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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Come to quick and your sexually frustrated. What do you do?

Get yourself off?

Up and leave?

Encourage him to play some more?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talk with him and communicate effectively about how to have fulfilling sex for both of you, without making him feel shamed, or you feel unsatisfied.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

You should make him a nice cup of tea to recharge his batteries after his exhausting, manly efforts

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Talk with him and communicate effectively about how to have fulfilling sex for both of you, without making him feel shamed, or you feel unsatisfied."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You should make him a nice cup of tea to recharge his batteries after his exhausting, manly efforts

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By *ondongreg79Man
over a year ago

london

A little show goes a long way to get a guy going again. Sit back and play for him. He’ll see how horny you still are and soon he will be too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A little show goes a long way to get a guy going again. Sit back and play for him. He’ll see how horny you still are and soon he will be too."

That's a reply good suggestion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't do what another did not do long ago, and start a thread ripping him to shreds.

I have this very trouble sometimes. If it does, there's plenty I/we can be doing while I wait for the little man to perk back up again. Unless he legs it, it's not over just because he's shot the bolt sharpish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wait for round 2.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wait for round 2. "

I was literally just about to type this.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I find it a big turn on if a guy finishes quickly. Unless it's the last hard on he's ever going to have its not the end of the fun

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By *irebrand 1263Man
over a year ago

near you

A little play & round 2 will last so much longer & be worth it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find it a big turn on if a guy finishes quickly. Unless it's the last hard on he's ever going to have its not the end of the fun

Exactly. The greatest compliment a man can pay a woman is to blow his beans early doors.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Come to quick and your sexually frustrated. What do you do?

Get yourself off?

Up and leave?

Encourage him to play some more?"
watch a movie....... I'm thinking die hard with Bruces Willie

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"I find it a big turn on if a guy finishes quickly. Unless it's the last hard on he's ever going to have its not the end of the fun

Exactly. The greatest compliment a man can pay a woman is to blow his beans early doors.

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Yeah, some women aren't happy that I normally have to finish myself off. I just had an accident which affected me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

recharge him again

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Encourage him to play some more. Maybe give me a massage, use my wand on me, kiss me, you know sexy stuff like that

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"Talk with him and communicate effectively about how to have fulfilling sex for both of you, without making him feel shamed, or you feel unsatisfied."

This, sadly a lot of people put the pressure of sexual performance on guys and berate or poke fun at them if they're not satisfied

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What if it's the other way around and the guys takes a very long time to cum?

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple
over a year ago

Planet Ork

Kiss me, lick me, tease me, I will soon catch up and we can both go again afterwards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of the best sexual memories involve those times when I didn't hold back from coming.Let him have those moments,yet ask him at other times to hold his ejaculation back so that you can have pleasure too.If he doesn't see this(even with patient encouragement,find a new man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It best be 3 surelly girls

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

Do ya sexy dance until the totem pole goes up again

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"What if it's the other way around and the guys takes a very long time to cum? "

I don't mind that at all

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

You could do any of the above... Or even start a thread about it

What did you do OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You could do any of the above... Or even start a thread about it

What did you do OP? "
he did any of the above

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"What if it's the other way around and the guys takes a very long time to cum?

I don't mind that at all

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Good girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What if it's the other way around and the guys takes a very long time to cum?

I don't mind that at all

You don't start to question whether or not the guy is turned on enough by you or not etc?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Number 3 if he feels he wants to. If not a cuppa and a cuddle and put the world to rights

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Encourage and should last a bit longer second time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont have a problem if a guy cums to quick as said wait a little and start again but and a big but nothing funny when they last 2mins then they get up and start getting dressed as if job done lol thats not on

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By *ay19720Man
over a year ago

Ashford kent

"Number 3 if he feels he wants to. If not a cuppa and a cuddle and put the world to rights

Oh he would want too.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"i dont have a problem if a guy cums to quick as said wait a little and start again but and a big but nothing funny when they last 2mins then they get up and start getting dressed as if job done lol thats not on

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Sorry

i had to go. Time is money

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why u cummin fas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always get him to play some more

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wait for round 2. "

2 hours later...

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By *heaspieswingerMan
over a year ago

Peak District

"Come to quick and your sexually frustrated. What do you do?

Get yourself off?

Up and leave?

Encourage him to play some more?"

My man makes sure I’m done first - every single time

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Come to quick and your sexually frustrated. What do you do?

Get yourself off?

Up and leave?

Encourage him to play some more?"
You should suck him hard so he can go again!

STANDARD

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What if it's the other way around and the guys takes a very long time to cum?

I don't mind that at all

The female may not mind it... but it can be sooo fraustrating for the Male not to be able to cum!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I go quicker than planned I give oral till I'm ready to go again, it's never long

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Coffee or redbull as a last resort...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually find it a turn on when a guy loses control and can't help cumming quick. There is plenty you can then do to keep the play going... My usual trick after a brief break is give him some cock and ball worship with tease and eye contact, gently suck him until he's hard and ready to go again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're welcome x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You're welcome x "

Thank you btw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Come to quick and your sexually frustrated. What do you do?

Get yourself off?

Up and leave?

Encourage him to play some more?"

Or call a female friend over....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I actually find it a turn on when a guy loses control and can't help cumming quick. There is plenty you can then do to keep the play going... My usual trick after a brief break is give him some cock and ball worship with tease and eye contact, gently suck him until he's hard and ready to go again."

That’ll do it.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"Come to quick and your sexually frustrated. What do you do?

Get yourself off?

Up and leave?

Encourage him to play some more?

Or call a female friend over...."
Good call

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

Make him lick his seed up and sit on his face babe!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Encourage him to play some more. Maybe give me a massage, use my wand on me, kiss me, you know sexy stuff like that

Sounds hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As you can see, I am getting on in years, and sometimes if I go two or 3 times, I may not cum, does that matter, I don't always feel I have to, as long the partner is satisfied...thoughts...

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By *rcheekyxxMan
over a year ago

nottingham

"Come to quick and your sexually frustrated. What do you do?

Get yourself off?

Up and leave?

Encourage him to play some more?"
ring me when he’s left x lol

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I used to meet a man who liked to get the first fuck out of the way fast so then we could fuck for hours the second/third time round, if they get carried away it’s no big deal so try not to make it one

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I used to call the first one a test firing.. just clearing the tubes

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"Come to quick and your sexually frustrated. What do you do?

Get yourself off?

Up and leave?

Encourage him to play some more?"

In my experience younger guys are usually able to get it up again for round two, three etc.

Guys over 30, it isn't a given.

That isn't an issue as long as they use their skills to help me cum either before or after they do.

The clever money gets the woman off first.

The clever woman shows them what she needs.

I've only met a couple of One Squirt Charlies who think it's done once they are.

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By *veready69Man
over a year ago

PLYMOUTH

Get him to head down there to finish the job properly.

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By *veready69Man
over a year ago

PLYMOUTH

"Come to quick and your sexually frustrated. What do you do?

Get yourself off?

Up and leave?

Encourage him to play some more?

In my experience younger guys are usually able to get it up again for round two, three etc.

Guys over 30, it isn't a given.

That isn't an issue as long as they use their skills to help me cum either before or after they do.

The clever money gets the woman off first.

The clever woman shows them what she needs.

I've only met a couple of One Squirt Charlies who think it's done once they are.

Over 30 not a given? Really?? You could have had me all night long in my 30s....coming up on 50s now and still good for a day long session.

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