FabSwingers.com forum: Respect

By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Do you think that you're respectful of others? Is it something that's important on fab?

I apologise for the shorthanded thread intro but; Sunday!

Thoughts dear fabbers...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to think I'm respectful of other people's choices and desires. I respect the right to have your own opinion on the forums although so people are right arseholes and really test that respect.

According to some people I'm disrespectful because I don't always reply to messages so I guess it's all open to interpretation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes TEA MONKEY it's important

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and yes - goes without saying really.

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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"I like to think I'm respectful of other people's choices and desires. I respect the right to have your own opinion on the forums although so people are right arseholes and really test that respect.

According to some people I'm disrespectful because I don't always reply to messages so I guess it's all open to interpretation. "

I think respect is a two way thing, people expecting a reply to every message are maybe not being respectful of you...

I think it's more a case of being as you said in your first paragraph

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always respectful and so we should be

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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"Yes TEA MONKEY it's important

Thanks, I feel valued and recognised now.

I wonder if your caps lock is sticking though...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes TEA MONKEY it's important

Thanks, I feel valued and recognised now.

I wonder if your caps lock is sticking though... "
No just an imperfect being.

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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"Yes TEA MONKEY it's important

Thanks, I feel valued and recognised now.

I wonder if your caps lock is sticking though... No just an imperfect being.

Aren't we all fella

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

https://youtu.be/6FOUqQt3Kg0

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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"https://youtu.be/6FOUqQt3Kg0"

I can't use links, is that Aretha by any chance?

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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"Yes and yes - goes without saying really."

Does it?

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"I like to think I'm respectful of other people's choices and desires. I respect the right to have your own opinion on the forums although so people are right arseholes and really test that respect.

According to some people I'm disrespectful because I don't always reply to messages so I guess it's all open to interpretation. "
Sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I’m always respectful and polite, some say I’m too polite x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"https://youtu.be/6FOUqQt3Kg0

I can't use links, is that Aretha by any chance? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I respect those that are worthy of it

If you're being a gobshite though, you're having some back

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Yes. I’m too nice for my own good at times.

I’ve been disappointed recently in the lack of respect some people have shown me.

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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"https://youtu.be/6FOUqQt3Kg0

I can't use links, is that Aretha by any chance?

I can always rely on you

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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"Yes. I’m too nice for my own good at times.

I’ve been disappointed recently in the lack of respect some people have shown me. "

Sadly its always been a common trend on here.

I do think that you reap what you sow to a greater degree though. There are good people on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It begins with respect but i don't take shit for long, i treat others as they treat me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, fuck 'em, fuck 'em all. I am a total git with no respect for anyone

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Do you think you are Op?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Treat others with the respect you expect yourself.

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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"Do you think you are Op? "

Yes I like to think that I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you can treat people with care and consideration and kindness, and be ‘respectful’ of them and their wishes, feelings and rights - but for me to respect someone in the definition of having a ‘deep admiration’ for them ‘elicited by their qualities/achievements/abilities’ - that gets earned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On some level yes. But there are people on here that I have nothing but contempt and disdain for and to be honest I tend treat them with just enough respect to avoid a message from admin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure there are some who may disagree but yes I would say so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On some level yes. But there are people on here that I have nothing but contempt and disdain for and to be honest I tend treat them with just enough respect to avoid a message from admin. "

Thank you

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

I feel I am respectful and remember there is a person behind the profile. Unfortunately my inbox often bears testament to this not always being reciprocated.

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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"I think you can treat people with care and consideration and kindness, and be ‘respectful’ of them and their wishes, feelings and rights - but for me to respect someone in the definition of having a ‘deep admiration’ for them ‘elicited by their qualities/achievements/abilities’ - that gets earned. "

*nods*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On some level yes. But there are people on here that I have nothing but contempt and disdain for and to be honest I tend treat them with just enough respect to avoid a message from admin. "

In addition to that having respect (the thread header) is very very different to being respectful of someone. I like to think that I'm respectful, that doesn't mean I respect them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am respectful and it is important on here just like anywhere. Sometimes you do have to be assertive, but I always do it in a polite way.

Be kind to one another.

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By *HX6969Man
over a year ago

St Albans

Respect... Yes I am...

But people inhere certainly test you beyond measure.

Especially if you have a different view...

Just look at the married but playing discussion....

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes and yes - goes without saying really.

Does it? "

Well it does for me any anyone contacting me who shows little or no respect is not going to get far

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I am until some cunt pisses me off by being cunty or devious.

All respect lost.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

Yes I believe I am respectful on and off here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something I can say for myself is I am very respectful and polite to others

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

Is it disrespectful not to reply to someone who mails you asking to meet when you state you're not meeting....?

Is it disrespectful not to reply to someone who doesn't match your preferences but mails you anyway asking you to make an exception...?

Is it disrespectful not to reply to guys who send cock pics even though your profile says you don't like receiving them....?

I think most of us give respect where its due

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What one person consider disrespectful another doesnt. You will always piss someone off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. I’m too nice for my own good at times.

I’ve been disappointed recently in the lack of respect some people have shown me.

Sadly its always been a common trend on here.

I do think that you reap what you sow to a greater degree though. There are good people on here"

I agree with this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It begins with respect but i don't take shit for long, i treat others as they treat me."

Off here I'm a doormat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Treat others with the respect you expect yourself."

Well said!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have absolutely no reason to treat anyone with anything but respect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you think that you're respectful of others? Is it something that's important on fab?

I apologise for the shorthanded thread intro but; Sunday!

Thoughts dear fabbers...

I try to be, until they don’t reciprocate, then they have no role in my swinging life. There was an outstanding example of that a few days ago.

And I think respect is crucial to swinging. As someone said elsewhere on the forums, swinging is the art of fucking each other and then respectfully moving on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am always as respectful and well mannered on here as i am everyday life

It’s always served me well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it’s mutual and they deserve my respect then yes. On here and in real life.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I read the OP, Started mentally formulating my reply scrolled through the comments....

"Is it disrespectful not to reply to someone who mails you asking to meet when you state you're not meeting....?

Is it disrespectful not to reply to someone who doesn't match your preferences but mails you anyway asking you to make an exception...?

Is it disrespectful not to reply to guys who send cock pics even though your profile says you don't like receiving them....?

I think most of us give respect where its due

We must have a psychic link x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m respectful.... I treat people nicely ( I hope ) and wouldn’t knowingly do anything to hurt another person.

You’ve got to have a sense of decency ( irony I know ) but unfortunately not all are the same

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