FabSwingers.com forum: I,m to nice !WTF..?

By *ifferent69 OP Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

Have a married male mate who I,m friends with wife to...

He told me that in conversation with wife he asked would be interested in me.

Answer, physically maybe but I,m just to nice to consider to fuck.....WTF..

I took it as a compliment...

But got me thinking ,do women consider nice guys to be a poor fuck? Therefore unappealing as fear the guy would be a disappointment....not masculine enough.?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is being nice emasculating ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s up there with “I value our friendship too much” in the “there’s no way you’re EVER getting into my knickers” stakes, isn’t it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is being nice emasculating ? "

That’s what I was thinking

My husband is the nicest man I know and no, it’s never a ‘poor fuck’

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By *oney to the beeWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

I think he was just trying to be nice and let you down as there are probably other reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The "you are a lovely bloke" defence.

It normally means nothing of the sort. I heard that a lot before I was an arsehole. Now I just get blocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont think the your too nice style of rejection is ever genuine.. its the nicest way they can think of saying there is zero attraction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont think the your too nice style of rejection is ever genuine.. its the nicest way they can think of saying there is zero attraction"

People in this day and age don’t know how to take hints....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice is good in life, but I'd need to feel like they wouldn't be too 'nice' in the bedroom. I'm not looking for politeness or good manners there. As your friend's wife I don't imagine she'll have had much opportunity to see if there's a dirtier side to you, so just might not look at you in too sexual a way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's said nice guys finish last. Which in the circumstances you're outlining sounds a good thing.

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By *ifferent69 OP Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

"Nice is good in life, but I'd need to feel like they wouldn't be too 'nice' in the bedroom. I'm not looking for politeness or good manners there. As your friend's wife I don't imagine she'll have had much opportunity to see if there's a dirtier side to you, so just might not look at you in too sexual a way."
. Oh this is confusing...... So some how a guy ( a nice guy) I some way is expected to give an indication or hint? That once behind the bedroom door he,s no gentlemen? Hows he to do that without ruini g his nice guy credibility.?

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By *ifferent69 OP Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

"I think he was just trying to be nice and let you down as there are probably other reasons. "
. Oooh eck.. had,nt thought of that. Think I need another chat with my mate....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think he was just trying to be nice and let you down as there are probably other reasons. . Oooh eck.. had,nt thought of that. Think I need another chat with my mate....

Yes that would be wise....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nice guys finish last as they say

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