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Newbies who think they can order you about i think not lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why do people who have only just set up an a/c think they can order people by saying add me now as a friend ...and perhapes trying to read a persons profile could save them a lot of time ...what are your thoughts ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cant say as ive ever experienced this

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

I never do what i'm told

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont know

"Why do people who have only just set up an a/c think they can order people by saying add me now as a friend ...and perhapes trying to read a persons profile could save them a lot of time ...what are your thoughts ?"

To get to the other side?

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

I think they soon get used to how it works and once the excitement of actually being on a swingers site wears off and they stop messaging with the horn

But then again maybe not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it very annoying to receive friend requests from people I have never spoken to.

- I just ignore them.

Yes you are right to the newbies, there has been a fair few this week.

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By *stwoforfun2Couple
over a year ago

South Suffolk Area

We just had that about 20 minutes ago i.e. "love your profile, add us as friends and we will send you face pics"

We think not lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never do what i'm told "

Meet us in Febuary, or else.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ive just had a couple thats all ...im not saying everyone is like that the great percentage are great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they have no idea how this site actually works and have yet to realise that they are in the minority and will have to try a little harder that on a dating site lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A second message from a guy suggested several dates in January that he could do and wanted me to pick one that was convenient to meet yet we haven't even chatted

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

and the pic on his profile was 4years old lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had the funniest message off a single male profile that was started less than an hour before he sent it, it read :-

" I want to f**kin f**ck your f**kin fanny off"

Sooooooooo funny I thought

And then he left the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never do what i'm told

Meet us in Febuary, or else..... "

We second that

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By *stwoforfun2Couple
over a year ago

South Suffolk Area


"I never do what i'm told

Meet us in Febuary, or else..... "

Ok then lol

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn


"I never do what i'm told

Meet us in Febuary, or else..... "

Or else what

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We just had that about 20 minutes ago i.e. "love your profile, add us as friends and we will send you face pics"

We think not lol.

"
Me too

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn


"I never do what i'm told

Meet us in Febuary, or else.....

We second that "

You 2 picking on me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never do what i'm told

Meet us in Febuary, or else.....

We second that

You 2 picking on me "

Not yet no

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn


"I never do what i'm told

Meet us in Febuary, or else.....

We second that

You 2 picking on me

Not yet no "

ohhhh

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By *ettuceslugCouple
over a year ago

Driffield

When we get a friend request, we try to be as polite as possible and let them down gently, it seems to work to be honest. Don't get us wrong, if they persist then we offer firm 'career advice' if we still don't get through we block them.

We also enjoy explaining to single M's posing as couples that they might have to work at it, they don't get to play with another person's partner without respecting boundaries, ticking certain boxes (excuse the pun!) and producing a partner themselves.

Most importantly no one orders us around, if we like we cooperate fully. No likey, f*ck offie! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had the funniest message off a single male profile that was started less than an hour before he sent it, it read :-

" I want to f**kin f**ck your f**kin fanny off"

Sooooooooo funny I thought

And then he left the site "

That was Simon from the inbetweeners, I saw him say it to some chick in series2, must be his standard chat up line.....pity he left the site so quickly...

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

they may have been here, gone and back again more times than the curtain calls for the The Mousetrap...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think they soon get used to how it works and once the excitement of actually being on a swingers site wears off and they stop messaging with the horn

But then again maybe not "
it did with me..though i've never made any friend requests..there r account facilities i just don't care about particularly

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago


"I think they soon get used to how it works and once the excitement of actually being on a swingers site wears off and they stop messaging with the horn

But then again maybe not it did with me..though i've never made any friend requests..there r account facilities i just don't care about particularly"

I think that the facebook revolution means that some people think that adding as many friends as possible = fabulously popular person that you would be mad not to meet

Bit different on here when so many people will value their privacy though

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By *ot - CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Because they don't have any experience and don't know how it works

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I had a guy once who had been joined the site three hours, he messaged me with his number and told me to ring him now so that i can verify him./ Thats why i have newbies blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had the funniest message off a single male profile that was started less than an hour before he sent it, it read :-

" I want to f**kin f**ck your f**kin fanny off"

Sooooooooo funny I thought

And then he left the site

That was Simon from the inbetweeners, I saw him say it to some chick in series2, must be his standard chat up line.....pity he left the site so

quickly... "
Didn't know that as I've never watched it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people who have only just set up an a/c think they can order people by saying add me now as a friend ...and perhapes trying to read a persons profile could save them a lot of time ...what are your thoughts ? "

It's the exception, not the rule. Tell them to piss off.

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn


"I had a guy once who had been joined the site three hours, he messaged me with his number and told me to ring him now so that i can verify him./ Thats why i have newbies blocked"

and you didn't, how unkind of you

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Why do people who have only just set up an a/c think they can order people by saying add me now as a friend ...and perhapes trying to read a persons profile could save them a lot of time ...what are your thoughts ?

It's the exception, not the rule. Tell them to piss off."

I do try and educate them...sometimes it works and I get a thank you, other times I get abuse lol as they think I am taking the piss....oh well until the next one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cant say as ive ever experienced this"

.

Same here!

I am not searchable, hence I do not get many PMs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cant say as ive ever experienced this

.

Same here!

I am not searchable, hence I do not get many PMs.

"

.

Same here!

... but I am searchable, and still do not get many PMs.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i think some are from the planet up yo-uranus lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even though I do not get many PMs and already have newbies blocked, I still get the odd ones from those that have joined the site for less than a month, who obviously have not read my profile and do not meet my criteria.

I just decline, delete and block, without giving it another thought.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Cant say as ive ever experienced this

.

Same here!

I am not searchable, hence I do not get many PMs.

promise i would be nice to you lol

.

Same here!

... but I am searchable, and still do not get many PMs.

"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Cant say as ive ever experienced this

.

Same here!

I am not searchable, hence I do not get many PMs.

.

Same here!

... but I am searchable, and still do not get many PMs.

"
aawww i wouldnt be nasty to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest, people who have been here a while do the same thing with me. I don't think it's something "newbies" are solely guilty for. Plus "Newbies" don't know any better where people who have been on here for years should know better!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cant say as ive ever experienced this

.

Same here!

I am not searchable, hence I do not get many PMs.

.

Same here!

... but I am searchable, and still do not get many PMs.

aawww i wouldnt be nasty to you "

Ms Totty and Nasty just don't look right in the same sentence (obviously don't know you well enough ... yet!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've just had the funniest message ever! Can't wait to show Sir lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dont think it should matter wether your a newbie or not just shouldnt do it , maybe i reading it wrong but what your saying is if it wasnt a newbie thats ok ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When we get a friend request, we try to be as polite as possible and let them down gently, it seems to work to be honest. Don't get us wrong, if they persist then we offer firm 'career advice' if we still don't get through we block them.

We also enjoy explaining to single M's posing as couples that they might have to work at it, they don't get to play with another person's partner without respecting boundaries, ticking certain boxes (excuse the pun!) and producing a partner themselves.

Most importantly no one orders us around, if we like we cooperate fully. No likey, f*ck offie! xx"

I don't accept random friendship requests and I've only had one persistent, gave up waiting for a message from them as I wasn't interested in them and blocked them. Thing is at that point, their status was that a child was off to university so they were looking for fun for the afternoon, had they bothered to ask, I would have told them that I would be at work, think 4 requests over the weekend is just pointless and ridiculous and they just didn't seem to get the message hence the block

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