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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Evening all,

I’d been bi curious for years, had my first experience with a guy in April and a few since.

Ive always wanted to meet a bi married couple, but despite polite messages, pointing out similar interests and picking up on comments in their profiles, I try make my initial messages personal to the couple. Still not having much luck..

any advice? Thanks.

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By *enbobjimMan
over a year ago

Wallasey

Ditto to be honest, look forward to any advice as well. Had a great mmf meet but they just wanted a one off. I’ll keep looking my end as well

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By *woPlusMore69Couple
over a year ago

Birstall


"Evening all,

I’d been bi curious for years, had my first experience with a guy in April and a few since.

Ive always wanted to meet a bi married couple, but despite polite messages, pointing out similar interests and picking up on comments in their profiles, I try make my initial messages personal to the couple. Still not having much luck..

any advice? Thanks.

"

We only meet bi males and there is 1000s on here wanting the same experience mmf, for us in our experience we just delete the 'hi how are you' messages we like a character who makes us laugh ,great at social meets as well as in the bedroom. We prefer regular meets too to build up a rapport. Improve your first messages to get your foot in the door so to speak xx good if guys xxx

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By *woPlusMore69Couple
over a year ago

Birstall


"Evening all,

I’d been bi curious for years, had my first experience with a guy in April and a few since.

Ive always wanted to meet a bi married couple, but despite polite messages, pointing out similar interests and picking up on comments in their profiles, I try make my initial messages personal to the couple. Still not having much luck..

any advice? Thanks.

We only meet bi males and there is 1000s on here wanting the same experience mmf, for us in our experience we just delete the 'hi how are you' messages we like a character who makes us laugh ,great at social meets as well as in the bedroom. We prefer regular meets too to build up a rapport. Improve your first messages to get your foot in the door so to speak xx good if guys xxx"

Sorry good luck guys ***

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Bi night at a club?

You'd meet people face to face therefore bypassing the message stage where you only have text to go on. Make a good impression in person and you never know.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Like I said though my first message is always polite, relevant to the couple, never one liners and I always make sure they know everything is on their terms.

I don’t try to big myself up or make promises I can’t keep.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It’s a thought.... can you recommend one?

Thanks guys.

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By *woPlusMore69Couple
over a year ago

Birstall


"Bi night at a club?

You'd meet people face to face therefore bypassing the message stage where you only have text to go on. Make a good impression in person and you never know."

A lot of single guys get a bad press at clubs ,so iv been told x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I’m fucked!

And not literally!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Love the profile Peach... although you do sound like a nut job

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Love the profile Peach... although you do sound like a nut job "

Yes she is, and totally devourable with it too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


" "

Have you just been to Five Guys?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Five guys?

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Five guys? "

A fast food restaurant chain that specialises in burgers. Not been there maself, but maybe one day if I'm that desperate then who knows what will happen on a hot date

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I thought it was a bi club!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Some of this is likely just an extension of what you'd experience if you were single straight guys here, except you need potentially to be attractive to 2 people physically and personality wise.

Once you become confident that you are bi, rather than curious, you'll probably be attractive to different people too, as some straight guys pretend curiosity and bi interests. Many people like others who know themselves and their interests - not all, of course.

I think it's great to just get out and about meeting people, including at clubs. You'll see people without needing a first message reply

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By *yvanwy black wild childTV/TS
over a year ago

Northwich


"Evening all,

I’d been bi curious for years, had my first experience with a guy in April and a few since.

Ive always wanted to meet a bi married couple, but despite polite messages, pointing out similar interests and picking up on comments in their profiles, I try make my initial messages personal to the couple. Still not having much luck..

any advice? Thanks.

"
make a visit to arousal in dunstable they hold some great bi party's see the club reviews for there club's details

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the info,

One thing I should have mentioned is that I’ve not long been photo verified.... does that make that much difference to people?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well you're just talking about foreplay. Doesn't say if you're up for kissing, fucking or being fucked.

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By *enny smudgeMan
over a year ago

Dover

Went to a bi night and met a couple there. Was shy as it was my first time at a club but if you're respectful and polite then I'm sure you'll get along fine.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well you're just talking about foreplay. Doesn't say if you're up for kissing, fucking or being fucked."

Ok so I need more info on my profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cheers benny.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I think so. Do you want to embrace the whole bi experience or do you just want to play around the periphery? For us meeting a bi guy means a full on bi experience, giving and taking. You should state your expectations and limitations to clarify for people like ourselves. With your current profile if we were local to you we would not contact you for sex.

My apologies for being so abrupt, I think I have been out of line here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No not at all.

But if you saw my profile and it didn’t say, wouldn’t you just ask.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I do like your profile though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Almost success.... so no actual replies.

But anyone that has read my messages, hasn’t instantly deleted them, think I’m heading in the right direction.

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By *lpha-and-FoxtrotCouple
over a year ago

Kettering


"Evening all,

I’d been bi curious for years, had my first experience with a guy in April and a few since.

Ive always wanted to meet a bi married couple, but despite polite messages, pointing out similar interests and picking up on comments in their profiles, I try make my initial messages personal to the couple. Still not having much luck..

any advice? Thanks.

We only meet bi males and there is 1000s on here wanting the same experience mmf, for us in our experience we just delete the 'hi how are you' messages we like a character who makes us laugh ,great at social meets as well as in the bedroom. We prefer regular meets too to build up a rapport. Improve your first messages to get your foot in the door so to speak xx good if guys xxx"

Exactly this,but rarely do guys make any effort.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Like I said though my first message is always polite, relevant to the couple, never one liners and I always make sure they know everything is on their terms.

I don’t try to big myself up or make promises I can’t keep.

"

I do make the effort and don’t make it all about fucking.

I think it’s catch 22, no verifications, no interest..... no interest, no verifications...

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By *enbobjimMan
over a year ago

Wallasey

Looking for a meet but getting nowhere unfortunately. I always read profiles and send face and body pics. Fully aware I am no young Greek god so I pick similar body shapes. I know bi couples must be inundated but message doesn’t even get read most of the time.

Any feedback or advice would be greatly appreciated x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Some of mine haven’t been read.

Even one which was a reply to a request for a face pic!

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By *enbobjimMan
over a year ago

Wallasey


"Some of mine haven’t been read.

Even one which was a reply to a request for a face pic!

"

Frustrating isn’t it. If they read and delete I block so I know not to disturb again. Do you send again or not!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Evening all,

I’d been bi curious for years, had my first experience with a guy in April and a few since.

Ive always wanted to meet a bi married couple, but despite polite messages, pointing out similar interests and picking up on comments in their profiles, I try make my initial messages personal to the couple. Still not having much luck..

any advice? Thanks.

"

Are you spelling 'bi' correctly when you address them? They might just think you're saying "ta ra".

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some of mine haven’t been read.

Even one which was a reply to a request for a face pic!

Frustrating isn’t it. If they read and delete I block so I know not to disturb again. Do you send again or not!"

No don’t send again, didn’t think to block though.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

To be honest OP a lot of people will look at a profile and pics before even reading a message and if they don't like what they see will just delete unread - so take a look at your profile and ask yourself honestly if you're presenting yourself in the best possible way and if not take a look at profile advice threads for how you can improve yours.

You can write the best message ever but without a decent profile to back it up it won't necessarily get a response.

As others have suggested Bi Nights at clubs are a good way to go - you have three relatively nearby - VA near Bedford (first Friday of the month) - Naughty Bi Nature near Dunstable (second Saturday of the month I think) and one in Luton on a Tuesday but the name of the club escapes me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the luton one would be bitastic at the greenhouse, although its on Friday now, also that's probably the easiest to access due to I believe VA and Bi nature requiring verification, falling again into catch 22 territory

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By *.nottsbloke..Man
over a year ago

nottinghamshire

Meet a single bi guy and get verified maybe

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all your comments.

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By *enbobjimMan
over a year ago

Wallasey

Love to meet a bi couple. Had great meet with a couple but they too far away unfortunately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

same !!! something thats such a turn on i want my turn lol !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Evening all,

I’d been bi curious for years, had my first experience with a guy in April and a few since.

Ive always wanted to meet a bi married couple, but despite polite messages, pointing out similar interests and picking up on comments in their profiles, I try make my initial messages personal to the couple. Still not having much luck

We are a bi married couple and only meet bi guys it’s a such a shame your so far away..

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can highly recommend Mingles club in Colchester... and they are having a bi night this coming Friday

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By *rHornyGentMan
over a year ago

South East London


"I can highly recommend Mingles club in Colchester... and they are having a bi night this coming Friday

"

Never been to the club but ‘the last ever bi night at Mingles’ in your status doesn’t sound too promising...

The VA bi night is brilliant fun and the Naughty Bi Nature parties too judging by the feedback I see.

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By *afadaoMan
over a year ago

Staines

There is a filter box you can check in the search settings to look for bi folk. So if you search for couples within xx miles that are bi then you’ll get a decent return.

Have a browser through, see who you like the look of and send a couple of messages.

Better still, save that search and you can see new couples as they join

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Evening all,

I’d been bi curious for years, had my first experience with a guy in April and a few since.

Ive always wanted to meet a bi married couple, but despite polite messages, pointing out similar interests and picking up on comments in their profiles, I try make my initial messages personal to the couple. Still not having much luck

We are a bi married couple and only meet bi guys

it’s a such a shame your so far away..

I have family in Wales.

I’ll have to see them some time.

I can’t message you privately because I’m under your age bracket.

"

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By *uilder506Man
over a year ago

bognor


"Evening all,

I’d been bi curious for years, had my first experience with a guy in April and a few since.

Ive always wanted to meet a bi married couple, but despite polite messages, pointing out similar interests and picking up on comments in their profiles, I try make my initial messages personal to the couple. Still not having much luck..

any advice? Thanks.

Can I join this club ?

"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sure. We just need a woman now.

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