FabSwingers.com forum: What am I doing wrong

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’ve sent messages that aren’t pushy or vile they’re polite and respectful. I always send s face pic with it but just can’t get anywhere.

Any advice???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you’ve got a cock as your avatar and it’s the only public pic on your profile, if that’s all you can offer then you’re far down the list from single guys who put more effort into their public gallery, as for your messages and facepic, can’t say anything about them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just read your profile too....... yeah you need to change all of that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try to message straight men who suck cocks you'll get somewhere eventually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dunno mate, I’m not sure what else you can do. You’ve got the sweet cock photo which is usually enough to seal the deal with the ladies. Maybe add a second cock photo, but from a slightly different angle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People tend to check the profile before the message. You might wanna bear that in mind

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What is it I need to change exactly.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How does my profile fit for you? What can I change/add

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More photos would help, to give more of an idea of all of you. Just a cock pic gives very little to go on (I don’t mean that literally).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is it I need to change exactly.

You can’t improve on perfection mate, maybe change your name to Clit Hardwood.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is it I need to change exactly.

How do you approach women in real life?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What is it I need to change exactly.

How do you approach women in real life?"

Depends on the woman doesn’t it. You usually get an idea within the first 40seconds. If they like banter or a strong convo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is it I need to change exactly.

How do you approach women in real life?"

From the side, like a crab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is it I need to change exactly.

How do you approach women in real life?

Depends on the woman doesn’t it. You usually get an idea within the first 40seconds. If they like banter or a strong convo "

So do you read their profiles on here and comment on the text?

Never comment on their pics, they hate that for some unknown reason.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"What is it I need to change exactly.

How do you approach women in real life?

Depends on the woman doesn’t it. You usually get an idea within the first 40seconds. If they like banter or a strong convo "
Well your shit out of luck if your looking for women with banter on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you decide which profiles to approach on here, OP?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What is it I need to change exactly.

How do you approach women in real life?

Depends on the woman doesn’t it. You usually get an idea within the first 40seconds. If they like banter or a strong convo

So do you read their profiles on here and comment on the text?

Never comment on their pics, they hate that for some unknown reason. "

No I don’t comment on their pics. If I like what I’ve read I’ll tell them they sound interesting and say something I like and then a little about myself. Again all depends what I’ve see/read. Isn’t that how it is for everyone??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"How do you decide which profiles to approach on here, OP?"

I browse through them. Again if I like what I see/read I’ll message them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t say you’re bi-curious, women don’t like curious men, you can only be curious about the vagina.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is it I need to change exactly.

How do you approach women in real life?

Depends on the woman doesn’t it. You usually get an idea within the first 40seconds. If they like banter or a strong convo

So do you read their profiles on here and comment on the text?

Never comment on their pics, they hate that for some unknown reason.

Many men don't bother doing any of that, they just ask for sex.

Sounds like you're already doing the right things. It can be difficult finding someone compatible. Don't let the rejection get you down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is it I need to change exactly.

How do you approach women in real life?

Depends on the woman doesn’t it. You usually get an idea within the first 40seconds. If they like banter or a strong convo Well your shit out of luck if your looking for women with banter on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do you decide which profiles to approach on here, OP?

I browse through them. Again if I like what I see/read I’ll message them. "

Yeah... so you look for something attractive? Us women do the same. There's not much on your profile for us to see... an ambiguous dick pic and a generically written profile don't get fannies fluttering I'm afraid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How does my profile fit for you? What can I change/add "
M&Ms add a bit of colour around the cock pic or a Xmas bauble

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice I’ll try get it changed over next few days ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for the advice I’ll try get it changed over next few days ????"

No rush, take your time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rewrite your profile text. When you write a negative and then a positive in a sentence, people tend to concentrate on the negative, example, I’m not a jumped smarmy knob head, I’m chilled blah blah blah.

Lose the shit and just write that you’re chilled.

Don’t say I’m not fussy just say I’m looking to have a connection with someone.

Oh and get better pictures.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"Rewrite your profile text. When you write a negative and then a positive in a sentence, people tend to concentrate on the negative, example, I’m not a jumped smarmy knob head, I’m chilled blah blah blah.

Lose the shit and just write that you’re chilled.

Don’t say I’m not fussy just say I’m looking to have a connection with someone.

Oh and get better pictures. "
So looking for a connection = any hole is a goal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve sent messages that aren’t pushy or vile they’re polite and respectful. I always send s face pic with it but just can’t get anywhere.

Any advice???"

Get to a club

Face to face contact, can't beat it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve sent messages that aren’t pushy or vile they’re polite and respectful. I always send s face pic with it but just can’t get anywhere.

Any advice???

Get to a club

Face to face contact, can't beat it! "
or face to pussy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be you not what you think women want because your proberbly wrong be yourself put your perspnality in your profile

And its a doddle

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

OP..you've been here for several months now, and have a veri.

Aa I'm sure you know, men significantly outnumber women, so perhaps consider your aporoach?

Is your profile appealing and positive?

Do you read women's profiles before messaging them?

What are your expectations here? Are they realistic?

Have you considered reading the many other threads on the same topic?

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

"OP..you've been here for several months now, and have a veri.

Aa I'm sure you know, men significantly outnumber women, so perhaps consider your aporoach?

Is your profile appealing and positive?

Do you read women's profiles before messaging them?

What are your expectations here? Are they realistic?

Have you considered reading the many other threads on the same topic?"

Well hello Lisa I agree with you. I’m single. Very experienced I can hold my own and very comfortable within my self. Perhaps we should get together and do the thing. pM me you won’t be disappointed I promise

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall

"What is it I need to change exactly.

How do you approach women in real life?

From the side, like a crab."

That made me itch

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"What is it I need to change exactly.

How do you approach women in real life?

From the side, like a crab.

That made me itch "

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By *hatYorkLadMan
over a year ago

York

Take a picture of your cock next to a sky remote, the ladies will instantly dehydrate at the sight of it

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Yeah, let’s write his profile for him to reflect everybody else and not who he is.

OP your profile tells me everything I need to know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah, let’s write his profile for him to reflect everybody else and not who he is.

OP your profile tells me everything I need to know. "
Does it act as a filter?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP..you've been here for several months now, and have a veri.

Aa I'm sure you know, men significantly outnumber women, so perhaps consider your aporoach?

Is your profile appealing and positive?

Do you read women's profiles before messaging them?

What are your expectations here? Are they realistic?

Have you considered reading the many other threads on the same topic?"
How you sleeping? Does coming here act as a benzodiazepine?

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"Yeah, let’s write his profile for him to reflect everybody else and not who he is.

OP your profile tells me everything I need to know. Does it act as a filter?"

It tells me everything I need to know about who he is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah, let’s write his profile for him to reflect everybody else and not who he is.

OP your profile tells me everything I need to know. Does it act as a filter?

It tells me everything I need to know about who he is. "
I understand what you're saying but will he and one of the things that's always amazed me about this place many guys who lead with a cock pic avatar are filtered but their are 3 that I can think of right now that aren't and yet have always been defined by that erection, is it a case of if your cock fits?

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"Yeah, let’s write his profile for him to reflect everybody else and not who he is.

OP your profile tells me everything I need to know. Does it act as a filter?

It tells me everything I need to know about who he is. I understand what you're saying but will he and one of the things that's always amazed me about this place many guys who lead with a cock pic avatar are filtered but their are 3 that I can think of right now that aren't and yet have always been defined by that erection, is it a case of if your cock fits? "

No idea, I can only tell you what I think, women are not a hive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah, let’s write his profile for him to reflect everybody else and not who he is.

OP your profile tells me everything I need to know. Does it act as a filter?

No idea, I can only tell you what I think, women are not a hive."
I don't know, the beehive hairdo is coming back into chic

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

"I’ve sent messages that aren’t pushy or vile they’re polite and respectful. I always send s face pic with it but just can’t get anywhere.

Any advice???"

The best advice I can give you is to look under the clubs reviews for the best club in your area and any forum for social events .

you have little to no chance of a meet casting my eye over your profile..

Profile pictures terrible

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"Yeah, let’s write his profile for him to reflect everybody else and not who he is.

OP your profile tells me everything I need to know. Does it act as a filter?

No idea, I can only tell you what I think, women are not a hive.I don't know, the beehive hairdo is coming back into chic "

Yeah.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah, let’s write his profile for him to reflect everybody else and not who he is.

OP your profile tells me everything I need to know. Does it act as a filter?

No idea, I can only tell you what I think, women are not a hive.I don't know, the beehive hairdo is coming back into chic

Yeah."
I've seen a few recently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is it I need to change exactly.

How do you approach women in real life?

From the side, like a crab."

Tame Impala has the best advice I've ever seen on any forum. Follow his words!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is it I need to change exactly.

How do you approach women in real life?

Depends on the woman doesn’t it. You usually get an idea within the first 40seconds. If they like banter or a strong convo Well your shit out of luck if your looking for women with banter on here.

Hahahaha....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve sent messages that aren’t pushy or vile they’re polite and respectful. I always send s face pic with it but just can’t get anywhere.

Any advice???

Get to a club

Face to face contact, can't beat it! or face to pussy "

Lets not rush the lad!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve sent messages that aren’t pushy or vile they’re polite and respectful. I always send s face pic with it but just can’t get anywhere.

Any advice???"

If people like and are attracted then they will reply if they don't well they are not attracted most likley so move on nothing you can do about it apart from give up.

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