FabSwingers.com forum: Social meets

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What are your expectations of a social meet. Based on my limited experience I reckon at least 50% of woman go into a social with a view to letting things go further on the first meet if the right chemistry is there. The % for blokes is probably closer to 100%.

Of course social means social and shouldn't be interpreted as anything else , but isnt the reality that socials often turn into more than social ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What are your expectations of a social meet. Based on my limited experience I reckon at least 50% of woman go into a social with a view to letting things go further on the first meet if the right chemistry is there. The % for blokes is probably closer to 100%.

Of course social means social and shouldn't be interpreted as anything else , but isnt the reality that socials often turn into more than social ? "

Mine usually do..

But its not always a given beforehand though

I have walked away from more than i have carried on with

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By *hyevernotMan
over a year ago

Here and there

Don't have any expectations. If it goes further then great but sometimes it's just good to have a drink and a laugh with good people.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We make it clear that a social meet is just that. Only one person has ever disrespected that

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

No, I've never walked into social expecting more. The whole point of a social for me is to find out if there is chemistry and to see if we want to meet at a later date. That way we can both think things through after and evaluate. It also allows for sexual tension to build.

If anything was to happen then I wouldn't rule it out but I've never gone in with any intention of anything other than a chat

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I think there are definitely two types of social. One that has no possibility or expectation of going further that day. And then others where you may meet in the hotel bar where one person is staying where clearly there is an option to take it further if the chemistry is right.

I tend to prefer the latter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I expect a social to be a social only if the word social has been mentioned. Otherwise, I'll be prepared if it goes further but I still never will expect more than that.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Always gone with the intention of just having a nice social evening and that's all. However I have never been on a social with a single fem that has not resulted in play by the end of the evening.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What puts me off having a social quickly after being messaged on here is that they might think it will lead to sex that evening.

A social for me is not to see if we want sex right away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it’s a social in a club there’s a strong possibility it’ll go further. Otherwise a social for me, is exactly that.

I have a lot of socials where I never meet the person again - chemistry is so hard to predict

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

A social is just a social but if there’s an attraction then I quite like a kiss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The most I do on a social is kiss. I have no intention on fucking the guy that night, if he wants me he will see me again but then I'm not looking for one off meets generally and I like to build up friendships. They are told before hand so if they don't like it they don't meet me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A social is just a social but if there’s an attraction then I quite like a kiss

think id be staring at something. can you guess what babs

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

I've learn so much this year "how not to do it". I've got myself into situations I'll never repeat again.

Be true to yourself Miss Spiderwomen.

Social events/club etc maybe a coffee is the only way for 2019. The trust has gone for me to arrange anything else.

You're a great guy OP..very honest and a gentleman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I’ve just seen where I’ve been going wrong

I shouldn’t fuck on socials

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Socials are socials for me, I have no intention of it going any further ever. Well, it has a few times, but it's unusual!

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By *ormfuncplCouple
over a year ago

hudds

Hard to find a place that people go to meet as a social, not strip and sit in a dressing gown, just meet like a pub or bar, private bar do . And chat and meet people interested in fun, but another time if get on, I thought there was places like that%,

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

A social is to get to find out if I want to take things further or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A social is just a social but if there’s an attraction then I quite like a kiss

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A social is just that. I never have any intention of taking things further than a kiss. If the chemistry is right I'd rather wait and build the anticipation of meeting again.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

a social is a social for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll kiss on a social if we like each other. But never shag. I like to leave that for the next meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'll kiss on a social if we like each other. But never shag. I like to leave that for the next meet

agree xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a coffee and a chat. Any hint of anything else in messages before, or any mention of sex then I won't even meet them.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I don't have expectations. But sometimes I'll have sex with them. Repeatedly. A hour or so after meeting. Others it will just be a coffee until a later date.

Everyone does things differently.

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Never expect more. If more is going to happen, then it will happen at a later date.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

With me, a social meet is just that!

If you think it will go further on the day, then more fool you!

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

A social is an opportunity to decide whether you want to have sex with the person you are meeting .

So we never had a social that didn’t lead to sex if we connected . I would guess that was at least 90% of those we met .

With kids , having to get a sitter , and making the arrangements suit both parties it seems daft not to just do it on the same night .

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