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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You know how you can read the start of a message before you open it?

Quite often that dictates whether I open it straight away or leave it for later.

Do you think if you couldn't see it it would affect how you treated messages?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You know how you can read the start of a message before you open it?

Quite often that dictates whether I open it straight away or leave it for later.

Do you think if you couldn't see it it would affect how you treated messages? "
of course them first few words make or break us messageeeees

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You know how you can read the start of a message before you open it?

Quite often that dictates whether I open it straight away or leave it for later.

Do you think if you couldn't see it it would affect how you treated messages? "

Quite possibly.... But most of mine tend to get read (not all replied to of course) although I don't get butg hurt if someone doesn't like me or my message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You know how you can read the start of a message before you open it?

Quite often that dictates whether I open it straight away or leave it for later.

Do you think if you couldn't see it it would affect how you treated messages?

Quite possibly.... But most of mine tend to get read (not all replied to of course) although I don't get butg hurt if someone doesn't like me or my message "

*Butt Hurt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's all "Hey babe, wot u dn?" type shite then I tend to think, "fuck it, I could be cleaning the grout instead of reading and replying to this shite"....Doubt you're missing much.

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington

I have often wondered this because I still contruct a message in a traditional way, so

"Greeting,

Message

Sign off"

With lines in between, so on the preview, I am guessing that if I start a message with 'Hi', it may look like a lazy message without any substance? Or does the preview truncate it into one line? Hmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what are these "messages" you speak of? Do site supporters get an "Inbox" or something?

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

OP. I do think that counts for any and all message platforms (text, email, kik, WhatsApp, etc (as there are others). If you are unable to see any of the message then it has to be opened (I'm inquisitive).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You know how you can read the start of a message before you open it?

Quite often that dictates whether I open it straight away or leave it for later.

Do you think if you couldn't see it it would affect how you treated messages? "

Sorry, can't help you there, I only read the first line of your post.

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By *otandhorny2012Man
over a year ago

Essex

I love the way people read the messages, then they unread them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah actually, my nose would probably bother me and I'd get round to messages faster. I usually just skim for any from friends or ones that look interesting and only go back to the rest later.

Seeing there's an attachment makes a difference too as I'm too nosy to not want to know what it is, even if the profile hasn't grab me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah actually, my nose would probably bother me and I'd get round to messages faster. I usually just skim for any from friends or ones that look interesting and only go back to the rest later.

Seeing there's an attachment makes a difference too as I'm too nosy to not want to know what it is, even if the profile hasn't grab me."

Cause you love a boabie pic, innit?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I love the way people read the messages, then they unread them. "

If I do that it's generally because I plan to go back to it. If I leave it read then it'll get deleted when I tidy my inbox.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love the way people read the messages, then they unread them. "

Yeah, I think some do it so they don't forget to reply later but others lol, just a bit up themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love the way people read the messages, then they unread them. "

I do that in work all the time. If you've got 20 odd messages you'll prioritise surely. If I go back and mark unread then I'll remember to reply....sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah actually, my nose would probably bother me and I'd get round to messages faster. I usually just skim for any from friends or ones that look interesting and only go back to the rest later.

Seeing there's an attachment makes a difference too as I'm too nosy to not want to know what it is, even if the profile hasn't grab me.

Cause you love a boabie pic, innit? "

Love the boabie, embdy's boabie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beggars can’t be choosers I think the old saying goes : the rare yellow icon is always exciting whether there’s a preview or not. I always look forwards to it, hopefully at some point within the next week or so it’ll light up again

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple
over a year ago

Planet Ork


"I love the way people read the messages, then they unread them.

If I do that it's generally because I plan to go back to it. If I leave it read then it'll get deleted when I tidy my inbox. "

Nice to keep your box tidy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have often wondered this because I still contruct a message in a traditional way, so

"Greeting,

Message

Sign off"

With lines in between, so on the preview, I am guessing that if I start a message with 'Hi', it may look like a lazy message without any substance? Or does the preview truncate it into one line? Hmm

"

Inbox me your standard message and I'll tell you how it is formatted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You know how you can read the start of a message before you open it?

Quite often that dictates whether I open it straight away or leave it for later.

Do you think if you couldn't see it it would affect how you treated messages? "

Yes, as often those few words is a full message...

Mrs

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington


"I have often wondered this because I still contruct a message in a traditional way, so

"Greeting,

Message

Sign off"

With lines in between, so on the preview, I am guessing that if I start a message with 'Hi', it may look like a lazy message without any substance? Or does the preview truncate it into one line? Hmm

Inbox me your standard message and I'll tell you how it is formatted

"

Thank you - done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah actually, my nose would probably bother me and I'd get round to messages faster. I usually just skim for any from friends or ones that look interesting and only go back to the rest later.

Seeing there's an attachment makes a difference too as I'm too nosy to not want to know what it is, even if the profile hasn't grab me.

Cause you love a boabie pic, innit?

Love the boabie, embdy's boabie "

Betty? Is that you?

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Archetypal message heading: ‘Hi’

Contents of message: ‘How r u?’

The above is representative of about 95% of all received

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

My inbox has never got into double figures of unread messages. So I read them all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My inbox has never got into double figures of unread messages. So I read them all. "

Aw do you want some of mine? Mine are in triple figures at the moment. I’m sure they're all lovely

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place


"My inbox has never got into double figures of unread messages. So I read them all.

Aw do you want some of mine? Mine are in triple figures at the moment. I’m sure they're all lovely "

Nope! I’m fully booked currently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You know how you can read the start of a message before you open it?

Quite often that dictates whether I open it straight away or leave it for later.

Do you think if you couldn't see it it would affect how you treated messages? "

I do the same!

I think if I couldn’t see it, it would affect how I treated them. I’d probably read them quicker!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My inbox has never got into double figures of unread messages. So I read them all. "

I don't think my unread count has ever been above 4.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If people couldn't see the first part of a sentence more would be read.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what are these "messages" you speak of? Do site supporters get an "Inbox" or something?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You know how you can read the start of a message before you open it?

Quite often that dictates whether I open it straight away or leave it for later.

Do you think if you couldn't see it it would affect how you treated messages? "

Good question! I reckon more would get read.

If there was no sender name/ link to view their profile until the message was opened, I reckon that would make a big difference too.

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