FabSwingers.com forum: You shouldn't have 'preferences'

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If you were a real Swinger you wouldn't have 'preferences'. You'd be happy to fuck other Swingers because that's what The Lifestyle is all about. Fucking and having fun.

Why are you on a Swinging site if you're not a Real Swinger?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But if that was the case how could I lust over you more than the average Fabber?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you were a real Swinger you wouldn't have 'preferences'. You'd be happy to fuck other Swingers because that's what The Lifestyle is all about. Fucking and having fun.

Why are you on a Swinging site if you're not a Real Swinger?"

We both fuck other swingers and have a lot of fun to boot. But we wouldn't fuck any old beast as that would mean a huge decrease on the "fun" would it not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My preference is to have preferences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you were a real Swinger you wouldn't have 'preferences'. You'd be happy to fuck other Swingers because that's what The Lifestyle is all about. Fucking and having fun.

Why are you on a Swinging site if you're not a Real Swinger?"

Be... Because I didn't eat all my vegetables

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

If you define "real" Swinger as someone who has no preferences then you're defining it wrong, we all have them in one form or another.

As someone rightly said to me earlier today "swinging" was a term originating in the 60s to describe the concept of free love.

The only "true" definition of it is the one we each hold for ourselves as individuals - and no-one defines it for us

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

OP I love your style

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont know, but dont make me leave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No idea..

Answers on a postcard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

According to some local ladies, I don't!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because i dont need to be a swinger to enjoy sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Says the lady with preferences!

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By *rwhite30Man
over a year ago

deptford London

"If you were a real Swinger you wouldn't have 'preferences'. You'd be happy to fuck other Swingers because that's what The Lifestyle is all about. Fucking and having fun.

Why are you on a Swinging site if you're not a Real Swinger?"

So if a REAL swinger you will just fuck any one, even people you dont find attractive?

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I sometimes wish I didn't have preferences, it would be so much easier.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I love the way you question everything OP

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

Wow! I wouldn’t f**k anyone on Fab that I wouldn’t f**k off it simple as that, we need attraction if getting naughty. We have been in the lifestyle for 20 years and that’s what works for us, we don’t mind if we are not classed as true swingers because of that, we just find Fab a good way of meeting people we want to enjoy fun with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love the way you question everything OP

Including being an hypocrite?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you were a real Swinger you wouldn't have 'preferences'. You'd be happy to fuck other Swingers because that's what The Lifestyle is all about. Fucking and having fun.

Why are you on a Swinging site if you're not a Real Swinger?

Be... Because I didn't eat all my vegetables

Is that a requirement?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

" OP I love your style

Sorry. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s only so many people I have time to fuck. If I don’t select using preferences how else would I do it? Length of profile name? Name in a hat?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Says the lady with preferences!

Who are you calling a lady?

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I have a preference to have sex with people, I'm actually attracted to.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I love the way you question everything OP

I have the inquisitive brain of a 2 year old.

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over a year ago

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By *ackDanielsWhiteRabbitMan
over a year ago

Halifax

Nah. I have preferences. I dont fuck other the people for the sake of it just cos they are on a swingers site. Especially when I have a lovely lady at home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

errrrrrrrrrrrrrr noooooooooooo.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"I love the way you question everything OP

Including being an hypocrite?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love the way you question everything OP

Including being an hypocrite?

I think the OP is being ironic but sadly irony is a little known art

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By *ondongreg79Man
over a year ago

london

Brilliant debate opener. Total bullocks obviously.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Brilliant debate opener. Total bullocks obviously."

Bullocks why?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I love the way you question everything OP

Including being an hypocrite?

I think the OP is being ironic but sadly irony is a little known art "

What does ironic mean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t even fuck people I’m really attracted to never mind any old hole being a goal. Then again I’m a self confessed ‘shit-swinging wank shaft’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love the way you question everything OP

Including being an hypocrite?

I think the OP is being ironic but sadly irony is a little known art

What does ironic mean?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all have preferences in life and that includes sex. I'm not at all turned on by some things and very turned on by others; I find some people more attractive than others.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"If you were a real Swinger you wouldn't have 'preferences'. You'd be happy to fuck other Swingers because that's what The Lifestyle is all about. Fucking and having fun.

Why are you on a Swinging site if you're not a Real Swinger?"

We haven’t had a meet for over six months .

Shall I get my coat ?

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By *ondongreg79Man
over a year ago

london

"Brilliant debate opener. Total bullocks obviously.

Bullocks why? "

Because labelling yourself a swinger doesn’t strip you of your right to choose between likes and dislikes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I sometimes wish I didn't have preferences, it would be so much easier. "

I would not and will not fuck someone if i do not find them attractive..it's worth the wait. Not into mercy or munter fucks...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I sometimes wish I didn't have preferences, it would be so much easier.

I would not and will not fuck someone if i do not find them attractive..it's worth the wait. Not into mercy or munter fucks..."

Munter fucks.. haha!!! I love it. Agree.. I'm also not interested in anyone telling me what I can and cannot call myself based on their interpretation of what it means to be on this site.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'm on fab because I'm a real Hardened Swinger, which means that I can fuck anything but also have preferences. My keys are formulated so that they can't get picked out of the bowl by anyone with claws, for example and I spray myself with pheromones that inhibit sexual lust from others with green or black teeth.

Time to become and own up to being a Hardened Swinger you lot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love the way you question everything OP

Including being an hypocrite?

I think the OP is being ironic but sadly irony is a little known art

What does ironic mean?"

Something about making your clothes all flat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s all fun and games ‘til someone lose an eye

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"If you were a real Swinger you wouldn't have 'preferences'. You'd be happy to fuck other Swingers because that's what The Lifestyle is all about. Fucking and having fun.

Why are you on a Swinging site if you're not a Real Swinger?"
If you're looking for an equal opportunities swinger here, you're shit out of luck. So sue me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wonder if one day Fab swingers will lose the word swingers. Although to cover every eventuality it would have a verryyyy long website name.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"If you were a real Swinger you wouldn't have 'preferences'. You'd be happy to fuck other Swingers because that's what The Lifestyle is all about. Fucking and having fun.

Why are you on a Swinging site if you're not a Real Swinger?"

I absolutely agree - which is why I never turn anyone down! For that reason I’m now booked up until December 2029! Any of you lovely people care to shag me in 2030?

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By *ondongreg79Man
over a year ago

london

"If you were a real Swinger you wouldn't have 'preferences'. You'd be happy to fuck other Swingers because that's what The Lifestyle is all about. Fucking and having fun.

Why are you on a Swinging site if you're not a Real Swinger?

I absolutely agree - which is why I never turn anyone down! For that reason I’m now booked up until December 2029! Any of you lovely people care to shag me in 2030?

Haha I’ll pencil it in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you were a real Swinger you wouldn't have 'preferences'. You'd be happy to fuck other Swingers because that's what The Lifestyle is all about. Fucking and having fun.

Why are you on a Swinging site if you're not a Real Swinger?"

You tell them Op... after reading this thread...

I’m hoping the armchair swingers and people begging for Fabs will leave the site....

Then the real swingers can have fun....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wonder if one day Fab swingers will lose the word swingers. Although to cover every eventuality it would have a verryyyy long website name.

FabFuckers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you were a real Swinger you wouldn't have 'preferences'. You'd be happy to fuck other Swingers because that's what The Lifestyle is all about. Fucking and having fun.

Because "Fucking and having fun" can mean many different things in the world of sex. My kinks may be very very different to someone else's kinks. Toilet play holds no interest for me, as bdsm may hold no interest for someone else. To have fun (and not just vanilla sex, which can still be fun don't get me wrong!) then I believe there needs to be a certain level of similar interests.

If somebody tied me down and Shit on me... I'd not be having fun in the slightest but they might be.

Thats why I have preferences.

Each to their own I say, if I'm not a "REAL" swinger then so be it, don't play with me. That's your preference.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I'd try to fuck 'em all, but I'd get tired, I'm no spring chicken you know....

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"If you were a real Swinger you wouldn't have 'preferences'. You'd be happy to fuck other Swingers because that's what The Lifestyle is all about. Fucking and having fun.

Why are you on a Swinging site if you're not a Real Swinger?

I absolutely agree - which is why I never turn anyone down! For that reason I’m now booked up until December 2029! Any of you lovely people care to shag me in 2030?

Haha, exactly!

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"I sometimes wish I didn't have preferences, it would be so much easier.

I would not and will not fuck someone if i do not find them attractive..it's worth the wait. Not into mercy or munter fucks..."

Oooh that's a bit muntist for a proper swinger....

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

See your dictionaries for "irony".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I sometimes wish I didn't have preferences, it would be so much easier. "

This!!

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By *rkeb3Man
over a year ago

east Lancashire road

According to who?

Lol

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"See your dictionaries for "irony"."

Are there ignorant munters here too??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm more fussy on here who I meet. Less so at clubs!

I can't figure it either.

Must be something to do with actually seeing people rather than messaging!

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By *ogNMuseCouple
over a year ago

Surrey

"See your dictionaries for "irony"."

It’s like goldy and bronzy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you were a real Swinger you wouldn't have 'preferences'. You'd be happy to fuck other Swingers because that's what The Lifestyle is all about. Fucking and having fun.

Why are you on a Swinging site if you're not a Real Swinger?

We haven’t had a meet for over six months .

Shall I get my coat ?

Is it a nice coat?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I sometimes wish I didn't have preferences, it would be so much easier.

I would not and will not fuck someone if i do not find them attractive..it's worth the wait. Not into mercy or munter fucks..."

MunterFuck. I need to change my profile name....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm on fab because I'm a real Hardened Swinger, which means that I can fuck anything but also have preferences. My keys are formulated so that they can't get picked out of the bowl by anyone with claws, for example and I spray myself with pheromones that inhibit sexual lust from others with green or black teeth.

Time to become and own up to being a Hardened Swinger you lot."

You're perfect Sophie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you were a real Swinger you wouldn't have 'preferences'. You'd be happy to fuck other Swingers because that's what The Lifestyle is all about. Fucking and having fun.

Why are you on a Swinging site if you're not a Real Swinger?"

But you've expressed preferences on your profile OP. Does that mean you're not a swinger and are leaving the site soon?

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"If you were a real Swinger you wouldn't have 'preferences'. You'd be happy to fuck other Swingers because that's what The Lifestyle is all about. Fucking and having fun.

Why are you on a Swinging site if you're not a Real Swinger?

We haven’t had a meet for over six months .

Shall I get my coat ?

Is it a nice coat? "

I used to wear it when we went dogging to meet up with any old Tom , Dick or Harry for a fuck . That’s when we were real swingers

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm more fussy on here who I meet. Less so at clubs!

I can't figure it either.

Must be something to do with actually seeing people rather than messaging!

What does fussy mean?

Clubs are different because the people actually turned up and they're not just wanking furiously in the spare room while t'wife is asleep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you were a real Swinger you wouldn't have 'preferences'. You'd be happy to fuck other Swingers because that's what The Lifestyle is all about. Fucking and having fun.

Why are you on a Swinging site if you're not a Real Swinger?

We haven’t had a meet for over six months .

Shall I get my coat ?

Is it a nice coat?

I used to wear it when we went dogging to meet up with any old Tom , Dick or Harry for a fuck . That’s when we were real swingers

I thought you were back onto fucking in graveyards when I saw digging up any old Tom Dick and Harry for a fuck

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you were a real Swinger you wouldn't have 'preferences'. You'd be happy to fuck other Swingers because that's what The Lifestyle is all about. Fucking and having fun.

Why are you on a Swinging site if you're not a Real Swinger?

We haven’t had a meet for over six months .

Shall I get my coat ?

Is it a nice coat?

I used to wear it when we went dogging to meet up with any old Tom , Dick or Harry for a fuck . That’s when we were real swingers

I'll get you some cake and a comfy armchair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm more fussy on here who I meet. Less so at clubs!

I can't figure it either.

Must be something to do with actually seeing people rather than messaging!

What does fussy mean?

Clubs are different because the people actually turned up and they're not just wanking furiously in the spare room while t'wife is asleep. "

I find it amusing when people tell men on here to go to clubs, because they can't get any interest on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you were a real Swinger you wouldn't have 'preferences'. You'd be happy to fuck other Swingers because that's what The Lifestyle is all about. Fucking and having fun.

Why are you on a Swinging site if you're not a Real Swinger?

We haven’t had a meet for over six months .

Shall I get my coat ?

Is it a nice coat?

I used to wear it when we went dogging to meet up with any old Tom , Dick or Harry for a fuck . That’s when we were real swingers

Did you ever find that dwarf to join you?

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

"If you were a real Swinger you wouldn't have 'preferences'.

Why are you on a Swinging site if you're not a Real Swinger?"

As my thoughts were confirmed very very quickly after joining..

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"If you were a real Swinger you wouldn't have 'preferences'. You'd be happy to fuck other Swingers because that's what The Lifestyle is all about. Fucking and having fun.

Why are you on a Swinging site if you're not a Real Swinger?

We haven’t had a meet for over six months .

Shall I get my coat ?

Is it a nice coat?

I used to wear it when we went dogging to meet up with any old Tom , Dick or Harry for a fuck . That’s when we were real swingers

I thought you were back onto fucking in graveyards when I saw digging up any old Tom Dick and Harry for a fuck

Ah fuck , I thought no one saw the misspelling there !

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"If you were a real Swinger you wouldn't have 'preferences'. You'd be happy to fuck other Swingers because that's what The Lifestyle is all about. Fucking and having fun.

Why are you on a Swinging site if you're not a Real Swinger?

We haven’t had a meet for over six months .

Shall I get my coat ?

Is it a nice coat?

I used to wear it when we went dogging to meet up with any old Tom , Dick or Harry for a fuck . That’s when we were real swingers

Did you ever find that dwarf to join you?"

I think it would be more prudent of me to remain silent on this subject .

It didn’t go down to well last time

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I see this on the updates quite a bit. "It's just sex, just take the dick". Uh. No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let's face it , only women can afford to have preferences

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"If you were a real Swinger you wouldn't have 'preferences'. You'd be happy to fuck other Swingers because that's what The Lifestyle is all about. Fucking and having fun.

Why are you on a Swinging site if you're not a Real Swinger?

We haven’t had a meet for over six months .

Shall I get my coat ?

Is it a nice coat?

I used to wear it when we went dogging to meet up with any old Tom , Dick or Harry for a fuck . That’s when we were real swingers

I'll get you some cake and a comfy armchair.

That’s so kind , and a nice mug of Horlicks wouldn’t go amiss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you were a real Swinger you wouldn't have 'preferences'. You'd be happy to fuck other Swingers because that's what The Lifestyle is all about. Fucking and having fun.

Why are you on a Swinging site if you're not a Real Swinger?

We haven’t had a meet for over six months .

Shall I get my coat ?

Is it a nice coat?

I used to wear it when we went dogging to meet up with any old Tom , Dick or Harry for a fuck . That’s when we were real swingers

Did you ever find that dwarf to join you?

I think it would be more prudent of me to remain silent on this subject .

It didn’t go down to well last time

It was another classic though!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you were a real Swinger you wouldn't have 'preferences'. You'd be happy to fuck other Swingers because that's what The Lifestyle is all about. Fucking and having fun.

Why are you on a Swinging site if you're not a Real Swinger?

We haven’t had a meet for over six months .

Shall I get my coat ?

Is it a nice coat?

I used to wear it when we went dogging to meet up with any old Tom , Dick or Harry for a fuck . That’s when we were real swingers

Did you ever find that dwarf to join you?

I think it would be more prudent of me to remain silent on this subject .

It didn’t go down to well last time

Of course it did! Was just the right height for going down

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

Bloody hell, there aren't enough hours in the day to be a 'real swinger' according to that definition! Hence why preferences were invented to ensure old birds like me don't just keel over from exhaustion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you were a real Swinger you wouldn't have 'preferences'. You'd be happy to fuck other Swingers because that's what The Lifestyle is all about. Fucking and having fun.

Why are you on a Swinging site if you're not a Real Swinger?

We haven’t had a meet for over six months .

Shall I get my coat ?

Is it a nice coat?

I used to wear it when we went dogging to meet up with any old Tom , Dick or Harry for a fuck . That’s when we were real swingers

Did you ever find that dwarf to join you?

I think it would be more prudent of me to remain silent on this subject .

It didn’t go down to well last time

Of course it did! Was just the right height for going down

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"If you were a real Swinger you wouldn't have 'preferences'. You'd be happy to fuck other Swingers because that's what The Lifestyle is all about. Fucking and having fun.

Why are you on a Swinging site if you're not a Real Swinger?

We haven’t had a meet for over six months .

Shall I get my coat ?

Is it a nice coat?

I used to wear it when we went dogging to meet up with any old Tom , Dick or Harry for a fuck . That’s when we were real swingers

Did you ever find that dwarf to join you?

I think it would be more prudent of me to remain silent on this subject .

It didn’t go down to well last time

Of course it did! Was just the right height for going down

Brilliant

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By *orwegian BlueMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

Are preferences different to standards?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm more fussy on here who I meet. Less so at clubs!

I can't figure it either.

Must be something to do with actually seeing people rather than messaging!

What does fussy mean?

Clubs are different because the people actually turned up and they're not just wanking furiously in the spare room while t'wife is asleep.

I find it amusing when people tell men on here to go to clubs, because they can't get any interest on here.

Why is it amusing - if anyone struggles on here, there are other alternatives for fun. Clubs are one of them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm more fussy on here who I meet. Less so at clubs!

I can't figure it either.

Must be something to do with actually seeing people rather than messaging!

What does fussy mean?

Clubs are different because the people actually turned up and they're not just wanking furiously in the spare room while t'wife is asleep. "

Fussy meaning - having barriers up with profiles! Lists as long as your arm with preferences! I forget about all that, once talking and playing in a safe fun environment!

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

"I love the way you question everything OP

Including being an hypocrite?

Whooooooosh

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I see this on the updates quite a bit. "It's just sex, just take the dick". Uh. No. "

Just take the dick.

I'm dripping like a manky tap.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Bloody hell, there aren't enough hours in the day to be a 'real swinger' according to that definition! Hence why preferences were invented to ensure old birds like me don't just keel over from exhaustion

It's easier lying down.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I see this on the updates quite a bit. "It's just sex, just take the dick". Uh. No.

Just take the dick.

I'm dripping like a manky tap."

Manky is so often the problem.

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By *queekyCheesyCouple
over a year ago

newark

No preferences.. here.. lol, both be the talk of the std clinic within a month and unfortunately know alot more undesirables than we already do.

Preferences are human nature.. and we all have them for a reason

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

"If you were a real Swinger you wouldn't have 'preferences'. You'd be happy to fuck other Swingers because that's what The Lifestyle is all about. Fucking and having fun.

Why are you on a Swinging site if you're not a Real Swinger?"

Because the convent wouldn't take me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the forums

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Elephants are the problem...

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

"Elephants are the problem..."

There's one in every room!

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"Elephants are the problem...

There's one in every room! "

Hey, I was in Sri Lanka at the elephant sanctuary and an elephant farted close to me, I so prefer it hadn’t.

Had preferences ever since.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love the way you question everything OP

Including being an hypocrite?

I think the OP is being ironic but sadly irony is a little known art "

You're absolutely right, it's virtually never used correctly these dsys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you were a real Swinger you wouldn't have 'preferences'. You'd be happy to fuck other Swingers because that's what The Lifestyle is all about. Fucking and having fun.

Why are you on a Swinging site if you're not a Real Swinger?"
that's what I always thought. ... I don't have any preferences but women on here are so quick to judge they take a look at profile pic and block or ignore... Because I'm not masculine, rich or coloured. .....

They just see stocky and delete without knowing if he's a genuine, honest lad that could be the personality or thing you've been looking for.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

4 words....

my body....... my rules!!!

think that about sums it up.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you were a real Swinger you wouldn't have 'preferences'. You'd be happy to fuck other Swingers because that's what The Lifestyle is all about. Fucking and having fun.

Why are you on a Swinging site if you're not a Real Swinger?"

But OP, I am here waiting for your preferences to include me

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By *cedGemsWoman
over a year ago

South West Wales ;-)

"I have a preference to have sex with people, I'm actually attracted to. "

Hear , hear

x It's about choice x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you were a real Swinger you wouldn't have 'preferences'. You'd be happy to fuck other Swingers because that's what The Lifestyle is all about. Fucking and having fun.

Why are you on a Swinging site if you're not a Real Swinger? that's what I always thought. ... I don't have any preferences but women on here are so quick to judge they take a look at profile pic and block or ignore... Because I'm not masculine, rich or coloured. .....

They just see stocky and delete without knowing if he's a genuine, honest lad that could be the personality or thing you've been looking for."

They're doing it wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all have preferences even in life ... tea or coffee red or white fish or meat etc what is different about on here?

Preferences are completely normal ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you were a real Swinger you wouldn't have 'preferences'. You'd be happy to fuck other Swingers because that's what The Lifestyle is all about. Fucking and having fun.

Why are you on a Swinging site if you're not a Real Swinger?"
Because for some it’s a chat/date/attention seek/fuck site WHERE ARE THE REAL SWINGERS!!!

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

I think even ‘real Swingers’ have preferences. Being on a sex site doesn’t mean sex with one all all. It’s perfectly reasonable to have preferences

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"If you were a real Swinger you wouldn't have 'preferences'. You'd be happy to fuck other Swingers because that's what The Lifestyle is all about. Fucking and having fun.

They just see stocky and delete without knowing if he's a genuine, honest lad that could be the personality or thing you've been looking for."

You have preferences...

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

What a strange post, were into swingers not mingers

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire

"I'm more fussy on here who I meet. Less so at clubs!

I can't figure it either.

Must be something to do with actually seeing people rather than messaging!

What does fussy mean?

Clubs are different because the people actually turned up and they're not just wanking furiously in the spare room while t'wife is asleep.

I find it amusing when people tell men on here to go to clubs, because they can't get any interest on here.

Why is it amusing - if anyone struggles on here, there are other alternatives for fun. Clubs are one of them! "

It's amusing because the guys that have no luck on here are normally the disrespectful ones who expect every lady to drop their knickers for them.

Stick them in a club situation, they think it's guaranteed sex and so are disrespectful to the women there (so you then get the threads complaining about disrespectful men at clubs who think it's ok to get handsy without permission!)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What a strange post, were into swingers not mingers

What's the difference?

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

"What a strange post, were into swingers not mingers

What's the difference? "

We play with people were attracted to - its social, fun lifestyle. Not hook up and shag n go anything. Hence preferences of who we like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a preference to have sex with people, I'm actually attracted to. "

Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely there must be an attraction to enjoy sex or it becomes just another body function like having a pee. All our meets are decided on by my wife it’s her body after all I wouldn’t dream of telling her I have bought a random guy home and you must let him fuck you as we swingers and that means sex with anyone. As people have already said some people into dominating she is def not a woman to be dominated so that’s one preference also not into any kind of pain. Everyone has preferences in all things in life. What we eat what music we like even the friends we have so preferences towards sex makes perfect sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My cock refuses to stand for anyone I'm not attracted to. It's quite choosy..

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

I don't have any preferences.

I do have limits.

They may appear to be preferences to the untrained eye...

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By *hite1100Man
over a year ago

Hither Green

"If you were a real Swinger you wouldn't have 'preferences'. You'd be happy to fuck other Swingers because that's what The Lifestyle is all about. Fucking and having fun.

Why are you on a Swinging site if you're not a Real Swinger?"

What a bizarre OP.

My preference is to only fuck people I find attractive. I’m not going to get intimate with someone I’m not attracted to just to fit into your idea of some kind of lifestyle - that suggestion is quite bizarre.

What you describe as not being a “real swinger” (whatever “swinger” actually means), others would describe as simply having standards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My cock refuses to stand for anyone I'm not attracted to. It's quite choosy.."

I like this ^^^ made me laugh too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you were a real Swinger you wouldn't have 'preferences'. You'd be happy to fuck other Swingers because that's what The Lifestyle is all about. Fucking and having fun.

Why are you on a Swinging site if you're not a Real Swinger?"

Are you really saying that you would just fuck anyone? Anywhere? Anything goes? You’d like every form of sex preference going? No matter what the other persons interests? That is not swinging!! And that is not realistic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My cock refuses to stand for anyone I'm not attracted to. It's quite choosy.."

You should listen to your cock!! It clearly knows what it wants!!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"If you were a real Swinger you wouldn't have 'preferences'. You'd be happy to fuck other Swingers because that's what The Lifestyle is all about. Fucking and having fun.

Why are you on a Swinging site if you're not a Real Swinger?

I see "I have no limits, I'm up for anything, yes anything" a lot. Either they're sick or they lack imagination.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Says the lady with preferences!

Hahaha excellent point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you were a real Swinger you wouldn't have 'preferences'. You'd be happy to fuck other Swingers because that's what The Lifestyle is all about. Fucking and having fun.

Why are you on a Swinging site if you're not a Real Swinger?

I see "I have no limits, I'm up for anything, yes anything" a lot. Either they're sick or they lack imagination. "

Exactly. Plus apart from anything else if we were all the same it would be so boring.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah bitches get your kit off and be grateful for any penis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My cock refuses to stand for anyone I'm not attracted to. It's quite choosy..

You should listen to your cock!! It clearly knows what it wants!!

I'm a man........enough said!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My cock refuses to stand for anyone I'm not attracted to. It's quite choosy..

I like this ^^^ made me laugh too "

We like you too..

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By *uxomBloomsWoman
over a year ago

Near Tunbridge Wells

"My preference is to have preferences"

Quote right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My cock refuses to stand for anyone I'm not attracted to. It's quite choosy.."

As it should be...surely there is nobody alive who would fuck just anyone ... Not even in a club

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yeah bitches get your kit off and be grateful for any penis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m here and I’m not a swinger. Should I get my coat?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you were a real Swinger you wouldn't have 'preferences'. You'd be happy to fuck other Swingers because that's what The Lifestyle is all about. Fucking and having fun.

Why are you on a Swinging site if you're not a Real Swinger?

No I'm not saying that about me. The OP is about real Swingers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am only on here to tell you that you have nice tits and a nice hairy minge

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

"If you were a real Swinger you wouldn't have 'preferences'. You'd be happy to fuck other Swingers because that's what The Lifestyle is all about. Fucking and having fun.

Why are you on a Swinging site if you're not a Real Swinger?

No I'm not saying that about me. The OP is about real Swingers.

Confused now, you said if your not a real swinger which you are saying is someone who F**ks everyone then you shouldnt be on here, if your saying you don’t then how come your on here?

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire

"If you were a real Swinger you wouldn't have 'preferences'. You'd be happy to fuck other Swingers because that's what The Lifestyle is all about. Fucking and having fun.

Why are you on a Swinging site if you're not a Real Swinger?

No I'm not saying that about me. The OP is about real Swingers.

Confused now, you said if your not a real swinger which you are saying is someone who F**ks everyone then you shouldnt be on here, if your saying you don’t then how come your on here? "

It's called a sweeping statement. The OP has either received something similar in a message, or seen something similar on another thread and is posting it as a discussion thread.

At no point has she actually said she agrees or disagrees with the statement.

It's a debate thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love sex and I enjoy it only with men I fancy. In and out of fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My cock refuses to stand for anyone I'm not attracted to. It's quite choosy..

I like this ^^^ made me laugh too

We like you too..

In a totally good way!!

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Couldn't get horny if no attraction/chemistry

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By *ets have some funCouple
over a year ago

Essex

So dose that mean if they smell don't wash stink of cigarettes have skin diseases you still have sex with them.

What rubbish.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you were a real Swinger you wouldn't have 'preferences'. You'd be happy to fuck other Swingers because that's what The Lifestyle is all about. Fucking and having fun.

Why are you on a Swinging site if you're not a Real Swinger?

No I'm not saying that about me. The OP is about real Swingers.

Confused now, you said if your not a real swinger which you are saying is someone who F**ks everyone then you shouldnt be on here, if your saying you don’t then how come your on here?

It's called a sweeping statement. The OP has either received something similar in a message, or seen something similar on another thread and is posting it as a discussion thread.

At no point has she actually said she agrees or disagrees with the statement.

It's a debate thread."

Yes it was a statement on another thread. Phrased in the same way as the OP.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So dose that mean if they smell don't wash stink of cigarettes have skin diseases you still have sex with them.

What rubbish."

I didn't make the rules.

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By *hite1100Man
over a year ago

Hither Green

"If you were a real Swinger you wouldn't have 'preferences'. You'd be happy to fuck other Swingers because that's what The Lifestyle is all about. Fucking and having fun.

Why are you on a Swinging site if you're not a Real Swinger?

No I'm not saying that about me. The OP is about real Swingers.

Confused now, you said if your not a real swinger which you are saying is someone who F**ks everyone then you shouldnt be on here, if your saying you don’t then how come your on here?

It's called a sweeping statement. The OP has either received something similar in a message, or seen something similar on another thread and is posting it as a discussion thread.

At no point has she actually said she agrees or disagrees with the statement.

It's a debate thread.

Yes it was a statement on another thread. Phrased in the same way as the OP. "

A masterpiece of a thread. I can’t believe I didn’t twig.

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By *etite HandfulWoman
over a year ago

Chester

Sounds about right as swingers seem to love to pontificate and tell other swingers what they should or shouldn't do as well as everyone else for that matter.

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