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Do women like to be kept on their toes ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It’s okay to pay a woman a compliment now and again, like those crocs match your eyes etc. But to much fawning over the lady and she becomes blasé to it, so every now and again disappear for a while and don’t tell where you’ve been. Or maybe tell her, her arse looks big. Gotta keep them guessing, women like a mysterious man.

The biggest turn off for a lady is a needy man and they love to be kept on their toes, they like to wonder what you’re up to and what you’re going to do next.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My crocs must clash with my eyes, I've never received that compliment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shush.

Don’t tell them all.

Lacey thinks I’m unique.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My crocs must clash with my eyes, I've never received that compliment. "

Your eyes are like deep wells of desire, once in your arms, I’m a survivor.

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By *ememberTheNameMan
over a year ago

barnsley


"It’s okay to pay a woman a compliment now and again, like those crocs match your eyes etc. But to much fawning over the lady and she becomes blasé to it, so every now and again disappear for a while and don’t tell where you’ve been. Or maybe tell her, her arse looks big. Gotta keep them guessing, women like a mysterious man.

The biggest turn off for a lady is a needy man and they love to be kept on their toes, they like to wonder what you’re up to and what you’re going to do next.

Like zoro the masked mysterious man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask trout head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My crocs must clash with my eyes, I've never received that compliment.

Your eyes are like deep wells of desire, once in your arms, I’m a survivor. "

Can lend ya my creaky work boots! Help you score there matey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ask trout head "

Trout head...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My crocs must clash with my eyes, I've never received that compliment.

Your eyes are like deep wells of desire, once in your arms, I’m a survivor. "

'Heaven sent', thats what I call you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ask trout head

Trout head... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ask trout head

Trout head... "

Who?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ask trout head

Trout head...

Who? "
t r o u t h e a d

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

no to old for silly games

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ask trout head

Trout head... "

Personally hate feet.. no toes required.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Shush.

Don’t tell them all.

Lacey thinks I’m unique.

"

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean


"My crocs must clash with my eyes, I've never received that compliment.

Your eyes are like deep wells of desire, once in your arms, I’m a survivor. "

Your eyes are like petals.... bicycle pedals that go round and round and round......

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By *he Secret Tea PartyCouple
over a year ago

London


"My crocs must clash with my eyes, I've never received that compliment.

Your eyes are like deep wells of desire, once in your arms, I’m a survivor.

Your eyes are like petals.... bicycle pedals that go round and round and round...... "

Your eyes are like pools.... football pools (there is an age limit for this bit to work)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My crocs must clash with my eyes, I've never received that compliment.

Your eyes are like deep wells of desire, once in your arms, I’m a survivor.

'Heaven sent', thats what I call you."

She knows.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s okay to pay a woman a compliment now and again, like those crocs match your eyes etc. But to much fawning over the lady and she becomes blasé to it, so every now and again disappear for a while and don’t tell where you’ve been. Or maybe tell her, her arse looks big. Gotta keep them guessing, women like a mysterious man.

The biggest turn off for a lady is a needy man and they love to be kept on their toes, they like to wonder what you’re up to and what you’re going to do next.

I haven't really got time for the guessing game. From my viewpoint either show you dig or its assumed that there is no interest

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Absolutely not. There aren't only two options of asshole or needy. It's unattractive if a man has no life away from you or hassles you for attention. It's also unattractive if men play games, insult you or lie/keep secrets.

What's attractive is a man who is respectful and makes an effort but also has other interests and a social life away from you so isn't always available because he has genuine plans, not because he's decided to ignore you to "keep you keen". Games like that are for boys not men.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Absolutely not. There aren't only two options of asshole or needy. It's unattractive if a man has no life away from you or hassles you for attention. It's also unattractive if men play games, insult you or lie/keep secrets.

What's attractive is a man who is respectful and makes an effort but also has other interests and a social life away from you so isn't always available because he has genuine plans, not because he's decided to ignore you to "keep you keen". Games like that are for boys not men."

You listening to this gents, this was the point I was trying to make, in a totally different way.

*takes notes*

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Absolutely not. There aren't only two options of asshole or needy. It's unattractive if a man has no life away from you or hassles you for attention. It's also unattractive if men play games, insult you or lie/keep secrets.

What's attractive is a man who is respectful and makes an effort but also has other interests and a social life away from you so isn't always available because he has genuine plans, not because he's decided to ignore you to "keep you keen". Games like that are for boys not men."
Eloquently put

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Absolutely not. There aren't only two options of asshole or needy. It's unattractive if a man has no life away from you or hassles you for attention. It's also unattractive if men play games, insult you or lie/keep secrets.

What's attractive is a man who is respectful and makes an effort but also has other interests and a social life away from you so isn't always available because he has genuine plans, not because he's decided to ignore you to "keep you keen". Games like that are for boys not men.

You listening to this gents, this was the point I was trying to make, in a totally different way.

*takes notes*"

Good job for women eh, nothing would ever be explained right

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Absolutely not. There aren't only two options of asshole or needy. It's unattractive if a man has no life away from you or hassles you for attention. It's also unattractive if men play games, insult you or lie/keep secrets.

What's attractive is a man who is respectful and makes an effort but also has other interests and a social life away from you so isn't always available because he has genuine plans, not because he's decided to ignore you to "keep you keen". Games like that are for boys not men. Eloquently put "

I know. She’s shown me up for the idiot I am, I have so much to learn.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Absolutely not. There aren't only two options of asshole or needy. It's unattractive if a man has no life away from you or hassles you for attention. It's also unattractive if men play games, insult you or lie/keep secrets.

What's attractive is a man who is respectful and makes an effort but also has other interests and a social life away from you so isn't always available because he has genuine plans, not because he's decided to ignore you to "keep you keen". Games like that are for boys not men. Eloquently put

I know. She’s shown me up for the idiot I am, I have so much to learn. "
Women are like cats, they need space from time to time. They will come back though if you don't chase them away.

What they say in the moment isn't always true either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you not seen the size of the heels they wear just to be kept on their toes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Absolutely not. There aren't only two options of asshole or needy. It's unattractive if a man has no life away from you or hassles you for attention. It's also unattractive if men play games, insult you or lie/keep secrets.

What's attractive is a man who is respectful and makes an effort but also has other interests and a social life away from you so isn't always available because he has genuine plans, not because he's decided to ignore you to "keep you keen". Games like that are for boys not men. Eloquently put

I know. She’s shown me up for the idiot I am, I have so much to learn. Women are like cats, they need space from time to time. They will come back though if you don't chase them away.

What they say in the moment isn't always true either. "

They also knock cups off of shelf’s while staring at you, just like cats do.

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By *969BewitchedWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Absolutely not. There aren't only two options of asshole or needy. It's unattractive if a man has no life away from you or hassles you for attention. It's also unattractive if men play games, insult you or lie/keep secrets.

What's attractive is a man who is respectful and makes an effort but also has other interests and a social life away from you so isn't always available because he has genuine plans, not because he's decided to ignore you to "keep you keen". Games like that are for boys not men."

ABSOLUTELY THIS !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Absolutely not. There aren't only two options of asshole or needy. It's unattractive if a man has no life away from you or hassles you for attention. It's also unattractive if men play games, insult you or lie/keep secrets.

What's attractive is a man who is respectful and makes an effort but also has other interests and a social life away from you so isn't always available because he has genuine plans, not because he's decided to ignore you to "keep you keen". Games like that are for boys not men."

Well said!! What's the point of playing games? The whole treat em mean, keep em keen routine really doesn't work!...we will get bored and move on!!

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire


"Absolutely not. There aren't only two options of asshole or needy. It's unattractive if a man has no life away from you or hassles you for attention. It's also unattractive if men play games, insult you or lie/keep secrets.

What's attractive is a man who is respectful and makes an effort but also has other interests and a social life away from you so isn't always available because he has genuine plans, not because he's decided to ignore you to "keep you keen". Games like that are for boys not men."

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Have you not seen the size of the heels they wear just to be kept on their toes "

Big enough to give guys a complex

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Absolutely not. There aren't only two options of asshole or needy. It's unattractive if a man has no life away from you or hassles you for attention. It's also unattractive if men play games, insult you or lie/keep secrets.

What's attractive is a man who is respectful and makes an effort but also has other interests and a social life away from you so isn't always available because he has genuine plans, not because he's decided to ignore you to "keep you keen". Games like that are for boys not men.

Well said!! What's the point of playing games? The whole treat em mean, keep em keen routine really doesn't work!...we will get bored and move on!! "

If I had a drawing board, I’d go back to it.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry


"Absolutely not. There aren't only two options of asshole or needy. It's unattractive if a man has no life away from you or hassles you for attention. It's also unattractive if men play games, insult you or lie/keep secrets.

What's attractive is a man who is respectful and makes an effort but also has other interests and a social life away from you so isn't always available because he has genuine plans, not because he's decided to ignore you to "keep you keen". Games like that are for boys not men."

Agree. This is why men always need at least one hobby they are passionate about and possibly a shed and/or garage.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Absolutely not. There aren't only two options of asshole or needy. It's unattractive if a man has no life away from you or hassles you for attention. It's also unattractive if men play games, insult you or lie/keep secrets.

What's attractive is a man who is respectful and makes an effort but also has other interests and a social life away from you so isn't always available because he has genuine plans, not because he's decided to ignore you to "keep you keen". Games like that are for boys not men.

Agree. This is why men always need at least one hobby they are passionate about and possibly a shed and/or garage."

What if your hobby is women ?

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I like to be kept in the manner I am accustomed to

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Absolutely not. There aren't only two options of asshole or needy. It's unattractive if a man has no life away from you or hassles you for attention. It's also unattractive if men play games, insult you or lie/keep secrets.

What's attractive is a man who is respectful and makes an effort but also has other interests and a social life away from you so isn't always available because he has genuine plans, not because he's decided to ignore you to "keep you keen". Games like that are for boys not men.

Agree. This is why men always need at least one hobby they are passionate about and possibly a shed and/or garage.

What if your hobby is women ? "
If you're not in a relationship, you have a few on the go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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They also knock cups off of shelf’s while staring at you, just like cats do. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I don’t like to be kept on my toes. It makes me anxious and scared.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, I don’t like to be kept on my toes. It makes me anxious and scared. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, I don’t like to be kept on my toes. It makes me anxious and scared. "

I like to be challenged mentally but I don’t like games, so feel the same as you with the whole ‘kept on my toes’ thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you not seen the size of the heels they wear just to be kept on their toes

Big enough to give guys a complex "

I'm of average height, no complex here

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"It’s okay to pay a woman a compliment now and again, like those crocs match your eyes etc. But to much fawning over the lady and she becomes blasé to it, so every now and again disappear for a while and don’t tell where you’ve been. Or maybe tell her, her arse looks big. Gotta keep them guessing, women like a mysterious man.

The biggest turn off for a lady is a needy man and they love to be kept on their toes, they like to wonder what you’re up to and what you’re going to do next.

"

I think you’ve been reading the wrong book OP (as usual )

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village


"It’s okay to pay a woman a compliment now and again, like those crocs match your eyes etc. But to much fawning over the lady and she becomes blasé to it, so every now and again disappear for a while and don’t tell where you’ve been. Or maybe tell her, her arse looks big. Gotta keep them guessing, women like a mysterious man.

The biggest turn off for a lady is a needy man and they love to be kept on their toes, they like to wonder what you’re up to and what you’re going to do next.

"

Sounds like mind games to me so I'd be off to find someone else to chat too pretty sharpish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s okay to pay a woman a compliment now and again, like those crocs match your eyes etc. But to much fawning over the lady and she becomes blasé to it, so every now and again disappear for a while and don’t tell where you’ve been. Or maybe tell her, her arse looks big. Gotta keep them guessing, women like a mysterious man.

The biggest turn off for a lady is a needy man and they love to be kept on their toes, they like to wonder what you’re up to and what you’re going to do next.

"

I know this isn't serious but, amazingly, I do agree with parts of it. Fawning and needy are bad, but there'd be no need to jump straight to being an asshole to avoid them. Give me a bit of ribbing and realistic observations any day over sycophantism.

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

I prefer needy guys and a lot of attention. I'm also open and honest coz i like to know where i stand with people. Can't stand guys who are flakey or inconsisent and they're a red flag to me.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Yeah, being kept on my toes makes me antsy. It's a shitty feeling so no ta.

Give me a man who doesn't take himself too seriously though. That's always a good thing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yeah, being kept on my toes makes me antsy. It's a shitty feeling so no ta.

Give me a man who doesn't take himself too seriously though. That's always a good thing.

"

I’ve got that one covered.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love to be kept on my toes...when I’m looking up and kissing him

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It’s okay to pay a woman a compliment now and again, like those crocs match your eyes etc. But to much fawning over the lady and she becomes blasé to it, so every now and again disappear for a while and don’t tell where you’ve been. Or maybe tell her, her arse looks big. Gotta keep them guessing, women like a mysterious man.

The biggest turn off for a lady is a needy man and they love to be kept on their toes, they like to wonder what you’re up to and what you’re going to do next.

I know this isn't serious but, amazingly, I do agree with parts of it. Fawning and needy are bad, but there'd be no need to jump straight to being an asshole to avoid them. Give me a bit of ribbing and realistic observations any day over sycophantism."

Think this is what I meant in a roundabout way, I like a bit of back and forth piss taking, just paying compliments can get very saccharine quickly. Is that the word, I dunno.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s okay to pay a woman a compliment now and again, like those crocs match your eyes etc. But to much fawning over the lady and she becomes blasé to it, so every now and again disappear for a while and don’t tell where you’ve been. Or maybe tell her, her arse looks big. Gotta keep them guessing, women like a mysterious man.

The biggest turn off for a lady is a needy man and they love to be kept on their toes, they like to wonder what you’re up to and what you’re going to do next.

I know this isn't serious but, amazingly, I do agree with parts of it. Fawning and needy are bad, but there'd be no need to jump straight to being an asshole to avoid them. Give me a bit of ribbing and realistic observations any day over sycophantism.

Think this is what I meant in a roundabout way, I like a bit of back and forth piss taking, just paying compliments can get very saccharine quickly. Is that the word, I dunno. "

Think you're spot on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When my LTP pays me a compliment I know he's not talking bollocks or trying to keep me sweet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Treat Em mean, keep Em keen. That's what they say.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It’s okay to pay a woman a compliment now and again, like those crocs match your eyes etc. But to much fawning over the lady and she becomes blasé to it, so every now and again disappear for a while and don’t tell where you’ve been. Or maybe tell her, her arse looks big. Gotta keep them guessing, women like a mysterious man.

The biggest turn off for a lady is a needy man and they love to be kept on their toes, they like to wonder what you’re up to and what you’re going to do next.

I know this isn't serious but, amazingly, I do agree with parts of it. Fawning and needy are bad, but there'd be no need to jump straight to being an asshole to avoid them. Give me a bit of ribbing and realistic observations any day over sycophantism.

Think this is what I meant in a roundabout way, I like a bit of back and forth piss taking, just paying compliments can get very saccharine quickly. Is that the word, I dunno.

Think you're spot on "

Thank you

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By *s_bettyboopWoman
over a year ago

-3

Your arse looks big is a compliment nowadays ain't it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'those crocs match your eyes' hahaha

You made my day !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Treat Em mean, keep Em keen. That's what they say."

‘They’ might say it. It would be a massive ‘Whatever’ from many of us and a draft from the door on our way out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s okay to pay a woman a compliment now and again, like those crocs match your eyes etc. But to much fawning over the lady and she becomes blasé to it, so every now and again disappear for a while and don’t tell where you’ve been. Or maybe tell her, her arse looks big. Gotta keep them guessing, women like a mysterious man.

The biggest turn off for a lady is a needy man and they love to be kept on their toes, they like to wonder what you’re up to and what you’re going to do next.

I know this isn't serious but, amazingly, I do agree with parts of it. Fawning and needy are bad, but there'd be no need to jump straight to being an asshole to avoid them. Give me a bit of ribbing and realistic observations any day over sycophantism."

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