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By *ifferent69 OP   Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

Hi..

Yes I,m a guy,yes I,m single,and yes I,m not " exceptional" in the looks and physique dept.

But why is it ,if you message someone ,even if being polite,or have a query . Automatically the assumption is your looking for a meet ? more and often then blocked,or get a rude or abrubt reply?

Odd ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you open your message with 'fancy a shag love?'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi..

Yes I,m a guy,yes I,m single,and yes I,m not " exceptional" in the looks and physique dept.

But why is it ,if you message someone ,even if being polite,or have a query . Automatically the assumption is your looking for a meet ? more and often then blocked,or get a rude or abrubt reply?

Odd ...."

You don't say 'can I ask you a question?' Do you?

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By *ucko2683Man
over a year ago

widnes

Sometimes it’s just trail & error mate as everyone has there own kink to it but I’d allways say be polite with your first message then drop into the conversation what there into then go from there. It’s not easy getting a reply all the time tho as some want it wickedly naughty but others will just block u for it so it’s just hit & miss as you don’t get if u don’t try but try not letting it put u down

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By *ifferent69 OP   Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK


"Do you open your message with 'fancy a shag love?'"
No?? Jesus no.. Or perhaps that's where I,m going wrong ha ha...

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By *ifferent69 OP   Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK


"Hi..

Yes I,m a guy,yes I,m single,and yes I,m not " exceptional" in the looks and physique dept.

But why is it ,if you message someone ,even if being polite,or have a query . Automatically the assumption is your looking for a meet ? more and often then blocked,or get a rude or abrubt reply?

Odd ....

You don't say 'can I ask you a question?' Do you? "

. Uuurrhh? Well how else are you to ask something ?

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By *ifferent69 OP   Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK


"Sometimes it’s just trail & error mate as everyone has there own kink to it but I’d allways say be polite with your first message then drop into the conversation what there into then go from there. It’s not easy getting a reply all the time tho as some want it wickedly naughty but others will just block u for it so it’s just hit & miss as you don’t get if u don’t try but try not letting it put u down "
thanks fella.....

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I have a chap who started messaging during the Six Nations a few years ago, just chatted about the games etc, he usually pops up during the World Cup too, that I don’t mind as it’s something I am interested in, sex talk nahhh not so much So I guess when you message ladies it depends what you are saying and if it’s related to anything they like.

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

What other circumstances do you message people for other than wanting a meet?

If you message wanting them to answer a query why not put that in the first message then to clear up this issue?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone is not interested in you why reply this isn’t a chat site

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"I So I guess when you message ladies it depends what you are saying and if it’s related to anything they like.

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I agree with this it’s in the opening message! A lot of men close and lock the door in their first message!

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham

Just remember fella . Women are in their pomp here no matter what they look like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two weeks ago i sent a women a message and got a reply. 'Sorry your not for me'. Nothing wrong with that but one week latter i got a wink. Emmmm strange one

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By *ifferent69 OP   Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK


"Two weeks ago i sent a women a message and got a reply. 'Sorry your not for me'. Nothing wrong with that but one week latter i got a wink. Emmmm strange one"
. Yeah a bit odd....

Then ,fuck a wink from a lady I,d take it...ha ha beginning think I,m invisible...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi..

Yes I,m a guy,yes I,m single,and yes I,m not " exceptional" in the looks and physique dept.

But why is it ,if you message someone ,even if being polite,or have a query . Automatically the assumption is your looking for a meet ? more and often then blocked,or get a rude or abrubt reply?

Odd ....

You don't say 'can I ask you a question?' Do you? . Uuurrhh? Well how else are you to ask something ?"

Then that's where you're going wrong

Dont ask if you can ask questions, it's the most annoying thing a man can do on here..its right up there with sending cock pics... and no, I'm not joking

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"Just remember fella . Women are in their pomp here no matter what they look like "

Yeah even us ugly women enjoy sex

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