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brestmilk. ie brest feeding to a guy. what do the woman think? x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

we both would love to meet a pregnant women or a woman who have brestmilk to play with us x

but what do you all think of it?

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By *omesticated_VixenWoman
over a year ago

sw London

I get everyone has their kinks, but breastmilk is for a baby, couldn't think of anything less sexual - Just my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we both would love to meet a pregnant women or a woman who have brestmilk to play with us x

but what do you all think of it? "

A massive fetish of mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Breast milk is for infants, I don’t understand how anyone could like it as a kink Probably why women get so much stick for breastfeeding their babies in public...because it’s been sexualised

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex is naturally for reproduction yet it’s also a pleasure.

Can lactation/breast milk fetish not be viewed the same?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sex is naturally for reproduction yet it’s also a pleasure.

Can lactation/breast milk fetish not be viewed the same? "

Not to me, I find it weird. But that’s my opinion. Everyone has kinks, some that most people won’t understand

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By *omesticated_VixenWoman
over a year ago

sw London


"Sex is naturally for reproduction yet it’s also a pleasure.

Can lactation/breast milk fetish not be viewed the same? "

I've yet to know of a woman who has found giving birth to be in any way sexually aroused by passing a small person out of their vagina!

But as I said everyone has their kink...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sex is naturally for reproduction yet it’s also a pleasure.

Can lactation/breast milk fetish not be viewed the same?

I've yet to know of a woman who has found giving birth to be in any way sexually aroused by passing a small person out of their vagina!

But as I said everyone has their kink..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own

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By *acktar74Man
over a year ago

leeds

Love being awake at this time to read this stuff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think i'll have a glass of milk before bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was breastfeeding my nipples hurt 24/7. No one but my baby would be getting anywhere near them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I was breastfeeding my nipples hurt 24/7. No one but my baby would be getting anywhere near them! "

But you promised me I could

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I was breastfeeding my nipples hurt 24/7. No one but my baby would be getting anywhere near them!

But you promised me I could "

You're 3 years too late

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I was breastfeeding my nipples hurt 24/7. No one but my baby would be getting anywhere near them!

But you promised me I could

You're 3 years too late "

I knew i was dreaming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree with all the ladies above to be honest. Pretty special thing that shouldn't be sexualised.

Maybe it's an awe thing, like how on earth is your body doing that??!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No thanks I remember going to brothers house over 19 years ago. Opening the fridge and finding a small glass of milky stuff. I asked brother could I have a glass of milk. To make chocolate milkshake.

He said if you find any milk help myself.

You all know what happened. It was not a very nice milkshake.

Brother still laughing about it.

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By *singlepringlexWoman
over a year ago

scotland

I had a 3 sum with a couple and the wife was still breast feeding! Wow I found it awesome when sucking her nipples..... it defo turned me on!!! Not for everyone but I enjoyed it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a 3 sum with a couple and the wife was still breast feeding! Wow I found it awesome when sucking her nipples..... it defo turned me on!!! Not for everyone but I enjoyed it x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we both would love to meet a pregnant women or a woman who have brestmilk to play with us x

but what do you all think of it? "

An Adult Nursing Relationship is a relationship in which a woman who is currently lactating is being suckled by her husband, boyfriend, friend, girlfriend, or some other significant other. This hub is not to glorify this type of relationship. This hub is to help those in a committed relationship try something new to bond and become closer to each other. You can set your own goals as far as if you are already lactating, or if you want to induce lactation, but there are various reasons a woman and her adult partner would want this type of relationship.

There are rewards for the woman and her partner in this type of relationship. A couple’s bond deepens as you both spend more quality time together. A baby is close to her mother during this time, and when an adult couple can also spend this type of quality time together to hold one another is a true deep emotional experience that few can truly say they have ever had the opportunity to experience.

This is a physical bonding experience, but it goes way beyond just the time spent nursing. The physiological effects that one can have thinking about spending this type of quality time with your partner helps relationships become strong all over again. You have to take this type of relationship serious just like any other relationship you have had in the past. This is not a relationship to “Get off” on. You have to be willing to talk to your partner about the joys and pitfalls of what you both want out of an ANR relationship. Some men and women enjoy it for the lactation experience; some enjoy it for the quiet time spent with one another. I know a few couples that have told me that they were apprehensive at first, but after a few months, they can’t live without each other and can’t ever imagine doing this loving gesture to one another, with anyone else

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By *woPlusMore69Couple
over a year ago

Birstall


"we both would love to meet a pregnant women or a woman who have brestmilk to play with us x

but what do you all think of it? "

Been swinging a few years and only stopped breastfeeding 5 months ago and had many guys turned on by it , never had a turn down because of it xx

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Another thread where most the responses would be more fitting on mumsnet than a swingers site!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Another thread where most the responses would be more fitting on mumsnet than a swingers site! "

Ah yes. Because we cannot have opinions on fab

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Another thread where most the responses would be more fitting on mumsnet than a swingers site!

Ah yes. Because we cannot have opinions on fab"

There are different ways to express an opinion. Blaming people with obscure kinks for the breast feeding crisis is both far fetched and unnecessary.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Another thread where most the responses would be more fitting on mumsnet than a swingers site!

Ah yes. Because we cannot have opinions on fab

There are different ways to express an opinion. Blaming people with obscure kinks for the breast feeding crisis is both far fetched and unnecessary. "

@ express!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to leak like mad during sex which was appreciated I think. Perhaps its a bit like the squirting fetish. Woman leaking things being sexy?

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By *agermeisterMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Love how so many think this is weird but drinking the milk of another species (kept in inhumane conditions) is entirely normal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we both would love to meet a pregnant women or a woman who have brestmilk to play with us x

but what do you all think of it?

An Adult Nursing Relationship is a relationship in which a woman who is currently lactating is being suckled by her husband, boyfriend, friend, girlfriend, or some other significant other. This hub is not to glorify this type of relationship. This hub is to help those in a committed relationship try something new to bond and become closer to each other. You can set your own goals as far as if you are already lactating, or if you want to induce lactation, but there are various reasons a woman and her adult partner would want this type of relationship.

There are rewards for the woman and her partner in this type of relationship. A couple’s bond deepens as you both spend more quality time together. A baby is close to her mother during this time, and when an adult couple can also spend this type of quality time together to hold one another is a true deep emotional experience that few can truly say they have ever had the opportunity to experience.

This is a physical bonding experience, but it goes way beyond just the time spent nursing. The physiological effects that one can have thinking about spending this type of quality time with your partner helps relationships become strong all over again. You have to take this type of relationship serious just like any other relationship you have had in the past. This is not a relationship to “Get off” on. You have to be willing to talk to your partner about the joys and pitfalls of what you both want out of an ANR relationship. Some men and women enjoy it for the lactation experience; some enjoy it for the quiet time spent with one another. I know a few couples that have told me that they were apprehensive at first, but after a few months, they can’t live without each other and can’t ever imagine doing this loving gesture to one another, with anyone else"

This is probably one of THE most comprehensive and wonderful descriptions that I have read on this topic.

As the profile name states, it's the reason I am on this site.

Having been a milkmaid in a previous loving relationship, I can 100% concur with this poster that it takes time, commitment and love. There is a bonding interdependency that is incredibly addictive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely love it !

But what makes me laugh is when ppl who are into watersports say that breastmilk is not made for that !

Yes, certainly but piss is ??

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By *mooth Operator 07Man
over a year ago

in the deep mist of the valleys

Bitty, nah not for me.

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

Leeds

You could try making ice cream with it. Throw in some vanilla pods and a couple of grams of semen and bang. Instant Breast shake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No...I find it strange that anyone would want to do this.

It hurts so bad and even when you get used to it it certainly wasn't a time in my life that I felt sexy.

Its a time for mother and baby bonding, feeding your baby is precious and I wouldn't want that time tainted.

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London


"Breast milk is for infants, I don’t understand how anyone could like it as a kink Probably why women get so much stick for breastfeeding their babies in public...because it’s been sexualised "

Tell that to the company making icecream out of it somewhere in East Lundun -Shoredict somewhere if memory serves me right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it strange that on a supposedly open minded site, so many would be so incredibly judgemental.

ANR is not some new kink; it’s been around for millennia and crops up in the most unusual places. The ending of the Grapes of Wrath, there are many depictions of this in art, where a maiden is feeding (usually a man) to keep him alive.

Wet nurses were an essential part of the entourage of the nobility as no self respecting noblewoman fed her own child, this is going right back to Tudor times!

Wet nurses were prevalent right up until between the World wars and was a well paid, highly sought after position.

ANR has very little to do with adult babies, nappies etc but more to do with enhancing a loving bond between partners.

A documentary exploring different relationships to breast milk; stated that breast milk in some instances may be used to abate some cancers, as the constituents (make up) of breast milk has never been completely analysed it can’t be replicated.

A lot of mothers (myself included) used breast milk (gently squirted into an infant’s eye) to cure conjunctivitis, instead of using modern medicines and it worked!

Google, startpage, duck duck go, all wonderful and free resources.

Informed opinion is more than welcome, exposing ignorance; less so.

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By *orkizCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

Nice cup of tea anytime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nice cup of tea anytime "

Quite right too. It tastes wonderful in tea and has the benefit of being better for you than cow's milk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You also have to think about the baby in all of this, if you are taking the milk for your own kink it can mean the mother doesn't have enough to feed her baby.

My auntie was a midwife and this happened to one of her mum's as the husband was taking all the milk meant for the baby so the baby was losing weight as there was not enough left for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me thanks .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was breastfeeding yes I agreed to this and did nothing for me but don't know unless you try

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not for me and I just don’t get it but that’s me.

I can see why it’s a fetish for some guys though! It just takes me back to the little Britain sketch about bitty!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks like another kink I'm missing out on due to age!

Bottle feeding anyone

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Love how so many think this is weird but drinking the milk of another species (kept in inhumane conditions) is entirely normal."

I came here to say this! I mean it's not my thing and won't be for many but I have to laugh at the "breast milk is for infants" comments. Cows milk is for baby calves but yano...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But you're straight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmmmm interesting subject

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting that someone above complaining that some things shouldn’t be sexualised but is dressed up as a school girl.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's definitely kink of mine just something about it turns me on for sure

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By *uttercups12Woman
over a year ago

Munich Germany

This is something that I enjoy doing, I’m not going to say too much more, but it’s definitely something that makes me feel good. Each to their own I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting thought for sure..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not something that I would be interested in . I breastfed my little one for 22 months. It was such a special time for me and every time she looked at me as she fed, I could feel the love gravitating through my body. It's truly a bonding experience like no other. To give/sell my milk back then, would have felt like that special time was stained. It was for my little girl and nobody else. It connected us.

I don't judge those who do well it, but it's not something I could ever do

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By *illen5Man
over a year ago

Bath

Special bonding experience with your child, that is difficult to surpass.

Breastfeeding in public isnt sexualised, nor will be. what are you people like? Some choose to use a cover for a bit of privacy.

I can see the logic.

Enlarged breasts, leaking milk in the privacy of your own home with no little ones around. Why not?

What could be nicer than giving them a good massage and getting drenched? Not sure about suckling, but doesnt hurt anyone.

I can see why this is a bit of a fetish for others. Time and place for everything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we both would love to meet a pregnant women or a woman who have brestmilk to play with us x

but what do you all think of it?

An Adult Nursing Relationship is a relationship in which a woman who is currently lactating is being suckled by her husband, boyfriend, friend, girlfriend, or some other significant other. This hub is not to glorify this type of relationship. This hub is to help those in a committed relationship try something new to bond and become closer to each other. You can set your own goals as far as if you are already lactating, or if you want to induce lactation, but there are various reasons a woman and her adult partner would want this type of relationship.

There are rewards for the woman and her partner in this type of relationship. A couple’s bond deepens as you both spend more quality time together. A baby is close to her mother during this time, and when an adult couple can also spend this type of quality time together to hold one another is a true deep emotional experience that few can truly say they have ever had the opportunity to experience.

This is a physical bonding experience, but it goes way beyond just the time spent nursing. The physiological effects that one can have thinking about spending this type of quality time with your partner helps relationships become strong all over again. You have to take this type of relationship serious just like any other relationship you have had in the past. This is not a relationship to “Get off” on. You have to be willing to talk to your partner about the joys and pitfalls of what you both want out of an ANR relationship. Some men and women enjoy it for the lactation experience; some enjoy it for the quiet time spent with one another. I know a few couples that have told me that they were apprehensive at first, but after a few months, they can’t live without each other and can’t ever imagine doing this loving gesture to one another, with anyone else"

Thank you for putting it so eloquently. It's not about sex per se but about making a commitment and bonding.

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By *reamytitwankCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff


"I get everyone has their kinks, but breastmilk is for a baby, couldn't think of anything less sexual - Just my opinion"

Exactly. Breastfeeding is not in any way a sexual thing.

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By *reamytitwankCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Breast milk is for infants, I don’t understand how anyone could like it as a kink Probably why women get so much stick for breastfeeding their babies in public...because it’s been sexualised "

Amen!

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By *reamytitwankCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff


"It's not something that I would be interested in . I breastfed my little one for 22 months. It was such a special time for me and every time she looked at me as she fed, I could feel the love gravitating through my body. It's truly a bonding experience like no other. To give/sell my milk back then, would have felt like that special time was stained. It was for my little girl and nobody else. It connected us.

I don't judge those who do well it, but it's not something I could ever do "

I fed both mine past two.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not something that I would be interested in . I breastfed my little one for 22 months. It was such a special time for me and every time she looked at me as she fed, I could feel the love gravitating through my body. It's truly a bonding experience like no other. To give/sell my milk back then, would have felt like that special time was stained. It was for my little girl and nobody else. It connected us.

I don't judge those who do well it, but it's not something I could ever do "

Exactly this. I breastfed my babies and it was their milk and no one else's, especially not to be used in a sexual way.

Not my kink.

(Btw almond/ coconut/ soya milk drinker here!)

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