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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Im new to this looking for female chat but never know the right way to start a conversation! Any tips?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tips on how to start a conversation?

How would you start a conversation with a woman in real life/in person?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Yo dude

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Yo dude "

That’s ‘street’ in Hove (my “hood”).

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I wouldnt think about it I'd just say somthing. Dont find it as easy as that on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most women check the profile before deciding if they want to open nevermind reply to a message. I'd suggest you use that as a starting place to sell yourself.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How do you sell yourself without sounding like a big headed idiot. Again not a problem in real life situations but on here it seems totally beyond me!

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

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"Yo dude

That’s ‘street’ in Hove (my “hood”). "

That's quite Close, but do you live in electric Avenue, if not, I'm gonna hit the Road....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you sell yourself without sounding like a big headed idiot. Again not a problem in real life situations but on here it seems totally beyond me!"

How? It’s the same as real life...fab is real life

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By *exyangeleyesMan
over a year ago

london


"Most women check the profile before deciding if they want to open nevermind reply to a message. I'd suggest you use that as a starting place to sell yourself. "

I would agree.

After that I would suggest be yourself, honest and genuine. If ppl don’t reply, your probably better off to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Flattering photos and well written profile text would be good. As said above, a lot of women will look at that, before opening a message or deciding whether to reply to you or not. Oh and welcome to fab OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you sell yourself without sounding like a big headed idiot. Again not a problem in real life situations but on here it seems totally beyond me!"

Ah just join in on the forum. With your wit and repartee I’m sure you’ll fit it. Besides you couldn’t make more of a twat of yourself than I do.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

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"How do you sell yourself without sounding like a big headed idiot. Again not a problem in real life situations but on here it seems totally beyond me!"

Basically just get yerself known on here, be interesting (unlike Brightonsteve ) and just have a laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just find a profile you like and copy it word for word, always a winner doing that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just find a profile you like and copy it word for word, always a winner doing that "

Stevie’s is always a good one to copy, mine - not so much

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset

Look at your profile how others see it (via mobile tap your name near top of homes screen) and ask yourself "would i want to chat to a profile like this"

If answers no but you really can't see how to add to it, go look at other guys profiles (the ones with veris) for ideas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you sell yourself without sounding like a big headed idiot. Again not a problem in real life situations but on here it seems totally beyond me!"

Have a look at some other guy's profiles and take note of their approach (don't copy them!!!). It's really about getting a bit of personality across, play to yours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just put your inhibitions aside when writing about yourself. It always sounds a bit odd the first few times you do it, but practise a bit till you feel your personality comes out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Run, run away while you still can!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do your best to repel all the women. Funnily enough they can’t resist repellent and come flocking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All of the above. Then have a cup of tea, take stock and then think about what you want out of this Fabsperience - formulate a plan, take a couple of pics, portray your personality on your profile and join in on the forums. Take it from there

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

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"Just find a profile you like and copy it word for word, always a winner doing that

Stevie’s is always a good one to copy, mine - not so much"

Mine's even better now I've upgraded it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just find a profile you like and copy it word for word, always a winner doing that

Stevie’s is always a good one to copy, mine - not so much

Mine's even better now I've upgraded it "

Yep you’re right Ace, your profile is really shit. You missed putting I’ve only been here 10 years - will fill in later

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

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"Do your best to repel all the women. Funnily enough they can’t resist repellent and come flocking "

Do you put some of your dodgy snake oil on yer chips when you go down to visit Stevieboi?

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

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"Just find a profile you like and copy it word for word, always a winner doing that

Stevie’s is always a good one to copy, mine - not so much

Mine's even better now I've upgraded it

Yep you’re right Ace, your profile is really shit. You missed putting I’ve only been here 10 years - will fill in later"

That's worth consideration actually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just find a profile you like and copy it word for word, always a winner doing that

Stevie’s is always a good one to copy, mine - not so much

Mine's even better now I've upgraded it

Yep you’re right Ace, your profile is really shit. You missed putting I’ve only been here 10 years - will fill in later

That's worth consideration actually "

Of course it is, I’m full of shite ideas

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

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"Just find a profile you like and copy it word for word, always a winner doing that

Stevie’s is always a good one to copy, mine - not so much

Mine's even better now I've upgraded it

Yep you’re right Ace, your profile is really shit. You missed putting I’ve only been here 10 years - will fill in later

That's worth consideration actually

Of course it is, I’m full of shite ideas "

See now, that's why I moved out of Cloud Cuckoo Land, cos you kept on about 70's rock bands

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