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"I’ve never been for a social...I’ve been on my way to a social, but we turned back because we wanted to fuck " Lucky you, I’ve only had that once. | |||
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"I’ve never been for a social...I’ve been on my way to a social, but we turned back because we wanted to fuck " pesky time wasters | |||
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"I’ve never been for a social...I’ve been on my way to a social, but we turned back because we wanted to fuck pesky time wasters " I’m the worst! | |||
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"I’ve never been for a social...I’ve been on my way to a social, but we turned back because we wanted to fuck pesky time wasters I’m the worst! so your why we get weekend wingers naughty couple" Maybe so But to be fair...we turned back from the social so I could fuck the man I was meant to be having a social with | |||
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"I’ve never been for a social...I’ve been on my way to a social, but we turned back because we wanted to fuck pesky time wasters I’m the worst! so your why we get weekend wingers naughty couple Maybe so But to be fair...we turned back from the social so I could fuck the man I was meant to be having a social with " ah phew thats good ok then | |||
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"I personally wouldn't suggest somewhere like a fast food restaurant or a service station for a social meet - would usually go for a coffee shop or a pub, or have even met in a park for a walk and a chat. That said I guess a lot may depend on circumstance, distance travelling etc and availability of locations mid-way, not to mention the type of connection that has been built up - some see socials as a quick coffee and confirmation that the other person is who their profile suggests they are, so guess that's why somewhere like McD's may seem acceptable to them - wouldn't be for me though." Thanks for this great reply... | |||
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"I've met someone in a Costa coffee at a services station near me, my suggestion. It happened to be half way between out and convenient for him as he was travelling on the M1. I would draw the line at McDonald's though..... I prefer a nice pub but it would only ever be a coffee, I really can't stand the thought of having lunch with someone that I didn't fancy." This is true, though I’ve been lucky in the lunch socials I’ve had as in there’s been attraction etc, but yes, a coffee/tea/becerage of choice is always the best way to go. | |||
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"It is nice when the guy suggests somewhere to, seems to be rare. " Very rare! | |||
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"Wanna meet me behind the skips at the recycling centre for a bit a phwoar luv?" Only behind the compost one as I haven’t had lunch yet... | |||
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"It is nice when the guy suggests somewhere to, seems to be rare. " I always suggest the lady chooses so that it is somewhere she feels comfortable, and safe. | |||
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"The worst place suggested for a social in my experience... ‘come round to my place’. Ah no! The best social venue was definitely the arcade. Armed with buckets of 2ps and competitively collecting tokens. Makes both parties at ease. Gives something to talk about and guaranteed giggles. " Oh I want to do that with you | |||
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"The worst place suggested for a social in my experience... ‘come round to my place’. Ah no! The best social venue was definitely the arcade. Armed with buckets of 2ps and competitively collecting tokens. Makes both parties at ease. Gives something to talk about and guaranteed giggles. Oh I want to do that with you " I’ll hold you to that x | |||
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"The worst place suggested for a social in my experience... ‘come round to my place’. Ah no! The best social venue was definitely the arcade. Armed with buckets of 2ps and competitively collecting tokens. Makes both parties at ease. Gives something to talk about and guaranteed giggles. Oh I want to do that with you I’ll hold you to that x" Those coin push fountain things are soooo frustrating | |||
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"The worst place suggested for a social in my experience... ‘come round to my place’. Ah no! The best social venue was definitely the arcade. Armed with buckets of 2ps and competitively collecting tokens. Makes both parties at ease. Gives something to talk about and guaranteed giggles. Oh I want to do that with you " Me too! I love the 2p machines | |||
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"Someone asked me to go for a walk along the canal with them once " To be honest the social where I was the least nervous was when we went to a park and walked along the river chatting. I’m not great with the coffee/pub thing. All seems a bit false, if I met someone in a pub when I was out normally I’d be totally fine and my usual self. I just don’t seem to be able to on a fab social. It’s odd. | |||
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"Someone asked me to go for a walk along the canal with them once " That's the sort of thing I'd suggest (I have a boat and like the waterways), which is why I let the lady choose... | |||
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"Someone asked me to go for a walk along the canal with them once " Grand Trunk? | |||
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"Wanna meet me behind the skips at the recycling centre for a bit a phwoar luv?" Eco warrior | |||
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"I've had a social in maccies before. It was before work, and I needed a cheeseburger and strawberry milkshake and 45 mins. 2 birds one stone. That's where I was heading and if he wanted the social then, well, he could bloody well meet me there. " Ha! Love it | |||
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"It is nice when the guy suggests somewhere to, seems to be rare. I always suggest the lady chooses so that it is somewhere she feels comfortable, and safe." This is a cop-out | |||
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"I completely understand this OP. I get so fed up with suggesting where to meet for a social that I've put in my profile that if a man can be bothered to suggest somewhere, then I can't be bothered to meet him. After all if he's so unimaginative/thoughtless at the outset, what's he going to be like in bed? " I agree with you there x | |||
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"What is the most off-putting place you’ve been suggested for a social? I insist on a social before going any further (though I’ve made a couple of exceptions). Yes, this is a sex site, but to me, the social aspect is as important as the sex itself. If my mind is not aroused, neither will my body. I’ve been told this is a load of hogswash and that I should not be on here if I don’t just want to be upstairs with my legs spread wide just waiting for any plonker who asks me if I want “sum fun xx” sorry, I digress... But anyway, I enjoy the social aspect, and I make an effort. I will dress nicely- I always meet during the day, so stockings and stilettos are a bit difficult to manage, especially if I have to come back to do the school run straight after but I will dress seductively and will try to look attractive. The price of the venue to meet for a social is irrelevant as I never expect other people to pay for me and I will always insist to pay for my lunch/coffee/drinks. Usually I am asked to come up with a place- which gets tiresome. It is very nice to get a message saying “I know a charming little coffee shop/pub in x area, I’d love to meet you there...” and I have done in the past, which has been lovely for these gents to make the effort and research or make plans for a lovely social. But there’s been a couple of times lately that I’ve been chtting, things look good for a social, and I’ve said that I like having plans laid in front of me and I was given a service station to meet, and just now, McDonald’s! I am laughing, really... why would I want to leave the comfort of my sofa to make the effort and dress to impress to go to a service station or to a McDonald’s? And people wonder why they don’t get any meets... This is a lighthearted post by the way. I’m not expecting The Savoy or The Ritz. Just a bit of thought... I go to McD’s with my kids often enough! " I was in a mixture of laughing and stunned when a guy about a month a go suggested McDonakds or KFC!!! Still shaking my head! I’m with you- I need a man to suggest a suitable place. If you can’t organise a coffee and cake/ cocktail how you going to organise an orgasm? K frigging C!?!? | |||
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"I completely understand this OP. I get so fed up with suggesting where to meet for a social that I've put in my profile that if a man can be bothered to suggest somewhere, then I can't be bothered to meet him. After all if he's so unimaginative/thoughtless at the outset, what's he going to be like in bed? " | |||
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"I treat a social equally as I would for a play meet in terms of detail/planning. Coffee/cafes etc way too boring and not for me. I often take charge with suggestions or surprise someone. Some of my most happiest memories were socials. I won't go into details in here just incase someone actually allows me to take them out on a social. Miracles can happen! Food is always guaranteed." Yes- but if you don’t share pics we’re not going to turn up on a blind date are we? | |||
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"It is nice when the guy suggests somewhere to, seems to be rare. I always suggest the lady chooses so that it is somewhere she feels comfortable, and safe. This is a cop-out " I prefer them to let me choose. I'd be wary otherwise. | |||
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"I treat a social equally as I would for a play meet in terms of detail/planning. Coffee/cafes etc way too boring and not for me. I often take charge with suggestions or surprise someone. Some of my most happiest memories were socials. I won't go into details in here just incase someone actually allows me to take them out on a social. Miracles can happen! Food is always guaranteed. Yes- but if you don’t share pics we’re not going to turn up on a blind date are we? " What you like hey TeamPerve! We are fellow 69ers, but it's what Cilla Black wanted. Surprise! Surprise! | |||
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"Wanna meet me behind the skips at the recycling centre for a bit a phwoar luv? Only behind the compost one as I haven’t had lunch yet... " Now ya talking dirty | |||
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"I treat a social equally as I would for a play meet in terms of detail/planning. Coffee/cafes etc way too boring and not for me. I often take charge with suggestions or surprise someone. Some of my most happiest memories were socials. I won't go into details in here just incase someone actually allows me to take them out on a social. Miracles can happen! Food is always guaranteed. Yes- but if you don’t share pics we’re not going to turn up on a blind date are we? What you like hey TeamPerve! We are fellow 69ers, but it's what Cilla Black wanted. Surprise! Surprise! " I nearly was on blind date but got turned away just before I went on live - I was devastated | |||
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"It is nice when the guy suggests somewhere to, seems to be rare. I always suggest the lady chooses so that it is somewhere she feels comfortable, and safe." I agree, I do make suggestions but ultimately need her to feel safe/secure. As most of my few meets have been with couples it is obviously less important.... | |||
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"I’ve never been for a social...I’ve been on my way to a social, but we turned back because we wanted to fuck " Hahahaha very nice | |||
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"What is the most off-putting place you’ve been suggested for a social? I insist on a social before going any further (though I’ve made a couple of exceptions). Yes, this is a sex site, but to me, the social aspect is as important as the sex itself. If my mind is not aroused, neither will my body. I’ve been told this is a load of hogswash and that I should not be on here if I don’t just want to be upstairs with my legs spread wide just waiting for any plonker who asks me if I want “sum fun xx” sorry, I digress... But anyway, I enjoy the social aspect, and I make an effort. I will dress nicely- I always meet during the day, so stockings and stilettos are a bit difficult to manage, especially if I have to come back to do the school run straight after but I will dress seductively and will try to look attractive. The price of the venue to meet for a social is irrelevant as I never expect other people to pay for me and I will always insist to pay for my lunch/coffee/drinks. Usually I am asked to come up with a place- which gets tiresome. It is very nice to get a message saying “I know a charming little coffee shop/pub in x area, I’d love to meet you there...” and I have done in the past, which has been lovely for these gents to make the effort and research or make plans for a lovely social. But there’s been a couple of times lately that I’ve been chtting, things look good for a social, and I’ve said that I like having plans laid in front of me and I was given a service station to meet, and just now, McDonald’s! I am laughing, really... why would I want to leave the comfort of my sofa to make the effort and dress to impress to go to a service station or to a McDonald’s? And people wonder why they don’t get any meets... This is a lighthearted post by the way. I’m not expecting The Savoy or The Ritz. Just a bit of thought... I go to McD’s with my kids often enough! " McDs is just piss poor and guys wonder why they get no where | |||
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"I treat a social equally as I would for a play meet in terms of detail/planning. Coffee/cafes etc way too boring and not for me. I often take charge with suggestions or surprise someone. Some of my most happiest memories were socials. I won't go into details in here just incase someone actually allows me to take them out on a social. Miracles can happen! Food is always guaranteed. Yes- but if you don’t share pics we’re not going to turn up on a blind date are we? What you like hey TeamPerve! We are fellow 69ers, but it's what Cilla Black wanted. Surprise! Surprise! I nearly was on blind date but got turned away just before I went on live - I was devastated " Oh damn! Did not realise even after you been selected can get turned away last second. That would have been awesome if you was on it. I used to enjoy that back in the days | |||
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"It is nice when the guy suggests somewhere to, seems to be rare. I always suggest the lady chooses so that it is somewhere she feels comfortable, and safe. This is a cop-out I prefer them to let me choose. I'd be wary otherwise. " Wary about what? | |||
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"I treat a social equally as I would for a play meet in terms of detail/planning. Coffee/cafes etc way too boring and not for me. I often take charge with suggestions or surprise someone. Some of my most happiest memories were socials. I won't go into details in here just incase someone actually allows me to take them out on a social. Miracles can happen! Food is always guaranteed. Yes- but if you don’t share pics we’re not going to turn up on a blind date are we? What you like hey TeamPerve! We are fellow 69ers, but it's what Cilla Black wanted. Surprise! Surprise! I nearly was on blind date but got turned away just before I went on live - I was devastated Oh damn! Did not realise even after you been selected can get turned away last second. That would have been awesome if you was on it. I used to enjoy that back in the days " Oh the shame lol | |||
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"It is nice when the guy suggests somewhere to, seems to be rare. I always suggest the lady chooses so that it is somewhere she feels comfortable, and safe. This is a cop-out I prefer them to let me choose. I'd be wary otherwise. Wary about what? " If they insisted on somewhere I didn't know I wouldn't meet them. | |||
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"It is nice when the guy suggests somewhere to, seems to be rare. I always suggest the lady chooses so that it is somewhere she feels comfortable, and safe. This is a cop-out I prefer them to let me choose. I'd be wary otherwise. Wary about what? If they insisted on somewhere I didn't know I wouldn't meet them." If it's a public place in an easily accessible populated area I don't see the problem. A choice of venue can also give a clue as to whether you are likely to get on. If someone suggests one of my favourite places, I know that he's on my wavelength and likely to be a winner (as long as there is physical attraction /chemistry in person) | |||
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