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By *ennis4fun OP   Couple
over a year ago

belfast

We were chatting to a nice localish couple, the usual procedures were passed with flying colours. ( face pics, girls chat, chat on kik) A meet was definitely on the cards, just a social before arranging the big night. They have no kids so Amy went round to their place for a coffee. They got on great but Amy cut off all ties soon after. The reason? Their house was filthy....... we aren't snobs by any means bug she said there was dirty dishes lying around and mounds of dirty clothes all over. Massive turn off for her. Is she over reacting?

i have suggested a hotel but she is totally turned off.......

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

No she's not over reacting, if she's put off then move on.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Who is Amy? The woman on your profile is Kim.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Who is Amy? The woman on your profile is Kim. "

Oops, fab name reveal!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

No she isn't over reacting,that's a huge passion killer for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who is Amy? The woman on your profile is Kim.

Oops, fab name reveal! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha Ha Amy or Kim?This is a classic

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By *ennis4fun OP   Couple
over a year ago

belfast

Oops, real name revealed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oops, real name revealed. "

It's ok Brian.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"We were chatting to a nice localish couple, the usual procedures were passed with flying colours. ( face pics, girls chat, chat on kik) A meet was definitely on the cards, just a social before arranging the big night. They have no kids so Amy went round to their place for a coffee. They got on great but Amy cut off all ties soon after. The reason? Their house was filthy....... we aren't snobs by any means bug she said there was dirty dishes lying around and mounds of dirty clothes all over. Massive turn off for her. Is she over reacting?

i have suggested a hotel but she is totally turned off......."

No she isn't over reacting. Why do you think she is? If she doesn't want to take it any further that's the final word on the subject. Just as it would be if you had been put off.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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"No she isn't over reacting,that's a huge passion killer for me."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not over reacting because if they knew she was comimg surely they would of made an effort to tidy up. If they can’t be bothered to tidy house they may be dirty themselves too. My wife would act same as your partner

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By *ennis4fun OP   Couple
over a year ago

belfast


"We were chatting to a nice localish couple, the usual procedures were passed with flying colours. ( face pics, girls chat, chat on kik) A meet was definitely on the cards, just a social before arranging the big night. They have no kids so Amy went round to their place for a coffee. They got on great but Amy cut off all ties soon after. The reason? Their house was filthy....... we aren't snobs by any means bug she said there was dirty dishes lying around and mounds of dirty clothes all over. Massive turn off for her. Is she over reacting?

i have suggested a hotel but she is totally turned off.......

No she isn't over reacting. Why do you think she is? If she doesn't want to take it any further that's the final word on the subject. Just as it would be if you had been put off."

No, i don't think she is to be honest. I just think its a tiny bit disrespectful to not even put the dirty washing away when someone is coming over.

I am disappointed of course but if she says no then thats thd end of the conversation lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hoarder type houses freak me out too

I used to have a friend that never cleaned her house

Stuff everywhere not a surface to be seen dirty dishes and ashtrays everywhere.

Pure filth!

She had mental health issues.

I tried to help her - but there's no helping some people

Surely you have to question people's personal hygiene when they don't clean their houses

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By *TFSeventyMan
over a year ago

Weybridge

Did AMY do the washing up ?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


" I just think its a tiny bit disrespectful to not even put the dirty washing away when someone is coming over.

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There is another thread running about a couple leaving because the host was hanging out clean washing. Maybe best to meet in clubs !

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By *ennis4fun OP   Couple
over a year ago

belfast


"Did AMY do the washing up ?"

lol, no. At least i hope not

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By *orksRockerMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Agree with many of the posts here...

Its a reflection on their personal hygiene. If they can't clean the house, especially when they expect company, what will that say about cleaning themselves.

Besides.. No means no.

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By *ennis4fun OP   Couple
over a year ago

belfast

The best part is that she was totally keen on the guy until she saw the state of their place

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