely get knocked back by women in their 30s, and still appeal to women in their 20s in dating terms. My confidence/arrogance gets the better of me at times - it just came as a shock, as a reasonably solvent bloke in his mid 30s, to be rejected by a 38yo in favour of blokes in their early 20s...
You have to understand something......
It’s empowering for a 38 year old woman to only date men in there early 20’s....
It’s a look at me .... I’m so hot . I can get a younger man thing...
But for this Ying....
The Yang is they will have to bankroll these younger men.. unless they enjoy sneaking in his parents house or having sex with 4 roommates in the house.. the guy will constantly be at their place....
They will have to pay for every meal, holiday and entertainment event.... Unless they enjoy playing video games.... They will never hangout with the 20 year old friends.... unless they want to be a 38 year old woman in a club with 18-25 year old women everywhere...
and lastly after the 20 year old gets tired of her , he will leave her to find someone his age....
So after 10-15 years of doing this... she will end up as a 50+ year old undateable begging to be your sugar momma....
You on the other hand can date , be a player for 30 more years... then when you decide to get married and have kids.. you can go to the Thailand , Brazil , Columbia, Poland, and Russia and marry a hot 21 year old...
So all is not lost... chin up "That may well all be true in the real world - but not on fab! Fab isn’t ‘real’ it’s a temporary (for many singles), transient world of fantasy sex! Most of us don’t seek on here what we can easily find in the real world - why would we? Hence young guys seek to meet much older women than they’d ever realistically have a relationship with - and vice versa! The advantage of doing this on fab instead of the real world is that - hopefully - both parties know where they stand and nobody gets hurt! Both leave with a big grin and some great memories! I can honestly say I’ve never bankrolled a young guy and never would - paying (or being paid) for sex in any form definitely isn’t my thing! On fab - for instance - I often meet guys who never miss a day at the gym - whereas in a relationship that would put me off somewhat! See what I mean op? But yes - you’re an attractive chap and - if you’re a nice guy as well - I’m sure many women would be willing to meet you and/or have a relationship with you! Sending hugs leading to rudies! | |||
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"What age range do most single women on here aim for? I was binned off earlier by a 38yo for being “too old” - I’m 35. I respect that was her preference (and if she reads this, I have no issue with it, it’s your preference, you were perfectly polite and we parted on respectful terms), but just curious as it’s not something I’ve ever encountered before. At 35 I’m into my dating/shagging prime as a bloke, or so I thought... Can the good single women of fab shed any light?! Ha a knockback....... Ego dented...... Hey as you get older it will get dented more, you will survive, the age range filters on here are harsh a day over 44 and omg excluded or what I admit it was a shock. I rarely get knocked back by women in their 30s, and still appeal to women in their 20s in dating terms. My confidence/arrogance gets the better of me at times - it just came as a shock, as a reasonably solvent bloke in his mid 30s, to be rejected by a 38yo in favour of blokes in their early 20s...
You have to understand something......
It’s empowering for a 38 year old woman to only date men in there early 20’s....
It’s a look at me .... I’m so hot . I can get a younger man thing...
But for this Ying....
The Yang is they will have to bankroll these younger men.. unless they enjoy sneaking in his parents house or having sex with 4 roommates in the house.. the guy will constantly be at their place....
They will have to pay for every meal, holiday and entertainment event.... Unless they enjoy playing video games.... They will never hangout with the 20 year old friends.... unless they want to be a 38 year old woman in a club with 18-25 year old women everywhere...
and lastly after the 20 year old gets tired of her , he will leave her to find someone his age....
So after 10-15 years of doing this... she will end up as a 50+ year old undateable begging to be your sugar momma....
You on the other hand can date , be a player for 30 more years... then when you decide to get married and have kids.. you can go to the Thailand , Brazil , Columbia, Poland, and Russia and marry a hot 21 year old...
So all is not lost... chin up
That may well all be true in the real world - but not on fab! Fab isn’t ‘real’ it’s a temporary (for many singles), transient world of fantasy sex!
Most of us don’t seek on here what we can easily find in the real world - why would we?
Hence young guys seek to meet much older women than they’d ever realistically have a relationship with - and vice versa!
The advantage of doing this on fab instead of the real world is that - hopefully - both parties know where they stand and nobody gets hurt! Both leave with a big grin and some great memories!
I can honestly say I’ve never bankrolled a young guy and never would - paying (or being paid) for sex in any form definitely isn’t my thing!
On fab - for instance - I often meet guys who never miss a day at the gym - whereas in a relationship that would put me off somewhat! See what I mean op?
But yes - you’re an attractive chap and - if you’re a nice guy as well - I’m sure many women would be willing to meet you and/or have a relationship with you!
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All of them by this guy lol
He's got a talent for getting peoples knickers in a bunch loln"Never fails does it? How much of what I say is true? None of you actually know | |||
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All of them by this guy lol
He's got a talent for getting peoples knickers in a bunch loln
Never fails does it?
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I was chased by a lot of guys I their 20's and 30's on the dating sites and actually the younger ones I agreed to meet were really enthusiastic and lively without a shred of arrogance, even the male models, so maybe that's it, she likes their lack of guile?
Now I prefer someone nearer my own age even off fab because the social side it's equally important to the sex, I like to go out on the town, and with someone playful who doesn't take themselves too seriously to have fun! | |||
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All of them by this guy lol
He's got a talent for getting peoples knickers in a bunch loln
Never fails does it?
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It amuses me "Beats watching Jeremy Kyle all day. | |||
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"I'm terrible at predicting which threads will go sideways
All of them by this guy lol
He's got a talent for getting peoples knickers in a bunch loln
Never fails does it?
How much of what I say is true? None of you actually know "You used to annoy me but now I've worked it out you're kind of OK lol | |||
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"You're too young for me, OP. I prefer to meet people the same age so we have the same cultural references (I like to talk as well as fuck). Idiotic comment, sorry. Later today I’m visiting a fuck buddy/friend of mine whose a doctor... As such, I reckon she can talk just about as well as she can fuck... That’s before I get onto my qualifications.
What is idiotic about her comment?
Based purely on reading your forum posts you come across as arrogant, privileged and superior to all others. I think if this lady is a forumite she may think the same, and her get out was your age rather than facing the consequences of turning you down
I probably am superior to most on here, in almost all respects.
I didn’t particularly like the suggestion that I/we can’t talk as well as fuck.
Two law degrees, one medical doctorate between us says she and I can talk just about as well as we can fuck.
Yes you're young, good looking, physically fit, but you're absolutely not superior to anyone on here or anywhere else.
For an self proclaimed intelligent man with a degree you totally missed her point about cultural references.
She meant that someone so much younger would not have much in common to talk about, not that 35 year olds are incapable of talking. I know this as the meets ive had are not as fullfilling with men much younger than me, and its never the sex thats been the problem.
Don’t patronise me. I know fully well what she meant.
You’ve (both?) missed the point of my OP of the thread which was to say she was only two years older than me... and I’m 35 so hardly a spring chicken.
Sapiophile then felt the need to swim in and say she needs people her own age to be able to “fuck as well as walk”.
I find that incredibly patronising...
Surprise surprise if the person is intelligent/erudite enough I can usually find common ground... "If you knew what she meant then why pick up on the part of the comment that clearly wasnt meant in the way you took it, nor was it the main point? You're deliberately being provocative, patronising, and condescending to many on here but freely throw insults around to those challenging your own poor behaviour. You reap what you sow, and i stand by what many others have said, your age was not the reason she dared to turn you down, it was your online persona. | |||
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I was chased by a lot of guys I their 20's and 30's on the dating sites and actually the younger ones I agreed to meet were really enthusiastic and lively without a shred of arrogance, even the male models, so maybe that's it, she likes their lack of guile?
Now I prefer someone nearer my own age even off fab because the social side it's equally important to the sex, I like to go out on the town, and with someone playful who doesn't take themselves too seriously to have fun! "Pm me please. I’d like to have a chat... | |||
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"What age range do most single women on here aim for? I was binned off earlier by a 38yo for being “too old” - I’m 35. I respect that was her preference (and if she reads this, I have no issue with it, it’s your preference, you were perfectly polite and we parted on respectful terms), but just curious as it’s not something I’ve ever encountered before. At 35 I’m into my dating/shagging prime as a bloke, or so I thought... Did her veris show all younger men? If not you were fobbed off, probably for the self-importance, it's tiresome. The guys I met at your age were all better looking than you and had more true confidence - the kind that comes with humility and kindness!!
I was chased by a lot of guys I their 20's and 30's on the dating sites and actually the younger ones I agreed to meet were really enthusiastic and lively without a shred of arrogance, even the male models, so maybe that's it, she likes their lack of guile?
Now I prefer someone nearer my own age even off fab because the social side it's equally important to the sex, I like to go out on the town, and with someone playful who doesn't take themselves too seriously to have fun! "but he's in his shagging prime cut him a break | |||
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I was chased by a lot of guys I their 20's and 30's on the dating sites and actually the younger ones I agreed to meet were really enthusiastic and lively without a shred of arrogance, even the male models, so maybe that's it, she likes their lack of guile?
Now I prefer someone nearer my own age even off fab because the social side it's equally important to the sex, I like to go out on the town, and with someone playful who doesn't take themselves too seriously to have fun!
Pm me please. I’d like to have a chat... "Later, those horses won't ride themselves lol! | |||
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"What age range do most single women on here aim for? I was binned off earlier by a 38yo for being “too old” - I’m 35. I respect that was her preference (and if she reads this, I have no issue with it, it’s your preference, you were perfectly polite and we parted on respectful terms), but just curious as it’s not something I’ve ever encountered before. At 35 I’m into my dating/shagging prime as a bloke, or so I thought... Did her veris show all younger men? If not you were fobbed off, probably for the self-importance, it's tiresome. The guys I met at your age were all better looking than you and had more true confidence - the kind that comes with humility and kindness!!
I was chased by a lot of guys I their 20's and 30's on the dating sites and actually the younger ones I agreed to meet were really enthusiastic and lively without a shred of arrogance, even the male models, so maybe that's it, she likes their lack of guile?
Now I prefer someone nearer my own age even off fab because the social side it's equally important to the sex, I like to go out on the town, and with someone playful who doesn't take themselves too seriously to have fun!
Pm me please. I’d like to have a chat...
Later, those horses won't ride themselves lol! "You keep riding me at the moment: I’d like to have a private chat to clear the air rather than continuing a public slagging match... That’s the grown up way of dealing with things... | |||
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Try being told you’re too old, in your mid 30s, as a bloke, by a woman whose older than you.
I've been told a couple of times by couples that I'm too young.
I was told by a couple that they “were offended” when I politely rejected them yesterday.
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Try being told you’re too old, in your mid 30s, as a bloke, by a woman whose older than you.
I've been told a couple of times by couples that I'm too young.
I was told by a couple that they “were offended” when I politely rejected them yesterday.
They were my parents’ age FFS .
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Try being told you’re too old, in your mid 30s, as a bloke, by a woman whose older than you.
I've been told a couple of times by couples that I'm too young.
I was told by a couple that they “were offended” when I politely rejected them yesterday.
They were my parents’ age FFS .
White, it WAS my parents. "I’m sure that’s a joke. At least I hope so, for your sake . | |||
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Try being told you’re too old, in your mid 30s, as a bloke, by a woman whose older than you.
I've been told a couple of times by couples that I'm too young.
I was told by a couple that they “were offended” when I politely rejected them yesterday.
They were my parents’ age FFS .
White, it WAS my parents.
I’m sure that’s a joke.
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Try being told you’re too old, in your mid 30s, as a bloke, by a woman whose older than you.
I've been told a couple of times by couples that I'm too young.
I was told by a couple that they “were offended” when I politely rejected them yesterday.
They were my parents’ age FFS .
White, it WAS my parents.
I’m sure that’s a joke.
At least I hope so, for your sake .
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"I've got to be honest my cut off age is 25 - 45 I'm looking for someone a similar age to myself I wouldn't actually rule out older but definitely wouldn't do younger. The problem with fab is people lie about their age so someone that's 55 still making out they're 45 and really not getting away with it what do they think you'll change your mind when you meet them
Try being told you’re too old, in your mid 30s, as a bloke, by a woman whose older than you.
I've been told a couple of times by couples that I'm too young.
I was told by a couple that they “were offended” when I politely rejected them yesterday.
They were my parents’ age FFS .
White, it WAS my parents.
I’m sure that’s a joke.
At least I hope so, for your sake .
It wouldn't surprise me if it was. its not unusual on here to call folk daddy "I guess I’m a fairly conservative man (when I’m not womanising). That’s shocking to me! | |||
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Try being told you’re too old, in your mid 30s, as a bloke, by a woman whose older than you.
I've been told a couple of times by couples that I'm too young.
I was told by a couple that they “were offended” when I politely rejected them yesterday.
They were my parents’ age FFS .
White, it WAS my parents.
I’m sure that’s a joke.
At least I hope so, for your sake .
It wouldn't surprise me if it was. its not unusual on here to call folk daddy
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