FabSwingers.com forum: Settle an Argument

By *ynecpl OP Couple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Trying to persuade the Mr to buy a velvet jacket - I love them, he says he will look like a club singer. Should he get the Jacket or not???

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I'm inclined to agree with him, sorry!

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By *ruebameMan
over a year ago

from the womb and tryout to get back

"Trying to persuade the Mr to buy a velvet jacket - I love them, he says he will look like a club singer. Should he get the Jacket or not???"
I agree with Mr sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bottle green or midnight blue?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Um sorry no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Trying to persuade the Mr to buy a velvet jacket - I love them, he says he will look like a club singer. Should he get the Jacket or not???"

He should get a bowtie too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like them but i would have to agree with Mr

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

Sorry...I agree with Mr on this...

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall

"Trying to persuade the Mr to buy a velvet jacket - I love them, he says he will look like a club singer. Should he get the Jacket or not???

He should get a bowtie too

And a white ruffle front shirt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck it.... He should grab one of each colour and wear it loud and proud.....

Confidence pulls it off

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By *eordie JoJoTV/TS
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Trying to persuade the Mr to buy a velvet jacket - I love them, he says he will look like a club singer. Should he get the Jacket or not???"
one of the festive seasons must haves for a gentleman’s wardrobe .... I think they look swarve! ...

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By *hickennchipsWoman
over a year ago

up above the streets and houses

He’s got to wear it so up to him!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only if it’s red velvet with black silk lapels and trim.

He will also need a Mexican bandito moustache and thin pen style microphone.

Also a cravat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In a loving relationship you should be able to ask your partner to do anything without fear of recrimination.

However, asking him to buy a velvet jacket? That’s taking it too far......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry another no from us

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Hes right ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree with the Mr on this one, sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God no!!!

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By *hesexpeopleCouple
over a year ago

s wales

It depends, what do you want him to wear it with? I do like them but what it is paired with can either make them look really good or very wrong.

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
over a year ago

Stourbridge

"Trying to persuade the Mr to buy a velvet jacket - I love them, he says he will look like a club singer. Should he get the Jacket or not???"

Next have some fabulous jackets in, velvet , brocade, smoking jacket style, go for it!

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight

"Trying to persuade the Mr to buy a velvet jacket - I love them, he says he will look like a club singer. Should he get the Jacket or not???

He should get a bowtie too

No, no, no. It has to be a crevat and cigarette holder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I quite fancy a velvet skirt or dress

A bit 70s though, like the jacket

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By *ot-AshMan
over a year ago

London

I agree with Mr if he wouldn't feel comfortable wearing it.

maybe choose another jacket you both like?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Trying to persuade the Mr to buy a velvet jacket - I love them, he says he will look like a club singer. Should he get the Jacket or not???

He should get a bowtie too

No, no, no. It has to be a crevat and cigarette holder"

Golly wouldn’t people then call him a cad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Trying to persuade the Mr to buy a velvet jacket - I love them, he says he will look like a club singer. Should he get the Jacket or not???

He should get a bowtie too

No, no, no. It has to be a crevat and cigarette holder

Golly wouldn’t people then call him a cad "

But everyone loves a cad.

Remember the Mary White House experience?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m wiyh him I’m afraid velvet jacket whooooooooo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does anyone wear velvet jackets these days ?

I had one back in the 1970's not seen any since.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=VWUjF4IMCP0

Only a few people do the velvet jacket, cravat and cheroot well.

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

I’m so sorry - no. I can’t champion velvet. Vile stuff.

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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

"Trying to persuade the Mr to buy a velvet jacket - I love them, he says he will look like a club singer. Should he get the Jacket or not???

He should get a bowtie too

And a white ruffle front shirt

Haha that was my first thought too

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"Trying to persuade the Mr to buy a velvet jacket - I love them, he says he will look like a club singer. Should he get the Jacket or not???"

It worked for Hugh Hefner

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By *ynecpl OP Couple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"Bottle green or midnight blue?"

Midnight Blue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bottle green or midnight blue?

Midnight Blue"

He'll need a paisley cravat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m so sorry - no. I can’t champion velvet. Vile stuff. "

Black micro velvet Basques are lovely.

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By *xhib12Man
over a year ago

Blyth

It's a no from me.

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By *ick_and_BickerCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

It really depends on what he’s going to wear it with, it’s hard not to look like the best man at a tacky wedding or a lounge singer.

He’d have to go radical with the rest of the outfit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would you wear clothing you didn't like just to please or appease him ?

Would you go out feeling uncomfortable and not really settle into the evening because of it ?

If he's said no, he's said no

Respect his decision and drop it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd have to say no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure Leyland Gaunt a velvet smoking jacket in the book needful things and we know how that turned out

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By *J coupleCouple
over a year ago

stone

And another NO from us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Noooooooooo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blue and red maybe?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

YESSSSSSSSSSS YESSSSSSSSSSS OHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH GOD YESSSSSSSSSSSSS

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=VWUjF4IMCP0

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By *ynecpl OP Couple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Not trying to force him to wear anything he is not comfortable in. There are a lot in the shops at the moment so they are obviously in fashion. I just like the idea to running my hands over the fabric. Judging by the comments don't think I'm going to win this argument. A girl can dream.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"[ poster removes red velvet smocking jacket and hides it at 25/11/18 09:57:46]"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not trying to force him to wear anything he is not comfortable in. There are a lot in the shops at the moment so they are obviously in fashion. I just like the idea to running my hands over the fabric. Judging by the comments don't think I'm going to win this argument. A girl can dream."

Just with hold sex till he caves in.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Ask him what he'd like you to wear and you might just get a compromise where you get to go out with him in the velvet jacket which pleases you and you get to wear a micro tartan miniskirt, stockings and suspenders no bra and a skimpy top

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's the huge difference between what women like to see men in and what men like to see women in.

Men look suave; we look ridiculous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No for 3 reasons.

- his build.

- every bit of dust & lint will cling to it.

- you'll probably have to get it dry cleaned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just buy it. Any man who cannot wear a gift from his other half with confidence isn't in love with you...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I own a velvet jacket!

I like it though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally love them on the right person. But as with anything, if it doesn't make you feel good you're never going to like it...

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By *ynecpl OP Couple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Mr here. I appreciate why Mrs T like them but as she says I feel they have a feel of the 1970s club singer about them plus they will fall out of fashion very quickly in my opinion.

As for choosing what she wears I do that frequently (apparently I have good taste) but I never ask her to wear anything that she feels uncomfortable with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Black might be ok, classic. A colour though would be a bit old fashioned

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"Mr here. I appreciate why Mrs T like them but as she says I feel they have a feel of the 1970s club singer about them plus they will fall out of fashion very quickly in my opinion.

As for choosing what she wears I do that frequently (apparently I have good taste) but I never ask her to wear anything that she feels uncomfortable with."

They might fall out of fashion like most things do but it mostly comes around again and to be honest are you bothered if you're not in the current trend.

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