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"how would you speak to a man?" Just grunt and hand 'em a beer . .. they seem to understand that... | |||
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"How do you speak to women in person? It isn’t difficult to speak to people, if you don’t feel comfortable because it’s a woman, forget that, treat them as a person, how would you speak to a man?" Your Majesty *bow and kiss hand* | |||
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"how would you speak to a man? Just grunt and hand 'em a beer . .. they seem to understand that... " +1 | |||
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"How do you speak to women in person? It isn’t difficult to speak to people, if you don’t feel comfortable because it’s a woman, forget that, treat them as a person, how would you speak to a man?" Anyone who feels uncomfortable speaking to women shouldn’t be on here at all. | |||
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"How big are your boobs?" Do you f**k on first date? Does yer dad own a brewery? Can I play with your tits or would you at least show 'em to me? | |||
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"How do you speak to women in person? It isn’t difficult to speak to people, if you don’t feel comfortable because it’s a woman, forget that, treat them as a person, how would you speak to a man? Anyone who feels uncomfortable speaking to women shouldn’t be on here at all. " According to whom? | |||
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"I find "Would you like to give me a soapy tit wank" usually works " | |||
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"Just be yourself, be normal. Is it really so difficult to chat to some women?! "Normal??? Find me one of those people!! | |||
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"FAF?" Yes please 
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"FAF?Yes please
Oh sorry, you were answering the question... ". You’re in no fit state for that! | |||
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"How do you speak to women in person? It isn’t difficult to speak to people, if you don’t feel comfortable because it’s a woman, forget that, treat them as a person, how would you speak to a man? Anyone who feels uncomfortable speaking to women shouldn’t be on here at all. " Why? Really why? | |||
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"How do you speak to women in person? It isn’t difficult to speak to people, if you don’t feel comfortable because it’s a woman, forget that, treat them as a person, how would you speak to a man? Your Majesty *bow and kiss hand*" Hello you | |||
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"How do you speak to women in person? It isn’t difficult to speak to people, if you don’t feel comfortable because it’s a woman, forget that, treat them as a person, how would you speak to a man? Anyone who feels uncomfortable speaking to women shouldn’t be on here at all. Why? Really why? "Because you will be shit out of luck on here too. | |||
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"How do you speak to women in person? It isn’t difficult to speak to people, if you don’t feel comfortable because it’s a woman, forget that, treat them as a person, how would you speak to a man? Anyone who feels uncomfortable speaking to women shouldn’t be on here at all. According to whom?" According to common sense. If someone is so badly adjusted that they can’t cope with interacting with members of the opposite sex they should get help with that before coming on here. I’ve seen some of the downright sick and weird messages some guys send to women on here, and it isn’t pretty. Presumably they do this because they lack the ability to interact normally and respectfully with women. It also ruins the place for the rest of us. | |||
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"What are some of the best things to say to a girl without sounding boring after the initial ice breaker " Try something humorous or try to be humble is a direction that does work with some. Just be yourself though.  | |||
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"How do you speak to women in person? It isn’t difficult to speak to people, if you don’t feel comfortable because it’s a woman, forget that, treat them as a person, how would you speak to a man? Anyone who feels uncomfortable speaking to women shouldn’t be on here at all. " I sort of agree in a weird way. If you don’t feel comfortable talking to me, how will you feel comfortable finger blasting me? | |||
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"How do you speak to women in person? It isn’t difficult to speak to people, if you don’t feel comfortable because it’s a woman, forget that, treat them as a person, how would you speak to a man? Anyone who feels uncomfortable speaking to women shouldn’t be on here at all. According to whom? According to common sense. If someone is so badly adjusted that they can’t cope with interacting with members of the opposite sex they should get help with that before coming on here. I’ve seen some of the downright sick and weird messages some guys send to women on here, and it isn’t pretty. Presumably they do this because they lack the ability to interact normally and respectfully with women. It also ruins the place for the rest of us. " Nooooooooo men who send weird/strange/odd/horrible messages do NOT ruin it for lovely genuine men | |||
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"How do you speak to women in person? It isn’t difficult to speak to people, if you don’t feel comfortable because it’s a woman, forget that, treat them as a person, how would you speak to a man? Anyone who feels uncomfortable speaking to women shouldn’t be on here at all. I sort of agree in a weird way. If you don’t feel comfortable talking to me, how will you feel comfortable finger blasting me?" Hahaha. That made me proper laugh | |||
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"How do you speak to women in person? It isn’t difficult to speak to people, if you don’t feel comfortable because it’s a woman, forget that, treat them as a person, how would you speak to a man? Anyone who feels uncomfortable speaking to women shouldn’t be on here at all. I sort of agree in a weird way. If you don’t feel comfortable talking to me, how will you feel comfortable finger blasting me?" Hello your Royal Thighness | |||
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"How do you speak to women in person? It isn’t difficult to speak to people, if you don’t feel comfortable because it’s a woman, forget that, treat them as a person, how would you speak to a man? Anyone who feels uncomfortable speaking to women shouldn’t be on here at all. I sort of agree in a weird way. If you don’t feel comfortable talking to me, how will you feel comfortable finger blasting me? Hello your Royal Thighness "Hello! I’ve only recently notices the ‘thigh’ and I’m curious as to why | |||
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"How do you speak to women in person? It isn’t difficult to speak to people, if you don’t feel comfortable because it’s a woman, forget that, treat them as a person, how would you speak to a man? Anyone who feels uncomfortable speaking to women shouldn’t be on here at all. I sort of agree in a weird way. If you don’t feel comfortable talking to me, how will you feel comfortable finger blasting me? Hahaha. That made me proper laugh " | |||
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"How do you speak to women in person? It isn’t difficult to speak to people, if you don’t feel comfortable because it’s a woman, forget that, treat them as a person, how would you speak to a man? Anyone who feels uncomfortable speaking to women shouldn’t be on here at all. According to whom? According to common sense. If someone is so badly adjusted that they can’t cope with interacting with members of the opposite sex they should get help with that before coming on here. I’ve seen some of the downright sick and weird messages some guys send to women on here, and it isn’t pretty. Presumably they do this because they lack the ability to interact normally and respectfully with women. It also ruins the place for the rest of us. Nooooooooo men who send weird/strange/odd/horrible messages do NOT ruin it for lovely genuine men "Messages from dapper, charming gents (like me) get buried in amongst all the dross . | |||
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"How do you speak to women in person? It isn’t difficult to speak to people, if you don’t feel comfortable because it’s a woman, forget that, treat them as a person, how would you speak to a man? Anyone who feels uncomfortable speaking to women shouldn’t be on here at all. I sort of agree in a weird way. If you don’t feel comfortable talking to me, how will you feel comfortable finger blasting me?" With a glove? | |||
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"How do you speak to women in person? It isn’t difficult to speak to people, if you don’t feel comfortable because it’s a woman, forget that, treat them as a person, how would you speak to a man? Anyone who feels uncomfortable speaking to women shouldn’t be on here at all. Why? Really why? Because you will be shit out of luck on here too."Thats twatshit though as there are guys who lets face it are that good looking that make you and me look like the chuckle brothers ok you lets not exaggerate, who struggle with words both typed or verbal but they still do well on here. | |||
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"How do you speak to women in person? It isn’t difficult to speak to people, if you don’t feel comfortable because it’s a woman, forget that, treat them as a person, how would you speak to a man? Anyone who feels uncomfortable speaking to women shouldn’t be on here at all. I sort of agree in a weird way. If you don’t feel comfortable talking to me, how will you feel comfortable finger blasting me?" Finger blasting - a new one on me! | |||
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"How do you speak to women in person? It isn’t difficult to speak to people, if you don’t feel comfortable because it’s a woman, forget that, treat them as a person, how would you speak to a man? Anyone who feels uncomfortable speaking to women shouldn’t be on here at all. According to whom? According to common sense. If someone is so badly adjusted that they can’t cope with interacting with members of the opposite sex they should get help with that before coming on here. I’ve seen some of the downright sick and weird messages some guys send to women on here, and it isn’t pretty. Presumably they do this because they lack the ability to interact normally and respectfully with women. It also ruins the place for the rest of us. Nooooooooo men who send weird/strange/odd/horrible messages do NOT ruin it for lovely genuine men
Messages from dapper, charming gents (like me) get buried in amongst all the dross . "Nahhh, not if they use their filters effectively | |||
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"How do you speak to women in person? It isn’t difficult to speak to people, if you don’t feel comfortable because it’s a woman, forget that, treat them as a person, how would you speak to a man? Anyone who feels uncomfortable speaking to women shouldn’t be on here at all. I sort of agree in a weird way. If you don’t feel comfortable talking to me, how will you feel comfortable finger blasting me? Finger blasting - a new one on me! " Want me to try it out on you? | |||
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"How do you speak to women in person? It isn’t difficult to speak to people, if you don’t feel comfortable because it’s a woman, forget that, treat them as a person, how would you speak to a man? Anyone who feels uncomfortable speaking to women shouldn’t be on here at all. I sort of agree in a weird way. If you don’t feel comfortable talking to me, how will you feel comfortable finger blasting me? With a glove? "Depends on the type of role play we’re doing  | |||
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"How do you speak to women in person? It isn’t difficult to speak to people, if you don’t feel comfortable because it’s a woman, forget that, treat them as a person, how would you speak to a man? Anyone who feels uncomfortable speaking to women shouldn’t be on here at all. I sort of agree in a weird way. If you don’t feel comfortable talking to me, how will you feel comfortable finger blasting me? Finger blasting - a new one on me! Want me to try it out on you?" When shall I pop round? | |||
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"How do you speak to women in person? It isn’t difficult to speak to people, if you don’t feel comfortable because it’s a woman, forget that, treat them as a person, how would you speak to a man? Anyone who feels uncomfortable speaking to women shouldn’t be on here at all. Why? Really why? Because you will be shit out of luck on here too.
Thats twatshit though as there are guys who lets face it are that good looking that make you and me look like the chuckle brothers ok you lets not exaggerate, who struggle with words both typed or verbal but they still do well on here. "Maybe with couples but generally single women want some sort of connection. You need to be able to converse through messages and the meet to get lucky. | |||
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"How do you speak to women in person? It isn’t difficult to speak to people, if you don’t feel comfortable because it’s a woman, forget that, treat them as a person, how would you speak to a man? Anyone who feels uncomfortable speaking to women shouldn’t be on here at all. I sort of agree in a weird way. If you don’t feel comfortable talking to me, how will you feel comfortable finger blasting me? Finger blasting - a new one on me! Want me to try it out on you? When shall I pop round? " Now - I have the lube, gloves, and tongs at the ready | |||
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"What are some of the best things to say to a girl without sounding boring after the initial ice breaker " Do you fuck on first dates? | |||
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"How do you speak to women in person? It isn’t difficult to speak to people, if you don’t feel comfortable because it’s a woman, forget that, treat them as a person, how would you speak to a man? Anyone who feels uncomfortable speaking to women shouldn’t be on here at all. I sort of agree in a weird way. If you don’t feel comfortable talking to me, how will you feel comfortable finger blasting me? With a glove?
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"My rule for myself on here os if I cannot think of something that interests me to talk about with them, either from the forum, their profile or a status update I dont mail. That way conversations flows pretty organically." That's exactly how I see it. If there's really nothing to say, why even bother? | |||
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"How do you speak to women in person? It isn’t difficult to speak to people, if you don’t feel comfortable because it’s a woman, forget that, treat them as a person, how would you speak to a man? Anyone who feels uncomfortable speaking to women shouldn’t be on here at all. Why? Really why? Because you will be shit out of luck on here too.
Thats twatshit though as there are guys who lets face it are that good looking that make you and me look like the chuckle brothers ok you lets not exaggerate, who struggle with words both typed or verbal but they still do well on here. Maybe with couples but generally single women want some sort of connection. You need to be able to converse through messages and the meet to get lucky."Who says someone who is uncomfortable still can't be articulate and able to communicate? Gareth Gates stammered like a bastard and struggled communicate but had more beaver than The Mackenzie River. | |||
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"How do you speak to women in person? It isn’t difficult to speak to people, if you don’t feel comfortable because it’s a woman, forget that, treat them as a person, how would you speak to a man? Anyone who feels uncomfortable speaking to women shouldn’t be on here at all. Why? Really why? Because you will be shit out of luck on here too.
Thats twatshit though as there are guys who lets face it are that good looking that make you and me look like the chuckle brothers ok you lets not exaggerate, who struggle with words both typed or verbal but they still do well on here. "No body shaming please! I can’t help the way I look | |||
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"How do you speak to women in person? It isn’t difficult to speak to people, if you don’t feel comfortable because it’s a woman, forget that, treat them as a person, how would you speak to a man? Anyone who feels uncomfortable speaking to women shouldn’t be on here at all. Why? Really why? Because you will be shit out of luck on here too.
Thats twatshit though as there are guys who lets face it are that good looking that make you and me look like the chuckle brothers ok you lets not exaggerate, who struggle with words both typed or verbal but they still do well on here. Maybe with couples but generally single women want some sort of connection. You need to be able to converse through messages and the meet to get lucky.
Who says someone who is uncomfortable still can't be articulate and able to communicate?
Gareth Gates stammered like a bastard and struggled communicate but had more beaver than The Mackenzie River."He was a high status male though for about 15 minutes. They could I just think women would sense it and not find it sexy. | |||
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"How do you speak to women in person? It isn’t difficult to speak to people, if you don’t feel comfortable because it’s a woman, forget that, treat them as a person, how would you speak to a man? Anyone who feels uncomfortable speaking to women shouldn’t be on here at all. Why? Really why? Because you will be shit out of luck on here too.
Thats twatshit though as there are guys who lets face it are that good looking that make you and me look like the chuckle brothers ok you lets not exaggerate, who struggle with words both typed or verbal but they still do well on here. Maybe with couples but generally single women want some sort of connection. You need to be able to converse through messages and the meet to get lucky.
Who says someone who is uncomfortable still can't be articulate and able to communicate?
Gareth Gates stammered like a bastard and struggled communicate but had more beaver than The Mackenzie River. He was a high status male though for about 15 minutes. They could I just think women would sense it and not find it sexy."You missed the point! | |||
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"How do you speak to women in person? It isn’t difficult to speak to people, if you don’t feel comfortable because it’s a woman, forget that, treat them as a person, how would you speak to a man? Anyone who feels uncomfortable speaking to women shouldn’t be on here at all. Why? Really why? Because you will be shit out of luck on here too.
Thats twatshit though as there are guys who lets face it are that good looking that make you and me look like the chuckle brothers ok you lets not exaggerate, who struggle with words both typed or verbal but they still do well on here. Maybe with couples but generally single women want some sort of connection. You need to be able to converse through messages and the meet to get lucky.
Who says someone who is uncomfortable still can't be articulate and able to communicate?
Gareth Gates stammered like a bastard and struggled communicate but had more beaver than The Mackenzie River. He was a high status male though for about 15 minutes. They could I just think women would sense it and not find it sexy.
You missed the point! "I don't think so, I don't miss much. | |||
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"How do you speak to women in person? It isn’t difficult to speak to people, if you don’t feel comfortable because it’s a woman, forget that, treat them as a person, how would you speak to a man? Anyone who feels uncomfortable speaking to women shouldn’t be on here at all. Why? Really why? Because you will be shit out of luck on here too.
Thats twatshit though as there are guys who lets face it are that good looking that make you and me look like the chuckle brothers ok you lets not exaggerate, who struggle with words both typed or verbal but they still do well on here. Maybe with couples but generally single women want some sort of connection. You need to be able to converse through messages and the meet to get lucky.
Who says someone who is uncomfortable still can't be articulate and able to communicate?
Gareth Gates stammered like a bastard and struggled communicate but had more beaver than The Mackenzie River. He was a high status male though for about 15 minutes. They could I just think women would sense it and not find it sexy.
You missed the point! I don't think so, I don't miss much." | |||
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"So your assuming that because I wanted to say something more interesting than usual, you think I send disrespectful messages i think your chattinga loaf of crap mate " I don’t think anyone implied that | |||
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"How do you speak to women in person? It isn’t difficult to speak to people, if you don’t feel comfortable because it’s a woman, forget that, treat them as a person, how would you speak to a man? Anyone who feels uncomfortable speaking to women shouldn’t be on here at all. Why? Really why? Because you will be shit out of luck on here too.
Thats twatshit though as there are guys who lets face it are that good looking that make you and me look like the chuckle brothers ok you lets not exaggerate, who struggle with words both typed or verbal but they still do well on here. Maybe with couples but generally single women want some sort of connection. You need to be able to converse through messages and the meet to get lucky.
Who says someone who is uncomfortable still can't be articulate and able to communicate?
Gareth Gates stammered like a bastard and struggled communicate but had more beaver than The Mackenzie River. He was a high status male though for about 15 minutes. They could I just think women would sense it and not find it sexy.
You missed the point! I don't think so, I don't miss much."You clearly did you are obviously doing too much to me to you-ing. Not your fault not everyone can understand every point made. | |||
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"Honestly OP, if you don't know how to speak to a lady at the age of 23, what are you doing on here? " I didn't see him say he dosn't know what to say where does it say that? I thought he was asking for ideas he may think 'Fek them are bad my original ones are better' who knows he hasn't said. | |||
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"How do you speak to women in person? It isn’t difficult to speak to people, if you don’t feel comfortable because it’s a woman, forget that, treat them as a person, how would you speak to a man? Anyone who feels uncomfortable speaking to women shouldn’t be on here at all. Why? Really why? Because you will be shit out of luck on here too.
Thats twatshit though as there are guys who lets face it are that good looking that make you and me look like the chuckle brothers ok you lets not exaggerate, who struggle with words both typed or verbal but they still do well on here. Maybe with couples but generally single women want some sort of connection. You need to be able to converse through messages and the meet to get lucky.
Who says someone who is uncomfortable still can't be articulate and able to communicate?
Gareth Gates stammered like a bastard and struggled communicate but had more beaver than The Mackenzie River. He was a high status male though for about 15 minutes. They could I just think women would sense it and not find it sexy.
You missed the point! I don't think so, I don't miss much.
You clearly did you are obviously doing too much to me to you-ing. Not your fault not everyone can understand every point made. "Elaborate then, your example was poor. Women like confidence in men it is a fact. | |||
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"Mate I have a very dry sense of humour which normally works on girls face to face but through text can come across differently then intended " Press reply + quote if you wanna respond to someone | |||
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"How do you speak to women in person? It isn’t difficult to speak to people, if you don’t feel comfortable because it’s a woman, forget that, treat them as a person, how would you speak to a man? Anyone who feels uncomfortable speaking to women shouldn’t be on here at all. Why? Really why? Because you will be shit out of luck on here too.
Thats twatshit though as there are guys who lets face it are that good looking that make you and me look like the chuckle brothers ok you lets not exaggerate, who struggle with words both typed or verbal but they still do well on here. Maybe with couples but generally single women want some sort of connection. You need to be able to converse through messages and the meet to get lucky.
Who says someone who is uncomfortable still can't be articulate and able to communicate?
Gareth Gates stammered like a bastard and struggled communicate but had more beaver than The Mackenzie River. He was a high status male though for about 15 minutes. They could I just think women would sense it and not find it sexy.
You missed the point! I don't think so, I don't miss much.
You clearly did you are obviously doing too much to me to you-ing. Not your fault not everyone can understand every point made. Elaborate then, your example was poor. Women like confidence in men it is a fact."Well read again though you clearly ignored the point "Who says someone who is uncomfortable still can't be articulate and able to communicate?" Also people can be both confident yet still struggle to communicate eloquently at times. Not my fault if you struggle with the concept thats your bag fella. | |||
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"Honestly OP, if you don't know how to speak to a lady at the age of 23, what are you doing on here? " At 23 I would have been boring as hell to any girl I chatted to. Being on here only improve my conversation skills. At least he is looking for ways to improve it | |||
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"How do you speak to women in person? It isn’t difficult to speak to people, if you don’t feel comfortable because it’s a woman, forget that, treat them as a person, how would you speak to a man? Anyone who feels uncomfortable speaking to women shouldn’t be on here at all. Why? Really why? Because you will be shit out of luck on here too.
Thats twatshit though as there are guys who lets face it are that good looking that make you and me look like the chuckle brothers ok you lets not exaggerate, who struggle with words both typed or verbal but they still do well on here. Maybe with couples but generally single women want some sort of connection. You need to be able to converse through messages and the meet to get lucky.
Who says someone who is uncomfortable still can't be articulate and able to communicate?
Gareth Gates stammered like a bastard and struggled communicate but had more beaver than The Mackenzie River. He was a high status male though for about 15 minutes. They could I just think women would sense it and not find it sexy.
You missed the point! I don't think so, I don't miss much.
You clearly did you are obviously doing too much to me to you-ing. Not your fault not everyone can understand every point made. Elaborate then, your example was poor. Women like confidence in men it is a fact.
Well read again though you clearly ignored the point "Who says someone who is uncomfortable still can't be articulate and able to communicate?"
Also people can be both confident yet still struggle to communicate eloquently at times.
Not my fault if you struggle with the concept thats your bag fella.
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"I say ‘Hi’ They say ‘you’re not my type but happy Fabbing’ I say ‘well I didn’t even like you anyway you fat pig, your loss sunshine you should be grateful I messaged you, I’m the best you’ll never have. I wouldn’t even look twice at you in a pub. You slaaaaaaag!’ It’s my go-to follow up tactic "You're forgetting to call her a timewaster silly. | |||
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"I say ‘Hi’ They say ‘you’re not my type but happy Fabbing’ I say ‘well I didn’t even like you anyway you fat pig, your loss sunshine you should be grateful I messaged you, I’m the best you’ll never have. I wouldn’t even look twice at you in a pub. You slaaaaaaag!’ It’s my go-to follow up tactic "
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"How do you speak to women in person? It isn’t difficult to speak to people, if you don’t feel comfortable because it’s a woman, forget that, treat them as a person, how would you speak to a man? Anyone who feels uncomfortable speaking to women shouldn’t be on here at all. Why? Really why? Because you will be shit out of luck on here too.
Thats twatshit though as there are guys who lets face it are that good looking that make you and me look like the chuckle brothers ok you lets not exaggerate, who struggle with words both typed or verbal but they still do well on here. Maybe with couples but generally single women want some sort of connection. You need to be able to converse through messages and the meet to get lucky.
Who says someone who is uncomfortable still can't be articulate and able to communicate?
Gareth Gates stammered like a bastard and struggled communicate but had more beaver than The Mackenzie River. He was a high status male though for about 15 minutes. They could I just think women would sense it and not find it sexy.
You missed the point! I don't think so, I don't miss much.
You clearly did you are obviously doing too much to me to you-ing. Not your fault not everyone can understand every point made. Elaborate then, your example was poor. Women like confidence in men it is a fact.
Well read again though you clearly ignored the point "Who says someone who is uncomfortable still can't be articulate and able to communicate?"
Also people can be both confident yet still struggle to communicate eloquently at times.
Not my fault if you struggle with the concept thats your bag fella.
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"What are some of the best things to say to a girl without sounding boring after the initial ice breaker " Make it about the person maybe an observation liking the location the person is in (or not) just keep it chatty. | |||
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I'll have to take you pair out one night and show you how it's done
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Queenie is mature well beyond her years and has silly coloured hair sometimes , much like my goatee
Silly?! I look amazing
How about first thing in the morning?
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Flanter - I hate that term
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Flanter - I hate that term
Me too but its what he needs
Or poetry. Poetry works."That it does.. Its a bit tricky though if you aren't a poetic soul | |||
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Flanter - I hate that term
Me too but its what he needs
Or poetry. Poetry works.
That it does..
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Is she a right filthy cow or what?
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You never know what could drop into a big gape"You wanna see what I've got as ma screensaver on ma PC in that case | |||
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"How do you approach a woman who has no hobbies or intrests whatsoever? And a bland boring self centered personality? I just instantly tell her my fetishes because there is no other thing worth talking to her about. Generic woman's main conversation will be her exhusband, work or her children. " You probably wouldn't approach her if you assume you have nothing in common. What would be the point. | |||
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He can check out my posts on here for guidance on flanter . "Tbh i don't think you have it either... from what I have seen so far anyway.. But maybe your approach is different in PM | |||
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"Normally the lady will have a predictably bland boring profile with no personality or intrests and just pictures of herself. ^^^you will struggle making conversation with that lady. Then she will moan about your "one liner"...But what does she expect? I prefer talking about real things to real people and not giving selfie girl an ego boost. Like what Like the lady on the other thread who goes fishing. She has a dimension to her personality. She has a topic of conversation other than her pussy. So you talk about fishing? Was just wondering what real things you talk about to the real people. It's on the "hobbies" thread. Whenever I read a woman's profile and it's all about sex or men or dateing.... That's all I have to go off. Then they complain about men writing sexual first messages. But if they had some kind of intresting thing about themselves like a hobby or sport.... Then I would rather talk about that and it's much easier to break the I've propperly. Otherwise I just send my copy and paste. Because if the woman has't got anything worth talking about in her profile then she will get a copy and paste from me. Then she will complain... But if she's not got anything to talk about then I only see her as someone to have sex with rather than someone I can relate to on my level of intresting." But how would you know she has nothing to talk about just going by her profile? I don’t put all my hobbies on my profile as they are relevant to my open marriage | |||
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" But how would you know she has nothing to talk about just going by her profile? I don’t put all my hobbies on my profile as they are relevant to my open marriage" I try to probe them a little. But many of these people don't match my level of personality/intrestingness I can play a game where I pretend to like love island or I am a celebrity... Pretend I also have an iq of 100. Btw...I keep telling people when I first came to fab I was hear as a couple. My partner was in an open marriage. She was smarter and more successful than me. | |||
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" But how would you know she has nothing to talk about just going by her profile? I don’t put all my hobbies on my profile as they are relevant to my open marriage I try to probe them a little. But many of these people don't match my level of personality/intrestingness I can play a game where I pretend to like love island or I am a celebrity... Pretend I also have an iq of 100. Btw...I keep telling people when I first came to fab I was hear as a couple. My partner was in an open marriage. She was smarter and more successful than me. " Ok | |||
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"Normally the lady will have a predictably bland boring profile with no personality or intrests and just pictures of herself. ^^^you will struggle making conversation with that lady. Then she will moan about your "one liner"...But what does she expect? I prefer talking about real things to real people and not giving selfie girl an ego boost. Like what Like the lady on the other thread who goes fishing. She has a dimension to her personality. She has a topic of conversation other than her pussy. So you talk about fishing? Was just wondering what real things you talk about to the real people. It's on the "hobbies" thread. Whenever I read a woman's profile and it's all about sex or men or dateing.... That's all I have to go off. Then they complain about men writing sexual first messages. But if they had some kind of intresting thing about themselves like a hobby or sport.... Then I would rather talk about that and it's much easier to break the I've propperly. Otherwise I just send my copy and paste. Because if the woman has't got anything worth talking about in her profile then she will get a copy and paste from me. Then she will complain... But if she's not got anything to talk about then I only see her as someone to have sex with rather than someone I can relate to on my level of intresting." But then this isnt meant to be a dating site, most people will keep that information to themselves initially. It will be the clever conversationalist, with a charming personality, that will tease the more exciting parts of a person from them, with a touch of effort both ways. I see no point whatsoever in trying to engage in what you assume to be a dead end conversation from the start. If the profile lacks the details you think you want,just pass it by. You will feel a lot less negative about ladies who are no greater than the sum of their 'pussy' then , and will surely go on to find the sort of connections that you deserve. | |||
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" I hope that is a joke. If not, then you are part of the problem. Telling someone you fetishes immediately isn’t likely to lead to success on here, or anywhere else for that matter. Your not listerning... I talk to people who have something worth talking about. If I just see selfies and generic bland profile I talk fetishes or copy and paste. If it's some woman who clearly shows she is intresting person I rather talk normally to her about mutual intrests. If it's a person with no hobbies or intrests listed I can assume she is boring company and her pussy is the only intresting thing. So why not simply restrict yourself to speaking to people you find interesting? Why waste your own time sending the one liner/list of fetishes to someone you don’t find appealing in the first place!? " Because he would have no reason to moan about boring 'generic woman' then. | |||
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" I hope that is a joke. If not, then you are part of the problem. Telling someone you fetishes immediately isn’t likely to lead to success on here, or anywhere else for that matter. Your not listerning... I talk to people who have something worth talking about. If I just see selfies and generic bland profile I talk fetishes or copy and paste. If it's some woman who clearly shows she is intresting person I rather talk normally to her about mutual intrests. If it's a person with no hobbies or intrests listed I can assume she is boring company and her pussy is the only intresting thing. So why not simply restrict yourself to speaking to people you find interesting? Why waste your own time sending the one liner/list of fetishes to someone you don’t find appealing in the first place!? Because he would have no reason to moan about boring 'generic woman' then. "I really must learn how to cut and paste | |||
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"Normally the lady will have a predictably bland boring profile with no personality or intrests and just pictures of herself. ^^^you will struggle making conversation with that lady. Then she will moan about your "one liner"...But what does she expect? I prefer talking about real things to real people and not giving selfie girl an ego boost. " On a site where the rules say you must be in every picture, what, pray tell, should be in my pictures? Particularly as I don't like to give too much away (so action shots are out)? And goodness, of course profiles are going to talk about sex. You can write interesting messages to sexual profiles without copy paste, one liners, or jumping straight into the niche and crude. And... the only person who gets the blame for sending an unwelcome message is the person sending the message. | |||
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"Normally the lady will have a predictably bland boring profile with no personality or intrests and just pictures of herself. ^^^you will struggle making conversation with that lady. Then she will moan about your "one liner"...But what does she expect? I prefer talking about real things to real people and not giving selfie girl an ego boost. On a site where the rules say you must be in every picture, what, pray tell, should be in my pictures? Particularly as I don't like to give too much away (so action shots are out)? And goodness, of course profiles are going to talk about sex. You can write interesting messages to sexual profiles without copy paste, one liners, or jumping straight into the niche and crude. And... the only person who gets the blame for sending an unwelcome message is the person sending the message. " I agree with that it's true my response to messages that say hello or respond to my messages is always "how are you" as asking someone how they are shows that you are trying to start a conversation | |||
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"They don't actually like "hi, how are you" They think it's boring. But honestly mate. Between me and you. It's really irrelivant. If your rich and good looking physicly it's alot more important than your opening message or chat up line in a bar. The most sucessfull guys haven't got a different personality. They have 6 pack, Ferrari and free time. Business men won't actually get the time. It's people who are good looking with lots of money who don't work alot or do something they find easy." Who is ‘they’ ? Do you speak for all women? | |||
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"They don't actually like "hi, how are you" They think it's boring. But honestly mate. Between me and you. It's really irrelivant. If your rich and good looking physicly it's alot more important than your opening message or chat up line in a bar. The most sucessfull guys haven't got a different personality. They have 6 pack, Ferrari and free time. Business men won't actually get the time. It's people who are good looking with lots of money who don't work alot or do something they find easy. Who is ‘they’ ? Do you speak for all women?" I agree who is they as if your speaking about all women that's not true one bit as i've had some meets based off me asking them how they were. | |||
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"They don't actually like "hi, how are you" They think it's boring. But honestly mate. Between me and you. It's really irrelivant. If your rich and good looking physicly it's alot more important than your opening message or chat up line in a bar. The most sucessfull guys haven't got a different personality. They have 6 pack, Ferrari and free time. Business men won't actually get the time. It's people who are good looking with lots of money who don't work alot or do something they find easy." I don’t think that’s right. Agreed with looks but, if anything being, rich etc is probably less important on a site like this. This isn’t supposed to be a dating site! Plus, even if it was, not all women are fussed about money/wealth. It’s impossible to generalise. | |||
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"Sometimes you just want quick random sex. And the woman your messaging wants quick random sex also. My record comes from once letting my friend talk to some random woman on my behalf (on the most popular dateing sight). The background to this is I was upset coz my girlfriend left me and my friend wanted me "back on the horse"...I picked him up and was in the shower while he was on my profile. After 5 mins of his low inteligence drivvel messages I had a d*unk married 26 year old women (on the rebound from her cheating partner). I picked her up in my car...got her a 12 pack of stella. ...played 80s music in my flat....then had amazing fun sex. I had NOTHING in common with her. The whole online conversation she recieved was my mate (who has the brain of a 14 year old girl)...talking meaninglessly with her about like "awwww xx" "how come xx" type drivvel. Me personally I can't talk to people on that level. But I still need sex. " Not sure of a response to all that so, Did your mate get to watch at least.
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" The whole online conversation she recieved was my mate (who has the brain of a 14 year old girl)...talking meaninglessly with her about like "awwww xx" "how come xx" type drivvel. " You mean all he did was demonstrate some empathy and she fell for it? Remarkable. | |||
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"What are some of the best things to say to a girl without sounding boring after the initial ice breaker " Just come across as friendly. No sexual comments as a first contact. Point out something you liked on their profile, so they know you took the time to read it. Not fool proof, but hopefully it will illicit a response from some | |||
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" Who is ‘they’ ? Do you speak for all women?" When I say "they" (reffering to women) I am reffering to "the broad masses". I do exactly the same thing with men I genralise about. There are women and men who make up "the broad masses". If I'm refering specificly to women in "the broad masses". I don't mean individuals. I certainly meet women who are on my wavelength. But I'm trying to "teach to the middle of the classroom". And I know by observation of profiles that alot of women moan about "hi how are you? Xx" messages. So the man has to be more imaginative.....But that's really not important...she (refering to broad masses) is more into his 6 pack/penis/car/home. Conversation is mostly irrelivant. | |||
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".... “how are you? I’m PB”. And then launch into something interesting and connected to her and her profile... usually works for me. "PB? Let me guess: “Hi, Can I show you my business card and buy you dinner at Dorsia? Let me know and I’ll get my secretary to schedule it. There will only be the one date because, at the end of the evening, I will probably murder you with a nail gun. Yours, Pat Bateman.” | |||
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".... “how are you? I’m PB”. And then launch into something interesting and connected to her and her profile... usually works for me.
PB?
Let me guess:
“Hi,
Can I show you my business card and buy you dinner at Dorsia?
Let me know and I’ll get my secretary to schedule it.
There will only be the one date because, at the end of the evening, I will probably murder you with a nail gun.
Yours,
Pat Bateman.”
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".... “how are you? I’m PB”. And then launch into something interesting and connected to her and her profile... usually works for me.
PB?
Let me guess:
“Hi,
Can I show you my business card and buy you dinner at Texarkana?
Let me know and I’ll get my secretary to schedule it.
There will only be the one date because, at the end of the evening, I will probably murder you with a nail gun.
Yours,
Pat Bateman.”
"FTFY, even Bateman couldn't get a reservation at Dorsia. | |||
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" Who is ‘they’ ? Do you speak for all women? When I say "they" (reffering to women) I am reffering to "the broad masses". I do exactly the same thing with men I genralise about. There are women and men who make up "the broad masses". If I'm refering specificly to women in "the broad masses". I don't mean individuals. I certainly meet women who are on my wavelength. But I'm trying to "teach to the middle of the classroom". And I know by observation of profiles that alot of women moan about "hi how are you? Xx" messages. So the man has to be more imaginative.....But that's really not important...she (refering to broad masses) is more into his 6 pack/penis/car/home. Conversation is mostly irrelivant. " Haha
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" You mean all he did was demonstrate some empathy and she fell for it? Remarkable. "He fucked his girlfriends best friend. He never had a job and he lives with her while she is a teacher.
"He demonstrated empathy"
Because he laughs and celebrates fucking her best friend while she hasn't got a clue.
I personally tell him he is scum.
But this just proves my point when you say "he demonstrates empathy"
He demonstrates pure perfect empathy on a superficial level because he is a "player".
He lies all the time and gets women all the time. He is the master. And he tries to show off about it to me and I don't care.
"He demonstrates empathy"...But the joke is on women.
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"So..... Let me get this straight. I need to find an ex husband, a job and some kids so I'll have something to talk about. I should list my hobbies on my profile so I'm not boring, even though my hobbies might be boring. I don't want to meet nice people, just six packs that have money. And a Ferrari. Now I know where I've been going wrong!! Off to rectify
Mrs"Nobody cares about job and children tbh. If you do a career that's fun you can mention it. But if your in an office then it's not really intresting no matter how much money you earn. I don't like women talking too much about children to New men in their lives. I have a haunting nightmare about one of my first girlfriends who wanted me to meet family and child on 2nd date... After being a early years teacher I can deal with it professionally but I really feel for men in this situation. If you have really boring hobbies you should really mention them. My personal preference is women who have hobbies no matter what they are. If I'm not getting a blow job I want intellectual stimulation over dinner or a mutual intrest. | |||
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".... “how are you? I’m PB”. And then launch into something interesting and connected to her and her profile... usually works for me.
PB?
Let me guess:
“Hi,
Can I show you my business card and buy you dinner at Texarkana?
Let me know and I’ll get my secretary to schedule it.
There will only be the one date because, at the end of the evening, I will probably murder you with a nail gun.
Yours,
Pat Bateman.”
FTFY, even Bateman couldn't get a reservation at Dorsia."Haha touché (and good knowledge of the film demonstrated there). They opened a restaurant in London called Dorsia a few years back (the Dorsia in the film was fictional). Its closed down now so it can’t have been up to much! | |||
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"So..... Let me get this straight. I need to find an ex husband, a job and some kids so I'll have something to talk about. I should list my hobbies on my profile so I'm not boring, even though my hobbies might be boring. I don't want to meet nice people, just six packs that have money. And a Ferrari. Now I know where I've been going wrong!! Off to rectify
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Nobody cares about job and children tbh.
If you do a career that's fun you can mention it. But if your in an office then it's not really intresting no matter how much money you earn.
I don't like women talking too much about children to New men in their lives. I have a haunting nightmare about one of my first girlfriends who wanted me to meet family and child on 2nd date...
After being a early years teacher I can deal with it professionally but I really feel for men in this situation.
If you have really boring hobbies you should really mention them.
My personal preference is women who have hobbies no matter what they are. If I'm not getting a blow job I want intellectual stimulation over dinner or a mutual intrest.
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"So..... Let me get this straight. I need to find an ex husband, a job and some kids so I'll have something to talk about. I should list my hobbies on my profile so I'm not boring, even though my hobbies might be boring. I don't want to meet nice people, just six packs that have money. And a Ferrari. Now I know where I've been going wrong!! Off to rectify
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Nobody cares about job and children tbh.
If you do a career that's fun you can mention it. But if your in an office then it's not really intresting no matter how much money you earn.
I don't like women talking too much about children to New men in their lives. I have a haunting nightmare about one of my first girlfriends who wanted me to meet family and child on 2nd date...
After being a early years teacher I can deal with it professionally but I really feel for men in this situation.
If you have really boring hobbies you should really mention them.
My personal preference is women who have hobbies no matter what they are. If I'm not getting a blow job I want intellectual stimulation over dinner or a mutual intrest.
Keep in mind that peoples’ children tend to be somewhat important to them, so perhaps that is why they want to talk about them. "I talk with someone about our children. They love them as Much as I love mine. I never get why one person, who has no interest in something, assumes that everyone must feel exactly the same way | |||
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" You mean all he did was demonstrate some empathy and she fell for it? Remarkable.
He fucked his girlfriends best friend.
He never had a job and he lives with her while she is a teacher.
"He demonstrated empathy"
Because he laughs and celebrates fucking her best friend while she hasn't got a clue.
I personally tell him he is scum.
But this just proves my point when you say "he demonstrates empathy"
He demonstrates pure perfect empathy on a superficial level because he is a "player".
He lies all the time and gets women all the time. He is the master. And he tries to show off about it to me and I don't care.
"He demonstrates empathy"...But the joke is on women.
"Sharks are ferrocious and magestic" (bad teacher)"Sorry, this does not make any sense, too much tangential information. Other people's hobbies are often pretty boring - interesting people can be interesting talking about bugger all, it's all in the connection. I agree empathy can be faked, but it is one example of a way to connect regardless of the subject matter. | |||
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" I talk with someone about our children. They love them as Much as I love mine. I never get why one person, who has no interest in something, assumes that everyone must feel exactly the same way "Why did the German girl make me play with her kid (deliberately) on a 2nd date? While anouther lady observed? They were obviously testing my interactions with children. (Before I ever worked as a teacher) I can't explain how moronic it is to introduce random men to your children. But that's what she did and I had to play the game. Plenty of mother's let random men they meet at 3am go back to their house while children are sleeping... It's not in the best intrests of good parenting. I'm specificly not intrested in a woman's children untill I know her propperly first. I've dated women who seem like they meet a new man every week and introduce him to the children... Because the children tell me about it! Morraly I think it's a poor sign. But also...I love my mother but I don't force her on a girl I just met! Nobody wants baggage on a 1st date. Normally it's etiquet to date someone for ATLEAST 2 month before a decision is made on meeting children. Plenty of people live vicariously through their children anyway. | |||
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" I talk with someone about our children. They love them as Much as I love mine. I never get why one person, who has no interest in something, assumes that everyone must feel exactly the same way
Why did the German girl make me play with her kid (deliberately) on a 2nd date?
While anouther lady observed?
They were obviously testing my interactions with children.
(Before I ever worked as a teacher)
I can't explain how moronic it is to introduce random men to your children.
But that's what she did and I had to play the game.
Plenty of mother's let random men they meet at 3am go back to their house while children are sleeping...
It's not in the best intrests of good parenting.
I'm specificly not intrested in a woman's children untill I know her propperly first.
I've dated women who seem like they meet a new man every week and introduce him to the children...
Because the children tell me about it!
Morraly I think it's a poor sign.
But also...I love my mother but I don't force her on a girl I just met!
Nobody wants baggage on a 1st date. Normally it's etiquet to date someone for ATLEAST 2 month before a decision is made on meeting children.
Plenty of people live vicariously through their children anyway."If you refer to peoples’ children as “baggage” I can see where you’re going wrong... | |||
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" I agree empathy can be faked, but it is one example of a way to connect regardless of the subject matter." The problem with "empathy" is it does feel very fake to me in most situations. I do feel empathy. But I'm autistic. I see more people who are not genuine using "empathy" they don't feel as a way of manipulating people. A sociopath or a narcasist doesn't feel empthy but they can use it to play people. An autistic is always honest and blunt without reguard for social surroundings. I think neurotypical people try to mirror what the sociopaths and narcasists do to a degree. "Are you ok?" "Your not that fat" "I'm worried about you" etc...then they will talk behind your back to someone else... Genuinely I feel neurotypical people tell "little white lies" very subtly... My brain always struggled with the morality behind such "small talk". Contry to how I come across. I can lie and act like a neurotypical person though it's alot of effort. | |||
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