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What have you learn from life so far?

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By *egasus Nob OP   Man
over a year ago

Wandsworth

Especially the more mature member of fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

9 inches on here doesn't correspond to any ruler in the UK.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a bitch

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By *ddibleMan
over a year ago

Exeter Bristol Salisbury

It looks nothing like a monkey and hurts when I spank it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's too bloody short and you don't learn what you need too until it's too late!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't take any shit from anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not very good at it

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

Bloomin eck that's a big question. I think the main thing I've learned is that not much really matters.

That and always take a carrier bag.

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By *egasus Nob OP   Man
over a year ago

Wandsworth


"It's too bloody short and you don't learn what you need too until it's too late!"

kinda agree, you have to catch yourself not learning or growing in other to change course.

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By *egasus Nob OP   Man
over a year ago

Wandsworth


"Bloomin eck that's a big question. I think the main thing I've learned is that not much really matters.

That and always take a carrier bag."

make it light hearted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody's universe revolves around me - except for the dog and my kids when they want something.

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"It's too bloody short and you don't learn what you need too until it's too late!

kinda agree, you have to catch yourself not learning or growing in other to change course."

Live each day like its the last, ok save that for the weekends lol. Don't stress over trivial things that can be fixed xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too bloody much... Had enough of bloody life lessons now!

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"It's a bitch "
then you marry one

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By *ruebameMan
over a year ago

from the womb and tryout to get back

Take no shit and live life to its full potential with no regrets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always tell your nearest and dearest how much you love them, as one day you might not get chance to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life is too short. Live for the moment, take a chance, do what you enjoy doing, make time for yourself.

Don't be afraid of being selfish and doing what suits you from time to time. Regret nothing. Don't become fixated on material possessions.

Push yourself. Step out of your comfort zone every now and again.

Don't fear trying. There is no shame in failure, just in not trying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's better than death.

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By *apmanMan
over a year ago

Holmfirth

Take a pee when you can,

Take a drink when you can,

Never trust a fart,

And don't waste an erection.

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By *hatYorkLadMan
over a year ago

York

The older you get the more things there are to miss, be it people, pets or memories.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There a always tomorrow...

Until there isn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trust yourself. You are right more often than you may be led to believe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dont take yourself too seriously

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Never discard real love, it's the rarest commodity on earth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never discard real love, it's the rarest commodity on earth."

I like this.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Never rush whilst attempting a motion on the toilet

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

This year has taught me be who you are, not what you pretend to be, take a few mins everyday, look around and be grateful to be here. Love your family and be there when others need help

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

Children should never be trusted -they will lie, lie, lie and then lie some more if needs be!

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By *pforfun1234562016Couple
over a year ago

leamington spa

Things seem easier than what they really are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*insert cliche here*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Working hard gets you nowhere working smart gets u anywhere

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By *bonynivoryCouple
over a year ago

market harborough

That I shouldn't put myself down to compensate for other people's insecurities

Mrs

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By *est Wales WifeCouple
over a year ago

Near Carmarthen

That the system is rigged against the 'ordinary person' from day one. The system is controlled by the elite who make sure that the 'hoi polloi' are distracted from working out what is really going on.

It ain't going to get better any day soon; the corporations are taking over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That i have lots and lots and lots of things to learn

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By *7345Man
over a year ago

wakefield

..... is what you make it..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life is just to short to be in a disagreement.

Do what you want to do and have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jeez...I couldn't possibly list everything I've learnt in life... It's a hell of a list

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By *agermeisterMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Nowt so strange as folk

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By *estivalMan
over a year ago

borehamwood

always do what you want to do even if its scary nothing worse in life than what ifs

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Just when you think you’ve got life sorted it trips you over and kicks you in the fucking ankles

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By *uck-RogersMan
over a year ago

Oakhill


"Take a pee when you can,

Take a drink when you can,

Never trust a fart,

And don't waste an erection. "

I can relate to this now at my age. When I was in my teens, one of the older guys that I worked with on a building site said.''if I disappear, it's because I have a hard on,and I have gone home to the wife''

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

What have you learnt from life so far?

That everyday is a school day of some sort.

In life, you will realize there is a role for everyone you meet. Some will test you, some will use you, some will love you, and some will teach you. But the ones who are truly important are the ones who bring out the best in you. They are the rare and amazing people who remind you why it’s worth it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be yourself and not who someone wants you to be unless it’s role play of course

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By *carlet_heavenWoman
over a year ago

somewhere in the sticks

Life is difficult. You haven't done anything wrong, its not because you're a failure or flowing from some karmic past. It just is & you have to face up to it & deal with it.Difficulties affect everyone from time to time & you just have to deal with them one by one.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Be kind.

Speak less, listen more.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Trust nobody. If it looks to go to be true it probably is. The only person you can truly trust is yourself. Most ppl are cunt the rest are probably just looking where to stick the knife. Woman are far from the weaker sex. I could go on and on and on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've learned not to trust anyone. Life's such a bitch then you die

Mrscxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That the system is rigged against the 'ordinary person' from day one. The system is controlled by the elite who make sure that the 'hoi polloi' are distracted from working out what is really going on.

It ain't going to get better any day soon; the corporations are taking over."

...So true.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Live life while you can. Tell the ppl you love you love them or like me you may never get the chance.

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By *iffaWoman
over a year ago

wherever

You can’t control how other people act but you can control your own reactions. Revenge is a waste of time and energy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Man the fuck up

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

Appreciate what you have.

Its nice to be nice.

Possessions are not what make you happy.

Life is short so make the most of your time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can’t control how other people act but you can control your own reactions. Revenge is a waste of time and energy "

This. Just learning to move on and focus on being a better person rather than wasting time on negative people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life? It goes on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I will always keep learning more.

And it's harder than Doom on Nightmare difficulty!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always treat a negative as a positive, and never eat the yellow snow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're not living life on the edge, you're taking up too much room

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you're not living life on the edge, you're taking up too much room "

But I like to man-spread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you're not living life on the edge, you're taking up too much room

But I like to man-spread"

So do I. I take up the space of 3 people when I'm starfishing

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

People generally SUCK

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

Tyrrell's have problems keeping the salt on their Crisps.

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

Keep the good people in your life close. The others don’t matter so much.

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By *imited 3EditionCouple
over a year ago

Live in Scotland Play in England


"9 inches on here doesn't correspond to any ruler in the UK. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you're not living life on the edge, you're taking up too much room

But I like to man-spread

So do I. I take up the space of 3 people when I'm starfishing"

Gotta be done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's too bloody short and you don't learn what you need too until it's too late!"

This

And there's never enough money.

Don't waste too much time at work to pay bills and buy stuff you don't need.

The biggest cliche of them all but the truest is - everything in moderation.

You won't be bored that way.

I can't do it but I wish I could

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Respect others opinions.

Materialistic things mean fuck all.

Make the most of every day.

Realise you're not doing too bad after all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Respect others opinions.

Materialistic things mean fuck all.

Make the most of every day.

Realise you're not doing too bad after all. "

This, pretty much!

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Northerners are causing shortages in the nation's potato stock due to their love of chips.

87% of the country's adult population put Shawshank in their 'top five films' list but they don't know why.

Brexit doesn't mean Brexit.

Trump isn't going to build a wall.

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By *orksRockerMan
over a year ago

Bradford

You need to be a circus performer to do well.

Keep many plates spinning at the same time or a juggler!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Think before I act

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stayfast lippy is a must

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By *ystical_InkedBBWWoman
over a year ago

somewhere in the Shire of Derby

Too short to live a life of hate

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Do not trust anyone at work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are responsible for your own happiness

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

When the shit really hits the fan, you really find out who has your back, and unfortunately many times you will find that it isn't family.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best to give up whilst you're ahead. Assuming you ever are.

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By *aenMan
over a year ago

Here and There

Everything’s a game, you just have to figure out the rules to know how to play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never give up on your dreams...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The more selfish you are. The happier you become x

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By *egasus Nob OP   Man
over a year ago

Wandsworth


"The more selfish you are. The happier you become x"

I believe you have to be selfish first to learn who you are, career and achieving a goal but later be inclusive and unselfish once you reach a point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The more selfish you are. The happier you become x

I believe you have to be selfish first to learn who you are, career and achieving a goal but later be inclusive and unselfish once you reach a point."

I think the opposite. Be selfless to get inner peace then let your selfishness grow to react contentment x

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