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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Adam and I have agreed that sex is getting routine...still fantastic, just routine. The solution to that would be to try something different. The problem with that is that our normal is many other people's extreme. Looking at ideas online resulted in me thinking, "We do that often. Tame. Been there..." Do you lovely people have any suggestions, with or without added people, that might help us out?

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Go completely minimal instead of hell for leather...and take your time

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Some form of role and/or scenario play seems to be a popular manner by which to add a little extra ‘spice’ as it were.

Blind folds, restraints, food play - all a bit tame I’m afraid.

Vanilla me

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.

Have you tried Tantra? Slow down, play with all the senses, with a good practitioner you can have full body orgasms. Or go to some classes together and learn it yourself.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That happens often too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We are discussing some new role play scenarios. Thanks.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That could be interesting.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

You can only use your left hands..or one finger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spinning several plates. See if you can cum before they fall

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Spinning several plates. See if you can cum before they fall "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not a bad idea. Thanks.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm a klutz...wouldn't give me much time.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

See what you can do with a pair of flip flops, a sink plunger and a jar of pickled eggs.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Ze egg whisk and ze wet celery Wiz ze gas mask

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Go back to basics. Go on dates, heavy petting in the car, no sex allowed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go back to basics. Go on dates, heavy petting in the car, no sex allowed. "
+1

If you have to go to extremes to get your kicks, you have lost something alomg the way.

Chasing the pleasure instead of enjoying what you have could be an indication something is wrong...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hmmm, that's an idea.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I disagree. Nothing is wrong. We still have great sex...just looking to change it up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go back to basics. Go on dates, heavy petting in the car, no sex allowed. "

I was going to say stop all physical contact for a month.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"Hmmm, that's an idea."

Hi if you use reply and quote we know who you're answering

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I disagree. Nothing is wrong. We still have great sex...just looking to change it up."
I said could.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hmmm, that's an idea.

Hi if you use reply and quote we know who you're answering "

sorry. Thought I did.

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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

I’d suggest stop trying to find something and let your natural instincts take over. It will take you to better places, that you’re both going to enjoy if you’re continually communicating and places that are suited to the both of you rather than someone on the forum.

Lex

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"Hmmm, that's an idea.

Hi if you use reply and quote we know who you're answering sorry. Thought I did."

No need to apologise

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington


"Adam and I have agreed that sex is getting routine...still fantastic, just routine. The solution to that would be to try something different. The problem with that is that our normal is many other people's extreme. Looking at ideas online resulted in me thinking, "We do that often. Tame. Been there..." Do you lovely people have any suggestions, with or without added people, that might help us out? "

You need to give an example of what your normal is.... so we can gauge against our own extremeties before we suggest.

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