FabSwingers.com forum: Flirting...

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I think I'm rubbish at it, but then find myself chatting with people when I'm not tryingbto flirt. Conversely, whenever someine is flirting with me, I'm oblivious!

Has Fab made me so jaded that:

a. I wouldn't believe someone would be interested in my personality?

b. Unless it is a faf, I can't take a hint?

c. I subconciously ignore flirting as I don't want to get my hopes up?

How is your experience of flirting on fab?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a bit mixed, I’m not good at it and don’t always recognise it. But I’m a little bit of A as well. X

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Online flirting is easy, you know everyone on here is at least open to it, in person flirting I'm rubbish at.

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

I think I'm crap at it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m getting better I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im a lot better at it in person...

On here I have no idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no idea how to flirt. I’m painfully awkward

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a huge flirt, unless I actually really fancy the person, then I'm dreadful

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By *owhard007Man
over a year ago

leeds

Only in person. On here It seems to get a little confusing.

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

I'm terrible at flirting (one liners like "if I rearranged the alphabet...") both in person and online.

On here I'm complimentary about someone's pics or their bio, or just make an attempt at a joke

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

No fab flirting, not sure I've been flirted with ON Fab. On a social yes I think so.

In the real world, I would never think that anyone would be flirting with me and would miss any signs at the time (what ever they might be). Thankfully I've not had a FAF face to face as I wouldn't know where to look or what to say.

Should I be a more vigilant of the possibilities of being flirted with?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have some lovely people on here that 'flirt' with me to cheer me up. Harmless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got no idea how to flirt, and I can't say whether I'm oblivious to people flirting with me or they just never do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't do it.. my Manc sarcasm ruins it every time! Incapable of taking a complement and am just not made to flirt!!

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By *rincess PhoenixWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

I never know if someone is flirting with me as I struggle to believe anyone would find me attractive. I try to flirt but I'm quite awkward- thankfully No one on Fab seems to mind my awkwardness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can flirt on here no problem, in person I can flirt with someone unless I actually fancy them in which case I turn into a gibbering buffoon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can be quite flirty but then when I fancy someone I tend to just talk at them whilst my brain is saying shut the fuck up!!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I don't know Op - from what I've seen of a few of your posts you're quite good at flirting! I think most people who say/think they are not are quite good at the sort of shallow, possibly with intent, possibly not sort of flirting.

I think it's the more private flirting people get nervous about. Fab makes you wonder if it's real or not. As for me - generally crap at flirting on the forum, mediocre to goodish in private. Or I just bumble on and on and hope it counts as flirting.

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By *ongueNcheek33Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

Im absolutley hopeless with flirting both doing and recognising it where as the mrs is the biggest flirt going and often has to tell me when someone is flirting with me haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've got no idea how to flirt, and I can't say whether I'm oblivious to people flirting with me or they just never do. "

You flirt well your Royal Thighness

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can't do it.. my Manc sarcasm ruins it every time! Incapable of taking a complement and am just not made to flirt!! "
Your sarcasm works for flirting with northerners. Although some northerners can mistake banter for flirting and vice versa

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

No one ever flirts with me...sobs into her frikadellans....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't know Op - from what I've seen of a few of your posts you're quite good at flirting! I think most people who say/think they are not are quite good at the sort of shallow, possibly with intent, possibly not sort of flirting.

You are too kind. I generally arse things up eventually though. You are a warm and caeing person as I recall from our chats in the past (in my pre-bitterness days)

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By *ackDanielsWhiteRabbitMan
over a year ago

Halifax

Find it much easier in person than online but still crap at it lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No one ever flirts with me...sobs into her frikadellans...."
I tried. I think I tried?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can’t flirt to save my life.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can’t flirt to save my life. "

When you rock what you got, you don't need to

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"No one ever flirts with me...sobs into her frikadellans....I tried. I think I tried?"

Really, I must have blinked and missed that!

These new bisexual glasses aren't the best to be honest.

But hello to you....x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No one ever flirts with me...sobs into her frikadellans....I tried. I think I tried?

Really, I must have blinked and missed that!

These new bisexual glasses aren't the best to be honest.

But hello to you....x

I probably need to invest in a pair myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought I was until recently. So back to the drawing board..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can't do it.. my Manc sarcasm ruins it every time! Incapable of taking a complement and am just not made to flirt!! Your sarcasm works for flirting with northerners. Although some northerners can mistake banter for flirting and vice versa

Ha ha I'm useless.. in my head everyone's a friend until I've met in person so ill veer onto any subject that pops into my head. Doesn't occur to me if it's appropriate or not! I have zero filter and can't read others unless I'm looking at them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can’t flirt to save my life.

When you rock what you got, you don't need to

You’re too kind!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can flirt on here - but outside of Fab I'm rubbish!

A lovely man starts a chat yesterday in Sainsbury's and I ran away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Started *

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By *ereforthafunMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Love a good flirt. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a huge flirt, unless I actually really fancy the person, then I'm dreadful "

Same

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"Started *"

Avoid men who flirt by the vegetable aisle.

Or the Wine aisle.

Bread and cakes is ok.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"I'm a huge flirt, unless I actually really fancy the person, then I'm dreadful

Same"

Oh Jesus yes, if I properly fancy you I can't flirt, I'm a gibbering knobheaded wreck!

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

I’m better at flirting in person. On Fab I get my words mixed up and the meaning often gets skewed in text.

In person I flirt with everyone and don’t even realise half the time. I like it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've got no idea how to flirt, and I can't say whether I'm oblivious to people flirting with me or they just never do.

You flirt well your Royal Thighness

Um... Eh?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've got no idea how to flirt, and I can't say whether I'm oblivious to people flirting with me or they just never do.

You flirt well your Royal Thighness

Um... Eh?"
She knows what I mean...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've got no idea how to flirt, and I can't say whether I'm oblivious to people flirting with me or they just never do.

You flirt well your Royal Thighness

Um... Eh?She knows what I mean..."

She? I think you replied to the wrong comment, the first one in the quote was me

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By *ycra loutMan
over a year ago

york/Scarborough

In person..I don't recognise when someone is flirting with me..I had years of being put down regarding my looks so I just think they are just trying to humiliate me but it's different on here..we're all open minded and most are open to friendly flirting

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've got no idea how to flirt, and I can't say whether I'm oblivious to people flirting with me or they just never do.

You flirt well your Royal Thighness

Um... Eh?She knows what I mean...

She? I think you replied to the wrong comment, the first one in the quote was me

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slip of the thong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a huge flirt, unless I actually really fancy the person, then I'm dreadful

Same

Oh Jesus yes, if I properly fancy you I can't flirt, I'm a gibbering knobheaded wreck!"

That explains your attitude towards me then

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

"No fab flirting, not sure I've been flirted with ON Fab. On a social yes I think so.

Should I be a more vigilant of the possibilities of being flirted with? "

Been told I need to practice my flirting, is there anyone who would like to help?

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