FabSwingers.com forum: A question for the lady's.

By *untimes surrey OP Man
over a year ago

guildford

Hi anyone of you what I must are hot looking lady's on this site that well I must say I'm finding very difficult to meet maybe help me out and spare a few moments to tell if what I may and have been thinking about doing tomorrow is a good idea.

Well you see where I work is a single lady that I know will be near me for a short while .that I've known for several years,that is a few years older than me.

And I'm very tempted to ask here to meet me for a drink.

If she agrees should I be honest from the start and let her know that I would love to end up in bed with her.

But am only looking for no strings fun.

You see I'm not sure if that may offen her.would be grateful of any feedback.if I get any I will update and let you know who it goes.

Cheers.oh yes and big kiss to those still reading inspire of my bad grammar.xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone at work invited me for a drink and outright told me they wanted a fuck, I wouldn’t be happy at all. And I fancy a few men at work

What a way to make someone feel like a piece of meat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That screams mission abort

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Show her your romantic side and your cock

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By *omesticated_VixenWoman
over a year ago

sw London

I dont think it would be a good idea to tell her you want to go to bed with her. Maybe see if she agrees to meet you to start with and then if she does just keep it friendly and take her lead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plan for a drink and nothing more. If she wants more, she will let you know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be happy if she joins you for a drink or meal, and use that time to let her see your better character. Physical attraction only occurs naturally and can't be forced on anyone. Personality and treating someone as they desire can have a huge influence. Crude remarks only spoil the mood unless the conversation leans that way. Take time to read the situation without bias. You aren't responsible for other peoples assumptions but don't be misleading. Enjoy, respect others and be bold not stupid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Failing all of the above....

Some peanut M&M's, some Marigolds and some tunamint ice cream should set you in good stead...

Be lucky dude!

May the force be out there somewhere

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

I think asking if thy like anal is usually a deal breaker.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I prefer to know someone's intentions up front. If you don't make it clear that its nsa on your part she could end up feeling used and hurt. If she knows the score she can choose whether to go ahead or not. I think taking a woman out for a drink with the intention of having nsa sex but not telling her that is way worse than telling her. Same applies in reverse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer to know someone's intentions up front. If you don't make it clear that its nsa on your part she could end up feeling used and hurt. If she knows the score she can choose whether to go ahead or not. I think taking a woman out for a drink with the intention of having nsa sex but not telling her that is way worse than telling her. Same applies in reverse."

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