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"I would expect them to bring whatever type suited them. If they forgot, then I have spares " I agree with this, they should bring what they prefer. I always have them and its an eye opener how many guys turn up without any. Maybe they think they'll get lucky and hope the lady has none and says oh well, lets do it anyway. I'm not sure what the thinking is behind not bringing any, bit rude I think. | |||
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"Myself the lady should bring it for her protection as any random guy could put a pin hole in it so it brakes and gets a easy bare back. I would bring my own or happy to pay for hers as for me it’s about safety. It’s those bits people don’t think about. " What about if she puts a pin hole in hers? Trust at some point has to be agreed doesnt it. | |||
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"I'd always bring some and would expect them to bring some too. I'd be pretty concerned if a guy showed up without having brought protection... Would make me wonder about his usual practices " I think that's my concern too. | |||
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"Myself the lady should bring it for her protection as any random guy could put a pin hole in it so it brakes and gets a easy bare back. I would bring my own or happy to pay for hers as for me it’s about safety. It’s those bits people don’t think about. What about if she puts a pin hole in hers? Trust at some point has to be agreed doesnt it. " 100% right. | |||
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"Just interested to hear your thoughts. If I've arranged a meet, I always have protection. More and more lately, I've had guys asking am I bringing some, I of course say yes, and they then say they won't bother bringing any. I've no idea why, but that just annoys me. From my perspective, if I'm arranging meets, I have protection and bring it. Both parties do that, and we're covered. Last guy I arranged to meet asked what type I had. Said he didn't like that brand, could I buy another brand! Cheeky fucker! Bring your own and we're covered! How do you agree protection? Interested to hear your views. " I always bring a burly guy | |||
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"Just interested to hear your thoughts. If I've arranged a meet, I always have protection. More and more lately, I've had guys asking am I bringing some, I of course say yes, and they then say they won't bother bringing any. I've no idea why, but that just annoys me. From my perspective, if I'm arranging meets, I have protection and bring it. Both parties do that, and we're covered. Last guy I arranged to meet asked what type I had. Said he didn't like that brand, could I buy another brand! Cheeky fucker! Bring your own and we're covered! How do you agree protection? Interested to hear your views. " Always ask them to bring their preferred brand but we have them if they 'forget' | |||
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"It's everyone's responsibility." oh good can you provide mine for next meets, thanks in advance | |||
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"It's everyone's responsibility.oh good can you provide mine for next meets, thanks in advance " Extra small it is then. | |||
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"Myself the lady should bring it for her protection as any random guy could put a pin hole in it so it brakes and gets a easy bare back. I would bring my own or happy to pay for hers as for me it’s about safety. It’s those bits people don’t think about. " Yep. I bring my own and never use theirs. However if they don't bring any at all it's goodbye. I'm not a free prostitute. | |||
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"It's everyone's responsibility.oh good can you provide mine for next meets, thanks in advance Extra small it is then. " damn you've been peeking havnt you | |||
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"I would expect them to bring whatever type suited them. If they forgot, then I have spares " This covers all bases..literally x | |||
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"We really don't see "I forgot" as a legitimate reason for not carrying any condoms to a meet. " Had a guy recently running very late (apparently) who forgot condoms, apparently, and started demanding proof I was real. Should've nipped into Boots before you were late and still over half an hour drive away, then! That was the end of that prospective meet. | |||
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"I'd always bring some and would expect them to bring some too. I'd be pretty concerned if a guy showed up without having brought protection... Would make me wonder about his usual practices " | |||
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"We really don't see "I forgot" as a legitimate reason for not carrying any condoms to a meet. Had a guy recently running very late (apparently) who forgot condoms, apparently, and started demanding proof I was real. Should've nipped into Boots before you were late and still over half an hour drive away, then! That was the end of that prospective meet. " Good on you for not letting yourself be intimidated. | |||
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"We really don't see "I forgot" as a legitimate reason for not carrying any condoms to a meet. Had a guy recently running very late (apparently) who forgot condoms, apparently, and started demanding proof I was real. Should've nipped into Boots before you were late and still over half an hour drive away, then! That was the end of that prospective meet. Good on you for not letting yourself be intimidated. " He was asking for pictures of me at the agreed place. I sent him a picture of my hand on my skirt with enough background to show what he needed, then blocked him. Nothing identifying/ compromising, no wank material. | |||
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"I say both as well. Heard some shocking excuses tho, worst was he couldn't afford them.. you get them free at any sexual health clinic (well up here in Scotland at least) so that's a total bullshit excuse. " I was given a dozen freebies at my last check up so yes that's a bullshit excuse | |||
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"I say both as well. Heard some shocking excuses tho, worst was he couldn't afford them.. you get them free at any sexual health clinic (well up here in Scotland at least) so that's a total bullshit excuse. I was given a dozen freebies at my last check up so yes that's a bullshit excuse" I was only given three at my last test | |||
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"My handbag is full of them " ?? what else is in your handbag or would that be a new thread? X | |||
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"I say both as well. Heard some shocking excuses tho, worst was he couldn't afford them.. you get them free at any sexual health clinic (well up here in Scotland at least) so that's a total bullshit excuse. I was given a dozen freebies at my last check up so yes that's a bullshit excuse I was only given three at my last test " That's a bit mean | |||
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"As Robbie Williams once sang.... "She's offers me protection, a lot of love and affection" Translated: she brought her own condoms and I rogered her rigid " Sounds a fair deal to me! | |||
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"We really don't see "I forgot" as a legitimate reason for not carrying any condoms to a meet. Had a guy recently running very late (apparently) who forgot condoms, apparently, and started demanding proof I was real. Should've nipped into Boots before you were late and still over half an hour drive away, then! That was the end of that prospective meet. Good on you for not letting yourself be intimidated. He was asking for pictures of me at the agreed place. I sent him a picture of my hand on my skirt with enough background to show what he needed, then blocked him. Nothing identifying/ compromising, no wank material. " Love your style. | |||
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"We are all responsible! I once met a guy who claimed he would lose his erection if he put one on. I didn't stay much longer." That can actually happen but there are meds that will counteract the effect, so still no excuse. You were quite right to call it off. The "I'm allergic to latex" excuse is another one. | |||
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"Both parties. Always look after you're own sexual health rather than relying on someone else to do it. " always. | |||
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"This has shocked me! People actually turn up without any??!? I must be so naive! Mr P has to take own as he struggles to get regular over his cock. (I’m a lucky girl- he’s got girth that makes me smile). Still shocked people are so selfish sometimes It’s the knock on effect people don’t think about Mrs P x " What is the knock on effect? | |||
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"I would expect them to bring whatever type suited them. If they forgot, then I have spares " This | |||
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"I always bring my own in a fresh packet, then offer them the choice between mine or hers. However if hers aren't in a sealed box, then we open mine. If I'm in a particularly playful mood, I'll ask her to pick one box out of 15 and then open three boxes at a time then ring the banker " We buy boxes of 6 condoms per box. How often do you get through 6 condoms during the meet? Just asking Mrs | |||
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"I always bring my own in a fresh packet, then offer them the choice between mine or hers. However if hers aren't in a sealed box, then we open mine. If I'm in a particularly playful mood, I'll ask her to pick one box out of 15 and then open three boxes at a time then ring the banker We buy boxes of 6 condoms per box. How often do you get through 6 condoms during the meet? Just asking Mrs" One one of my meets we got through five ... DAMN good meet that was | |||
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"I always bring my own in a fresh packet, then offer them the choice between mine or hers. However if hers aren't in a sealed box, then we open mine. If I'm in a particularly playful mood, I'll ask her to pick one box out of 15 and then open three boxes at a time then ring the banker We buy boxes of 6 condoms per box. How often do you get through 6 condoms during the meet? Just asking Mrs One one of my meets we got through five ... DAMN good meet that was " Ha ha still one short to open an unsealed box | |||
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"I always bring my own in a fresh packet, then offer them the choice between mine or hers. However if hers aren't in a sealed box, then we open mine. If I'm in a particularly playful mood, I'll ask her to pick one box out of 15 and then open three boxes at a time then ring the banker We buy boxes of 6 condoms per box. How often do you get through 6 condoms during the meet? Just asking Mrs One one of my meets we got through five ... DAMN good meet that was Ha ha still one short to open an unsealed box" *sealed | |||
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"I always have an old crisp packet in my back pocket, just in case. M" Ready salted? | |||
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"Myself the lady should bring it for her protection as any random guy could put a pin hole in it so it brakes and gets a easy bare back. I would bring my own or happy to pay for hers as for me it’s about safety. It’s those bits people don’t think about. What about if she puts a pin hole in hers? Trust at some point has to be agreed doesnt it. " So what if she does? | |||
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"I always have an old crisp packet in my back pocket, just in case. M" Also see, others uses of a bag for life. | |||
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"I always bring my own in a fresh packet, then offer them the choice between mine or hers. However if hers aren't in a sealed box, then we open mine. If I'm in a particularly playful mood, I'll ask her to pick one box out of 15 and then open three boxes at a time then ring the banker We buy boxes of 6 condoms per box. How often do you get through 6 condoms during the meet? Just asking Mrs" Depends on how often positions change Always change condoms when switching from anal to vaginal as I'm a caring sort really | |||
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