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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’ve just woke, have been sent 123 messages over night, only 1 was from the type of fabber I’m looking for. How about you how many unwanted/ pointless messages do you get and do you mass delete or try and respond ?

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall

I've only had one and that was from a one line one willy pic profile ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reply to all first messages but I have such an off putting personality/ profile I don't get many messages.

If I was hot like you OP I'd probably just delete the really crap messages & copy and paste a thank you to any compliments.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I reply to all first messages but I have such an off putting personality/ profile I don't get many messages.

If I was hot like you OP I'd probably just delete the really crap messages & copy and paste a thank you to any compliments.

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I do try and reply to the decent ones, I feel really bad about deleting them with out reply don’t know why just feel a meanie, but most times it’s just not physically possible and some days it annoys me as there’re miles and miles away and never realistically meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've only had one and that was from a one line one willy pic profile .."
get lots of them and that one would is always hi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know. I rarely read messages unless their profile attracts me. I don't get many anyway so it's all good.

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By *ulldog_71Man
over a year ago

Sedgefield

I must have had so many that fab couldn't cope and deleted them all before I got up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prepare to get a load more after this thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bugger me, and I thought my inbox was buy!! Only for 88 overnight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

123! Either your really popular or im rather undesirable, or bit of both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Woke up to 5 yesterday but none today all friends tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're getting all unwanted op get yourself an off putting profile like mine. Remove your preferences. Block everyone and do your own searching

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By *enithWoman
over a year ago

closer than you think

123?! Blimey I don’t get that many in a month!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m hidden at the mo so only a few from

People Iv chatted to already but usually yes wake up to stupid amounts and generally delete a lot without reading .. I look at the profile pic and first line usually that you see without opening the message and if it doesn’t spark my interest I delete it ... it’s too time consuming to read and reply to all and I often find if you do reply with a polite no thanks it’s like a red rag to a bull and you’re in for a tirade of yet more messages !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4 overnight, it's cut back a lot since I stopped unverified and new people messaging me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Since I bulk deleted my winks, friend requests and messages... Aswell as filtering, hiding or deleting pretty much my whole profile, I have not had any messages from people I don't know... It's been lovely!

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

My inbox is empty!

If you want to get hold of me, now is a good time. You’ll go straight to the front of the queue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually go through them and delete without opening any messages without a profile pic. Any saying can I ask you a question. Any with one word messages or text speak and any rude ones. I delete any woman who appear to be fake. Then I finally start filtering though the others

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"123! Either your really popular or im rather undesirable, or bit of both"
more like people think I’m easy and gonna put out, damnim someasy to read

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Zero overnight

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

1 overnight for me. I get a steady stream and reply to all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had about 5 overnight. I dont do much with them unless they are friends ones. If Im going to answer new ones its normally in the evening when Ive more time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve just woke, have been sent 123 messages over night, only 1 was from the type of fabber I’m looking for. How about you how many unwanted/ pointless messages do you get and do you mass delete or try and respond ?"
I rarely get a pointless message the odd guy offers me a blow job but that's it all others are appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve just woke, have been sent 123 messages over night, only 1 was from the type of fabber I’m looking for. How about you how many unwanted/ pointless messages do you get and do you mass delete or try and respond ?"

Same. About 100 a day. Delete most though. You can usually tell by the first line if you’re going to read it or not. It’s a shame there’s so many idiots as sometimes I just bulk delete as I just can’t be arsed going through them and I may have a missed someone nice in there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happily I have not had any pointless messages for a few days now. Dare I say it, people must actually have read my profile!

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By *owhard007Man
over a year ago

leeds

I really don't get that many. Must be doing something wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

0, sometimes 1 or 2 from sillhoutete couples or women looking for a bi guy for threesome.

So basically 0

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I woke up to 118 this morning!

I haven’t read every single one yet.

There was three who are guys I’m interested in, one very much so, the other two just chatting at the moment.

I don’t mind the mass of messages much, when they get too much and I start getting 200+ usually when I post new pictures I regularly hide my profile to stall the messages and get through the ones I’ve already got.

I only reply to those I’m interested in! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve just woke, have been sent 123 messages over night, only 1 was from the type of fabber I’m looking for. How about you how many unwanted/ pointless messages do you get and do you mass delete or try and respond ?"

That would just scare the shit out of me tbh and I'd probably mass delete, knocking back a lot of nice folk in the process.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve just woke, have been sent 123 messages over night, only 1 was from the type of fabber I’m looking for. How about you how many unwanted/ pointless messages do you get and do you mass delete or try and respond ?"

You were involved in the status thread yesterday, that might have created more interest, I got more views and messages myself.

Either that or your just damned stunning

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I woke up to 118 this morning!

I haven’t read every single one yet.

There was three who are guys I’m interested in, one very much so, the other two just chatting at the moment.

I don’t mind the mass of messages much, when they get too much and I start getting 200+ usually when I post new pictures I regularly hide my profile to stall the messages and get through the ones I’ve already got.

I only reply to those I’m interested in! X"

It’s becoming a full time occupation, mails can easily number into the hundreds each day especially if I post pics, hence why I only post one a day if any, I know of one lovely lady on here and has well over 3000 unread mails don’t think I could let it get that bad x

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By *hil39Man
over a year ago

Dagenham


"I’ve just woke, have been sent 123 messages over night, only 1 was from the type of fabber I’m looking for. How about you how many unwanted/ pointless messages do you get and do you mass delete or try and respond ?"

I'd be grateful for any message, whether wanted/pointless or not, lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I woke up to 118 this morning!

I haven’t read every single one yet.

There was three who are guys I’m interested in, one very much so, the other two just chatting at the moment.

I don’t mind the mass of messages much, when they get too much and I start getting 200+ usually when I post new pictures I regularly hide my profile to stall the messages and get through the ones I’ve already got.

I only reply to those I’m interested in! X

It’s becoming a full time occupation, mails can easily number into the hundreds each day especially if I post pics, hence why I only post one a day if any, I know of one lovely lady on here and has well over 3000 unread mails don’t think I could let it get that bad x"

I agree! It can sometimes become a real chore to reply to hundreds of messages!

Hence why I now regularly hide my profile when it gets too much, sometimes it takes me a day or two to reply also, as I don’t want to spend hours reading and replying.

Wow 3000! Yes I couldn’t leave my mails unread for that long it would be hell!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a message once. That was a good day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I respond to all of my unwanted messages

I enjoy saying “thank you, I’m fine. Fab is ok. Oh and by the way I’m straight. Sorry buddy”

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