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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi,

Been on here a while but I am aware there is probably 5000 other singles guys on here all looking for couples and single women. So what’s the best advice single women and or couples can offer to help with the initial contact?

Alternatively what’s the best first contact on here you have had?

Thanks for the help

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

It really depends on the person, and their profile will give you the best clue.

But, make it personal (copy/ paste is easy to spot, and "hi how are you" is really boring), make it respectful, and respect their wishes. Tell them what you have to offer them, not just what they have to offer you.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

My favourite messages tell me a bit about the person, what they like about me (which shows they've read my profile, not just hot pics), tell me what the person's interests are that intersect with mine (without being too graphic or like wank chat), that sort of thing. And, where there are pictures, are not a close up of genitals.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Send them poetry

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By *oul BrothaMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy far far away


"My favourite messages tell me a bit about the person, what they like about me (which shows they've read my profile, not just hot pics), tell me what the person's interests are that intersect with mine (without being too graphic or like wank chat), that sort of thing. And, where there are pictures, are not a close up of genitals. "

That’s good advice

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Send them poetry"

Chaucer?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sending them cock pics with one liners works for me about 1% of the time. You’ll find out It’s a numbers game. Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Send them poetry

Chaucer?"

Neruda works better

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Oh, and if you're deleted and you decide to try again. Wait at least a few days. Send a different message. If that fails, STOP.

And don't go from (boring copy paste message) to "I'm going to come over there, rip off that stupid dress, and shove my cock down your throat" (not an actual message I've received, but in the vein of many I get).

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

Send them ikea instructions and survival guides -they like practical guys

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By *ortobello SionnachWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

An individual message stands out above all the generic pasted ones.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Send them ikea instructions and survival guides -they like practical guys"

Get them to pick up a fondue set while they're there as well perhaps?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all the help I have taken the advice and obtained a few veris

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