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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've been on here for 5 yrs and only met one person. I'm not ugly, my profile isn't bad, I message women politely.

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By *uryWhipMan
over a year ago

Harringay


"I've been on here for 5 yrs and only met one person. I'm not ugly, my profile isn't bad, I message women politely."

Dude, I am totally in the same boat. I had a female friend on here but she disapeared one day without saying anything, taking her verification with her. I really liked her too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been on here for 5 yrs and only met one person. I'm not ugly, my profile isn't bad, I message women politely."

Try writing an awful profile. Message women impolitely. Maybe add 157 photos of your penis.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember when men had male friends and talked about football. Now men hang around with women talking about tampons. How times have changed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol, I don't know what to do. Most women moan on here of guys being pushy and vulgar, I'm an okay guy but it's like head butting the wall

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suspect being here isnt working very well then

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By *uryWhipMan
over a year ago

Harringay


"I remember when men had male friends and talked about football. Now men hang around with women talking about tampons. How times have changed."

Dont know whats going on in Sunderland mate but not the case in London.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I remember when men had male friends and talked about football. Now men hang around with women talking about tampons. How times have changed."
lol I like

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've been on here for 5 yrs and only met one person. I'm not ugly, my profile isn't bad, I message women politely.

Dude, I am totally in the same boat. I had a female friend on here but she disapeared one day without saying anything, taking her verification with her. I really liked her too "
it's a weird going on mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just put very little effort in. Seems to work

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I suspect being here isnt working very well then"
lol no, I think your guessing right

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I remember when men had male friends and talked about football. Now men hang around with women talking about tampons. How times have changed.

Dont know whats going on in Sunderland mate but not the case in London. "
I'm in york

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just put very little effort in. Seems to work "
I've tried everything apart from being nasty as that's not me

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By *uryWhipMan
over a year ago

Harringay


"Lol, I don't know what to do. Most women moan on here of guys being pushy and vulgar, I'm an okay guy but it's like head butting the wall "

Exactly. Im not arggressivly flirtatious and not very good at flirting anyway so i think I put myself out there but, they're getting 100 messages an hour. What takes the piss is knowing they must have seen the message but its showing as unread. I wasnt born yesterday. Always being told Im no ones type on here yet away from here i get plenty of interest, albeit somewhat awkawrdly. But no one takes five minutes to talk to me to find out if i am their type. I dont really have type, never seen the point. Like having a check list of impossible expectations.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Lol, I don't know what to do. Most women moan on here of guys being pushy and vulgar, I'm an okay guy but it's like head butting the wall

Exactly. Im not arggressivly flirtatious and not very good at flirting anyway so i think I put myself out there but, they're getting 100 messages an hour. What takes the piss is knowing they must have seen the message but its showing as unread. I wasnt born yesterday. Always being told Im no ones type on here yet away from here i get plenty of interest, albeit somewhat awkawrdly. But no one takes five minutes to talk to me to find out if i am their type. I dont really have type, never seen the point. Like having a check list of impossible expectations. "
I've chatted to women for ages and then they disappear. I've had there phone numbers but stop answering

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By *hris55555Man
over a year ago

liverpool

Is it really that difficult surely instructions aren’t required !!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is it really that difficult surely instructions aren’t required !!"
only if there good instructions and not like those that you get to put cabinets together lol

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By *uryWhipMan
over a year ago

Harringay


"Lol, I don't know what to do. Most women moan on here of guys being pushy and vulgar, I'm an okay guy but it's like head butting the wall

Exactly. Im not arggressivly flirtatious and not very good at flirting anyway so i think I put myself out there but, they're getting 100 messages an hour. What takes the piss is knowing they must have seen the message but its showing as unread. I wasnt born yesterday. Always being told Im no ones type on here yet away from here i get plenty of interest, albeit somewhat awkawrdly. But no one takes five minutes to talk to me to find out if i am their type. I dont really have type, never seen the point. Like having a check list of impossible expectations. I've chatted to women for ages and then they disappear. I've had there phone numbers but stop answering"

I still have the phone number for the woman i befriended. Not sure what the protocol is when someone leaves the site. Dont want start some shit in someones personal life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol, I don't know what to do. Most women moan on here of guys being pushy and vulgar, I'm an okay guy but it's like head butting the wall

Exactly. Im not arggressivly flirtatious and not very good at flirting anyway so i think I put myself out there but, they're getting 100 messages an hour. What takes the piss is knowing they must have seen the message but its showing as unread. I wasnt born yesterday. Always being told Im no ones type on here yet away from here i get plenty of interest, albeit somewhat awkawrdly. But no one takes five minutes to talk to me to find out if i am their type. I dont really have type, never seen the point. Like having a check list of impossible expectations. "

Could I ask why you continue to stay on here and just get frustrated then rather than carry on off here if you get more luck? Is it particulary a 'swinging' type thing you are after or just sex/friends in general

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

I found my female friends by tipping up to socials and infiltrating groups of fitties with my loud Northern charm.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Lol, I don't know what to do. Most women moan on here of guys being pushy and vulgar, I'm an okay guy but it's like head butting the wall

Exactly. Im not arggressivly flirtatious and not very good at flirting anyway so i think I put myself out there but, they're getting 100 messages an hour. What takes the piss is knowing they must have seen the message but its showing as unread. I wasnt born yesterday. Always being told Im no ones type on here yet away from here i get plenty of interest, albeit somewhat awkawrdly. But no one takes five minutes to talk to me to find out if i am their type. I dont really have type, never seen the point. Like having a check list of impossible expectations.

Could I ask why you continue to stay on here and just get frustrated then rather than carry on off here if you get more luck? Is it particulary a 'swinging' type thing you are after or just sex/friends in general "
good question, I'm probably mad. I'm looking for more of a fwb, I do get a fair amount of women on another site but fwb isn't really their thing and end up wanting relationships. I hate messing them about, so someone off here who accepts the score and is just wanting the same as me is what I'm wanting xx

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

In my opinion you’re not doing anything ‘wrong’ however I don’t think you’re doing enough.

This site works best if you use it in conjunction with an active swinging lifestyle; go to clubs, go to socials, meet people. Fab is great for maintaining contact with people you know or chatting in the forums etc. But if you don’t have the body of an Adonis or the writing skills of Byron you will always be at a loss.

I’m sure that you’re a great guy but unless people actually get to see that in person then they will always judge you on what you write or your pictures.

Fab is a great tool and can be a good way of meeting people but don’t make it your only tool!

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By *uryWhipMan
over a year ago

Harringay


"Lol, I don't know what to do. Most women moan on here of guys being pushy and vulgar, I'm an okay guy but it's like head butting the wall

Exactly. Im not arggressivly flirtatious and not very good at flirting anyway so i think I put myself out there but, they're getting 100 messages an hour. What takes the piss is knowing they must have seen the message but its showing as unread. I wasnt born yesterday. Always being told Im no ones type on here yet away from here i get plenty of interest, albeit somewhat awkawrdly. But no one takes five minutes to talk to me to find out if i am their type. I dont really have type, never seen the point. Like having a check list of impossible expectations.

Could I ask why you continue to stay on here and just get frustrated then rather than carry on off here if you get more luck? Is it particulary a 'swinging' type thing you are after or just sex/friends in general "

Its was to experiment with swinging and to meet new people. Been wanting to try clubs and socials but dont have the confidence to rock up alone. Stay on here coz everytime i leave, i end up back here (does anyone truely leave fabs once they've found it). As they say, good things come to those who wait. One day I'll message the right person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol, I don't know what to do. Most women moan on here of guys being pushy and vulgar, I'm an okay guy but it's like head butting the wall

Exactly. Im not arggressivly flirtatious and not very good at flirting anyway so i think I put myself out there but, they're getting 100 messages an hour. What takes the piss is knowing they must have seen the message but its showing as unread. I wasnt born yesterday. Always being told Im no ones type on here yet away from here i get plenty of interest, albeit somewhat awkawrdly. But no one takes five minutes to talk to me to find out if i am their type. I dont really have type, never seen the point. Like having a check list of impossible expectations.

Could I ask why you continue to stay on here and just get frustrated then rather than carry on off here if you get more luck? Is it particulary a 'swinging' type thing you are after or just sex/friends in general "

Exactly.

If this place isn’t working for you and it’s pissing you off, why would you want to stay? Why not delete your profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In my opinion you’re not doing anything ‘wrong’ however I don’t think you’re doing enough.

This site works best if you use it in conjunction with an active swinging lifestyle; go to clubs, go to socials, meet people. Fab is great for maintaining contact with people you know or chatting in the forums etc. But if you don’t have the body of an Adonis or the writing skills of Byron you will always be at a loss.

I’m sure that you’re a great guy but unless people actually get to see that in person then they will always judge you on what you write or your pictures.

Fab is a great tool and can be a good way of meeting people but don’t make it your only tool!"

Everyone needs to put in effort, but I think for men, it’s best to go through all channels.

Clubs, parties, etc.

Plenty of guys on here who do well, so it does work, you just have to keep on at it!

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By *uryWhipMan
over a year ago

Harringay


" why would you want to stay? Why not delete your profile?

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I did. I came back

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In my opinion you’re not doing anything ‘wrong’ however I don’t think you’re doing enough.

This site works best if you use it in conjunction with an active swinging lifestyle; go to clubs, go to socials, meet people. Fab is great for maintaining contact with people you know or chatting in the forums etc. But if you don’t have the body of an Adonis or the writing skills of Byron you will always be at a loss.

I’m sure that you’re a great guy but unless people actually get to see that in person then they will always judge you on what you write or your pictures.

Fab is a great tool and can be a good way of meeting people but don’t make it your only tool!"
I understand what your saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" why would you want to stay? Why not delete your profile?

I did. I came back "

Make the most of it then! Of course you won’t be everyone’s type, but keep at it and keep a positive attitude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Delete your profile, make a new one...you’ve had 1 verification which was 3 years ago that apparently doesn’t sit well with people. Also try writing more about yourself in your profile text, it’s pretty bland and just says you’re a nice bloke who’s 5’11”. Go down the route of what you like, what you don’t like and what your target audience is.

It’s never going to be easy for men on here, we outnumber women and couples by a copious amount and complaining about it without doing anything will only damage your credibility as a potential partner.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In my opinion you’re not doing anything ‘wrong’ however I don’t think you’re doing enough.

This site works best if you use it in conjunction with an active swinging lifestyle; go to clubs, go to socials, meet people. Fab is great for maintaining contact with people you know or chatting in the forums etc. But if you don’t have the body of an Adonis or the writing skills of Byron you will always be at a loss.

I’m sure that you’re a great guy but unless people actually get to see that in person then they will always judge you on what you write or your pictures.

Fab is a great tool and can be a good way of meeting people but don’t make it your only tool!

Everyone needs to put in effort, but I think for men, it’s best to go through all channels.

Clubs, parties, etc.

Plenty of guys on here who do well, so it does work, you just have to keep on at it! "
There are thousands of women who wont go near clubs as is with me. They like one to one as i do

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By *uz 50ccMan
over a year ago

Huddersfield


"I've been on here for 5 yrs and only met one person. I'm not ugly, my profile isn't bad, I message women politely."

How about trying a club. Get to know people socially

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Delete your profile, make a new one...you’ve had 1 verification which was 3 years ago that apparently doesn’t sit well with people. Also try writing more about yourself in your profile text, it’s pretty bland and just says you’re a nice bloke who’s 5’11”. Go down the route of what you like, what you don’t like and what your target audience is.

It’s never going to be easy for men on here, we outnumber women and couples by a copious amount and complaining about it without doing anything will only damage your credibility as a potential partner."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The thing is the females are largely out numbered by men and lets face it have a lot of choice, everyone is not everyone’s cup of tea. Location is one thing that may come into it,physical attraction age height etc. The way you come across or just the fact that someone better has beat you to it as so to speak. It’s about patience and just being yourself and just take it with a pinch of salt, just enjoy the site for what it is without negativity and hopefully some good will come of it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Delete your profile, make a new one...you’ve had 1 verification which was 3 years ago that apparently doesn’t sit well with people. Also try writing more about yourself in your profile text, it’s pretty bland and just says you’re a nice bloke who’s 5’11”. Go down the route of what you like, what you don’t like and what your target audience is.

It’s never going to be easy for men on here, we outnumber women and couples by a copious amount and complaining about it without doing anything will only damage your credibility as a potential partner."
do women on here really want to know i go ferreting for rabbits, fo shooting pigeons and bunnies, go fishing then go on the piss. I dont watch coro or eastenders lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Delete your profile, make a new one...you’ve had 1 verification which was 3 years ago that apparently doesn’t sit well with people. Also try writing more about yourself in your profile text, it’s pretty bland and just says you’re a nice bloke who’s 5’11”. Go down the route of what you like, what you don’t like and what your target audience is.

It’s never going to be easy for men on here, we outnumber women and couples by a copious amount and complaining about it without doing anything will only damage your credibility as a potential partner.do women on here really want to know i go ferreting for rabbits, fo shooting pigeons and bunnies, go fishing then go on the piss. I dont watch coro or eastenders lol"

Don’t take it literally, I meant sexual interest etc.

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By *uryWhipMan
over a year ago

Harringay


"Delete your profile, make a new one...you’ve had 1 verification which was 3 years ago that apparently doesn’t sit well with people. Also try writing more about yourself in your profile text, it’s pretty bland and just says you’re a nice bloke who’s 5’11”. Go down the route of what you like, what you don’t like and what your target audience is.

It’s never going to be easy for men on here, we outnumber women and couples by a copious amount and complaining about it without doing anything will only damage your credibility as a potential partner.do women on here really want to know i go ferreting for rabbits, fo shooting pigeons and bunnies, go fishing then go on the piss. I dont watch coro or eastenders lol"

Use your imagination dude. You're an alpha male hunter. How are you not play that up?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've been on here for 5 yrs and only met one person. I'm not ugly, my profile isn't bad, I message women politely.

How about trying a club. Get to know people socially "
i know what im going to do.....sit in my 6x4 garden shed and keep wanking until I blow the roof off lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You haven’t asked for profile advice so I can’t offer it but men have to make their profile stand out, be different to others, write about themselves in detail and what they can offer and then engage with others on the forums. They have to have different pics to show ladies what they are getting. They have to make sure their messages are different too...

You are 1 of thousands of guys on here...so think how you can stand out and for others to think you are a nice guy. Go to socials, go to clubs....

It takes effort...but make the site work for you.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I heard offering cake will do the trick....

The women of Fab love cake....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I heard offering cake will do the trick....

The women of Fab love cake...."
I've added cakes and crisps to my profile lol

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By *uryWhipMan
over a year ago

Harringay


"I heard offering cake will do the trick....

The women of Fab love cake...."

Just keep picturing Pedro from Napoleon Dynamite "I build her a cake, or something."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I heard offering cake will do the trick....

The women of Fab love cake....

Just keep picturing Pedro from Napoleon Dynamite "I build her a cake, or something." "

Look up the STP social. You post on the forums so you could ask them for an invite to their next event in London. They are lovely friendly people. Socials are usually advertised in the Meets forum section.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I heard offering cake will do the trick....

The women of Fab love cake....I've added cakes and crisps to my profile lol"

You look like a nice guy. Again try looking up local socials. Meets section.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I heard offering cake will do the trick....

The women of Fab love cake....

Just keep picturing Pedro from Napoleon Dynamite "I build her a cake, or something."

Look up the STP social. You post on the forums so you could ask them for an invite to their next event in London. They are lovely friendly people. Socials are usually advertised in the Meets forum section. "
I would love to but it's miles away and would need accommodation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol, I don't know what to do. Most women moan on here of guys being pushy and vulgar, I'm an okay guy but it's like head butting the wall

Exactly. Im not arggressivly flirtatious and not very good at flirting anyway so i think I put myself out there but, they're getting 100 messages an hour. What takes the piss is knowing they must have seen the message but its showing as unread. I wasnt born yesterday. Always being told Im no ones type on here yet away from here i get plenty of interest, albeit somewhat awkawrdly. But no one takes five minutes to talk to me to find out if i am their type. I dont really have type, never seen the point. Like having a check list of impossible expectations.

Could I ask why you continue to stay on here and just get frustrated then rather than carry on off here if you get more luck? Is it particulary a 'swinging' type thing you are after or just sex/friends in general good question, I'm probably mad. I'm looking for more of a fwb, I do get a fair amount of women on another site but fwb isn't really their thing and end up wanting relationships. I hate messing them about, so someone off here who accepts the score and is just wanting the same as me is what I'm wanting xx"

Being mad certainly helps

I'd echo other pepple then just dive into the lifestyle a bit more, just messaging on here will get you nowhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol, I don't know what to do. Most women moan on here of guys being pushy and vulgar, I'm an okay guy but it's like head butting the wall

Exactly. Im not arggressivly flirtatious and not very good at flirting anyway so i think I put myself out there but, they're getting 100 messages an hour. What takes the piss is knowing they must have seen the message but its showing as unread. I wasnt born yesterday. Always being told Im no ones type on here yet away from here i get plenty of interest, albeit somewhat awkawrdly. But no one takes five minutes to talk to me to find out if i am their type. I dont really have type, never seen the point. Like having a check list of impossible expectations.

Could I ask why you continue to stay on here and just get frustrated then rather than carry on off here if you get more luck? Is it particulary a 'swinging' type thing you are after or just sex/friends in general

Its was to experiment with swinging and to meet new people. Been wanting to try clubs and socials but dont have the confidence to rock up alone. Stay on here coz everytime i leave, i end up back here (does anyone truely leave fabs once they've found it). As they say, good things come to those who wait. One day I'll message the right person. "

Do you want to just sit around and wait forever though. Grab those socials by the balls and get on with it

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By *apstarMan
over a year ago

Harpenden

Get ya self out there . Go 2 meets . Go 2 clubs. Instead of making a thread go out and do somthing about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I heard offering cake will do the trick....

The women of Fab love cake....

Just keep picturing Pedro from Napoleon Dynamite "I build her a cake, or something."

Look up the STP social. You post on the forums so you could ask them for an invite to their next event in London. They are lovely friendly people. Socials are usually advertised in the Meets forum section. I would love to but it's miles away and would need accommodation"

Sorry that post was for the London guy.

York social in February here- www.fabswingers.com/forum/meets/822244

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"In my opinion you’re not doing anything ‘wrong’ however I don’t think you’re doing enough.

This site works best if you use it in conjunction with an active swinging lifestyle; go to clubs, go to socials, meet people. Fab is great for maintaining contact with people you know or chatting in the forums etc. But if you don’t have the body of an Adonis or the writing skills of Byron you will always be at a loss.

I’m sure that you’re a great guy but unless people actually get to see that in person then they will always judge you on what you write or your pictures.

Fab is a great tool and can be a good way of meeting people but don’t make it your only tool!

Everyone needs to put in effort, but I think for men, it’s best to go through all channels.

Clubs, parties, etc.

Plenty of guys on here who do well, so it does work, you just have to keep on at it! "

Exactly, there’s no point in limiting yourself

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"I heard offering cake will do the trick....

The women of Fab love cake....

Just keep picturing Pedro from Napoleon Dynamite "I build her a cake, or something."

Look up the STP social. You post on the forums so you could ask them for an invite to their next event in London. They are lovely friendly people. Socials are usually advertised in the Meets forum section. I would love to but it's miles away and would need accommodation"

There are loads of socials all over the country, it’s just people getting together and making connections, I think it’s the best thing you could do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been on here for 5 yrs and only met one person. I'm not ugly, my profile isn't bad, I message women politely.

How about trying a club. Get to know people socially i know what im going to do.....sit in my 6x4 garden shed and keep wanking until I blow the roof off lol"

A man with a plan! Great!

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By *uryWhipMan
over a year ago

Harringay


"I heard offering cake will do the trick....

The women of Fab love cake....

Just keep picturing Pedro from Napoleon Dynamite "I build her a cake, or something."

Look up the STP social. You post on the forums so you could ask them for an invite to their next event in London. They are lovely friendly people. Socials are usually advertised in the Meets forum section. I would love to but it's miles away and would need accommodation

Sorry that post was for the London guy.

York social in February here- www.fabswingers.com/forum/meets/822244"

I looked up stp socials but wasnt recognised. Searched for socials in London and came back 0 results

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I heard offering cake will do the trick....

The women of Fab love cake....

Just keep picturing Pedro from Napoleon Dynamite "I build her a cake, or something." "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I heard offering cake will do the trick....

The women of Fab love cake....

Just keep picturing Pedro from Napoleon Dynamite "I build her a cake, or something."

Look up the STP social. You post on the forums so you could ask them for an invite to their next event in London. They are lovely friendly people. Socials are usually advertised in the Meets forum section. I would love to but it's miles away and would need accommodation

Sorry that post was for the London guy.

York social in February here- www.fabswingers.com/forum/meets/822244

I looked up stp socials but wasnt recognised. Searched for socials in London and came back 0 results "

Sorry I should have checked the info before I posted.

Hotlist the OP on this thread. They do the STP socials. None listed yet.

www.fabswingers.com/forum/meets/816199

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By *tterlysluterlyCouple
over a year ago

northampton

We can vouch for the advice previously given ie. visit clubs and meet people there, after meeting people they will usually give you their fab details - if they are interested and if they meet outside of the club scene (and most do as that's why they are on the site) then you have a head start on the rest. We have meet loads of guys at clubs and then gone on to have successful meets afterwards by using fab to arrange. However in the past we've been let down time and time again by guys who arrange a meet via the site and then simply didn't turn up. This has never happened when we have already meet a guy at a club. This is now the only way we meet single guys.

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area


"In my opinion you’re not doing anything ‘wrong’ however I don’t think you’re doing enough.

This site works best if you use it in conjunction with an active swinging lifestyle; go to clubs, go to socials, meet people. Fab is great for maintaining contact with people you know or chatting in the forums etc. But if you don’t have the body of an Adonis or the writing skills of Byron you will always be at a loss.

I’m sure that you’re a great guy but unless people actually get to see that in person then they will always judge you on what you write or your pictures.

Fab is a great tool and can be a good way of meeting people but don’t make it your only tool!

Everyone needs to put in effort, but I think for men, it’s best to go through all channels.

Clubs, parties, etc.

Plenty of guys on here who do well, so it does work, you just have to keep on at it! There are thousands of women who wont go near clubs as is with me. They like one to one as i do "

I have one to ones at a club. But going to a club ensures you get the chance to meet up with lots of people in one evening and get your personality across a lot easier than words on a page. I would say find a club or a social to go to. Don't say it's too far away, many have accommodation at very sensible prices.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I remember when men had male friends and talked about football. Now men hang around with women talking about tampons. How times have changed."

Hmmmm I talk rugby and race trucks ... how times have changed

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