FabSwingers.com forum: Dear Fabs

By *iSTARess OP Woman
over a year ago

London

Please start charging people to use this site. It'd get rid of the wankers and time wasters who are cluttering the place up. Time for a tidy.

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(Yes I'm annoyed. Been stood up on my last free Saturday of the year

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

That's shit. Any friends who can jump in to take their place?

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By *iSTARess OP Woman
over a year ago

London

"That's shit. Any friends who can jump in to take their place?"

Saturday night, everyone's busy

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad luck but i dont pay so you would loose out too much in the long run

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"Please start charging people to use this site. It'd get rid of the wankers and time wasters who are cluttering the place up. Time for a tidy.

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(Yes I'm annoyed. Been stood up on my last free Saturday of the year

That's crap

If only you were closer x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a bad idea and all I can say about the guy who stood you up he must be crazy

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Yes that's annoying.

From my own experience of paid sites, you do still get a similar ratio of timewasters and fantasists as on the free sites.

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By *allSteveMan
over a year ago

Poole

Why arrange a meet if not going to turn up?

Hope you never made too much of an effort for the loser

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Hey fab,

Can we get rid of those, “every silver lining has a cloud” people.

And call up “every cloud has a silver lining people?

Please!!!

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Unfortunately no matter how hard they make it to join you will always get the time wasters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I'm not a wanker or a time waster but I'd be gone.

All those poor men who won't get to feel my mouth around their cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Unfortunately no matter how hard they make it to join you will always get the time wasters.

The site could make more money by charging single men to answer messages from women. But we all know that women hardly ever message first, so the site would deteriorate.

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"Please start charging people to use this site. It'd get rid of the wankers and time wasters who are cluttering the place up. Time for a tidy.

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(Yes I'm annoyed. Been stood up on my last free Saturday of the year

With you on this !! I’ve heen let down a few times too with ones that turn out to be fakes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The joys of those who work shifts. Our days off don’t usually match many others and when we do have some time to let our hair down...it doesn’t always go according to plan.

I know where you’re coming from.

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By *orksRockerMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Some people are just idiots and you get them in life.

Shame there isn't a nice guy looking on this thread who is close for you.

Keep your chin up hun.

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By *impleSailorMan
over a year ago

the moon

"Please start charging people to use this site. It'd get rid of the wankers and time wasters who are cluttering the place up. Time for a tidy.

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(Yes I'm annoyed. Been stood up on my last free Saturday of the year

That is a shame I'm sorry to hear it.

Can't understand people that arrange meets and do not attend.

Ok some may have genuine reasons but a lot now appear to basically "bottle it"

Not fair for the other party involved.

Hope your luck improves OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im not here to fuck folk about but i refuse to pay to flirt with women if forsed if its my choicd i may do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Please start charging people to use this site. It'd get rid of the wankers and time wasters who are cluttering the place up. Time for a tidy.

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(Yes I'm annoyed. Been stood up on my last free Saturday of the year

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With you on this !! I’ve heen let down a few times too with ones that turn out to be fakes "

I honestly can't imagine anyone thinking that was a smart move!

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"Please start charging people to use this site. It'd get rid of the wankers and time wasters who are cluttering the place up. Time for a tidy.

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(Yes I'm annoyed. Been stood up on my last free Saturday of the year

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With you on this !! I’ve heen let down a few times too with ones that turn out to be fakes

I honestly can't imagine anyone thinking that was a smart move!

You wouldn’t believe how many times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Please start charging people to use this site. It'd get rid of the wankers and time wasters who are cluttering the place up. Time for a tidy.

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(Yes I'm annoyed. Been stood up on my last free Saturday of the year

Do you think aren't wankers and timewasters already paying for site supporter?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im not here to fuck folk about but i refuse to pay to flirt with women if forsed if its my choicd i may do "

Why are you always going on about money?

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By *ycra loutMan
over a year ago

york/Scarborough

I don't pay for the site but the 3 that have let me down have been paying members..same goes both ways unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think paying for a site will change anything. It’s people’s attitudes.

Unfortunately, you do meet those who like the idea but never do meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Paying members as in the £5 it costs to be a site supporter?

Being tight is equally as unnatractive as bad hygiene

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

As per all the other threads like this:

Apparently you also get time wasters on pay sites.

It appears, for some, the thrill of the chase etc is more of a turn on than meeting, and they are willing to pay.

Not sure you'll ever get rid of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Paying members as in the £5 it costs to be a site supporter?

Being tight is equally as unnatractive as bad hygiene

Pay sites charge much more than that and it's usually the men who end up shelling out more. Usually to get access to messages from hot women who suddenly go cold on them, when they pay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear that OP. I can appreciate how frustrating it must be.

However, I think there is already a filter so only site supporters can message you, so hopefully problem solved going forwards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So sorry to hear that , such a shame you can't name and shame

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Unfortunately no matter how hard they make it to join you will always get the time wasters.

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

I sympathise completely, something very similar happened to me tonight and person in question is trying to turn the tables on me and say I’m the time waster.

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By *ot-AshMan
over a year ago

London

Sorry to read what happened MISTA..

I'd have been happy to take his place and meet you for a drink.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

"I sympathise completely, something very similar happened to me tonight and person in question is trying to turn the tables on me and say I’m the time waster."

Someone stood you up and you are wasting further time and effort conversing with them further?

The mind boggles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally, I think the swinging scene in London is very different. I’m not a fan of everything that I see in my local feed and the statuses that I read. They make me very uncomfortable.

I’ve found that I’ve usually gotten along much better with those who live outside of London and found them to be much more open and happy to meet, socialise and go from there.

But, those in London, that hasn’t been the case. I’ve had people string me along (and they’re all verified too), stood me up, excuses. So, I rarely meet now.

You get the exception where someone ticks all your boxes but unfortunately for me, I don’t think I do theirs (yes, bring out the violin).

Don’t think the above makes much sense but I’m trying to say things without sounding like a right arse.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Please start charging people to use this site. It'd get rid of the wankers and time wasters who are cluttering the place up. Time for a tidy.

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(Yes I'm annoyed. Been stood up on my last free Saturday of the year

I agree people should be charged to use this site and not £5 a month either, a considerable higher amount....

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I do think they should charge but the current charge is more than adequate to put off most cheating as scared of bills etc, plus the Friday/weekend night wankers would at least think twice, I myself am fed up starting to build a rapport with someone to then just have them disappear, maybe their wives aren't as stupid as they think they are!

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

"I sympathise completely, something very similar happened to me tonight and person in question is trying to turn the tables on me and say I’m the time waster.

Someone stood you up and you are wasting further time and effort conversing with them further?

The mind boggles."

No actually was sending messages so now blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Please start charging people to use this site. It'd get rid of the wankers and time wasters who are cluttering the place up. Time for a tidy.

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(Yes I'm annoyed. Been stood up on my last free Saturday of the year

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I agree people should be charged to use this site and not £5 a month either, a considerable higher amount...."

Including the ladies? Other sites tend to charge men an extortionate amount, but ladies are either free or massively discounted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you start charging more, the sense of entitlement from people would go through the roof!

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"Please start charging people to use this site. It'd get rid of the wankers and time wasters who are cluttering the place up. Time for a tidy.

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(Yes I'm annoyed. Been stood up on my last free Saturday of the year

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I agree people should be charged to use this site and not £5 a month either, a considerable higher amount....

Including the ladies? Other sites tend to charge men an extortionate amount, but ladies are either free or massively discounted. "

That's true I'm on another site that charges everyone supposedly, but every year they come up with a reason to give me free membership

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By *utie91Woman
over a year ago

Hitchin

"Please start charging people to use this site. It'd get rid of the wankers and time wasters who are cluttering the place up. Time for a tidy.

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(Yes I'm annoyed. Been stood up on my last free Saturday of the year

That’s mega shit. Also why I don’t do private meets anymore

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

Gah. Such an annoyance.

The solution isn’t to charge excessively as I think you’d lose a lot of genuine people. I have no idea what the solution is though. The people who want to waste time enough will pass any verification and pay whatever.

As frustrating as these situations are, the real folk are what makes us stay on this site. When you find them they’re worth a million timewasters and dreamers.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Please start charging people to use this site. It'd get rid of the wankers and time wasters who are cluttering the place up. Time for a tidy.

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That’s mega shit. Also why I don’t do private meets anymore "

We don't either, best to go to parties or clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Gah. Such an annoyance.

As frustrating as these situations are, the real folk are what makes us stay on this site. When you find them they’re worth a million timewasters and dreamers. "

I certainly couldn't justify staying if the charges shot up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Paying members as in the £5 it costs to be a site supporter?

Being tight is equally as unnatractive as bad hygiene

Pay sites charge much more than that and it's usually the men who end up shelling out more. Usually to get access to messages from hot women who suddenly go cold on them, when they pay.

Very true. I tried a couple of other site. Paid quite a bit to simply be able to message people or read messages I got. And I never got a single conversation, let alone a meet.

I do get both out of Fab. I’m a site supporter because I think Fab stroke the right balance. Affordable and genuine. You don’t machine generated messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Paying members as in the £5 it costs to be a site supporter?

Being tight is equally as unnatractive as bad hygiene

Pay sites charge much more than that and it's usually the men who end up shelling out more. Usually to get access to messages from hot women who suddenly go cold on them, when they pay.

Very true. I tried a couple of other site. Paid quite a bit to simply be able to message people or read messages I got. And I never got a single conversation, let alone a meet.

I do get both out of Fab. I’m a site supporter because I think Fab stroke the right balance. Affordable and genuine. You don’t machine generated messages. "

A lot of the pay sites are riddled with fake users to entice you into buying a subscription.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally, I think the swinging scene in London is very different. I’m not a fan of everything that I see in my local feed and the statuses that I read. They make me very uncomfortable.

I’ve found that I’ve usually gotten along much better with those who live outside of London and found them to be much more open and happy to meet, socialise and go from there.

But, those in London, that hasn’t been the case. I’ve had people string me along (and they’re all verified too), stood me up, excuses. So, I rarely meet now.

You get the exception where someone ticks all your boxes but unfortunately for me, I don’t think I do theirs (yes, bring out the violin).

Don’t think the above makes much sense but I’m trying to say things without sounding like a right arse.

I also find Londoners a lot less approachable

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

"Gah. Such an annoyance.

As frustrating as these situations are, the real folk are what makes us stay on this site. When you find them they’re worth a million timewasters and dreamers.

I certainly couldn't justify staying if the charges shot up."

I wouldn’t stick around either. I like the current system of voluntary site supporting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Please start charging people to use this site. It'd get rid of the wankers and time wasters who are cluttering the place up. Time for a tidy.

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(Yes I'm annoyed. Been stood up on my last free Saturday of the year

After nearly seven years of paying I’m now a freeloader.

Would you like me to leave?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Please start charging people to use this site. It'd get rid of the wankers and time wasters who are cluttering the place up. Time for a tidy.

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(Yes I'm annoyed. Been stood up on my last free Saturday of the year

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After nearly seven years of paying I’m now a freeloader.

Would you like me to leave?

Only if I get to spank you on your way out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Please start charging people to use this site. It'd get rid of the wankers and time wasters who are cluttering the place up. Time for a tidy.

Thanks

(Yes I'm annoyed. Been stood up on my last free Saturday of the year

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After nearly seven years of paying I’m now a freeloader.

Would you like me to leave?

Only if I get to spank you on your way out

Spank? Yawn. A bit tame for me, sorry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Please start charging people to use this site. It'd get rid of the wankers and time wasters who are cluttering the place up. Time for a tidy.

Thanks

(Yes I'm annoyed. Been stood up on my last free Saturday of the year

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After nearly seven years of paying I’m now a freeloader.

Would you like me to leave?

Only if I get to spank you on your way out

Spank? Yawn. A bit tame for me, sorry. "

You’ll just have to stay then won’t you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Please start charging people to use this site. It'd get rid of the wankers and time wasters who are cluttering the place up. Time for a tidy.

Thanks

(Yes I'm annoyed. Been stood up on my last free Saturday of the year

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After nearly seven years of paying I’m now a freeloader.

Would you like me to leave?

Only if I get to spank you on your way out

Spank? Yawn. A bit tame for me, sorry.

You’ll just have to stay then won’t you

Sigh. I guess so. I’m still not paying though. I thought it’d guarantee me lots of sex but it’s just a pain 8n the arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally, I think the swinging scene in London is very different. I’m not a fan of everything that I see in my local feed and the statuses that I read. They make me very uncomfortable.

I’ve found that I’ve usually gotten along much better with those who live outside of London and found them to be much more open and happy to meet, socialise and go from there.

But, those in London, that hasn’t been the case. I’ve had people string me along (and they’re all verified too), stood me up, excuses. So, I rarely meet now.

You get the exception where someone ticks all your boxes but unfortunately for me, I don’t think I do theirs (yes, bring out the violin).

Don’t think the above makes much sense but I’m trying to say things without sounding like a right arse.

I also find Londoners a lot less approachable "

All of us?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Please start charging people to use this site. It'd get rid of the wankers and time wasters who are cluttering the place up. Time for a tidy.

Thanks

(Yes I'm annoyed. Been stood up on my last free Saturday of the year

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After nearly seven years of paying I’m now a freeloader.

Would you like me to leave?

Only if I get to spank you on your way out

Spank? Yawn. A bit tame for me, sorry.

You’ll just have to stay then won’t you

Sigh. I guess so. I’m still not paying though. I thought it’d guarantee me lots of sex but it’s just a pain 8n the arse

Now you don't need that money

When you look like that, do ya honey

Apparently a good water based lube helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was the person a site supporter? If so then paying for fab isn't going to stop it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Please start charging people to use this site. It'd get rid of the wankers and time wasters who are cluttering the place up. Time for a tidy.

Thanks

(Yes I'm annoyed. Been stood up on my last free Saturday of the year

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After nearly seven years of paying I’m now a freeloader.

Would you like me to leave?

Only if I get to spank you on your way out

Spank? Yawn. A bit tame for me, sorry.

You’ll just have to stay then won’t you

Sigh. I guess so. I’m still not paying though. I thought it’d guarantee me lots of sex but it’s just a pain 8n the arse

Now you don't need that money

When you look like that, do ya honey

Apparently a good water based lube helps

Money? I never worry about that.

I relied on spit alone when I went to a room with a couple of guys once and realised too late that I’d ditched the lube from my bag instead of the little hairspray in an attempt to lighten it. I wasn’t going to let a little thing like a lack of lube spoil my fun

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