FabSwingers.com forum: Is it ok to ask for an ego boost?

By *othrockercpl OP Couple
over a year ago

Halloween Town

So I'm in a rut at the moment.

I exercise twice a day, half hour a time, have bread no more than once a week, pasta once a fortnight and a pretty well balanced diet.

But I feel utterly shit about it.

Even dropping from a 22-24 to an 18-20 doesn't make me feel any better.

I don't see the weight loss.

All I see is bum, tum and the creep of bingo wings.

I dance a lot, I run around wearing leather and metal armour swinging weapons, I walk a lot.

But I don't feel better about it.

But I don't know if it's OK to ask for an ego boost.

Am I allowed to say "someone other than Mr GR tell me I'm pretty".

Am I allowed to say "someone tell me I look alright and not just because you want to fuck a fat chick".

Because at the moment I really need some kind of pick me up.

Tldr: May I be vain for a few moments please.

Ms GR

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooh we need to see you with your weapons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Measure yourself weekly, and take progress pics, same pose and outfit each week. What you’ve acheived is fantastic!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I'm in a rut at the moment.

I exercise twice a day, half hour a time, have bread no more than once a week, pasta once a fortnight and a pretty well balanced diet.

But I feel utterly shit about it.

Even dropping from a 22-24 to an 18-20 doesn't make me feel any better.

I don't see the weight loss.

All I see is bum, tum and the creep of bingo wings.

I dance a lot, I run around wearing leather and metal armour swinging weapons, I walk a lot.

But I don't feel better about it.

But I don't know if it's OK to ask for an ego boost.

Am I allowed to say "someone other than Mr GR tell me I'm pretty".

Am I allowed to say "someone tell me I look alright and not just because you want to fuck a fat chick".

Because at the moment I really need some kind of pick me up.

Tldr: May I be vain for a few moments please.

Ms GR "

I think sometimes after weight loss or any change to your body, its hard to see the changes on yourself, still seeing the "old" you in the mirror.

Regardless, I think you're gorgeous.

L x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely take pics OP. It can be difficult to see the difference in a mirror. Also keep the biggest outfit you had, to compare new ones with.

I don't want to shag ya and I think you look great! (- Not just saying that for a shag x)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Definitely take pics OP. It can be difficult to see the difference in a mirror. Also keep the biggest outfit you had, to compare new ones with.

I don't want to shag ya and I think you look great! (- Not just saying that for a shag x)

Totally agree.

At my biggest I was a size 16, I'm now 8-10 but still have days where I look in the mirror and think I'm putting it back on, despite my clothes telling me different. We don't always see what's in front of us.

P x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Definitely take pics OP. It can be difficult to see the difference in a mirror. Also keep the biggest outfit you had, to compare new ones with.

I don't want to shag ya and I think you look great! (- Not just saying that for a shag x)

Totally agree.

P x"

Everyone has days where they feel 'fat'. Even very slim people.

Many people don't realise this. Congrats on the loss.

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By *orksRockerMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I think you look awesome lady. Wow indeed!

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