FabSwingers.com forum: Being bloody good looking...

By *hite1100 OP Man
over a year ago

Hither Green

Is a blessing and a curse.

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over a year ago

Someone did this yesterday

I don’t have first hand experience, being well and truly slapped with the ugly stick, but I can imagine that to be the case, although the pros would definitely outweigh the cons I think!

Many doors open and preferential treatment (whether conscious or unconscious) if you’re good looking, but then you also get the unwelcome attention and the jealousies from us fuglies.

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By *hite1100 OP Man
over a year ago

Hither Green

"Someone did this yesterday

I don’t have first hand experience, being well and truly slapped with the ugly stick, but I can imagine that to be the case, although the pros would definitely outweigh the cons I think!

Many doors open and preferential treatment (whether conscious or unconscious) if you’re good looking, but then you also get the unwelcome attention and the jealousies from us fuglies.

I’m going with it anyway, think of it as an encore (#do you want more, cooking raw# etc.)

God blessed me with good looks and height.

I’m absolutely fucking gorgeous: tall, dark and handsome. Just look at my profile pic... That it isn’t a boast, it’s a statement of objective fact.

That curse has followed me around since I reached puberty. But, I’ve been used for sex, messed around, used as a trophy boyfriend etc.

Is any of that fair?

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over a year ago

"Someone did this yesterday

I don’t have first hand experience, being well and truly slapped with the ugly stick, but I can imagine that to be the case, although the pros would definitely outweigh the cons I think!

Many doors open and preferential treatment (whether conscious or unconscious) if you’re good looking, but then you also get the unwelcome attention and the jealousies from us fuglies.

I’m going with it anyway, think of it as an encore (#do you want more, cooking raw# etc.)

God blessed me with good looks and height.

I’m absolutely fucking gorgeous: tall, dark and handsome. Just look at my profile pic... That it isn’t a boast, it’s a statement of objective fact.

That curse has followed me around since I reached puberty. But, I’ve been used for sex, messed around, used as a trophy boyfriend etc.

Is any of that fair? "

Nah, you’re not my type!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone did this yesterday

I don’t have first hand experience, being well and truly slapped with the ugly stick, but I can imagine that to be the case, although the pros would definitely outweigh the cons I think!

Many doors open and preferential treatment (whether conscious or unconscious) if you’re good looking, but then you also get the unwelcome attention and the jealousies from us fuglies.

I’m going with it anyway, think of it as an encore (#do you want more, cooking raw# etc.)

God blessed me with good looks and height.

I’m absolutely fucking gorgeous: tall, dark and handsome. Just look at my profile pic... That it isn’t a boast, it’s a statement of objective fact.

That curse has followed me around since I reached puberty. But, I’ve been used for sex, messed around, used as a trophy boyfriend etc.

Is any of that fair?

Nah, you’re not my type!

I would love to use you for sex

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"Someone did this yesterday

I don’t have first hand experience, being well and truly slapped with the ugly stick, but I can imagine that to be the case, although the pros would definitely outweigh the cons I think!

Many doors open and preferential treatment (whether conscious or unconscious) if you’re good looking, but then you also get the unwelcome attention and the jealousies from us fuglies.

I’m going with it anyway, think of it as an encore (#do you want more, cooking raw# etc.)

God blessed me with good looks and height.

I’m absolutely fucking gorgeous: tall, dark and handsome. Just look at my profile pic... That it isn’t a boast, it’s a statement of objective fact.

That curse has followed me around since I reached puberty. But, I’ve been used for sex, messed around, used as a trophy boyfriend etc.

Is any of that fair? "
I feel your pain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone did this yesterday

I don’t have first hand experience, being well and truly slapped with the ugly stick, but I can imagine that to be the case, although the pros would definitely outweigh the cons I think!

Many doors open and preferential treatment (whether conscious or unconscious) if you’re good looking, but then you also get the unwelcome attention and the jealousies from us fuglies.

I’m going with it anyway, think of it as an encore (#do you want more, cooking raw# etc.)

God blessed me with good looks and height.

I’m absolutely fucking gorgeous: tall, dark and handsome. Just look at my profile pic... That it isn’t a boast, it’s a statement of objective fact.

That curse has followed me around since I reached puberty. But, I’ve been used for sex, messed around, used as a trophy boyfriend etc.

Is any of that fair?

Nah, you’re not my type!

I would love to use you for sex "

Now HERE’S a handsome bearded fucker!

Finally a real looker has arrived in this thread!

And I’m saying that as a straight straight fella!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone did this yesterday

I don’t have first hand experience, being well and truly slapped with the ugly stick, but I can imagine that to be the case, although the pros would definitely outweigh the cons I think!

Many doors open and preferential treatment (whether conscious or unconscious) if you’re good looking, but then you also get the unwelcome attention and the jealousies from us fuglies.

I’m going with it anyway, think of it as an encore (#do you want more, cooking raw# etc.)

God blessed me with good looks and height.

I’m absolutely fucking gorgeous: tall, dark and handsome. Just look at my profile pic... That it isn’t a boast, it’s a statement of objective fact.

That curse has followed me around since I reached puberty. But, I’ve been used for sex, messed around, used as a trophy boyfriend etc.

Is any of that fair?

Nah, you’re not my type!

I would love to use you for sex

Now HERE’S a handsome bearded fucker!

Finally a real looker has arrived in this thread!

And I’m saying that as a straight straight fella!

You are straighter than the Piss Tower

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone did this yesterday

I don’t have first hand experience, being well and truly slapped with the ugly stick, but I can imagine that to be the case, although the pros would definitely outweigh the cons I think!

Many doors open and preferential treatment (whether conscious or unconscious) if you’re good looking, but then you also get the unwelcome attention and the jealousies from us fuglies.

I’m going with it anyway, think of it as an encore (#do you want more, cooking raw# etc.)

God blessed me with good looks and height.

I’m absolutely fucking gorgeous: tall, dark and handsome. Just look at my profile pic... That it isn’t a boast, it’s a statement of objective fact.

That curse has followed me around since I reached puberty. But, I’ve been used for sex, messed around, used as a trophy boyfriend etc.

Is any of that fair? "

Probably not, but unfortunately life isn't fair! And don't forget that when it comes to looks one man's/woman's meat is another's poison. Objectively you may be very handsome but you're never going to be everyone's cup of tea

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I'm just awesome, no discussion needed

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Yeah the struggle is real for me. The compliments, the preferential treatment, the drinks, the jealous and admiring looks non-stop.

People never really see the real me, they assume I'm just some shallow busty wench with a very pretty face. I wanted to wave my degrees in their faces but I've come to accept my fate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

indeed the struggles with vanity must be painful

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall

I'm just "arm candy" myself don't you know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Deppends how its used

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It must be hell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone did this yesterday

I don’t have first hand experience, being well and truly slapped with the ugly stick, but I can imagine that to be the case, although the pros would definitely outweigh the cons I think!

Many doors open and preferential treatment (whether conscious or unconscious) if you’re good looking, but then you also get the unwelcome attention and the jealousies from us fuglies.

I’m going with it anyway, think of it as an encore (#do you want more, cooking raw# etc.)

God blessed me with good looks and height.

I’m absolutely fucking gorgeous: tall, dark and handsome. Just look at my profile pic... That it isn’t a boast, it’s a statement of objective fact.

That curse has followed me around since I reached puberty. But, I’ve been used for sex, messed around, used as a trophy boyfriend etc.

Is any of that fair? "

No it's not fair. If you were perceived as ugly you'd get hugs and glitter.

People are encouraged to love themselves, yet when they do they get abuse. People are jealous and try and knock them down. But that shows more about them than about you.

Be proud of who you are. You're worth more than being a trophy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone did this yesterday

I don’t have first hand experience, being well and truly slapped with the ugly stick, but I can imagine that to be the case, although the pros would definitely outweigh the cons I think!

Many doors open and preferential treatment (whether conscious or unconscious) if you’re good looking, but then you also get the unwelcome attention and the jealousies from us fuglies.

I’m going with it anyway, think of it as an encore (#do you want more, cooking raw# etc.)

God blessed me with good looks and height.

I’m absolutely fucking gorgeous: tall, dark and handsome. Just look at my profile pic... That it isn’t a boast, it’s a statement of objective fact.

That curse has followed me around since I reached puberty. But, I’ve been used for sex, messed around, used as a trophy boyfriend etc.

Is any of that fair?

No it's not fair. If you were perceived as ugly you'd get hugs and glitter.

People are encouraged to love themselves, yet when they do they get abuse. People are jealous and try and knock them down. But that shows more about them than about you.

Be proud of who you are. You're worth more than being a trophy."

This is very true. The same could be said of confidence, which often goes hand-in-hand with good looks. Weakness is far more lauded and supported on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cant quite figure out if this is a joke thread or not...

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over a year ago

"Someone did this yesterday

I don’t have first hand experience, being well and truly slapped with the ugly stick, but I can imagine that to be the case, although the pros would definitely outweigh the cons I think!

Many doors open and preferential treatment (whether conscious or unconscious) if you’re good looking, but then you also get the unwelcome attention and the jealousies from us fuglies.

I’m going with it anyway, think of it as an encore (#do you want more, cooking raw# etc.)

God blessed me with good looks and height.

I’m absolutely fucking gorgeous: tall, dark and handsome. Just look at my profile pic... That it isn’t a boast, it’s a statement of objective fact.

That curse has followed me around since I reached puberty. But, I’ve been used for sex, messed around, used as a trophy boyfriend etc.

Is any of that fair?

Nah, you’re not my type!

I would love to use you for sex

Now HERE’S a handsome bearded fucker!

Finally a real looker has arrived in this thread!

And I’m saying that as a straight straight fella!

I agree. He is totally gorgeous and he never boasts.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"Is a blessing and a curse.

Discuss? "

Let's ask someone good-looking...

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

"Someone did this yesterday

I don’t have first hand experience, being well and truly slapped with the ugly stick, but I can imagine that to be the case, although the pros would definitely outweigh the cons I think!

Many doors open and preferential treatment (whether conscious or unconscious) if you’re good looking, but then you also get the unwelcome attention and the jealousies from us fuglies.

I’m going with it anyway, think of it as an encore (#do you want more, cooking raw# etc.)

God blessed me with good looks and height.

I’m absolutely fucking gorgeous: tall, dark and handsome. Just look at my profile pic... That it isn’t a boast, it’s a statement of objective fact.

That curse has followed me around since I reached puberty. But, I’ve been used for sex, messed around, used as a trophy boyfriend etc.

Is any of that fair? "

Ooo, and modest with it!! My ideal man

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

I get this all the time it’s why I hide my profile and send pics by Pm.

Single men already have a hard time on here as it is without me revealing my magnificence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell me about it. It's a bind I tell ya.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is a blessing and a curse.

Discuss?

Let's ask someone good-looking..."

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over a year ago

"Someone did this yesterday

I don’t have first hand experience, being well and truly slapped with the ugly stick, but I can imagine that to be the case, although the pros would definitely outweigh the cons I think!

Many doors open and preferential treatment (whether conscious or unconscious) if you’re good looking, but then you also get the unwelcome attention and the jealousies from us fuglies.

I’m going with it anyway, think of it as an encore (#do you want more, cooking raw# etc.)

God blessed me with good looks and height.

I’m absolutely fucking gorgeous: tall, dark and handsome. Just look at my profile pic... That it isn’t a boast, it’s a statement of objective fact.

That curse has followed me around since I reached puberty. But, I’ve been used for sex, messed around, used as a trophy boyfriend etc.

Is any of that fair?

Nah, you’re not my type!

I would love to use you for sex "

Ditto.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been banned from having face pics on the internet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is a blessing and a curse.

Discuss? "

I guess I'm just really lucky

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By *ndrew CareyMan
over a year ago

Peterborough, Cambridgeshire & Lincolnshire

"Someone did this yesterday

I don’t have first hand experience, being well and truly slapped with the ugly stick, but I can imagine that to be the case, although the pros would definitely outweigh the cons I think!

Many doors open and preferential treatment (whether conscious or unconscious) if you’re good looking, but then you also get the unwelcome attention and the jealousies from us fuglies.

I’m going with it anyway, think of it as an encore (#do you want more, cooking raw# etc.)

God blessed me with good looks and height.

I’m absolutely fucking gorgeous: tall, dark and handsome. Just look at my profile pic... That it isn’t a boast, it’s a statement of objective fact.

That curse has followed me around since I reached puberty. But, I’ve been used for sex, messed around, used as a trophy boyfriend etc.

Is any of that fair? "

Don't think you are good looking to be honest.

I've also found that the right attitude is more valuable to most people.

Nothing worse than someone who is average looking thinking he's all that.

You must be a hit with the ladies

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By *ndrew CareyMan
over a year ago

Peterborough, Cambridgeshire & Lincolnshire

"Is a blessing and a curse.

Discuss?

Let's ask someone good-looking..."

Nailed it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just wrote this on the other chap's thread: At school the boys were in awe of me and were too scared to approach me.

It didn't help that instead of being the blonde haired, blue eyed bimbo I was top of the class (and year group) at everything, including electronics and TD.

It totally ruined me for them.

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"Someone did this yesterday

I don’t have first hand experience, being well and truly slapped with the ugly stick, but I can imagine that to be the case, although the pros would definitely outweigh the cons I think!

Many doors open and preferential treatment (whether conscious or unconscious) if you’re good looking, but then you also get the unwelcome attention and the jealousies from us fuglies.

I’m going with it anyway, think of it as an encore (#do you want more, cooking raw# etc.)

God blessed me with good looks and height.

I’m absolutely fucking gorgeous: tall, dark and handsome. Just look at my profile pic... That it isn’t a boast, it’s a statement of objective fact.

That curse has followed me around since I reached puberty. But, I’ve been used for sex, messed around, used as a trophy boyfriend etc.

Is any of that fair?

No it's not fair. If you were perceived as ugly you'd get hugs and glitter.

People are encouraged to love themselves, yet when they do they get abuse. People are jealous and try and knock them down. But that shows more about them than about you.

Be proud of who you are. You're worth more than being a trophy."

Lovely answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't matter what you look like some people still won't find you attractive. Being used for anything is more down to your life choices and personality than your looks.

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over a year ago

"Someone did this yesterday

I don’t have first hand experience, being well and truly slapped with the ugly stick, but I can imagine that to be the case, although the pros would definitely outweigh the cons I think!

Many doors open and preferential treatment (whether conscious or unconscious) if you’re good looking, but then you also get the unwelcome attention and the jealousies from us fuglies.

I’m going with it anyway, think of it as an encore (#do you want more, cooking raw# etc.)

God blessed me with good looks and height.

I’m absolutely fucking gorgeous: tall, dark and handsome. Just look at my profile pic... That it isn’t a boast, it’s a statement of objective fact.

That curse has followed me around since I reached puberty. But, I’ve been used for sex, messed around, used as a trophy boyfriend etc.

Is any of that fair?

No it's not fair. If you were perceived as ugly you'd get hugs and glitter.

People are encouraged to love themselves, yet when they do they get abuse. People are jealous and try and knock them down. But that shows more about them than about you.

Be proud of who you are. You're worth more than being a trophy.

This is very true. The same could be said of confidence, which often goes hand-in-hand with good looks. Weakness is far more lauded and supported on here. "

No one is perfect in everyone's eyes.

I think having the confidence in yourself to accept that you have weaknesses and that whilst you try to allow for them they WILL exist is what is probably lauded on here the most, which is understandable?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love to use you for sex "

I’d love you to use me for sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's another thing I don't have to worry about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love to use you for sex

I’d love you to use me for sex

Oh he’s worth it for sure.

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By *carlet_heavenWoman
over a year ago

somewhere in the sticks

"Someone did this yesterday

I don’t have first hand experience, being well and truly slapped with the ugly stick, but I can imagine that to be the case, although the pros would definitely outweigh the cons I think!

Many doors open and preferential treatment (whether conscious or unconscious) if you’re good looking, but then you also get the unwelcome attention and the jealousies from us fuglies.

I’m going with it anyway, think of it as an encore (#do you want more, cooking raw# etc.)

God blessed me with good looks and height.

I’m absolutely fucking gorgeous: tall, dark and handsome. Just look at my profile pic... That it isn’t a boast, it’s a statement of objective fact.

That curse has followed me around since I reached puberty. But, I’ve been used for sex, messed around, used as a trophy boyfriend etc.

Is any of that fair?

No it's not fair. If you were perceived as ugly you'd get hugs and glitter.

People are encouraged to love themselves, yet when they do they get abuse. People are jealous and try and knock them down. But that shows more about them than about you.

Be proud of who you are. You're worth more than being a trophy.

Lovely answer

I totally agree with this...

Since I was 16 I have been confronted with horrendous attitudes & phenomenally incorrect assumptions about what my life is like (or has been like) by both men & women.

I have been told almost without exception that life is in the palm of your hand as a good looking woman...THIS IS TOTALLY UNTRUE in my experience.

I'm not going to elaborate openly in a forum but suffice it to say that I have spent most of my life observing from afar as other people have found true & long lasting relationships (& more importantly) friendships which have alluded me due to people being unable to see me for who I really am.

Either that, or I'm not worthy getting to know-which would be easier to live with!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love to use you for sex

I’d love you to use me for sex

Oh he’s worth it for sure.

I think we should gang bang him girls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is a blessing and a curse.

Discuss? "

Add to the “how do I survive on all the money I earn” thread you posted the other day, you’re eaither a comedian or deluded.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Someone did this yesterday

I don’t have first hand experience, being well and truly slapped with the ugly stick, but I can imagine that to be the case, although the pros would definitely outweigh the cons I think!

Many doors open and preferential treatment (whether conscious or unconscious) if you’re good looking, but then you also get the unwelcome attention and the jealousies from us fuglies.

I’m going with it anyway, think of it as an encore (#do you want more, cooking raw# etc.)

God blessed me with good looks and height.

I’m absolutely fucking gorgeous: tall, dark and handsome. Just look at my profile pic... That it isn’t a boast, it’s a statement of objective fact.

That curse has followed me around since I reached puberty. But, I’ve been used for sex, messed around, used as a trophy boyfriend etc.

Is any of that fair? "

No it isn't objective fact.

Yes it's fair. You believed the hype.

I am sending you to a retreat to develop your inner beauty.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Someone did this yesterday

I don’t have first hand experience, being well and truly slapped with the ugly stick, but I can imagine that to be the case, although the pros would definitely outweigh the cons I think!

Many doors open and preferential treatment (whether conscious or unconscious) if you’re good looking, but then you also get the unwelcome attention and the jealousies from us fuglies.

I’m going with it anyway, think of it as an encore (#do you want more, cooking raw# etc.)

God blessed me with good looks and height.

I’m absolutely fucking gorgeous: tall, dark and handsome. Just look at my profile pic... That it isn’t a boast, it’s a statement of objective fact.

That curse has followed me around since I reached puberty. But, I’ve been used for sex, messed around, used as a trophy boyfriend etc.

Is any of that fair?

No it's not fair. If you were perceived as ugly you'd get hugs and glitter.

People are encouraged to love themselves, yet when they do they get abuse. People are jealous and try and knock them down. But that shows more about them than about you.

Be proud of who you are. You're worth more than being a trophy.

This is very true. The same could be said of confidence, which often goes hand-in-hand with good looks. Weakness is far more lauded and supported on here. "

Yep. Say you're good looking and confident and you'll get knocked down unless, say you're ugly and the whole of fab will tell you you're beautiful and should have confidence.

I find that attitude really frustrating.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

The secret is quiet humility.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love to use you for sex

I’d love you to use me for sex

Oh he’s worth it for sure.

I think we should gang bang him girls

Been there done that.

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By *ndrew CareyMan
over a year ago

Peterborough, Cambridgeshire & Lincolnshire

"I just wrote this on the other chap's thread: At school the boys were in awe of me and were too scared to approach me.

It didn't help that instead of being the blonde haired, blue eyed bimbo I was top of the class (and year group) at everything, including electronics and TD.

It totally ruined me for them."

My kind of woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone did this yesterday

I don’t have first hand experience, being well and truly slapped with the ugly stick, but I can imagine that to be the case, although the pros would definitely outweigh the cons I think!

Many doors open and preferential treatment (whether conscious or unconscious) if you’re good looking, but then you also get the unwelcome attention and the jealousies from us fuglies.

I’m going with it anyway, think of it as an encore (#do you want more, cooking raw# etc.)

God blessed me with good looks and height.

I’m absolutely fucking gorgeous: tall, dark and handsome. Just look at my profile pic... That it isn’t a boast, it’s a statement of objective fact.

That curse has followed me around since I reached puberty. But, I’ve been used for sex, messed around, used as a trophy boyfriend etc.

Is any of that fair?

No it's not fair. If you were perceived as ugly you'd get hugs and glitter.

People are encouraged to love themselves, yet when they do they get abuse. People are jealous and try and knock them down. But that shows more about them than about you.

Be proud of who you are. You're worth more than being a trophy.

This is very true. The same could be said of confidence, which often goes hand-in-hand with good looks. Weakness is far more lauded and supported on here.

Yep. Say you're good looking and confident and you'll get knocked down unless, say you're ugly and the whole of fab will tell you you're beautiful and should have confidence.

I find that attitude really frustrating."

Likewise - and I agree with Granny Crumpet's comment below too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If only looks were all you needed.

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By *hite1100 OP Man
over a year ago

Hither Green

"Someone did this yesterday

I don’t have first hand experience, being well and truly slapped with the ugly stick, but I can imagine that to be the case, although the pros would definitely outweigh the cons I think!

Many doors open and preferential treatment (whether conscious or unconscious) if you’re good looking, but then you also get the unwelcome attention and the jealousies from us fuglies.

I’m going with it anyway, think of it as an encore (#do you want more, cooking raw# etc.)

God blessed me with good looks and height.

I’m absolutely fucking gorgeous: tall, dark and handsome. Just look at my profile pic... That it isn’t a boast, it’s a statement of objective fact.

That curse has followed me around since I reached puberty. But, I’ve been used for sex, messed around, used as a trophy boyfriend etc.

Is any of that fair?

No it's not fair. If you were perceived as ugly you'd get hugs and glitter.

People are encouraged to love themselves, yet when they do they get abuse. People are jealous and try and knock them down. But that shows more about them than about you.

Be proud of who you are. You're worth more than being a trophy.

This is very true. The same could be said of confidence, which often goes hand-in-hand with good looks. Weakness is far more lauded and supported on here.

Yep. Say you're good looking and confident and you'll get knocked down unless, say you're ugly and the whole of fab will tell you you're beautiful and should have confidence.

I find that attitude really frustrating."

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By *hite1100 OP Man
over a year ago

Hither Green

"Someone did this yesterday

I don’t have first hand experience, being well and truly slapped with the ugly stick, but I can imagine that to be the case, although the pros would definitely outweigh the cons I think!

Many doors open and preferential treatment (whether conscious or unconscious) if you’re good looking, but then you also get the unwelcome attention and the jealousies from us fuglies.

I’m going with it anyway, think of it as an encore (#do you want more, cooking raw# etc.)

God blessed me with good looks and height.

I’m absolutely fucking gorgeous: tall, dark and handsome. Just look at my profile pic... That it isn’t a boast, it’s a statement of objective fact.

That curse has followed me around since I reached puberty. But, I’ve been used for sex, messed around, used as a trophy boyfriend etc.

Is any of that fair?

No it's not fair. If you were perceived as ugly you'd get hugs and glitter.

People are encouraged to love themselves, yet when they do they get abuse. People are jealous and try and knock them down. But that shows more about them than about you.

Be proud of who you are. You're worth more than being a trophy.

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I totally agree with this...

Since I was 16 I have been confronted with horrendous attitudes & phenomenally incorrect assumptions about what my life is like (or has been like) by both men & women.

I have been told almost without exception that life is in the palm of your hand as a good looking woman...THIS IS TOTALLY UNTRUE in my experience.

Either that, or I'm not worthy getting to know-which would be easier to live with!"

I feel your pain.

It’s not our fault we didn’t get beaten with the ugly stick, is it?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I'm not the best looking woman in the world neither am I the worst. I'm body confident (mostly) and confident in myself. I don't ask for compliments but I don't respond to them by denying they're true, I don't ask for validation from internetters either. I know my own worth.

High self esteem is something we are told to aspire to but if you have it and have the temerity to say so, you're told you're wrong.

I know there's a lot of other factors but I think people's reaction to good looking men and women is frequently driven by their own feelings of inadequacy.

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over a year ago

I wish people understood what objective fact was.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone did this yesterday

I don’t have first hand experience, being well and truly slapped with the ugly stick, but I can imagine that to be the case, although the pros would definitely outweigh the cons I think!

Many doors open and preferential treatment (whether conscious or unconscious) if you’re good looking, but then you also get the unwelcome attention and the jealousies from us fuglies.

I’m going with it anyway, think of it as an encore (#do you want more, cooking raw# etc.)

God blessed me with good looks and height.

I’m absolutely fucking gorgeous: tall, dark and handsome. Just look at my profile pic... That it isn’t a boast, it’s a statement of objective fact.

That curse has followed me around since I reached puberty. But, I’ve been used for sex, messed around, used as a trophy boyfriend etc.

Is any of that fair?

No it's not fair. If you were perceived as ugly you'd get hugs and glitter.

People are encouraged to love themselves, yet when they do they get abuse. People are jealous and try and knock them down. But that shows more about them than about you.

Be proud of who you are. You're worth more than being a trophy.

Lovely answer

I totally agree with this...

Since I was 16 I have been confronted with horrendous attitudes & phenomenally incorrect assumptions about what my life is like (or has been like) by both men & women.

I have been told almost without exception that life is in the palm of your hand as a good looking woman...THIS IS TOTALLY UNTRUE in my experience.

Either that, or I'm not worthy getting to know-which would be easier to live with!

I feel your pain.

It’s not our fault we didn’t get beaten with the ugly stick, is it? "

I’m trying not to laugh

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Someone did this yesterday

I don’t have first hand experience, being well and truly slapped with the ugly stick, but I can imagine that to be the case, although the pros would definitely outweigh the cons I think!

Many doors open and preferential treatment (whether conscious or unconscious) if you’re good looking, but then you also get the unwelcome attention and the jealousies from us fuglies.

I’m going with it anyway, think of it as an encore (#do you want more, cooking raw# etc.)

God blessed me with good looks and height.

I’m absolutely fucking gorgeous: tall, dark and handsome. Just look at my profile pic... That it isn’t a boast, it’s a statement of objective fact.

That curse has followed me around since I reached puberty. But, I’ve been used for sex, messed around, used as a trophy boyfriend etc.

Is any of that fair?

No it isn't objective fact.

Yes it's fair. You believed the hype.

I am sending you to a retreat to develop your inner beauty. "

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By *bonynivoryCouple
over a year ago

market harborough

"I'm not the best looking woman in the world neither am I the worst. I'm body confident (mostly) and confident in myself. I don't ask for compliments but I don't respond to them by denying they're true, I don't ask for validation from internetters either. I know my own worth.

High self esteem is something we are told to aspire to but if you have it and have the temerity to say so, you're told you're wrong.

I know there's a lot of other factors but I think people's reaction to good looking men and women is frequently driven by their own feelings of inadequacy."

I was thinking exactly this but couldn't word it. Spot on.

Mrs

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

This thread has to be a wind up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to admit to being guilty of this.

People stop and stare and point saying there goes gorgeous George.

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By *ycra loutMan
over a year ago

york/Scarborough

I wouldn't know either way ..never been no oil painting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men won’t approach you out of intimidation. The men who do are the ones who do so with the goal of sex in their mind. In this society, your attractiveness now makes you a trophy for others to polish off, put on their bedroom nightstand, and parade around. Even boyfriends who have grown to care about you for reasons other than the physical do not hesitate to display them with you as a way to show off their masculinity and attractiveness to other people. Though there is nothing wrong with being proud of your partner, there is an inherent aspect of objectification that comes along with displaying your girlfriend as evidence of how bad-ass you are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is a blessing and a curse.

Discuss? "

Heroin might seem like the answer but it’s destroying your family!...

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By *hite1100 OP Man
over a year ago

Hither Green

"Is a blessing and a curse.

Discuss?

Heroin might seem like the answer but it’s destroying your family!..."

Just realised you’ve basically created exactly the same thread as me

Teamwork makes the dream-work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is a blessing and a curse.

Discuss?

Heroin might seem like the answer but it’s destroying your family!..."

It destroyed my brother!!

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By *hite1100 OP Man
over a year ago

Hither Green

"Is a blessing and a curse.

Discuss?

Heroin might seem like the answer but it’s destroying your family!...

It destroyed my brother!! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wish people understood what objective fact was.

I'm beautiful. Fact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is a blessing and a curse.

Discuss?

Heroin might seem like the answer but it’s destroying your family!...

Just realised you’ve basically created exactly the same thread as me

Teamwork makes the dream-work

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Airflow got his in first though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wish people understood what objective fact was.

I'm beautiful. Fact

I object. You’re gorgeous

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By *ervent_fervourMan
over a year ago

Halifax

"Is a blessing and a curse.

Discuss? "

Like Carrie?

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By *ot-AshMan
over a year ago

London

I sadly wasn't blessed in the good looks department!

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