FabSwingers.com forum: Sensitive males

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I get there are more males on here than females, probably the ratio is 8m to 1f.

But why be a so rude when a female replys thanks but no thanks! Are you God???

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"I get there are more males on here than females, probably the ratio is 8m to 1f.

But why be a so rude when a female replys thanks but no thanks! Are you God??? "

Yes...they are...

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By *hatYorkLadMan
over a year ago

York

Poor fragile egos combined with dickhead personalities at a guess, some of us just take it on the chin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The men bashing threads are out in force tonight.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just got called C*** because he didn't do anything for me and I say general chit chat.

These blokes are f ing unreal!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When genes were distributed my sensitivity gene was given to the family goat. She is much more sensitive than I will ever be but sensitivity is for goats not real men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Delete and block, delete and block. It’s so simple.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Just got called C*** because he didn't do anything for me and I say general chit chat.

These blokes are f ing unreal!"

You will get a lot of that, unfortunately, ignore and move on

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Name and shame to warm others!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just how it is...I don't mind rejection it's freedom of choice,just deal with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The men bashing threads are out in force tonight. "

Even men are doing it.. must be the full moon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Name and shame to warm others!"

You can try but its against site rules

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Name and shame to warm others!

You can try but its against site rules"

That is a great picture of your arse you fabulous Fox you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get there are more males on here than females, probably the ratio is 8m to 1f.

But why be a so rude when a female replys thanks but no thanks! Are you God??? "

Not speaking for the males but i think it's due to pure cowardness, what i mean is would someone say that in person? Probably not so personally my opinion is that they can't handle rejection but have the balls to put it online. But if you think about it, they have no balls at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Name and shame to warm others!

You can try but its against site rules

That is a great picture of your arse you fabulous Fox you

Thankyou kindly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Name and shame to warm others!

You can try but its against site rules

That is a great picture of your arse you fabulous Fox you

Thankyou kindly

You’re welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get there are more males on here than females, probably the ratio is 8m to 1f.

But why be a so rude when a female replys thanks but no thanks! Are you God??? "

It's more like 20 - 30 women for every 1 man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get there are more males on here than females, probably the ratio is 8m to 1f.

But why be a so rude when a female replys thanks but no thanks! Are you God???

I agree. A lot of people feel brave behind a screen and will say things they wouldn’t dream of in person.

They think it hurts people, for me, it makes me laugh that they could get so worked up over a polite rejection. From death threats, to racial abuse, to insulting my weight even though they wanted to fuck a few minutes before!

All it does is prove you’ve dodged a bullet and did the right thing by not choosing to meet them.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

"Name and shame to warm others!"

Never! Against fab rules and lowers you closer to their level

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By *epperpig1234Woman
over a year ago

Darlington

I don’t even answer them now because as soon as you say no sorry you get bombarded with name calling or told you are a time waster because you don’t agree to meet them up a dark alley immediately.

Delete and block, delete and block it’s the only way unfortunately

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

I have a theory...

The ones who get really angry are having a slow wank while they mail you and fantasise about meeting you. When you say you're not interested, it spoils their wank. If they've copy/pasted to a dozen women who say no... It completely ruins their wank... And they vent their frustration in other ways.

Wangry.... Its a thing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been called a lesbian a few times because I didn't like their "hot" pics and wasn't interested in meeting them assholes

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By *ust little old me 13Man
over a year ago

Preston

"I get there are more males on here than females, probably the ratio is 8m to 1f.

But why be a so rude when a female replys thanks but no thanks! Are you God??? "

Most men end up settling for a blowjob off a guy as a fallback from my experience,and what lads have told me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a theory...

Wangry.... Its a thing!

Every days a school day on Fab. Today I learned a new word

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a theory...

Wangry.... Its a thing!

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By *rickyd72Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

"I have a theory...

Wangry.... Its a thing!

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I Love this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get there are more males on here than females, probably the ratio is 8m to 1f.

But why be a so rude when a female replys thanks but no thanks! Are you God???

Most men end up settling for a blowjob off a guy as a fallback from my experience,and what lads have told me "

So is this why guys on Fab think having sex is not gay?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get there are more males on here than females, probably the ratio is 8m to 1f.

But why be a so rude when a female replys thanks but no thanks! Are you God??? "

No is a no it’s never gonna be a yes it’s personal taste man up guys and play nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it’s pretty much the same for both sexes. The only difference is hardly anyone ever turns down the ladies so it’s less noticeable, but a small percentage of them can also be incredulous if you dare to resist their charms!

Sadly some people are just twats whatever their sex!

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"I think it’s pretty much the same for both sexes. The only difference is hardly anyone ever turns down the ladies so it’s less noticeable, but a small percentage of them can also be incredulous if you dare to resist their charms!

Sadly some people are just twats whatever their sex! "

I very politely declined a two line, 10 word, faf message from a 2 line, 1 pic, verified profile once.

I really should have learnt from the ladies and blocked straight away.

Such invective.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sadly some people are just twats whatever their sex! "

That was in evidence last night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its only words were you never taught the sticks and stones rhime

God folk are soft nowadays

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By *vcarolTV/TS
over a year ago

kilmarnockish

Most men end up settling for a blowjob off a guy as a fallback from my experience,and what lads have told me "

Nooooo! That’s what us trannies are for !!!

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By *ust little old me 13Man
over a year ago

Preston

Most men end up settling for a blowjob off a guy as a fallback from my experience,and what lads have told me

Nooooo! That’s what us trannies are for !!!"

Is that an offer lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sadly some people are just twats whatever their sex!

That was in evidence last night

I read that thread.

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By *wingin CatMan
over a year ago

London

"I get there are more males on here than females, probably the ratio is 8m to 1f.

But why be a so rude when a female replys thanks but no thanks! Are you God??? "

No - they're just emotionally immature.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get there are more males on here than females, probably the ratio is 8m to 1f.

But why be a so rude when a female replys thanks but no thanks! Are you God???

No - they're just emotionally immature."

No we’re not, you are.

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By *wingin CatMan
over a year ago

London

"The men bashing threads are out in force tonight. "

You can't deny that a siginificant number of badly-behaved single males deserve it.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"The men bashing threads are out in force tonight. "
We need a safe space, like a men only forum but no homo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The men bashing threads are out in force tonight.

You can't deny that a siginificant number of badly-behaved single males deserve it."

I don’t concern myself with other men’s behaviour, I’m only accountable for myself and I’m lovely.

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By *wingin CatMan
over a year ago

London

"I get there are more males on here than females, probably the ratio is 8m to 1f.

But why be a so rude when a female replys thanks but no thanks! Are you God???

No - they're just emotionally immature.

No we’re not, you are."

You're obviously defending the abusive single males. And by taking the bait to my post, you've just proved you're yet another one of them.

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By *aughtyandhandsomeMan
over a year ago

button moon

If someone tells me thanks but no thanks that's fine. I dont get arsey about it like some do. Just move on. I'd sooner have a reply saying no thanks than just deleted. I appreciate women and couples get lots of mail and impossible to reply to everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get there are more males on here than females, probably the ratio is 8m to 1f.

But why be a so rude when a female replys thanks but no thanks! Are you God???

No - they're just emotionally immature.

No we’re not, you are.

You're obviously defending the abusive single males. And by taking the bait to my post, you've just proved you're yet another one of them."

Oh, you missed my little joke. Someone will be along shortly to explain it to you.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"I get there are more males on here than females, probably the ratio is 8m to 1f.

But why be a so rude when a female replys thanks but no thanks! Are you God???

No - they're just emotionally immature.

No we’re not, you are.

You're obviously defending the abusive single males. And by taking the bait to my post, you've just proved you're yet another one of them.

Oh, you missed my little joke. Someone will be along shortly to explain it to you. "

straight over his head like a Boeing 747

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a theory...

Wangry.... Its a thing!

Wangry! Love it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get there are more males on here than females, probably the ratio is 8m to 1f.

But why be a so rude when a female replys thanks but no thanks! Are you God???

No - they're just emotionally immature.

No we’re not, you are.

You're obviously defending the abusive single males. And by taking the bait to my post, you've just proved you're yet another one of them.

Oh, you missed my little joke. Someone will be along shortly to explain it to you.

straight over his head like a Boeing 747"

Haha

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

The analogy of junk mail is often used in response to folk asking why don't people reply .

I often see threads from folk complaining about the mail they receive on here lack of effort one line fancy a fuck txt spk.. no pictures attached wrong type of pictures attached...I'd liken this to junk mail.

In the real world it'd be very difficult to manage without a mailbox..very inconvenient at best.

On here the site allows you to "board up" your mailbox with filters and gender blocks.

Why don't you use the tool(s)? You can or could still message those that interest you . Effort in reward out is often said.

Otherwise you're gonna have to accept you'll receive some "junk" mail.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

All I can say is I've been on here around 18 months now, get a few hundred messages a week,and I've only probably had less than 10 arsey responses to a "Nice but not for me" message in all that time.

Luck? Different calibre of guys responding to my profile? Or maybe because once I've declined a message I'm done, I don't get into any kind of dialogue with them.

I very rarely use the block button, but if these messages are causing an issue for you then maybe it's something to consider.

No thanks, then block, no biggie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get there are more males on here than females, probably the ratio is 8m to 1f.

But why be a so rude when a female replys thanks but no thanks! Are you God??? "

Most men can’t handle rejection OP, I mean, if you reject me I would spend endless nights questioning how you could refuse God! Ha!

I guess some men in here get so frustrated you bare the brunt of it...... just block and delete OP

Also, god is busy today...... so much paper work to do!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get there are more males on here than females, probably the ratio is 8m to 1f.

But why be a so rude when a female replys thanks but no thanks! Are you God??? "
I am yes now give me five hail Marys

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We got terribly abused once - we were called uppity and churlish

I was going to change our names to uppity and churlish, but didn't know what churlish meant and couldn't be arsed to Google it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We got terribly abused once - we were called uppity and churlish

I was going to change our names to uppity and churlish, but didn't know what churlish meant and couldn't be arsed to Google it!"
omg churlish that's outrageous is one stuck up ones own arse?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They're not sensitive they are entitled

You joined fab

I messaged

Therefore you must open your legs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey! There's nothing wrong with being sensitive.

*runs away crying*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

respect the ladies i say ...

problem is we all think we are drop dead gorgeous pretty or handsome in our own eyes.and the mirror ,....problem is most of us are far from it ,(including me )

so if you get a blank ,or a reject ,or a no answer ,or a no thanks fellas ,respect thefact your not rocking the boat and thank them for taking the time to reply..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The men bashing threads are out in force tonight.

Even men are doing it.. must be the full moon"

Unfortunately men on here acting like Dicks has a knock on effect to the decent ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not God....

I'm Groot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they ask why rather than just a the is for the reply . I will tell the the truth and block

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By *ervent_fervourMan
over a year ago

Halifax

No, but I used to be called Jesus. Could never quite divine why. Presently I'm just cold.

Well done for your reply though. - Keep up the good(and polite) work.

"I get there are more males on here than females, probably the ratio is 8m to 1f.

But why be a so rude when a female replys thanks but no thanks! Are you God??? "

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"The men bashing threads are out in force tonight.

Even men are doing it.. must be the full moon

Unfortunately men on here acting like Dicks has a knock on effect to the decent ones "
Sorry

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By *arl smithXXXMan
over a year ago

Rochdale

If I get a thanks but no thanks I just wish them luck why be nasty when they take there time to respond most don't read or just delete anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The men bashing threads are out in force tonight.

Even men are doing it.. must be the full moon

Unfortunately men on here acting like Dicks has a knock on effect to the decent ones "

No it doesn’t, it just makes the good ones look better.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"The men bashing threads are out in force tonight.

Even men are doing it.. must be the full moon

Unfortunately men on here acting like Dicks has a knock on effect to the decent ones

No it doesn’t, it just makes the good ones look better. "
Bullhit! That's a conspiracy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Name and shame to warm others!

You can try but its against site rules

That is a great picture of your arse you fabulous Fox you

Not just your arse Miss Fox. A true vixen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The men bashing threads are out in force tonight.

Even men are doing it.. must be the full moon

Unfortunately men on here acting like Dicks has a knock on effect to the decent ones

No it doesn’t, it just makes the good ones look better. "

Nah. No man can make another seem better to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you get a no thank you message then accept it!! Also be thankful any lady took the time to reply as they don't have too!!

This is why single men struggle on Fab I'm sure!! Amongst other reasons too

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"The men bashing threads are out in force tonight.

Even men are doing it.. must be the full moon

Unfortunately men on here acting like Dicks has a knock on effect to the decent ones

No it doesn’t, it just makes the good ones look better.

Nah. No man can make another seem better to me. "
Typical feminist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The men bashing threads are out in force tonight.

Even men are doing it.. must be the full moon

Unfortunately men on here acting like Dicks has a knock on effect to the decent ones

No it doesn’t, it just makes the good ones look better.

Nah. No man can make another seem better to me. "

It separates the wheat from the chaff, put it that way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The men bashing threads are out in force tonight.

Even men are doing it.. must be the full moon

Unfortunately men on here acting like Dicks has a knock on effect to the decent ones

No it doesn’t, it just makes the good ones look better.

Nah. No man can make another seem better to me.

It separates the wheat from the chaff, put it that way. "

Some men do make it easier to say no thank you, I agree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The men bashing threads are out in force tonight.

Even men are doing it.. must be the full moon

Unfortunately men on here acting like Dicks has a knock on effect to the decent ones

No it doesn’t, it just makes the good ones look better.

Nah. No man can make another seem better to me. Typical feminist

You're doing a bloody good job of making every one look appealing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't wear my heart on my sleeve but consider myself sensitive, as in to others needs. If you take that for weakness then you are making a huge mistake, As for being unable to handle rejection, and an entitlement attitude, well that's just immature.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"The men bashing threads are out in force tonight.

Even men are doing it.. must be the full moon

Unfortunately men on here acting like Dicks has a knock on effect to the decent ones

No it doesn’t, it just makes the good ones look better.

Nah. No man can make another seem better to me. Typical feminist

You're doing a bloody good job of making every one look appealing

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Touché

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By *wingin CatMan
over a year ago

London

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By *wingin CatMan
over a year ago

London

"I get there are more males on here than females, probably the ratio is 8m to 1f.

But why be a so rude when a female replys thanks but no thanks! Are you God???

No - they're just emotionally immature.

No we’re not, you are.

You're obviously defending the abusive single males. And by taking the bait to my post, you've just proved you're yet another one of them.

Oh, you missed my little joke. Someone will be along shortly to explain it to you. "

Yep - well and truly went over my head, but I got it now (took me ages). Soz!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get there are more males on here than females, probably the ratio is 8m to 1f.

But why be a so rude when a female replys thanks but no thanks! Are you God??? "

I reply with a polite

"No worries and thank you for your message. Happy fabbing x"

I've actually had a few meets after that because I'm so polite about it. We all have our preference and different attractions.

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By *wingin CatMan
over a year ago

London

"I get there are more males on here than females, probably the ratio is 8m to 1f.

But why be a so rude when a female replys thanks but no thanks! Are you God???

I reply with a polite

"No worries and thank you for your message. Happy fabbing x"

I've actually had a few meets after that because I'm so polite about it. We all have our preference and different attractions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get there are more males on here than females, probably the ratio is 8m to 1f.

But why be a so rude when a female replys thanks but no thanks! Are you God???

I reply with a polite

"No worries and thank you for your message. Happy fabbing x"

I've actually had a few meets after that because I'm so polite about it. We all have our preference and different attractions.

If only every guy could be like you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just think some men are either desperately in need of sex or just damn right rude!!! Or both! But then again rude women are not uncommon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get there are more males on here than females, probably the ratio is 8m to 1f.

But why be a so rude when a female replys thanks but no thanks! Are you God???

I reply with a polite

"No worries and thank you for your message. Happy fabbing x"

I've actually had a few meets after that because I'm so polite about it. We all have our preference and different attractions.

So by you thanking them for rejecting you...

You decided to meet them anyway.....

Am I reading this right?

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

If only there was a way of reporting their rudeness to their mothers? I would suspect a few clips round the ear being dished out.

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By *untimes11Man
over a year ago

cardiff

Most likely out of desperation.

I never realised how pissy some men got on these sites until i read some of the responses a fuck buddy of mine had in her inbox.

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