FabSwingers.com forum: Have I been ghosted ?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi fabbers. Long story short had arranged a social with a guy off here for today then messaged him this morning. No reply even though he said too... came on here as I

wanted to perv his profile and check messages. He's come off the site. The only time that's happened to me the guy was married and had been lieing all the time.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Yes it sounds like you have been I'm afraid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He has changed his mind or his personal circumstances have changed. Just got on another man hunt

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I'd say that you have. We were ghosted recently, it happens

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lol man hunting is hard ! But thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t take this to heart, he may have changed his mind about meeting you, or he may of changed his mind about fab and swinging entirely.... annoying, but I sometimes understand why people do it. Although wouldn’t myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, you have been

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By *orksRockerMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I despise that happened to you. You see it alot and generally it's because married guys loose the courage of their convictions.

Chin up hun. X

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By *idsBiGuyMan
over a year ago

Tamworth

It sounds like you have, but it’s completely his loss (for want of a far better cliche)

Back on the horse as it were, when you’re ready

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lol man hunting is hard ! But thank you"

I suspect some offers will soon be posted

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

Yeah. Don’t sweat it. It happens.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

That happened to me earlier this week! Been chatting with a guy in Hull who is now. UNLOS!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lol man hunting is hard ! But thank you

I suspect some offers will soon be posted

They are usually not the right ones though! I agree with the OP, it's not easy to find suitable men

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By *orksRockerMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"That happened to me earlier this week! Been chatting with a guy in Hull who is now. UNLOS!!

Well he's another idiot... Look at you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens to us a fair bit. Water off a ducks back now...although our very first meet ghosted us while we were waiting in the pub for them . Still here though, plodding along

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lol man hunting is hard ! But thank you

I suspect some offers will soon be posted

They are usually not the right ones though! I agree with the OP, it's not easy to find suitable men"

Tell me about it, I seek one

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By *orksRockerMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"Lol man hunting is hard ! But thank you

I suspect some offers will soon be posted

Agreed with this

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That happened to me earlier this week! Been chatting with a guy in Hull who is now. UNLOS!!

UNLOS ? Translate please

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"That happened to me earlier this week! Been chatting with a guy in Hull who is now. UNLOS!!

UNLOS ? Translate please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lol man hunting is hard ! But thank you

I suspect some offers will soon be posted

They are usually not the right ones though! I agree with the OP, it's not easy to find suitable men"

I'll second or third that too...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens. You have my sympathy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a guy off Fab ghost me straight after a meet. Initially I was quite shocked as we’d gotten on really well up to that point and I genuinely thought he would have had the balls to tell me if he didn’t want to see me again. He’s still on here. His loss.

It’s a shitty thing to do but just move on, we have plenty to choose from

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a guy off Fab ghost me straight after a meet. Initially I was quite shocked as we’d gotten on really well up to that point and I genuinely thought he would have had the balls to tell me if he didn’t want to see me again. He’s still on here. His loss.

It’s a shitty thing to do but just move on, we have plenty to choose from

His loss? What does that even mean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a shitty thing to do but just move on, we have plenty to choose from

His loss? What does that even mean?"

People make me chuckle when they say that. It isn't his loss. He didn't want to/ had no intention of meeting. How is it possibly his loss??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a shitty thing to do but just move on, we have plenty to choose from

His loss? What does that even mean?

People make me chuckle when they say that. It isn't his loss. He didn't want to/ had no intention of meeting. How is it possibly his loss??

We did meet, twice, and discussed having a regular thing. At no point did he make it clear he was no longer interested. Just blocked me without a word. I’m saying his loss because he wanted a fwb and would have had one. It’s difficult to not take it personally when someone ghosts you within hours of fucking you. I hope he finds what he’s looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it happens unfortunately...

It happened to me last week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say you deffo have been

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By *DKinkyJenTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

Happened to me 2 weeks ago, had a meet planned and was finalising details of where we were going to meet and she just stopped all communication

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a shitty thing to do but just move on, we have plenty to choose from

His loss? What does that even mean?

People make me chuckle when they say that. It isn't his loss. He didn't want to/ had no intention of meeting. How is it possibly his loss??

I hate to say it but he got exactly what he wanted and said what he thought he needed to say to get it. Cuntish behaviour for sure, but some people will do everything they can to seal the deal.

Single guys have to stand out to get a fuck around here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a shitty thing to do but just move on, we have plenty to choose from

His loss? What does that even mean?

People make me chuckle when they say that. It isn't his loss. He didn't want to/ had no intention of meeting. How is it possibly his loss??

Haha

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Yup, ghosting is defe on the increase. Happens to me a lot too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a shitty thing to do but just move on, we have plenty to choose from

His loss? What does that even mean?

People make me chuckle when they say that. It isn't his loss. He didn't want to/ had no intention of meeting. How is it possibly his loss??

I hate to say it but he got exactly what he wanted and said what he thought he needed to say to get it. Cuntish behaviour for sure, but some people will do everything they can to seal the deal.

Single guys have to stand out to get a fuck around here."

I did think that would be the case. He could have just been up front about it. I’m not exactly looking for my future husband on here haha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t say you were ghosted because I believe to be ghosted you need to have invested yourself emotionally and met the person a few times. To truly be ghosted would be someone you thought you were getting along with fine and then all of a sudden they disappear with no reason or explanation, just gone, like a fart in the wind.

Ghosting is horrible and leaves you with a tonne of unanswered questions and makes you look inward at possible things you did wrong. It’s shitty.

What you’ve experienced is just someone that’s changed their mind about meeting, for whatever reason and gone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a shitty thing to do but just move on, we have plenty to choose from

His loss? What does that even mean?

People make me chuckle when they say that. It isn't his loss. He didn't want to/ had no intention of meeting. How is it possibly his loss??

I hate to say it but he got exactly what he wanted and said what he thought he needed to say to get it. Cuntish behaviour for sure, but some people will do everything they can to seal the deal.

Single guys have to stand out to get a fuck around here.

I did think that would be the case. He could have just been up front about it. I’m not exactly looking for my future husband on here haha! "

People fear honesty. Look at my profile and guess how many offers I get lol...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a shitty thing to do but just move on, we have plenty to choose from

His loss? What does that even mean?

People make me chuckle when they say that. It isn't his loss. He didn't want to/ had no intention of meeting. How is it possibly his loss??

I hate to say it but he got exactly what he wanted and said what he thought he needed to say to get it. Cuntish behaviour for sure, but some people will do everything they can to seal the deal.

Single guys have to stand out to get a fuck around here.

I did think that would be the case. He could have just been up front about it. I’m not exactly looking for my future husband on here haha!

People fear honesty. Look at my profile and guess how many offers I get lol..."

They do indeed. Your profile is hilarious. I’d hit you up for a coffee when I’m home for Xmas but you don’t want any friends.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a shitty thing to do but just move on, we have plenty to choose from

His loss? What does that even mean?

People make me chuckle when they say that. It isn't his loss. He didn't want to/ had no intention of meeting. How is it possibly his loss??

I hate to say it but he got exactly what he wanted and said what he thought he needed to say to get it. Cuntish behaviour for sure, but some people will do everything they can to seal the deal.

Single guys have to stand out to get a fuck around here.

I did think that would be the case. He could have just been up front about it. I’m not exactly looking for my future husband on here haha!

People fear honesty. Look at my profile and guess how many offers I get lol...

They do indeed. Your profile is hilarious. I’d hit you up for a coffee when I’m home for Xmas but you don’t want any friends....."

I'm hard work. You'd be hoping I'd ghost you by the time I met you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a shitty thing to do but just move on, we have plenty to choose from

His loss? What does that even mean?

People make me chuckle when they say that. It isn't his loss. He didn't want to/ had no intention of meeting. How is it possibly his loss??

I hate to say it but he got exactly what he wanted and said what he thought he needed to say to get it. Cuntish behaviour for sure, but some people will do everything they can to seal the deal.

Single guys have to stand out to get a fuck around here.

I did think that would be the case. He could have just been up front about it. I’m not exactly looking for my future husband on here haha!

People fear honesty. Look at my profile and guess how many offers I get lol...

They do indeed. Your profile is hilarious. I’d hit you up for a coffee when I’m home for Xmas but you don’t want any friends.....

I'm hard work. You'd be hoping I'd ghost you by the time I met you

But I'd buy you a coffee next time I'm in Brizzle

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

Frustrating for you and thankfully saved you a wasted journey.

Yes it happens, no idea why though

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