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Turn on or turn off? A women having not much experience?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do guys find it a turn on or turn off?

I haven’t slept with many people...

D and I have been together for 12 years and I really want more experiences and love sex however I don’t know weather this would be something I should share with potential meets?

So do guys see it as a turn on or turn off?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a turn off for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither if im honest its about weather you can open your mind enough for me to show u what your capable of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do guys find it a turn on or turn off?

I haven’t slept with many people...

D and I have been together for 12 years and I really want more experiences and love sex however I don’t know weather this would be something I should share with potential meets?

So do guys see it as a turn on or turn off? "

I’m the same! Had only slept with my husband and since then, I’ve only slept with two other men

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By *andS33Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

When we started out on the scene she had only ever had sex with me, as we got together at 16 when she was still very inexperienced. It's never been a problem for us

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh phew. I feel like I’m being so picky on here. But I want to make sure I find them really attractive or what’s the point?

I have had 3 including my husband.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Have u ever shared that information with meets?

I was 15 when we got together. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have u ever shared that information with meets?

I was 15 when we got together. X "

I was fourteen

And yep - I do warn them all! Both found it such a turn on

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By *owhard007Man
over a year ago

leeds

Can't say it bothers me either way. If we both like what we see then let the fun begin

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have u ever shared that information with meets?

I was 15 when we got together. X

I was fourteen

And yep - I do warn them all! Both found it such a turn on "

That’s good to hear! ;-D

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By *histle do nicelyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow South

Not a turn off.. can be built on..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turn on

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Surely you have had enough experience with your husband for it not to be a problem? And both experimented with each other?

It's not all about numbers is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think not having been with many different people equals inexperience necessarily. It could maybe affect confidence if you’re used to the same person. It did with me at first. I’ve mostly been in relationships so haven’t been with that many men in my life but I’ve still had lots of sex!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither.

We all start from somewhere. It's what we learn and share on the way that makes the journey.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely you have had enough experience with your husband for it not to be a problem? And both experimented with each other?

It's not all about numbers is it?"

That’s sort of what I was trying to say too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember how many guys offered themselves to me when I said I wasn’t very good on top, many many men were happy for me to practice on them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Surely you have had enough experience with your husband for it not to be a problem? And both experimented with each other?

It's not all about numbers is it?"

Oh we do/ have.

it’s not a problem I was just curious on if men find it a turn on or turn off.

It’s certainly not about numbers, I’m definitely not here for numbers. Just fun experiences.

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By *hite1100Man
over a year ago

Hither Green


"Do guys find it a turn on or turn off?

I haven’t slept with many people...

D and I have been together for 12 years and I really want more experiences and love sex however I don’t know weather this would be something I should share with potential meets?

So do guys see it as a turn on or turn off? "

I reckon it’s less about experience than being comfortable, relaxed and uninhibited.

I reckon that’s something that comes with age - personally I’ve had better sex with women in their 30s than women in their 20s. They tend to be more confident in themselves and better at knowing what they do and don’t enjoy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do guys find it a turn on or turn off?

I haven’t slept with many people...

D and I have been together for 12 years and I really want more experiences and love sex however I don’t know weather this would be something I should share with potential meets?

So do guys see it as a turn on or turn off?

I reckon it’s less about experience than being comfortable, relaxed and uninhibited.

I reckon that’s something that comes with age - personally I’ve had better sex with women in their 30s than women in their 20s. They tend to be more confident in themselves and better at knowing what they do and don’t enjoy. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely you have had enough experience with your husband for it not to be a problem? And both experimented with each other?

It's not all about numbers is it?"

Thats where experience comes from

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I don’t ask so it doesn’t matter to me.

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By *hite1100Man
over a year ago

Hither Green


"I remember how many guys offered themselves to me when I said I wasn’t very good on top, many many men were happy for me to practice on them. "

Ok let me try that strategy for myself.

I’m utterly shit in bed. In all positions. In fact, if I fell into a barrel of tits I’d end up sucking my own thumb.

Can anyone on Fab help me to improve my technique?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally it’s nit about how many you’ve slept with, how experienced you are but if we get on and fancy each other.

The first step is the most nerve wracking but exhilarating at the same time.

If the person/people you meet doesn’t understand why your nervous and is uncaring for your needs then just tell them to go.

The experiences we have on here should be fully img needs, having fun and making good memories, in which ever way you need.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Personally it’s nit about how many you’ve slept with, how experienced you are but if we get on and fancy each other.

The first step is the most nerve wracking but exhilarating at the same time.

If the person/people you meet doesn’t understand why your nervous and is uncaring for your needs then just tell them to go.

The experiences we have on here should be fully img needs, having fun and making good memories, in which ever way you need."

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

It isn't a problem for women to be inexperienced. It is for a man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I remember how many guys offered themselves to me when I said I wasn’t very good on top, many many men were happy for me to practice on them.

Ok let me try that strategy for myself.

You have to start a thread about it, follow my lead...

I’m utterly shit in bed. In all positions. In fact, if I fell into a barrel of tits I’d end up sucking my own thumb.

Can anyone on Fab help me to improve my technique?! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I remember how many guys offered themselves to me when I said I wasn’t very good on top, many many men were happy for me to practice on them.

Ok let me try that strategy for myself.

I’m utterly shit in bed. In all positions. In fact, if I fell into a barrel of tits I’d end up sucking my own thumb.

Can anyone on Fab help me to improve my technique?! "

Doesn't work for men Im afraid

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"It isn't a problem for women to be inexperienced. It is for a man."
That's a Bingo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don’t have any experience of me and I don’t have any experience of you. The fun part with any new partner is figuring out and stumbling upon the things that make us click

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Experience is a funny thing. Doing the same over and over is not experience, it's just repetition. Doing different things and perfecting them is experience. This is best done with a regular partner, because you will come to know each others spoken and unspoken needs, as you will develop far more trust.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well as long as you enjoy it , not a turn on if you doubt there not enjoying it , x Mrs didn’t like been ontop very shy about her body when it was amazing

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By *aughty But Nice TwiceWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract


"Do guys find it a turn on or turn off?

I haven’t slept with many people...

D and I have been together for 12 years and I really want more experiences and love sex however I don’t know weather this would be something I should share with potential meets?

So do guys see it as a turn on or turn off? "

But being together a long time is surely experience you don't get experience by meeting xxxxx amount of guys you probably have more experience with your husband ... Your comfortable with him experiment have fun read books .. xxx

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By *uryWhipMan
over a year ago

Harringay

I learnt everything I know from more experinced and at the time, older women. Women have more wisdom when it comes to knowing what they want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do guys find it a turn on or turn off?

I haven’t slept with many people...

D and I have been together for 12 years and I really want more experiences and love sex however I don’t know weather this would be something I should share with potential meets?

So do guys see it as a turn on or turn off? "

Not really..on or off

They have anxiety so it presents a barrier because you have to make all the advances and it's more effort.

Other than that it's not really so important. I'm impartial because there's other unrelated stuff to consider.

Inexperience anxiety is something that passes quickly. You Can overcome it in other ways.

Id teach you how to give propper handjobs, blow jobs and messages. Work on your technique

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do guys find it a turn on or turn off?

I haven’t slept with many people...

D and I have been together for 12 years and I really want more experiences and love sex however I don’t know weather this would be something I should share with potential meets?

So do guys see it as a turn on or turn off?

But being together a long time is surely experience you don't get experience by meeting xxxxx amount of guys you probably have more experience with your husband ... Your comfortable with him experiment have fun read books .. xxx "

This, you just need some inspiration to stretch your creativity..!

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Do guys find it a turn on or turn off?

I haven’t slept with many people...

D and I have been together for 12 years and I really want more experiences and love sex however I don’t know weather this would be something I should share with potential meets?

So do guys see it as a turn on or turn off? "

Turn on, every guy likes to think they're teaching you something even if they're not

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