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By *hite1100 OP   Man
over a year ago

Hither Green

I’ve always dated outside my race.

My long term ex girlfriends have been 2* black Africans, 2* Indian south Asians. Beyond them I’ve dated pretty much every race under the sun apart from Caucasian.

It’s never been an issue in London. I/we have had some funny looks in the more remote parts of the U.K. and more so abroad, in countries where the population is more homogenous, and more ignorant.

I’m curious to hear what experiences people on here have of dating outside their own race...

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven’t had any experiences outwith my own race

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

None

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

I have had sex with people outside my race though

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I married outside my race in the seventies. No racist experiences really. The marriage wasn't that great though.

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By *hite1100 OP   Man
over a year ago

Hither Green


"Haven’t had any experiences outwith my own race "

Is that a preference, or just the way things have gone?

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

I don't really like to view people by their race. But looking at my history, I've dated both white and black women. Not dated any Asian girls, neither Southern nor Eastern.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"I have had sex with people outside my race though "

This for me too, but never dated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve never dated outside of mine either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haven’t had any experiences outwith my own race

Is that a preference, or just the way things have gone? "

I got with my husband when I was fourteen, had two ‘long term’ (for a teenager) relationships before that. Not a preference at all. Just the way things have gone I guess.

What about you?

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By *hite1100 OP   Man
over a year ago

Hither Green


"Haven’t had any experiences outwith my own race

Is that a preference, or just the way things have gone?

I got with my husband when I was fourteen, had two ‘long term’ (for a teenager) relationships before that. Not a preference at all. Just the way things have gone I guess.

What about you?"

You starter earlier than me. I didn’t so much as kiss a member of the opposite self until I was 17 (it’s been largely down hill from there ).

First girlfriend, starting at that age, was Ghanaian, that was my first 5 yearer...

I’ve never actually done more than a few dates with a white girl... I’m honestly not sure if that’s a preference or just the way it’s worked out.

My step mother is half Nigerian so maybe it comes from my dad...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve never dated outside of mine either. "

Nor have I

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

No not dated out of my race either. It's not exactly a melting pot where I live.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't do any race/colour, I prefer to go out with a nice person regardless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never have and I don't think we will. We've been together since school and it continues to go from strength to strength.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"I don't do any race/colour, I prefer to go out with a nice person regardless."

I think we all do..

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By *hite1100 OP   Man
over a year ago

Hither Green


"I don't do any race/colour, I prefer to go out with a nice person regardless."

That’s the happy clappy PC answer, but it isn’t an honest one.

I’d like to go out with a nice person, but I need to fancy her first.

I favour dating black and asian women. The black and asian women I have dated favour dating white guys (or at least take a racially agnostic approach to who they date).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve always dated outside my race.

My long term ex girlfriends have been 2* black Africans, 2* Indian south Asians. Beyond them I’ve dated pretty much every race under the sun apart from Caucasian.

It’s never been an issue in London. I/we have had some funny looks in the more remote parts of the U.K. and more so abroad, in countries where the population is more homogenous, and more ignorant.

I’m curious to hear what experiences people on here have of dating outside their own race... "

Not an issue in big cities. Everywhere else you get looks, awkward silences etc... I miss London

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No not dated out of my race either. It's not exactly a melting pot where I live."

Went to Chester once haha you're spot on there. Everyone's friendly though

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By *hite1100 OP   Man
over a year ago

Hither Green


"I’ve always dated outside my race.

My long term ex girlfriends have been 2* black Africans, 2* Indian south Asians. Beyond them I’ve dated pretty much every race under the sun apart from Caucasian.

It’s never been an issue in London. I/we have had some funny looks in the more remote parts of the U.K. and more so abroad, in countries where the population is more homogenous, and more ignorant.

I’m curious to hear what experiences people on here have of dating outside their own race...

Not an issue in big cities. Everywhere else you get looks, awkward silences etc... I miss London "

What has your experience been? What race are you/your other halves in these situations?

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By *hite1100 OP   Man
over a year ago

Hither Green


"No not dated out of my race either. It's not exactly a melting pot where I live."

Isn’t that where hollyoakes is set?!

No offence, but it looks mighty shite...

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"No not dated out of my race either. It's not exactly a melting pot where I live.

Isn’t that where hollyoakes is set?!

No offence, but it looks mighty shite...

"
Chester is a nice area. Hollyoaks is filmed in Liverpool mostly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No not dated out of my race either. It's not exactly a melting pot where I live.

Isn’t that where hollyoakes is set?!

No offence, but it looks mighty shite...

"

Probably better than Hither Green. I got out at your station last week a little tipsy.

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By *hite1100 OP   Man
over a year ago

Hither Green


"No not dated out of my race either. It's not exactly a melting pot where I live.

Isn’t that where hollyoakes is set?!

No offence, but it looks mighty shite...

Chester is a nice area. Hollyoaks is filmed in Liverpool mostly."

I’m only pissing about.

I’ve been to Liverpool once, seemed nice enough to be fair.

I’m probably too London-centric in my outlook.

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By *hite1100 OP   Man
over a year ago

Hither Green


"No not dated out of my race either. It's not exactly a melting pot where I live.

Isn’t that where hollyoakes is set?!

No offence, but it looks mighty shite...

Probably better than Hither Green. I got out at your station last week a little tipsy. "

I’ve got off at that station tipsy in the very recent past (last couple of hours)....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve always dated outside my race.

My long term ex girlfriends have been 2* black Africans, 2* Indian south Asians. Beyond them I’ve dated pretty much every race under the sun apart from Caucasian.

It’s never been an issue in London. I/we have had some funny looks in the more remote parts of the U.K. and more so abroad, in countries where the population is more homogenous, and more ignorant.

I’m curious to hear what experiences people on here have of dating outside their own race...

Not an issue in big cities. Everywhere else you get looks, awkward silences etc... I miss London

What has your experience been? What race are you/your other halves in these situations? "

My experience has just been looks but my ex did get spit on once because she told a couple of guys I am black (she's white) when I wasn't there. Woke me up at 3am crying as its the first experience she ever had. Went to work furiously the next day, cheered me up when I heard they did it at another club that night and got KO-ed by the 6'5 bouncer. Ahh karma

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 of my boyfriends when i was in my teens were black..

Unfortunately for me the only racism i encountered was from my dad, he effectively put a stop to the first one and i had to meet the 2nd one in secret ..

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By *hite1100 OP   Man
over a year ago

Hither Green


"I’ve always dated outside my race.

My long term ex girlfriends have been 2* black Africans, 2* Indian south Asians. Beyond them I’ve dated pretty much every race under the sun apart from Caucasian.

It’s never been an issue in London. I/we have had some funny looks in the more remote parts of the U.K. and more so abroad, in countries where the population is more homogenous, and more ignorant.

I’m curious to hear what experiences people on here have of dating outside their own race...

Not an issue in big cities. Everywhere else you get looks, awkward silences etc... I miss London

What has your experience been? What race are you/your other halves in these situations?

My experience has just been looks but my ex did get spit on once because she told a couple of guys I am black (she's white) when I wasn't there. Woke me up at 3am crying as its the first experience she ever had. Went to work furiously the next day, cheered me up when I heard they did it at another club that night and got KO-ed by the 6'5 bouncer. Ahh karma "

Result .

What cunts, I hope they were given a bloody good hiding.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve dated mostly white guys, but have dated black & mixed race too.

I think I’ve only ever really noticed a funny look once, by an old couple, and I winked at them for laughs haha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve always dated outside my race.

My long term ex girlfriends have been 2* black Africans, 2* Indian south Asians. Beyond them I’ve dated pretty much every race under the sun apart from Caucasian.

It’s never been an issue in London. I/we have had some funny looks in the more remote parts of the U.K. and more so abroad, in countries where the population is more homogenous, and more ignorant.

I’m curious to hear what experiences people on here have of dating outside their own race...

Not an issue in big cities. Everywhere else you get looks, awkward silences etc... I miss London

What has your experience been? What race are you/your other halves in these situations?

My experience has just been looks but my ex did get spit on once because she told a couple of guys I am black (she's white) when I wasn't there. Woke me up at 3am crying as its the first experience she ever had. Went to work furiously the next day, cheered me up when I heard they did it at another club that night and got KO-ed by the 6'5 bouncer. Ahh karma

Result .

What cunts, I hope they were given a bloody good hiding. "

Think they did

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By *hite1100 OP   Man
over a year ago

Hither Green


"I’ve always dated outside my race.

My long term ex girlfriends have been 2* black Africans, 2* Indian south Asians. Beyond them I’ve dated pretty much every race under the sun apart from Caucasian.

It’s never been an issue in London. I/we have had some funny looks in the more remote parts of the U.K. and more so abroad, in countries where the population is more homogenous, and more ignorant.

I’m curious to hear what experiences people on here have of dating outside their own race...

Not an issue in big cities. Everywhere else you get looks, awkward silences etc... I miss London

What has your experience been? What race are you/your other halves in these situations?

My experience has just been looks but my ex did get spit on once because she told a couple of guys I am black (she's white) when I wasn't there. Woke me up at 3am crying as its the first experience she ever had. Went to work furiously the next day, cheered me up when I heard they did it at another club that night and got KO-ed by the 6'5 bouncer. Ahh karma "

As an addition to that - my ex was racially abused. We drove past some little shites in a convertible BMW and they shouted out “coconut”.

Little did they know my (black) ex earned twice what I did at the time.

We consoled ourselves with the knowledge that we were in a drop top BMW, while they were on BMXs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve always dated outside my race.

My long term ex girlfriends have been 2* black Africans, 2* Indian south Asians. Beyond them I’ve dated pretty much every race under the sun apart from Caucasian.

It’s never been an issue in London. I/we have had some funny looks in the more remote parts of the U.K. and more so abroad, in countries where the population is more homogenous, and more ignorant.

I’m curious to hear what experiences people on here have of dating outside their own race...

Not an issue in big cities. Everywhere else you get looks, awkward silences etc... I miss London

What has your experience been? What race are you/your other halves in these situations?

My experience has just been looks but my ex did get spit on once because she told a couple of guys I am black (she's white) when I wasn't there. Woke me up at 3am crying as its the first experience she ever had. Went to work furiously the next day, cheered me up when I heard they did it at another club that night and got KO-ed by the 6'5 bouncer. Ahh karma

As an addition to that - my ex was racially abused. We drove past some little shites in a convertible BMW and they shouted out “coconut”.

Little did they know my (black) ex earned twice what I did at the time.

We consoled ourselves with the knowledge that we were in a drop top BMW, while they were on BMXs. "

Hahaha little chavs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve dated mostly white guys, but have dated black & mixed race too.

I think I’ve only ever really noticed a funny look once, by an old couple, and I winked at them for laughs haha!

"

I have given the 'hey how you doin' *smiley face* (Joey Tribbiani)

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By *ee pandaWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Ive had 2 previous black male partners and down here in england its not an issue but ive never taken them back home but some people are judgemental but i dont judge anyone for where they are from xx

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By *hite1100 OP   Man
over a year ago

Hither Green


"I’ve always dated outside my race.

My long term ex girlfriends have been 2* black Africans, 2* Indian south Asians. Beyond them I’ve dated pretty much every race under the sun apart from Caucasian.

It’s never been an issue in London. I/we have had some funny looks in the more remote parts of the U.K. and more so abroad, in countries where the population is more homogenous, and more ignorant.

I’m curious to hear what experiences people on here have of dating outside their own race...

Not an issue in big cities. Everywhere else you get looks, awkward silences etc... I miss London

What has your experience been? What race are you/your other halves in these situations?

My experience has just been looks but my ex did get spit on once because she told a couple of guys I am black (she's white) when I wasn't there. Woke me up at 3am crying as its the first experience she ever had. Went to work furiously the next day, cheered me up when I heard they did it at another club that night and got KO-ed by the 6'5 bouncer. Ahh karma "

What’s your general experience been, as a black guy who dates outside his race?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve always dated outside my race.

My long term ex girlfriends have been 2* black Africans, 2* Indian south Asians. Beyond them I’ve dated pretty much every race under the sun apart from Caucasian.

It’s never been an issue in London. I/we have had some funny looks in the more remote parts of the U.K. and more so abroad, in countries where the population is more homogenous, and more ignorant.

I’m curious to hear what experiences people on here have of dating outside their own race...

Not an issue in big cities. Everywhere else you get looks, awkward silences etc... I miss London

What has your experience been? What race are you/your other halves in these situations?

My experience has just been looks but my ex did get spit on once because she told a couple of guys I am black (she's white) when I wasn't there. Woke me up at 3am crying as its the first experience she ever had. Went to work furiously the next day, cheered me up when I heard they did it at another club that night and got KO-ed by the 6'5 bouncer. Ahh karma

What’s your general experience been, as a black guy who dates outside his race? "

My family are modern and we go back generations. Don't care as long as love is real.

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By *hite1100 OP   Man
over a year ago

Hither Green


"I’ve always dated outside my race.

My long term ex girlfriends have been 2* black Africans, 2* Indian south Asians. Beyond them I’ve dated pretty much every race under the sun apart from Caucasian.

It’s never been an issue in London. I/we have had some funny looks in the more remote parts of the U.K. and more so abroad, in countries where the population is more homogenous, and more ignorant.

I’m curious to hear what experiences people on here have of dating outside their own race...

Not an issue in big cities. Everywhere else you get looks, awkward silences etc... I miss London

What has your experience been? What race are you/your other halves in these situations?

My experience has just been looks but my ex did get spit on once because she told a couple of guys I am black (she's white) when I wasn't there. Woke me up at 3am crying as its the first experience she ever had. Went to work furiously the next day, cheered me up when I heard they did it at another club that night and got KO-ed by the 6'5 bouncer. Ahh karma

What’s your general experience been, as a black guy who dates outside his race?

My family are modern and we go back generations. Don't care as long as love is real. "

Good shout.

And we are both avoiding the Igbo women. They are bloody hard work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve always dated outside my race.

My long term ex girlfriends have been 2* black Africans, 2* Indian south Asians. Beyond them I’ve dated pretty much every race under the sun apart from Caucasian.

It’s never been an issue in London. I/we have had some funny looks in the more remote parts of the U.K. and more so abroad, in countries where the population is more homogenous, and more ignorant.

I’m curious to hear what experiences people on here have of dating outside their own race...

Not an issue in big cities. Everywhere else you get looks, awkward silences etc... I miss London

What has your experience been? What race are you/your other halves in these situations?

My experience has just been looks but my ex did get spit on once because she told a couple of guys I am black (she's white) when I wasn't there. Woke me up at 3am crying as its the first experience she ever had. Went to work furiously the next day, cheered me up when I heard they did it at another club that night and got KO-ed by the 6'5 bouncer. Ahh karma

What’s your general experience been, as a black guy who dates outside his race?

My family are modern and we go back generations. Don't care as long as love is real.

Good shout.

And we are both avoiding the Igbo women. They are bloody hard work. "

Hahaha yes they are good night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive had 2 previous black male partners and down here in england its not an issue but ive never taken them back home but some people are judgemental but i dont judge anyone for where they are from xx"

That's what's am like, all I care about is that the person across from me is true

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By *hite1100 OP   Man
over a year ago

Hither Green


"I’ve always dated outside my race.

My long term ex girlfriends have been 2* black Africans, 2* Indian south Asians. Beyond them I’ve dated pretty much every race under the sun apart from Caucasian.

It’s never been an issue in London. I/we have had some funny looks in the more remote parts of the U.K. and more so abroad, in countries where the population is more homogenous, and more ignorant.

I’m curious to hear what experiences people on here have of dating outside their own race...

Not an issue in big cities. Everywhere else you get looks, awkward silences etc... I miss London

What has your experience been? What race are you/your other halves in these situations?

My experience has just been looks but my ex did get spit on once because she told a couple of guys I am black (she's white) when I wasn't there. Woke me up at 3am crying as its the first experience she ever had. Went to work furiously the next day, cheered me up when I heard they did it at another club that night and got KO-ed by the 6'5 bouncer. Ahh karma

What’s your general experience been, as a black guy who dates outside his race?

My family are modern and we go back generations. Don't care as long as love is real.

Good shout.

And we are both avoiding the Igbo women. They are bloody hard work.

Hahaha yes they are good night."

You get it.

There’s only so many naija women you can tolerate in one life time.

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By *appyWandererMan
over a year ago

Croydon

Never dated or slept with a black women, but i have dated every other race but Latin.

Slept with mainly white, then following by a distant Indian and south Asia.

Relationship are great as long as you don't have to cross the no go zones; religion, racist/close minded and forceful family, or you were a curiousity thing.

If my children don't turn out mixed, i was a reverse Get Out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dated a mixed race guy, got some looks but I didn't care. I was having sex with a black guy who I suspected wouldn't date me because I'm white.

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By *mooth Operator 07Man
over a year ago

in the deep mist of the valleys

Interesting discussion about people's experiences. I have been fortunate to date and had girlfriends in and out my race. But colour is never an issuse for me, its always down to the individual who catches my attention.

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By *hite1100 OP   Man
over a year ago

Hither Green


"Never dated or slept with a black women, but i have dated every other race but Latin.

Slept with mainly white, then following by a distant Indian and south Asia.

Relationship are great as long as you don't have to cross the no go zones; religion, racist/close minded and forceful family, or you were a curiousity thing.

If my children don't turn out mixed, i was a reverse Get Out. "

You’re like the opposite to me - I’ve dated every race apart from white.

Just don’t date a Bengali girl,

There’s nothing like hearing your girlfriend tell you her father would rather kill her and you than see her with an English bloke.

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By *ee pandaWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

To be honest i dont think it matters what colour or culture ur from if ur gonna be an ass then u will no where and what u look like. It comes down to the person xx

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By *ollipopLillyWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

I have to be honest, I have a preference to white guys. I've never dated within my race or had any other that aren't white. This may sound silly but I think in part my preference developed due to growing up in the north of England and I recall when I was younger my family and I seemed like the only black people around. It was a pretty remote village we lived in tbf. And then from then I didn't really have any friends from black or other ethnic groups so my teenage years also was surrounded by Caucasians. I have no issue with that but I think it's interesting the part environmental factors may play in things like attraction preferences etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My experiences with dating outside my race have not ended well both times.

Note to self. Stay the fuck away from Eastern European women. The sort from places like Latvia and Poland. Russia is fine though. I personally count a Russian lass as a close friend, and if I haven't matchmade her with her Croatian fiance back then I'd have made a move on her myself.

I'm quite colour and nationality blind when it comes to dating... (ahem except Poland and Latvia AW hell no). One's skin colour and passport doesn't make one a nicer person or otherwise. Only wish people saw a Chinese guy from Singapore like me the same way too. 80% of the time I'm discounted straight off for my race. The remaining 20% of the time I only get bunny boiler types who grew up with a fetish on Oriental men and Kpop, and I'm their closest option to live their fantasy out. Kinda offensive if I think about it too. I don't want my value to only be as good as the fetish or exotic appeal I have to white people in a Western country.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have dated someone of a different race in the past. Was a part of attraction and part of curiosity. I am no longer attracted to other races.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I'm trying to work out what race I have dated outside of. Hmmmm... that aside, yep, I've dated people of various races and ethnicities. It's not something I particularly think about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dated most races at one point or another. Most of my early girlfriends were African or Hispanic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm mixed race half black Caribbean half white British.

My relationships have been with Caucasian people from various places - but I have had sex with various different races.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s only one race, the human race!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dated a clingon once. That's a funny race

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Dated quite a few black and mixed race guys and a couple of Asian guys too and even lived with a black guy and yep encountered some issues mainly from people of the older generation

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Up until the age of 42 I'd only dated black and just come out of a 22 year marriage.

Since then (I'm now 58) I've only slept and dated white men. It wasn’t a conscious choice, I meet more white people in general than black, so it was inevitable.

My son-in-laws are a mixed bunch too: white, Asian and Caribbean.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve dated 4 black girls, 1 asian , 2 Brizilians , 1 polish , and 1 Russian.....

My experience has been they all had faces like angels but the souls of the devil....

Honestly I’m used to being everyone’s only black friend... I grew up as the only black family in the neighborhood and the only black kid in school...

The running joke with my friends at parties... is I’m the raisin in a sea of peanuts....

But honestly I think I’m going to marry a black woman... I’ve been fucking white women so long... it’s getting boring....

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By *ee pandaWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Maybe u just havent found the right woman despite the colour of their skin and not all woman have that kinda soul lol xx

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over a year ago


"Maybe u just havent found the right woman despite the colour of their skin and not all woman have that kinda soul lol xx"

I found the love of my life....

We just can never be together..... morally we are polar opposites....

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By *ungmagic10Man
over a year ago

Northampton

Hmm I've only dated black and Indian mixed with black ladies-we call them Douglas where im from. But I grew up on the islands so those were my options, white people were there but could rarely see them so only really started messing with Asian and white women when I came to the UK.

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By *ee pandaWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

If u love each other then be with each other life is to short to be unhappy hun if people really matter they will be happy for u both xx

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By *bonynivoryCouple
over a year ago

market harborough

Living in a small village, we got a few looks to begin with but now not so much. I generally don't notice though as I've mainly had long term relationships with white men and am used to the looks and whispers in some places you go to.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My current partner is black

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m attracted to all women so it’s more about the person for me . I have dated Caucasian, Latin and Asian but I have an unusual mix so most are outside my race or a little bit in it lol

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

No bad experiences in this country, not counting a few inane messages on Fab - but then I am well aware that racism is alive and well, just more hidden nowadays. Been commented on unfavourably a few times in other countries.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I wouldn't see race as a reason to date, or not date someone.

If they made me happy that would be all that mattered.

I'm of mixed race heritage, which I didn't discover until 12yrs ago.

I was raised in a white middle class family, so that was what I grew up identify as, but I'm not hiding my origins.

I now tick mixed race or similar on forms, if someone chose not to date me or judge me based on genetics, then I won't lose any sleep over it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I shagged an English guy before.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

i have always lived in predominatly white areas (even in new york) and gone to majority white schools.. so even where i am now and what i do, it has never really been an issue...

most of my aunts/uncles are married to white people is it is a norm to me....

so in london that don't even turn a head.... more so in newcastle but even then its not much! I got more glances in new york than anywhere i've lived....

been on dating sites an i do seem to attract more white people, but it's one of those thing where i make sure people are attracted to me as a person rather than seeing me as some sort of niche

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By *ethany10Couple
over a year ago

falkirk

As long as you don’t date outside your species.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If u love each other then be with each other life is to short to be unhappy hun if people really matter they will be happy for u both xx"

Hmmm it’s not that simple...

She is the most stubborn woman I’ve ever met. That’s why I think I love her so much.

She works for the World Health Organization and really thinks living and working in refugee camps , in every War Zone is going to save mankind.

I on the other hand am a capitalist who seeks to profit from the very wars she is saving the victims from....

So this is what happens when a idealist falls in love with a capitalist....

You have a irresistible force versus a immovable object...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i have always lived in predominatly white areas (even in new york) and gone to majority white schools.. so even where i am now and what i do, it has never really been an issue...

most of my aunts/uncles are married to white people is it is a norm to me....

so in london that don't even turn a head.... more so in newcastle but even then its not much! I got more glances in new york than anywhere i've lived....

been on dating sites an i do seem to attract more white people, but it's one of those thing where i make sure people are attracted to me as a person rather than seeing me as some sort of niche"

This reminds me of when people say

“ Rudeboycane you’re not really black “

You don’t talk black , you don’t dress black , you never been to jail , you don’t have any baby mommae’s, you don’t act black....

I used to try to explain to them not every black person is the same , and the people you see on tv are not the true definition of black people..

Now I just say .... oh I’m not really black , ok well let me fuck your sister... then have her bring me home and tell your family I’m not really black....

The funny thing is most of the people who have said this to me.. thought they were being nice and giving me a compliment....

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By *est Wales WifeCouple
over a year ago

Near Carmarthen

We're all one race as far as we're concerned.

Modern scholarship views racial categories as socially constructed, that is, race is not intrinsic to human beings but rather an identity created, often by socially dominant groups. This often involves the subjugation of groups defined as racially inferior.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i have always lived in predominatly white areas (even in new york) and gone to majority white schools.. so even where i am now and what i do, it has never really been an issue...

most of my aunts/uncles are married to white people is it is a norm to me....

so in london that don't even turn a head.... more so in newcastle but even then its not much! I got more glances in new york than anywhere i've lived....

been on dating sites an i do seem to attract more white people, but it's one of those thing where i make sure people are attracted to me as a person rather than seeing me as some sort of niche

This reminds me of when people say

“ Rudeboycane you’re not really black “

You don’t talk black , you don’t dress black , you never been to jail , you don’t have any baby mommae’s, you don’t act black....

I used to try to explain to them not every black person is the same , and the people you see on tv are not the true definition of black people..

Now I just say .... oh I’m not really black , ok well let me fuck your sister... then have her bring me home and tell your family I’m not really black....

The funny thing is most of the people who have said this to me.. thought they were being nice and giving me a compliment....

"

You have some strange friends.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"i have always lived in predominatly white areas (even in new york) and gone to majority white schools.. so even where i am now and what i do, it has never really been an issue...

most of my aunts/uncles are married to white people is it is a norm to me....

so in london that don't even turn a head.... more so in newcastle but even then its not much! I got more glances in new york than anywhere i've lived....

been on dating sites an i do seem to attract more white people, but it's one of those thing where i make sure people are attracted to me as a person rather than seeing me as some sort of niche

This reminds me of when people say

“ Rudeboycane you’re not really black “

You don’t talk black , you don’t dress black , you never been to jail , you don’t have any baby mommae’s, you don’t act black....

I used to try to explain to them not every black person is the same , and the people you see on tv are not the true definition of black people..

Now I just say .... oh I’m not really black , ok well let me fuck your sister... then have her bring me home and tell your family I’m not really black....

The funny thing is most of the people who have said this to me.. thought they were being nice and giving me a compliment....

"
Watch them, you will end up like the guy from the film Get Out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i have always lived in predominatly white areas (even in new york) and gone to majority white schools.. so even where i am now and what i do, it has never really been an issue...

most of my aunts/uncles are married to white people is it is a norm to me....

so in london that don't even turn a head.... more so in newcastle but even then its not much! I got more glances in new york than anywhere i've lived....

been on dating sites an i do seem to attract more white people, but it's one of those thing where i make sure people are attracted to me as a person rather than seeing me as some sort of niche

This reminds me of when people say

“ Rudeboycane you’re not really black “

You don’t talk black , you don’t dress black , you never been to jail , you don’t have any baby mommae’s, you don’t act black....

I used to try to explain to them not every black person is the same , and the people you see on tv are not the true definition of black people..

Now I just say .... oh I’m not really black , ok well let me fuck your sister... then have her bring me home and tell your family I’m not really black....

The funny thing is most of the people who have said this to me.. thought they were being nice and giving me a compliment....

Watch them, you will end up like the guy from the film Get Out! "

Did he die first?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never dated any interracial guys but have fucked a few

Mrs lick

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"i have always lived in predominatly white areas (even in new york) and gone to majority white schools.. so even where i am now and what i do, it has never really been an issue...

most of my aunts/uncles are married to white people is it is a norm to me....

so in london that don't even turn a head.... more so in newcastle but even then its not much! I got more glances in new york than anywhere i've lived....

been on dating sites an i do seem to attract more white people, but it's one of those thing where i make sure people are attracted to me as a person rather than seeing me as some sort of niche

This reminds me of when people say

“ Rudeboycane you’re not really black “

You don’t talk black , you don’t dress black , you never been to jail , you don’t have any baby mommae’s, you don’t act black....

I used to try to explain to them not every black person is the same , and the people you see on tv are not the true definition of black people..

Now I just say .... oh I’m not really black , ok well let me fuck your sister... then have her bring me home and tell your family I’m not really black....

The funny thing is most of the people who have said this to me.. thought they were being nice and giving me a compliment....

Watch them, you will end up like the guy from the film Get Out!

Did he die first?"
No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i have always lived in predominatly white areas (even in new york) and gone to majority white schools.. so even where i am now and what i do, it has never really been an issue...

most of my aunts/uncles are married to white people is it is a norm to me....

so in london that don't even turn a head.... more so in newcastle but even then its not much! I got more glances in new york than anywhere i've lived....

been on dating sites an i do seem to attract more white people, but it's one of those thing where i make sure people are attracted to me as a person rather than seeing me as some sort of niche

This reminds me of when people say

“ Rudeboycane you’re not really black “

You don’t talk black , you don’t dress black , you never been to jail , you don’t have any baby mommae’s, you don’t act black....

I used to try to explain to them not every black person is the same , and the people you see on tv are not the true definition of black people..

Now I just say .... oh I’m not really black , ok well let me fuck your sister... then have her bring me home and tell your family I’m not really black....

The funny thing is most of the people who have said this to me.. thought they were being nice and giving me a compliment....

Watch them, you will end up like the guy from the film Get Out! "

I’m good all my boys got married and moved to the suburbs....

I’m the last one left in the city, fighting the good fight...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Religion is more of an issue for me than race. I have fucked guys from all over the world and apart from noticing how pretty the contrast is in skin tone, race itself isn't an issue. Saying one race has different physical attributes is also a fallacy, it hasn't made a difference what colour someone is or how tall they are, I am constantly pleasantly surprised by the most unassuming men with the physical characteristics I find attractive. Being kind, respectful, intelligent and fit are what I look for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We're all one race as far as we're concerned.

Modern scholarship views racial categories as socially constructed, that is, race is not intrinsic to human beings but rather an identity created, often by socially dominant groups. This often involves the subjugation of groups defined as racially inferior."

Not sure what is going on today, but the quality of posts is nice to see. I agree and enjoyed reading that. Thank you for sharing.

For the purpose of this thread and my personal experience:

Yes I have had sex with and dated outside of my race. We got on well, shared many similar interests/likes and things progressed.

Happy memories

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"I don't do any race/colour, I prefer to go out with a nice person regardless.

That’s the happy clappy PC answer, but it isn’t an honest one.

I’d like to go out with a nice person, but I need to fancy her first.

I favour dating black and asian women. The black and asian women I have dated favour dating white guys (or at least take a racially agnostic approach to who they date). "

Most people wouldn't have a personality type that facilitates a serious mixed race marriage. That's not a criticism, we are who we are. But the people acting like it makes zero difference just don't have a clue. Sometimes racism is a lot more logical than people want to admit.

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By *reland8Man
over a year ago

sandyford


"No not dated out of my race either. It's not exactly a melting pot where I live."

Yes, exactly this, it’s not a choice thing, and it doesn’t mean anything if you haven’t dated outside, it just means you haven’t had the opportunity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve always dated outside my race.

My long term ex girlfriends have been 2* black Africans, 2* Indian south Asians. Beyond them I’ve dated pretty much every race under the sun apart from Caucasian.

It’s never been an issue in London. I/we have had some funny looks in the more remote parts of the U.K. and more so abroad, in countries where the population is more homogenous, and more ignorant.

I’m curious to hear what experiences people on here have of dating outside their own race... "

"In africa di man provide for di women eh"..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do honestly like some cultures.

But you notice some norms and steryotypes (based on nationality) that are true.

If you date a "traditional" woman from a foreign country they can be annoying and your always at cross wires trying to communicate with eachother/understand what eachother expects.

I do like foreign from some placces women and British conservative women.

Asian women are pretty good if you don't pick ex hookers. You only need to pay a "insert daughter compensation" if you have been fucking her over 12 month.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do honestly like some cultures.

But you notice some norms and steryotypes (based on nationality) that are true.

If you date a "traditional" woman from a foreign country they can be annoying and your always at cross wires trying to communicate with eachother/understand what eachother expects.

I do like foreign from some placces women and British conservative women.

Asian women are pretty good if you don't pick ex hookers. You only need to pay a "insert daughter compensation" if you have been fucking her over 12 month."

Oh you are a peach

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"I do honestly like some cultures.

But you notice some norms and steryotypes (based on nationality) that are true.

If you date a "traditional" woman from a foreign country they can be annoying and your always at cross wires trying to communicate with eachother/understand what eachother expects.

I do like foreign from some placces women and British conservative women.

Asian women are pretty good if you don't pick ex hookers. You only need to pay a "insert daughter compensation" if you have been fucking her over 12 month."

Are you hooker-shaming?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Are you hooker-shaming? "

I think Asian bar girls are not the best girlfriends.

I prefer finding one that has a normal job in a bank, rice field or factory. (Preferably no family to take care of)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We're all one race as far as we're concerned.

Modern scholarship views racial categories as socially constructed, that is, race is not intrinsic to human beings but rather an identity created, often by socially dominant groups. This often involves the subjugation of groups defined as racially inferior."

This is exactly true. Biologically we are all one race - Human. Choosing someone purely on their skin colour, is the same as choosing someone purely on their eye colour. Which is silly in my opinion.

If we were dogs it would be like always choosing a chocolate Labrador over a blonde Labrador (ultimately they are both Labradors!)

What people might be referring too are the cultural aspect that are often stereotypically attached to people’s skin colour. But I don’t know. All I know is, we are one race!

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"

Are you hooker-shaming?

I think Asian bar girls are not the best girlfriends.

I prefer finding one that has a normal job in a bank, rice field or factory. (Preferably no family to take care of)

"

There's not much to choose between bankers and hookers, but i do get where you are coming from. Maybe go for one who does HR in a bank, but isn't a trader.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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There's not much to choose between bankers and hookers, but i do get where you are coming from. Maybe go for one who does HR in a bank, but isn't a trader. "

"She" just used to sit on the frunt desk..smile then wai customers in the bank of Bangkok.

She could barely communicate in thai never mind English.

I did like her though. Shame I had to leave that country.

I dated the Russian teacher also.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No not dated out of my race either. It's not exactly a melting pot where I live.

Yes, exactly this, it’s not a choice thing, and it doesn’t mean anything if you haven’t dated outside, it just means you haven’t had the opportunity "

I agree.

I’m not sure why, but I find some people feel the need to justify when they’ve not dated outside their race.

There is no bed to justify anything!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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