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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So had an interesting converstion yesterday - turns out I can be totally unaware of some of the signals that I can give out when I’m chatting to people on here. Now I’m genuinely not actually aware of ANY signals I give out (anyone who has had the misfortune to speak to me will know my conversations are incredibly mundane and mostly non-sexual) so the fact that someone mentioned this kind of surprised me.

So, anyway, what signals are YOU consciously or unconsciously giving out to others on here?

What unexpected feedback have you had?

And how good are you at reading the signals being thrown your way?

Or are we just taking things a little too seriously on what’s essentially just a fun flirty site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had nice messages but never any flirting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The 'I'm desperate for some nudity in my inbox' kind of signalling?

As you know i never fall for that so it can't be working on me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The 'I'm desperate for some nudity in my inbox' kind of signalling?

As you know i never fall for that so it can't be working on me "

pfft! I keep trying but you’re having none of it!! One day I’ll catch you at a weak moment!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Despite my profile asking for no dick pics, something I'm doing must be saying otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Despite my profile asking for no dick pics, something I'm doing must be saying otherwise. "

I hate that I usually block em lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apparently, when I'm uncomfortable or unhappy in a situation, I broadcast it to everyone in the vicinity even when I'm doing my best to hide it

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By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

Mold

I've no idea of what sort of signals I give off, but they must be off putting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not sure. I know in real life i seem to give off the wrong signals. I think it’s coz I’m quite friendly and I’ll talk to anyone and it’s maybe taken for flirting. My friends call me a weirdo magnet as wherever we go I always manage to attract at least one nutter

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

I once wrote a huge sign with “ i fancy the fuck out of you” and walked up to this girl I fancied b

Ended up in hospital with a fractured testicle and enlarged anus. Apparently her boyfriend didn’t take too kindly to it. Aw well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m absolutely useless at reading signs! It has to be made very clear to me that someone fancies me cos I just don’t pick up on it!

Had a couple of social meets where I’ve given a peck on the cheek and been told afterwards that they wanted to be ravaged! I was totally unaware !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apparently I come across as confident and flirty. I wonder who they’re talking to x

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By *appyWandererMan
over a year ago

Croydon

My body language and facial expression is far too honest. Everyone knows what i am thinking, from you are hot, to i hate the rain; it is quite annoying, when you want to be left alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't a bloody clue what signals I give out if any?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im normally pretty good at readinv them but some people are too stealth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been called a flirt before. Which, if any of you lovely folk have spoken to me, you will know that’s impossible - I have no idea how to flirt and I am painfully awkward.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get a lot of messages from people quoting "I'm punching above my weight messaging you". I must make people feel I'm something I'm most definitely not. I really don't know what signals I give off tbh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No idea what signals I give online

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

I'm a pro at flirting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apparently, I'm a massive flirt. This was news to me, I thought I was just being friendly. I have since learnt to embrace being a tartlet.

I'm pretty terrible at reading signals most of the time.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

Not a clue... Aside from not liking to share attention apparently... Which those who really know me would know isn't true. Quite happy to share anything except the crunchy chips in the bottom of my chip bag... You'd get your hand well slapped for touching those

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I have absolutely no idea what signals I give off - I certainly don't often deliberately set out to flirt or give them off - I'm just me, plain and simple, take me or leave me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a clue what signals I give out but I have been called a c*nt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't consciously give out any signals on the flirting front and have no idea or conception of or when people are flirting with me!

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