FabSwingers.com forum: How much does wearing a condom ruin sex for you ?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I know it’s got to be done, but it definitely takes the edge off. Agree or no ?

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

Can't say because I don't get to wear the condom LOL. That said, prefer natural sex so it does make a difference to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Takes edge off yes but having on put on by a sexy lady is cool too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's quite a novelty for me after decades of not. It makes for very clean, civilised sex I find,but I don't have to get hard

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By *rongstantineWoman
over a year ago

hull

Not a big fan, but doesn't ruin sex as much as an unwanted STD or pregnancy would.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all, although some dry me out a bit, but there's lube for that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not a big fan, but doesn't ruin sex as much as an unwanted STD or pregnancy would. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's quite a novelty for me after decades of not. It makes for very clean, civilised sex I find,but I don't have to get hard

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Same here, and I don't really like semen inside me.

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By *hilhendersonMan
over a year ago

aberdeen

the days of cuming with a condom on are well over..im lucky if i can stay hard till its on..i hate them..so much so id rather do with out sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's quite a novelty for me after decades of not. It makes for very clean, civilised sex I find,but I don't have to get hard

Same here, and I don't really like semen inside me."

Its my favourite part

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

It doesn't even come close to ruining sex, but no question I do prefer it without a condom, there's nothing like the feeling of someone finishing inside you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's quite a novelty for me after decades of not. It makes for very clean, civilised sex I find,but I don't have to get hard

Same here, and I don't really like semen inside me.

Its my favourite part

I don't like not feeling clean inside.

I'd rather have it on my face.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It doesn't even come close to ruining sex, but no question I do prefer it without a condom, there's nothing like the feeling of someone finishing inside you. "

It’s better than taking it off, tying it in a not then throwing it in a bin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With a trusted long standing partner? It totally ruins it! There’s nothing to beat the feel of natural sex, the warmth and the wetness on your skin.

With a casual sex meet off of the internet? It’s absolutely essential and sex would be ruined if I DIDN’T cover up! Too much worry and not just about STDs.

So they can either ruin or enhance depending on the situation!

Oh and a great tip for enhancing condom sex? A little bit of water based lube on the INSIDE at the tip (not too much so that the condom slips off of course!) but it heats up nicely in the body and slips and slides and around and feels more like natural sex! Thank me later!

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By *uit and bootsMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Nope, I have absolutely no issues with them.

In fact a previous FWB loved watching me put one on as it built the anticipation for her.

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By *yronutMan
over a year ago

St Austell

I’m with you there dude..... Show my mate a condom and it’s instant droop..... (Always has been.... even from my younger days!!)

As my prerence now is for visual sex it’s not an issue and I’d rather not embarrass myself in company so I’m fully honest on that subject....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Without obviously feels better but I would always wear one.

It is more the fumbling around to open the packet that takes the edge off

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

"Not at all, although some dry me out a bit, but there's lube for that. "

This

my only issue with some condoms is that they seem to dry me out. Even had one get stuck during a meet once ffs! There was the shock for us both of realising there was no condom on his cock after he pulled out... Followed 2 seconds later by uncontrollable laughter when we realised the silly thing was still inside me with the end dangling out

Otherwise they're grand...

You can't really beat natural sex with a long-term partner though. Just be sensible about it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not at all, although some dry me out a bit, but there's lube for that.

This

Otherwise they're grand...

You can't really beat natural sex with a long-term partner though. Just be sensible about it!"
been therelove a good fishing trip

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh my knob doesn't like it one bit

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Tbh my knob doesn't like it one bit"

Mine looks at me as if to say, really I’ve got to go in there again?!

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By *couseratMan
over a year ago

Eastbourne

I don't have a problem with them, looking at the women I have woken up next to the morning after I was glad I did.

Beer goggles are not always that good.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Ideal world. No disease and free to slip it in au naturel. Wish we lived in an ideal world.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I don’t have any issue with them but I have met a few guys who did and their erections disappeared, it happens, just back to kissing and foreplay then until things work again and have another go

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

I think the fact that I was primarily voyeuristic in our swinging days was because I hated using condoms .

How much did they ruin sex ? Totally , so much so that I didn’t wear one . I rarely had penetrative sex on a meet , and if I did , I fucked my wife bare .

I much preferred to receive oral bare , or wank rather than wear one .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never use them so not an issue to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to wear them so it removes any concerns about sti's, therefor I feel more relaxed...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all - there is more to sex than penetration alone

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By *kin BohnerMan
over a year ago

derby

"I know it’s got to be done, but it definitely takes the edge off. Agree or no ?"

It goes without saying that I prefer not use one but unless it's a regular partner I think the risk outweighs the loss of sensation. Anyway I gain a lot of pleasure from seeing the lady having a good time and wearing a sheath can add to that so it's all good.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Slough

10% worse according to her, 20% in my view

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course it's better with out, there is nothing like the feeling of a man cumming in you- with a trusted partner.

But would rather condoms than risk STIs. Especially as antibiotics are becoming more resistant, due to risky sex practices we could get to a stage where chlamydia and gonorrhea are too difficult to treat. And as 1 in 12 people has or has had Chlamydia you can bet that there are a few untested swingers out there.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Of course it's better with out, there is nothing like the feeling of a man cumming in you- with a trusted partner.

That’s why sometimes I’d rather just have a wank.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Slough

"Of course it's better with out, there is nothing like the feeling of a man cumming in you- with a trusted partner.

That’s why sometimes I’d rather just have a wank. "

I'd rather have a weepy willy

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By *dquestCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

"With a trusted long standing partner? It totally ruins it! There’s nothing to beat the feel of natural sex, the warmth and the wetness on your skin.

With a casual sex meet off of the internet? It’s absolutely essential and sex would be ruined if I DIDN’T cover up! Too much worry and not just about STDs.

So they can either ruin or enhance depending on the situation!

Good info!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't ruin it at all.

As most have said, bare feels amazing but I don't want my chopper to fall off.

I cannot cum with a condom on though, never happened.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some do have a drying sensation in me. But prefer to use them with meets, with my mr it’s great not having to use them and it being natural. Can’t beat that sensation of him finishing inside me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not a big fan, but doesn't ruin sex as much as an unwanted STD or pregnancy would. "

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate the smell, the feel, the taste after them and the lack of spontaneity. Having said that I wouldn’t consider sex without one, unless with a long standing, trusted partner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Doesn't ruin it at all.

As most have said, bare feels amazing but I don't want my chopper to fall off.

I cannot cum with a condom on though, never happened."

Take it off and wank over her boobs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I much prefer without because I know for the guy he is feeling so much more and I love feeling him cum inside me.

But as most have said I wouldn't risk it with anyone other than a partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had a bad relationship with condoms ever since the first time I used one. Probably due to my naivety and lack of experience I don’t think I put it on right and as I got going more vigorously it caused my banjo string to stretch and snap, not sure how and a I ended up with blood everywhere. Due to the cut I ended up with an infection which made the experience even worse. Psychologically I’ve had a problem with them since and it took a long time to get to the point where I could maintain an erection wearing one. It ruined NSA meets for me and was one of the contributing factors to me stopping meeting. Although I can use them now I much prefer the feel of flesh against flesh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course it’s better without. Definitely not worth the risk though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know it’s got to be done, but it definitely takes the edge off. Agree or no ?"

Genuinely? 30-90% depending on the mood and the hotness of the other person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agreed it does but a necessary evil

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Definitely feels much better without, but I'm quite partial to staying healthy.

So strictly reserved for long term partner, who I know & trust.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hate condoms,Ruins good sex,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hate condoms,Ruins good sex,

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Good sex doesn’t have to be careless or reckless - Play date = Play safe!

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