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By *layfullsam OP   Man
over a year ago

Solihull

What has fab taught you that you didn't know before joining ?

It can be something lighthearted and fun or serious.

I'll start with women can be just as filthy minded as men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I am seriously vanilla compared to most folk on here - there’s many many different kinks I didn’t even know about

Also learnt that I like a couple of those kinks..

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

There are some great people with an amazing sense of humour out there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That I am seriously vanilla compared to most folk on here - there’s many many different kinks I didn’t even know about

Also learnt that I like a couple of those kinks.."

Same here. And all the new terms.... Thank the tao for megamind that is Google

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How much pleasurable fun sharing is. Also how daring and naughty MissJ can be when the mood takes her.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

There are people out there who like sex the way I've always fantasised about it. I've found my people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Predictably the same.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

Being on FAB has taught me that .... has taught meeeeee........ dunno... nuttin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All of the above!! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not all men are as straight as they seem

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By *layfullsam OP   Man
over a year ago

Solihull


"Not all men are as straight as they seem "

Are they fab straight

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

That a ‘meet’ can be a person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1. That I am attracted to individuals regardless of their gender

2. The erotic possibilities of the arsehole

3. By editing photos you can create the equivalent of a silk purse out of a sow’s ear

4. I’m capable of very long periods of sexual abstinence

5. If I acted on the opportunities I could become seriously kinky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not all men are as straight as they seem

Are they fab straight "

A few are really fab

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By *hite1100Man
over a year ago

Hither Green


"What has fab taught you that you didn't know before joining ?

It can be something lighthearted and fun or serious.

I'll start with women can be just as filthy minded as men "

I’ve come to realise I’m better educated than the majority on here.

I didn’t know that before I joined (although I suspected it).

Does that count? It seems relevant to the thread title.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"What has fab taught you that you didn't know before joining ?

It can be something lighthearted and fun or serious.

I'll start with women can be just as filthy minded as men

I’ve come to realise I’m better educated than the majority on here.

I didn’t know that before I joined (although I suspected it).

Does that count? It seems relevant to the thread title. "

Some people get up in arms about mentioning things like that.

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By *hite1100Man
over a year ago

Hither Green


"What has fab taught you that you didn't know before joining ?

It can be something lighthearted and fun or serious.

I'll start with women can be just as filthy minded as men

I’ve come to realise I’m better educated than the majority on here.

I didn’t know that before I joined (although I suspected it).

Does that count? It seems relevant to the thread title.

Some people get up in arms about mentioning things like that. "

People on here get up in arms about pretty much everything. May as well have a giggle.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"What has fab taught you that you didn't know before joining ?

It can be something lighthearted and fun or serious.

I'll start with women can be just as filthy minded as men

I’ve come to realise I’m better educated than the majority on here.

I didn’t know that before I joined (although I suspected it).

Does that count? It seems relevant to the thread title.

Some people get up in arms about mentioning things like that.

People on here get up in arms about pretty much everything. May as well have a giggle. "

True. I have it tucked in my profile and get a reasonable amount of crap for it. I'm not a snob, I just can't hide it and best to warn people.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

That I don’t need to be a size 10 to be attractive

I’ve learned to love my body

That there are some great people on here who will lead you places you never thought possible.

There are people who who only want you when they want something.

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By *hite1100Man
over a year ago

Hither Green


"What has fab taught you that you didn't know before joining ?

It can be something lighthearted and fun or serious.

I'll start with women can be just as filthy minded as men

I’ve come to realise I’m better educated than the majority on here.

I didn’t know that before I joined (although I suspected it).

Does that count? It seems relevant to the thread title.

Some people get up in arms about mentioning things like that.

People on here get up in arms about pretty much everything. May as well have a giggle.

True. I have it tucked in my profile and get a reasonable amount of crap for it. I'm not a snob, I just can't hide it and best to warn people. "

I could tell you were already from the way you write. If people give you crap, they are self selecting themselves for you .

Haters gonna hate x

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By *bonynivoryCouple
over a year ago

market harborough


"What has fab taught you that you didn't know before joining ?

It can be something lighthearted and fun or serious.

I'll start with women can be just as filthy minded as men

I’ve come to realise I’m better educated than the majority on here.

I didn’t know that before I joined (although I suspected it).

Does that count? It seems relevant to the thread title. "

Very relevant. Though it seems that being well educated is one of those looked down upon things on this site by some.

Mrs

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

liverpool wavertree picton clock


"What has fab taught you that you didn't know before joining ?

It can be something lighthearted and fun or serious.

I'll start with women can be just as filthy minded as men

I’ve come to realise I’m better educated than the majority on here.

I didn’t know that before I joined (although I suspected it).

Does that count? It seems relevant to the thread title.

Very relevant. Though it seems that being well educated is one of those looked down upon things on this site by some.

Mrs"

Most definitely , I got a time out yesterday for trying to help someone

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By *hite1100Man
over a year ago

Hither Green


"What has fab taught you that you didn't know before joining ?

It can be something lighthearted and fun or serious.

I'll start with women can be just as filthy minded as men

I’ve come to realise I’m better educated than the majority on here.

I didn’t know that before I joined (although I suspected it).

Does that count? It seems relevant to the thread title.

Very relevant. Though it seems that being well educated is one of those looked down upon things on this site by some.

Mrs"

Fab seems to be a kind of inverted world where characteristics like being intelligent, being attractive, being a healthy weight etc., which are generally considered positive in the real world, are looked down upon, mocked and derided on here.

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

liverpool wavertree picton clock


"What has fab taught you that you didn't know before joining ?

It can be something lighthearted and fun or serious.

I'll start with women can be just as filthy minded as men

I’ve come to realise I’m better educated than the majority on here.

I didn’t know that before I joined (although I suspected it).

Does that count? It seems relevant to the thread title.

Very relevant. Though it seems that being well educated is one of those looked down upon things on this site by some.

Mrs

Fab seems to be a kind of inverted world where characteristics like being intelligent, being attractive, being a healthy weight etc., which are generally considered positive in the real world, are looked down upon, mocked and derided on here. "

Just laugh at it

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By *idlandiaMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

That serious patience is required.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"What has fab taught you that you didn't know before joining ?

It can be something lighthearted and fun or serious.

I'll start with women can be just as filthy minded as men

I’ve come to realise I’m better educated than the majority on here.

I didn’t know that before I joined (although I suspected it).

Does that count? It seems relevant to the thread title.

Very relevant. Though it seems that being well educated is one of those looked down upon things on this site by some.

Mrs

Fab seems to be a kind of inverted world where characteristics like being intelligent, being attractive, being a healthy weight etc., which are generally considered positive in the real world, are looked down upon, mocked and derided on here. "

As someone who's long struggled with her weight, I think things like body positivity can be fantastic. Yes I could stand to lose quite a bit. But hating myself makes it worse. I think ditto any other attribute that attracts social stigma. It's irritating that I'm finally losing weight now I've stopped caring!

It can definitely go too far, though.

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By *hite1100Man
over a year ago

Hither Green


"What has fab taught you that you didn't know before joining ?

It can be something lighthearted and fun or serious.

I'll start with women can be just as filthy minded as men

I’ve come to realise I’m better educated than the majority on here.

I didn’t know that before I joined (although I suspected it).

Does that count? It seems relevant to the thread title.

Very relevant. Though it seems that being well educated is one of those looked down upon things on this site by some.

Mrs

Fab seems to be a kind of inverted world where characteristics like being intelligent, being attractive, being a healthy weight etc., which are generally considered positive in the real world, are looked down upon, mocked and derided on here.

Just laugh at it "

Oh I do. It’s highly entertaining .

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

liverpool wavertree picton clock


"What has fab taught you that you didn't know before joining ?

It can be something lighthearted and fun or serious.

I'll start with women can be just as filthy minded as men

I’ve come to realise I’m better educated than the majority on here.

I didn’t know that before I joined (although I suspected it).

Does that count? It seems relevant to the thread title.

Very relevant. Though it seems that being well educated is one of those looked down upon things on this site by some.

Mrs

Fab seems to be a kind of inverted world where characteristics like being intelligent, being attractive, being a healthy weight etc., which are generally considered positive in the real world, are looked down upon, mocked and derided on here.

Just laugh at it

Oh I do. It’s highly entertaining . "

Not half

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire


"1. That I am attracted to individuals regardless of their gender

2. The erotic possibilities of the arsehole

3. By editing photos you can create the equivalent of a silk purse out of a sow’s ear

4. I’m capable of very long periods of sexual abstinence

5. If I acted on the opportunities I could become seriously kinky"

I definitely agree with no.3. I'm still chuckling to myself...

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By *hite1100Man
over a year ago

Hither Green


"What has fab taught you that you didn't know before joining ?

It can be something lighthearted and fun or serious.

I'll start with women can be just as filthy minded as men

I’ve come to realise I’m better educated than the majority on here.

I didn’t know that before I joined (although I suspected it).

Does that count? It seems relevant to the thread title.

Very relevant. Though it seems that being well educated is one of those looked down upon things on this site by some.

Mrs

Fab seems to be a kind of inverted world where characteristics like being intelligent, being attractive, being a healthy weight etc., which are generally considered positive in the real world, are looked down upon, mocked and derided on here.

As someone who's long struggled with her weight, I think things like body positivity can be fantastic. Yes I could stand to lose quite a bit. But hating myself makes it worse. I think ditto any other attribute that attracts social stigma. It's irritating that I'm finally losing weight now I've stopped caring!

It can definitely go too far, though. "

So long as body positivity doesn’t extend to stigmatising those of a healthy weight (as it frequently does on here) I agree.

If we are anti body-shaming that should apply equally to all body types.

Good for you for doing that .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What has fab taught you that you didn't know before joining ?

It can be something lighthearted and fun or serious.

I'll start with women can be just as filthy minded as men

I’ve come to realise I’m better educated than the majority on here.

I didn’t know that before I joined (although I suspected it).

Does that count? It seems relevant to the thread title.

Very relevant. Though it seems that being well educated is one of those looked down upon things on this site by some.

Mrs

Fab seems to be a kind of inverted world where characteristics like being intelligent, being attractive, being a healthy weight etc., which are generally considered positive in the real world, are looked down upon, mocked and derided on here. "

Absolutely right , if I was lucky enough to have all those attributes I probably wouldn't bother with fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've learnt that some people just want to argue for the sake of it, and sarcasm is lost on some people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone tells you they don't fart then they are always holding back

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"What has fab taught you that you didn't know before joining ?

It can be something lighthearted and fun or serious.

I'll start with women can be just as filthy minded as men

I’ve come to realise I’m better educated than the majority on here.

I didn’t know that before I joined (although I suspected it).

Does that count? It seems relevant to the thread title.

Very relevant. Though it seems that being well educated is one of those looked down upon things on this site by some.

Mrs

Fab seems to be a kind of inverted world where characteristics like being intelligent, being attractive, being a healthy weight etc., which are generally considered positive in the real world, are looked down upon, mocked and derided on here.

As someone who's long struggled with her weight, I think things like body positivity can be fantastic. Yes I could stand to lose quite a bit. But hating myself makes it worse. I think ditto any other attribute that attracts social stigma. It's irritating that I'm finally losing weight now I've stopped caring!

It can definitely go too far, though.

So long as body positivity doesn’t extend to stigmatising those of a healthy weight (as it frequently does on here) I agree.

If we are anti body-shaming that should apply equally to all body types.

Good for you for doing that . "

Definitely. I only have a problem with people who aren't like me when they put me down for being different, or force the things they want onto me. (or in the case of weight in particular, treat me like I'm stupid for not being under a size X)

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By *hite1100Man
over a year ago

Hither Green


"What has fab taught you that you didn't know before joining ?

It can be something lighthearted and fun or serious.

I'll start with women can be just as filthy minded as men

I’ve come to realise I’m better educated than the majority on here.

I didn’t know that before I joined (although I suspected it).

Does that count? It seems relevant to the thread title.

Very relevant. Though it seems that being well educated is one of those looked down upon things on this site by some.

Mrs

Fab seems to be a kind of inverted world where characteristics like being intelligent, being attractive, being a healthy weight etc., which are generally considered positive in the real world, are looked down upon, mocked and derided on here.

Absolutely right , if I was lucky enough to have all those attributes I probably wouldn't bother with fab "

There are those on here who have all those attributes and plenty more besides.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

.

Sex/swinging can be a bloody minefield at times.

You can make fantastic friends in all sorts of ways.

What's seen as good sex varies massively.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I've also learned that there are guys* who do think that I'm rushing over to theirs with nothing more than "fancy a fuck love" and a postcode.

* not all guys, I'm sure women and couples do this stuff too etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

from the revolver film script.

This is because you want people to know

how good, attractive, generous, funny,

wild and clever you really are.

"Fear or revere me,

but please think I'm special."

We share an addiction.

We're approval junkies.

We're all in it for the slap on the back

and the gold watch.

The "hip, hip, hoo-fucking-rah."

Look at the clever boy

with the badge, polishing his trophy.

Shine on, you crazy diamond.

Cos we're just monkeys wrapped in suits,

begging for the approval of others.

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By *hite1100Man
over a year ago

Hither Green


"from the revolver film script.

This is because you want people to know

how good, attractive, generous, funny,

wild and clever you really are.

"Fear or revere me,

but please think I'm special."

We share an addiction.

We're approval junkies.

We're all in it for the slap on the back

and the gold watch.

The "hip, hip, hoo-fucking-rah."

Look at the clever boy

with the badge, polishing his trophy.

Shine on, you crazy diamond.

Cos we're just monkeys wrapped in suits,

begging for the approval of others."

Been to the pub?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When a cock is as wide as it is long wtf that must look weird

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By *hite1100Man
over a year ago

Hither Green


"When a cock is as wide as it is long wtf that must look weird "

You’ve got a dirty mind.

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By *orny IrishMan
over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire

I have discovered I do not have a type.

I wait to get to know people before I truly decide if I fancy them.

My taste in sex has broadened or maybe I just allowed myself to admit it.

There are some seriously coll sexy people who I like being with and 8 keep meeting more.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"If someone tells you they don't fart then they are always holding back"

Let it gooo, let it goooo

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By *layfullsam OP   Man
over a year ago

Solihull

I learned that the none sex fab forum topics are generally more fun than the sex ones

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