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"Wish i could have delivered naturally, feel cheated by having to end up with a c-section. Are more women choosing to have elected cesareans because they don't want to push? Frankly i don't see any benefits from having one unless baby or mothers health requires intervention." i just popped my babies out in a few hours so did my mum ....i thought my daughter would be the same and was all prepared to be her birthing partner ....but she had a plancental abruption both she and the baby nearly died (in fact i watched both their monitors flat line .......) but miraculously they both survived... so there is a place for caesareans the recovery is tough tho and my daughter had to have 2 more babies by c section .. i have no idea why anyone would "elect" to have a caesarian ??? | |||
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"i just popped my babies out in a few hours so did my mum ....i thought my daughter would be the same and was all prepared to be her birthing partner ....but she had a plancental abruption both she and the baby nearly died (in fact i watched both their monitors flat line .......) but miraculously they both survived... so there is a place for caesareans the recovery is tough tho and my daughter had to have 2 more babies by c section .. i have no idea why anyone would "elect" to have a caesarian ??? " So glad that story had a happy ending x | |||
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"Wish i could have delivered naturally, feel cheated by having to end up with a c-section. Are more women choosing to have elected cesareans because they don't want to push? Frankly i don't see any benefits from having one unless baby or mothers health requires intervention." i never realised it was a choice Ive had natural birth and a section, i didnt get the choice | |||
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"Well i would of had a c-section if i could have done, it would have been easier and less painful. having the stiches put in was as painful as giving birth as well. " believe me as someone whos had both a section is not the easy option, id take the natura birth any day | |||
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"what difference does the way you gave birth make? as long as you have a healthy happy baby at the end of it? if you feel cheated by haing to have a c section, just think how those who pushed and strained only to have no baby to take home at the end of it must feel just be grateful for what you have got, nothing you can do about not doing it naturally. you might not have got what you have now if they ad carried on down the natural route" Good post...couldn't agree more! | |||
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"i am totally grateful that i have a wonderful child, was just saying that it would have been nice to experience a natural birth, its a life process." its not, its a dying process if your body cant handle it. | |||
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"i am totally grateful that i have a wonderful child, was just saying that it would have been nice to experience a natural birth, its a life process. its not, its a dying process if your body cant handle it. " yup i can understand that too. | |||
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"i am totally grateful that i have a wonderful child, was just saying that it would have been nice to experience a natural birth, its a life process. its not, its a dying process if your body cant handle it. " Very true, I nearly died I could feel my body giving up and my only thought was my child, wish in the case of my first born they would have done a C-Section things might have turned out different but at least we are all still together | |||
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"my eldest child weight in at 12 pounds 5 once let me tell you now im bloody glad i didnt have to push her out lol" my brother was 12lb 2 and my mum had to have him at home.. and he was breach.. now he is my oldest brother.. I am shocked my Mum EVER had more kids.. lol Cali | |||
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"my eldest child weight in at 12 pounds 5 once let me tell you now im bloody glad i didnt have to push her out lol my brother was 12lb 2 and my mum had to have him at home.. and he was breach.. now he is my oldest brother.. I am shocked my Mum EVER had more kids.. lol Cali " all my babies have been big besides the one i lost, i had twins with my second pregnacy my daughter was another 12 pounder my son was 1 pound 2 once, he never really recovered and i lost him at 20 months, my youngest was 8 week premature and still weighted 8pound 10 so had i gone full tearm she'd had probably been just as big theres no wonder my belly looks like a deflated balloon lol | |||
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"my eldest child weight in at 12 pounds 5 once let me tell you now im bloody glad i didnt have to push her out lol" That wasnt a baby that was an elephant. Callum only weighed 8lb 2oz when he was six months old and 15lb 5oz on his first birthday lol | |||
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"my eldest child weight in at 12 pounds 5 once let me tell you now im bloody glad i didnt have to push her out lol That wasnt a baby that was an elephant. Callum only weighed 8lb 2oz when he was six months old and 15lb 5oz on his first birthday lol" she was huge, i had to go out and buy all new clothes for her as all the new born stuff was to small, her first baby grows was 3 to 6 months, when they did the heel test at 10 days they weighted her and she was a ounce off 15 pound lol | |||
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"my eldest child weight in at 12 pounds 5 once let me tell you now im bloody glad i didnt have to push her out lol That wasnt a baby that was an elephant. Callum only weighed 8lb 2oz when he was six months old and 15lb 5oz on his first birthday lol she was huge, i had to go out and buy all new clothes for her as all the new born stuff was to small, her first baby grows was 3 to 6 months, when they did the heel test at 10 days they weighted her and she was a ounce off 15 pound lol " See i was completely the other way round, although callum weighed 4lb he didnt grow(well he did but very slowly) he was always height weight proportant. But in those days you couldnt buy premature clothes it was a nightmare, and when i fitted into new born baby stuff he looked stupid cause he was a year old. I remember buying him a thermal hat the only premature thing i could find and it cost over £10 in those days that was a lot of money. I had to get all my nappies from the hospital cause they didnt sell them in shops. Things have changed so much nowadays | |||
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"what difference does the way you gave birth make? as long as you have a healthy happy baby at the end of it? if you feel cheated by haing to have a c section, just think how those who pushed and strained only to have no baby to take home at the end of it must feel just be grateful for what you have got, nothing you can do about not doing it naturally. you might not have got what you have now if they ad carried on down the natural route" I agree 100%. I wish I could have felt 'cheated' back in 1986 when I decided to have a natural birth in a small delivery unit. There were unforeseen complications and I was rushed by ambulance to the big maternity hospital in the next town for an emergency C section but didn't make it in time - the result was that my beautiful son died with the cord wrapped firmly around his throat twice. Don't feel cheated - feel happy you had a baby to hold at the end of it all. You get pregnant to have a baby - not a birthing experience xx | |||
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"Rosie was 9lb 2 at birth. Now she is 13 5ft 7 size 8 to 9 shoes and stunning" oh after the bone scan callum had at 3 they told me id be lucky if he reached 5ft. Hes around 5ft 7 slim build but not thin and has always been really fit and healthy | |||
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" Are more women choosing to have elected cesareans because they don't want to push? Frankly i don't see any benefits from having one unless baby or mothers health requires intervention." There are 2 main reasons that women elect to have c sections, so I am told by my mid wife friend, The first is that they can choose the exact date the baby will be born (within a few days of the due date) and the second is over the misconception that their pussies will be stretched and will not be tight anymore | |||
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"...sections are not the easy option at all !!!!!" + 1 | |||
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