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By *innie The Minx OP Woman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Travelling down a busy road you look out the window and see your younger self stood at a bus stop.

Would you stop and get out to have a word with yourself?

Or would you pass on by,and if so why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how yound if it was me at 18 id be likely to thow eggs at him for blowing his oppotunity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would stop and have a word.

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By *innie The Minx OP Woman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"I would stop and have a word."

What would you say, and do you think you'd listen?

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire

"Travelling down a busy road you look out the window and see your younger self stood at a bus stop.

Would you stop and get out to have a word with yourself?

Or would you pass on by,and if so why?

Yes.

I'd say, don't go to the shop on the day I got run over.

I'd say, do a degree rather than a HND.

I'd say, don't accept a friend request on Facebook from an (now) ex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would give her a list of people to avoid

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By *innie The Minx OP Woman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"I would give her a list of people to avoid

Do you think young you would listen?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you meet yourself in two different times, your future is changed. It explains it in every film that includes time travel.

Based on this....yes I would talk to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooh interesting. I dont know.

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

I'd be tempted, but I also remember what a stubborn cow I was, so I wouldn't have listened.

However, I probably would have listened with a feigned interest to the crazy old lady giving me life advice.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I don't think she'd listen, but I'd give her a big hug, tell her that she's fine, whole, and enough just as she is. And that everything would be OK, just keep chipping away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not sure. But if I did decide to say anything to myself it would be ‘keep off the funny fags as otherwise you’ll end up hallucinating about seeing your younger self at bus stops later in life” ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The obvious dilemma would be whether to avoid my ex wife (who was violent) though then I wouldn't have my gorgeous kids.

Without doubt I would've dragged my sister to that check up two years earlier, not when it was too late.

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

I sure would get out and say I know exactly where you’re going on that bus and who you’re going to see and he’s so not worth your bus fare love. Bin him off he will damage your soul and destroy your self confidence which will lead to even worse choices. Oh and keep all your band t-shirts and vinyl records - they will come back into fashion and be worth a bob or two

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

"I sure would get out and say I know exactly where you’re going on that bus and who you’re going to see and he’s so not worth your bus fare love. Bin him off he will damage your soul and destroy your self confidence which will lead to even worse choices. Oh and keep all your band t-shirts and vinyl records - they will come back into fashion and be worth a bob or two

and as you mention vinyl records. Can I have my soft cell 45 back please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Travelling down a busy road you look out the window and see your younger self stood at a bus stop.

Would you stop and get out to have a word with yourself?

Or would you pass on by,and if so why?

Id stop and say..crack on kid, you're goint have a great life but never get married

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

Ah I’d definitely stop me. Tell me I look pretty and never to doubt it. Tell me that the eyebrows are overplucked, show me my future brows and that I need to start working on them stat.

I’d also tell me to get my arse to uni. Holiday camps may be fun but a career it ain’t. Oh. Then I’d tell me I was pretty again.

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

... but I wouldn’t listen. I’d just arch my overplucked brow, throw a dirty look and walk off mouthing ‘weirdo’

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By *allSteveMan
over a year ago

Poole

Wow back to the future 1985

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ah I’d definitely stop me. Tell me I look pretty and never to doubt it. Tell me that the eyebrows are overplucked, show me my future brows and that I need to start working on them stat.

I’d also tell me to get my arse to uni. Holiday camps may be fun but a career it ain’t. Oh. Then I’d tell me I was pretty again. "

I did the holiday camp thing and waited 30 odd yrs to do the uni thing.. it was all the best way around for me

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By *orksRockerMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I'd want to stop and talk to myself and try and change the outcome of some of my decisions.

But wouldn't that just give me possible new different bad experiences?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd give myself a beep and a wave and laugh at the confusion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually I don't think I would stop. I'm not sure that at whatever point in my life time line it would be a good idea to divert or change because although thereafter there was always crap moments there was also good which wouldn't happen if I took a different path!

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

I’d stop and tell myself to put that cigarette out and never smoke another , or you’ll have a heart attack at 56 .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would stop if I thought I would listen at 18 I would tell my older self he was an idiot and what the hell does he know!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was 10 then yes. I would have a very long chat to myself about decision making and consequences.

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By *innie The Minx OP Woman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"If you meet yourself in two different times, your future is changed. It explains it in every film that includes time travel.

Based on this....yes I would talk to me

It worked for Bill and Ted!

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By *imited 3EditionCouple
over a year ago

Live in Scotland Play in England

"Travelling down a busy road you look out the window and see your younger self stood at a bus stop.

Would you stop and get out to have a word with yourself?

Or would you pass on by,and if so why?

I would stop and tell my younger self not to make that trip to London

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By *innie The Minx OP Woman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"I'd want to stop and talk to myself and try and change the outcome of some of my decisions.

But wouldn't that just give me possible new different bad experiences? "

Or possible new different good ones?

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By *innie The Minx OP Woman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"... but I wouldn’t listen. I’d just arch my overplucked brow, throw a dirty look and walk off mouthing ‘weirdo’"

Love this.

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By *orksRockerMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"I'd want to stop and talk to myself and try and change the outcome of some of my decisions.

But wouldn't that just give me possible new different bad experiences?

Or possible new different good ones?"

Good point, well argued.

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

"... but I wouldn’t listen. I’d just arch my overplucked brow, throw a dirty look and walk off mouthing ‘weirdo’

Love this."

That’s still a trademark move

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I'd drive by but I'd wind down the window and shout "give your feet a rest from those high heels". 18 year old me would shout back "what do you know old lady?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

“.....bus wankers” a la The Inbetweeners

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. I’d tell them that all those things that inhibit you are a result of others imposing an outmoded and unfounded belief system based on you. Do all those things you would love to do but are scared to do, because of that belief system. You have nothing to be ashamed of.

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By *innie The Minx OP Woman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"Yep. I’d tell them that all those things that inhibit you are a result of others imposing an outmoded and unfounded belief system based on you. Do all those things you would love to do but are scared to do, because of that belief system. You have nothing to be ashamed of."

Would the young Doctor listen do you think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure I would want to confuse my younger self by telling them what was to come....

And if I did, whether my younger self would try to change it...

And maybe instead of making it better made it worse...

Or if maybe it would be a way to make dreams come true...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d shout, you pass your test at 18. So you can stop getting the bus then.

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

Think I’d pull over take keys out of the ignition and walk, as I have obviously had far too much to drink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would the young Doctor listen do you think?"

Yes I think he would. He had a healthy respect for the authority of those he considered mentors. If he knew one of his key mentors would now echo that sentiment he would act on the advice in a heartbeat.

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By *innie The Minx OP Woman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"I’d shout, you pass your test at 18. So you can stop getting the bus then."

Fair point!

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall

I'd stop, get out of the car and snog myself ...dang I was hot back then ......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

pass them by, there’s nothing i’d do different in my life than what ive done already.

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By *vcarolTV/TS
over a year ago

kilmarnockish

I’d tell myself to go find a nice prostitute.

Then get that out of the way.

Listen more to Lou Reed- Lola.

Say fuck it.

Buy some heels and do the change then, when I had young skin.

Not waste 25+ years deciding......

SERIOUSLY !!!!!!

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Pass on by ..I wouldn't take any notice of me anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d tell myself that during the summer of 2015 put every penny I can scrape together on Leicester to win the 2015-16 premier league at 5000-1.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd want to stop and talk to myself and try and change the outcome of some of my decisions.

But wouldn't that just give me possible new different bad experiences? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. Not a word because that would mean the person I am today has regrets.

All the time you have regrets on your life you can’t move forward.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would pull over and just say

Dont overthink stuff, it will all be ok in the end

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