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"Hi guys n gals. Looking for some friendly advice. So, I'm not one of these jerks who will send message after message, nor do I turn nasty when rejected. So if it's a no thank you, I thank them for their time and that's, that. If the message has been read without a reply. I delete it and move on However, when I send a message and it goes unread for a few weeks. Is it safe to assume they never saw it at all, and in that case is it ok to send another message at a later date?" If you don't ask you don't get but be realistic | |||
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"Hi guys n gals. Looking for some friendly advice. So, I'm not one of these jerks who will send message after message, nor do I turn nasty when rejected. So if it's a no thank you, I thank them for their time and that's, that. If the message has been read without a reply. I delete it and move on However, when I send a message and it goes unread for a few weeks. Is it safe to assume they never saw it at all, and in that case is it ok to send another message at a later date?" I miss loads of messages. I don’t see a problem in messaging twice if it’s unread. Besides I only go through mine every few days so it maybe they haven’t even noticed it yet. | |||
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"Def only one more try after that take it as not interested people don’t like being pestered " This is my point though. If the message goes unread and going under the assumption they receive so many messages it's simply gone unnoticed in the mix, are they technically being pestered, on one hand yes they are coz it's multiple messages from the same person on the other hand, no they're not coz they never saw the previous message(s) in the first place | |||
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"Can I express that when you have a no thanks message that you just delete because when you reply thanks for replying all your doing is adding to the throng of messages that can't be got through and then cause us to mass delete. It's my pet hate and has actually caused me to stop replying now " Duly noted | |||
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