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How much do you need to see if the person do you need to see before a meet ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Face is a given obviously, but how much of their body do you need to see. I’ve been caught out before on a well known ‘dating’ app, where I only saw the face and was taken a bit by surprise when she rocked up.

Ladies do you need to see all of the goods first or are you happy taking a risk and hoping he doesn’t pull up short ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The title should read ; How much of the person do you need to see before a meet ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like face and body. Unfortunately you can't foresee someone being a complete arse dispite meeting and chatting daily!!

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Definitely the face. I do like to see everything to be honest, but if I like them enough I've been known to take a risk despite limited pictures.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Face and body for me. They get to see that much of us its only fair to return the favour

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I like to see a lady's bumhole as a matter of course

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Face before I really consider meeting someone. Sometimes body. It's not *that* important to me. I've yet to do a fully blind date though.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I like to see a lady's bumhole as a matter of course "

What!? Even in Waitrose? That's going to cause some people to spit their free coffee out

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Would the women be happy to meet a man if you hadn’t seen his cock first ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to see their passport

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Face is a given obviously, but how much of their body do you need to see. I’ve been caught out before on a well known ‘dating’ app, where I only saw the face and was taken a bit by surprise when she rocked up.

Ladies do you need to see all of the goods first or are you happy taking a risk and hoping he doesn’t pull up short ?

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Due to the Instagram age, we always view all pics we receive with an open mind. Who really is going to send the worst picture of themselves on a swingers website? Personally we don’t use filters as we are old, but from previous meets, some people have turned up totally different in the flesh, and often are much older than their pics. We do have to find people attractive so would like to see a face pic before we meet as a start point.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Would the women be happy to meet a man if you hadn’t seen his cock first ? "

I used to think that I would but on reflection I like to see a full frontal nude shot. Close ups not vital.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like to see their passport"

And see how many points they’ve got on there Nectar card.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to see their passport

And see how many points they’ve got on there Nectar card."

That's key. Those points will come in handy during the Zombie apocalypse. Maybe.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"The title should read ; How much of the person do you need to see before a meet ? "
The Cervix, make sure it is healthy because it's gonna take some pounding.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Face is a given obviously, but how much of their body do you need to see. I’ve been caught out before on a well known ‘dating’ app, where I only saw the face and was taken a bit by surprise when she rocked up.

Ladies do you need to see all of the goods first or are you happy taking a risk and hoping he doesn’t pull up short ?

"

After being deliberately deceived a few times, I want to see all there is to see now!

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"I like to see a lady's bumhole as a matter of course

What!? Even in Waitrose? That's going to cause some people to spit their free coffee out "

Oh Dhallink,I'm more of a Tesco man, and the lass that works behind the tobacco counter is well fit

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

All of them. On an early social I made the rookie mistake of meeting someone based only on a pleasant enough face pic and took for granted that he'd described his body type truthfully. He hadn't, and I was annoyed I'd been fibbed to as much as the fact I didn't find him attractive overall. It wasted his time as well as mine.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

I've rarely seen anyone I've met's cock beforehand! I tend to be attracted to artistic, creative people and that's usually reflected in their photos... Lots of tastefully teasing ones without giving too much away... I enjoy the unwrapping and discovery too much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A face and a clothed full length pic is fine by me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"All of them. On an early social I made the rookie mistake of meeting someone based only on a pleasant enough face pic and took for granted that he'd described his body type truthfully. He hadn't, and I was annoyed I'd been fibbed to as much as the fact I didn't find him attractive overall. It wasted his time as well as mine."

The meet I had where I only saw the face, she didn’t actually describe her body I just imagined what it was like, turned out I was way off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Face for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Face is very important... seeing a cock isn’t that important. Now, nice hands are always good

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've rarely seen anyone I've met's cock beforehand! I tend to be attracted to artistic, creative people and that's usually reflected in their photos... Lots of tastefully teasing ones without giving too much away... I enjoy the unwrapping and discovery too much "

But sometimes you unwrap a present and it’s not what you wanted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah face and special Brucie bonus hear her voice

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple


"Would the women be happy to meet a man if you hadn’t seen his cock first ? "

Dating yes, on fab no

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I like to see a lady's bumhole as a matter of course

What!? Even in Waitrose? That's going to cause some people to spit their free coffee out

Oh Dhallink,I'm more of a Tesco man, and the lass that works behind the tobacco counter is well fit "

Aldi all the way for us and to be honest it's standard behaviour in there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely ask to see their appendage haha. I don't flash mine, so it would be hypocritical of me to ask to see theirs. The face is enough for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The title should read ; How much of the person do you need to see before a meet ? The Cervix, make sure it is healthy because it's gonna take some pounding. "

I always ask when was the last time their Cervix was serviced.

(I don’t, I don’t what a Cervix is)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cant tell what someone's like until you meet them , pics and mesages tell you nothing about the person is like, thats why we go to clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I rarely ask to see their appendage haha. I don't flash mine, so it would be hypocritical of me to ask to see theirs. The face is enough for me "

That should say never. I've never actually asked

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I rarely ask to see their appendage haha. I don't flash mine, so it would be hypocritical of me to ask to see theirs. The face is enough for me "

Beautiful face it is too.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"The title should read ; How much of the person do you need to see before a meet ? The Cervix, make sure it is healthy because it's gonna take some pounding.

I always ask when was the last time their Cervix was serviced.

(I don’t, I don’t what a Cervix is)"

It's a small town car that's easy to park.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just their location on Google maps.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"The title should read ; How much of the person do you need to see before a meet ? The Cervix, make sure it is healthy because it's gonna take some pounding.

I always ask when was the last time their Cervix was serviced.

(I don’t, I don’t what a Cervix is)

It's a small town car that's easy to park."
Nice save

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By *kin BohnerMan
over a year ago

derby

A bank statement

Seriously a face is a must and I'd like to see a full body photo but not bothered if it clothed or naked. Having been duped once or twice I now insist on the first meet being a social one for a limited time that can be extended.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to see a lady's bumhole as a matter of course "

Hahahaha

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo


"All of them. On an early social I made the rookie mistake of meeting someone based only on a pleasant enough face pic and took for granted that he'd described his body type truthfully. He hadn't, and I was annoyed I'd been fibbed to as much as the fact I didn't find him attractive overall. It wasted his time as well as mine.

The meet I had where I only saw the face, she didn’t actually describe her body I just imagined what it was like, turned out I was way off. "

Body descriptions are so subjective anyway. I describe myself very differently on a good day compared to a bad day when I'll say I look like a scarecrow or similar. And 'slim', 'average' etc mean different things to different people. I'm more 'I know what I like when I see it' - but would rather see a photo ahead of time to ascertain there's a possibility of attraction than traipse somewhere to find out without any idea at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A face and a clothed full length pic is fine by me. "

Completely agree!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The title should read ; How much of the person do you need to see before a meet ? "

I want to see their English books full of green ticks.

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By *ottie 13Woman
over a year ago

Happy go lucky

Definitely got to see the face, body is always nice to see clothed or naked but I'm not bothered if I've seen there cock or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A fully-dressed head to toe pic of them out and about, preferably sight-seeing.

I like to see how they stand in a relaxed position.

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By *ackDanielsWhiteRabbitMan
over a year ago

Halifax

A face pic and a body pic clothed. Though a cheeky boob pic doesnt go amiss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The title should read ; How much of the person do you need to see before a meet ?

I want to see their English books full of green ticks. "

And little smiley faces?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The title should read ; How much of the person do you need to see before a meet ?

I want to see their English books full of green ticks.

And little smiley faces? "

Yes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A fully-dressed head to toe pic of them out and about, preferably sight-seeing.

I like to see how they stand in a relaxed position. "

Foot on a log, pointing at a random squirrel and laughing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Face and cock and full body.

Nowadays it would just be face and body.

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Classy body pics of both no need for graphic ones

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"I've rarely seen anyone I've met's cock beforehand! I tend to be attracted to artistic, creative people and that's usually reflected in their photos... Lots of tastefully teasing ones without giving too much away... I enjoy the unwrapping and discovery too much

But sometimes you unwrap a present and it’s not what you wanted. "

Rarely happens if you're clear to folk about what you want

If I meet someone for coffee and the chemistry isn't there, I won't be unwrapping anyway

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

I just need pictures of table lamps and lamp shades in case any of them are made out of human skin.....

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"I just need pictures of table lamps and lamp shades in case any of them are made out of human skin....."

Obviously the toilet also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A fully-dressed head to toe pic of them out and about, preferably sight-seeing.

I like to see how they stand in a relaxed position.

Foot on a log, pointing at a random squirrel and laughing. "

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

I like to see there curtains..don't know why but they say alot about a person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would expect to show someone all of me without hesitation, who are the people who are genuinely willing to meet someone but not show them what they look like?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would expect to show someone all of me without hesitation, who are the people who are genuinely willing to meet someone but not show them what they look like? "

As in expecting them to show you them, in all their naked glory?

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By *ackDanielsWhiteRabbitMan
over a year ago

Halifax


"I would expect to show someone all of me without hesitation, who are the people who are genuinely willing to meet someone but not show them what they look like?

As in expecting them to show you them, in all their naked glory? "

You know you want to lol. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All of them. On an early social I made the rookie mistake of meeting someone based only on a pleasant enough face pic and took for granted that he'd described his body type truthfully. He hadn't, and I was annoyed I'd been fibbed to as much as the fact I didn't find him attractive overall. It wasted his time as well as mine.

The meet I had where I only saw the face, she didn’t actually describe her body I just imagined what it was like, turned out I was way off. "

Did the deed anyway though OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would expect to show someone all of me without hesitation, who are the people who are genuinely willing to meet someone but not show them what they look like?

As in expecting them to show you them, in all their naked glory?

You know you want to lol. X "

Hahaha nice try x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"All of them. On an early social I made the rookie mistake of meeting someone based only on a pleasant enough face pic and took for granted that he'd described his body type truthfully. He hadn't, and I was annoyed I'd been fibbed to as much as the fact I didn't find him attractive overall. It wasted his time as well as mine.

The meet I had where I only saw the face, she didn’t actually describe her body I just imagined what it was like, turned out I was way off.

Did the deed anyway though OP?"

Obviously

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