FabSwingers.com forum: Shallow

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have been a fabber for about 9 years on and off and met some great people. However this time I'm looking for single men and even though I'm not the prettiest or have the sexiest body I've been really picky and sometimes brutal about who i want to meet. I've noticed there are soooo many hot bodies out there but then the faces turn me straight out. I feel like a right shallow bitch but it's natural right???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is natural. I tend to find the face is much much more important than the body, I need to want to kiss him.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"It is natural. I tend to find the face is much much more important than the body, I need to want to kiss him. "

Snap

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Yeah, of course it is. If they haven't got a face you want to kiss off what's the point?

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By *arah_tv999TV/TS
over a year ago

Oxford

It's natural, we are all drawn to certain types etc. Don't worry about it, be true to yourself.

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By *allSteveMan
over a year ago

Poole

Guess most women can be shallow on here. Especially with the amount of messages they receive. Nothing wrong with being picky. You still need to have a physical attraction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it's natural to want attraction. you don't get turned on by personality alone

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

The face draws me every time.

It’s not shallow to decline to play with someone you aren’t attracted to.

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By *oftandGentle2Couple
over a year ago

leeds

"It is natural. I tend to find the face is much much more important than the body, I need to want to kiss him.

Snap"

Snap snap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why settle for second best go for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The face is the attraction for me

If you have a face I find attractive, body shape and build fade in comparison

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Doesn't everyone think like this? If they didn't, that is what I would call strange. I always need to find the face attractive, then comes the personality, personality never comes first for me anyway. But it is also high on the agenda

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really need the full package too...nothing more awkward when the guy with a dream body has a face that I wince at

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

You have to fancy someone, nothing wrong with being picky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s natural, you like who you like!

Most people can’t help the way their face looks though so as long as you’re tactful when rejecting them then it’s all good!

Us munters have to endure rejections of various scales of unnecessariness - so I’m sure you don’t anyway but as a general guide to the ladies : don’t necessarily tell us directly that our faces turn you straight out - a simple “you’re not what I’m looking for, but happy fabbing anyway” saves tears at bedtime!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't care what they look like as long as they've got nice tits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The greatest aphrodisiac is a lovely face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why is this considered shallow?

You want the very best man to give your body too...

Swinging isn’t a everyone gets a throphy activity.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't care what they look like as long as they've got nice tits

Oh well...that’s me out. I’ll move onto the next

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The greatest aphrodisiac is a lovely face

great thanks

here have a slice of turkey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't care what they look like as long as they've got nice tits

Oh well...that’s me out. I’ll move onto the next

In whose opinion haven't you got nice tits?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has to be facial attraction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is natural. I tend to find the face is much much more important than the body, I need to want to kiss him. "

Agree. I do not understand why so many people hide their faces

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need someone I can chat with well and think is cute to look at too. If they don't make me get butterflies then no point. Shallow too I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is natural. I tend to find the face is much much more important than the body, I need to want to kiss him.

Agree. I do not understand why so many people hide their faces"

Because not everyone is honest firstly.

Some people have jobs where their position could be jeopardised if they were recognised.

Some simply want to be discrete as possible.

Plenty are married.

As long as they send a face picture when messaging I don’t see the issue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A face is a face. A cock (I like really ig) and the experience matters more to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it's shallow. This isn't a public service. You can only fancy who you fancy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Facial attraction is ahead of body for me also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't think it's shallow. This isn't a public service. You can only fancy who you fancy. "

Exactly this....

Which Is why I like the face pic Friday threads

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By *hite1100Man
over a year ago

Hither Green

"I have been a fabber for about 9 years on and off and met some great people. However this time I'm looking for single men and even though I'm not the prettiest or have the sexiest body I've been really picky and sometimes brutal about who i want to meet. I've noticed there are soooo many hot bodies out there but then the faces turn me straight out. I feel like a right shallow bitch but it's natural right???"

You aren’t shallow, you’re discerning (and have great taste)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't think it's shallow. This isn't a public service. You can only fancy who you fancy.

Exactly this....

Which Is why I like the face pic Friday threads "

I just like them because I'm nosey, I don't expect to meet anyone off the forum but I like seeing faces.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't think it's shallow. This isn't a public service. You can only fancy who you fancy.

Exactly this....

Which Is why I like the face pic Friday threads

I just like them because I'm nosey, I don't expect to meet anyone off the forum but I like seeing faces."

Haha yes totally... Seeing the odd face is good... Allows me to measure my "I think she's good looking" barometer and see how accurate it is.... Its doing pretty good so far!

Oh... And I'm nosey

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I don't understand what picky means. I like tall men, 6ft and over. Doesn't mean men under that height and woman who fancy them have lower standards than me.

Sexual attraction is personal, we choose those that float our boats.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you have a face that a mother wouldn't kiss I'm not meeting you either. I don't care if that's shallow, I'm not aspiring to beat Marianas trench here

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

You have to be attracted to them so for me it has to be the whole package not just face but body and personality as well. Not saying they have to be a supermodel but they have to be somebody I find attractive beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Face over body everytime.

Kissing and fucking are two complete different things and I guess that's why face is way more important to me than body.

Even though, kissing and fucking, of course, can be complimentary, they do not need to work together when our lust/horniness is concerned. That's why you can read on profiles that so many people are looking for specific physical features without necessarily mentioning the face.

I can easily fuck a woman who, in my opinion, have a nice body, yet I couldn't make love to her if I do not find the face attractive.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I do feel better now

thanks for all of the replies

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I often think that things on fab are reversed; in day to day life its someone's face that we will be attracted to, not their body, that we would find out later.

There's nothing shallow in wanting to find someone facially attractive.

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By *rimtonMan
over a year ago

Bromley

Always disappointing when you clock a BOBFOC.

Body off Baywatch,

Face off Crimewatch

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By *dam and slutCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

When it comes to looks and beauty I like to think I like everything. I find faces that have been scared fascinating. I don't find beauty in symmetry, I find that ..... unoriginal. I like faces that have a twinkle in the eye. I like freckles and ruddy cheeks from being outdoors. I like laughter lines, I like that they reveal to me your sense of humour, your face is my reading material. I don't ever want to get bored of looking at it. I like stubble at the end of the day, that tells me your too busy to be vain. I like clean shaven in the morning. I like if your face beams when you see me. I like your chubby cheeks and have to almost restrain myself from pinching them. And if you haven't got chubby cheeks. ..... Well, I like that when you see me and when you smile, YOU HAVE and I really can't resist the urge to smile back. I like your lips when they pucker up and your eyes close and you wait for me to kiss you. And I like that if I wait to long you get the giggles yet still stay puckered. I like your face.

xslutx

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By *omewhatSlightlyDazedMan
over a year ago

Warwick Birmingham & YamYamLand

It's not shallow at all.

Same with personality not just looks, you like what you like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't understand what picky means. I like tall men, 6ft and over. Doesn't mean men under that height and woman who fancy them have lower standards than me.

Sexual attraction is personal, we choose those that float our boats.

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall

"Always disappointing when you clock a BOBFOC.

Body off Baywatch,

Face off Crimewatch

leave me out of this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is natural. I tend to find the face is much much more important than the body, I need to want to kiss him.

Snap"

Exactly this

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By *sianMancMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Very very natural. There are so many sexy female bodies here but it's the same when you see their faces too. It's normal for us all to like something and be put off by something.

Don't worry yourself at all as a 9 year on off fabber you probably know this better than anyone lol

What do you seek exactly?

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

The foof wants what the foof wants...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s your own pleasure op, be as picky as you want, you’re spoilt for choice, don’t feel bad about it.

You should try me though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course! If someone’s not for you they’re not for you. I wouldn’t settle or compromise. If I’m not feeling it I’m not feeling it. xx

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

"It is natural. I tend to find the face is much much more important than the body, I need to want to kiss him.

Snap"

Kissing is so important - it’s so intimate but I couldn’t imagine sex without it, Therefore, the face takes priority. I now I feel so shallow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am curious how many men would turn down a meet with their ideal body if their face was disappointing? Just thinking about all the messages I received when I had no photos at all on my profile

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By *ortobello SionnachWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

A good looking face seals the deal for most people its the primary attraction for people so not shallow at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am curious how many men would turn down a meet with their ideal body if their face was disappointing? Just thinking about all the messages I received when I had no photos at all on my profile

what doing it doggy is for,

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"It is natural. I tend to find the face is much much more important than the body, I need to want to kiss him.

Snap"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a great face for radio

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You will probably be able to shag better looking men on here that you could in real life.Just the way it is.Fair play though

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By *ottie 13Woman
over a year ago

Happy go lucky

Couldn't agree more it's all about the face don't get me wrong I appreciate a hot body but it's not gonna be the deciding factor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been told i have a nice face, but I'm not particularly tall, which is high (no pun intended) on a lot of profile preferences.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's certainly not shallow to have preferences and tastes. It's great to be above the level of animal zoo-plankton, reproducing more simply, where we have the choice to pick mates based on personality as well as those looks. If the face doesn't fit your taste, what are we to do, when there are bag shortages?

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By *hesexpeopleCouple
over a year ago

s wales

100% it all ways on the face for me, my husband is completely different and focuses on body.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Face and eyes for me

Oh and the ability to be a decent human

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am shallow then, I won't just fuck anyone- I have to fancy them. All of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am shallow then, I won't just fuck anyone- I have to fancy them. All of them."

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